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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Dollypizzle13(f): 9:28am On Jan 08, 2019 |
single life is bae 4 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by lilmax(m): 9:29am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Yuneehk:life doesn't give you a bad man, you choose a bad man, never forget that we're responsible for our actions 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by sophiathefirst: 9:32am On Jan 08, 2019 |
News101:My happiness is that all u said is also applicable to u guys. Even 1000% correct, so my dear Whites 're far more better |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by slowbreeze(f): 9:36am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Perfectnumber6: Arrogant scum;clearly cheating and expecting one to accept his nature & endure;that they mean nothing; tight-fisted with money inspite of him being the better earner;someone in this century that believes that all women who are smart & have a career/successful business will make bad wives & dat all women belong to za oza room & kitchen;and d list goes on and on.......Smh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Learnt to love myself more |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by AiiVee(m): 9:41am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Never settle for less... never settle for nothing but happiness. If the other party is not as committed as you, talk to him or her about it and if the relationship ends, trust me, it's worth it. |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by chubbyswit(m): 9:43am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Divay22:for you to type this probably means you know more than you are asking to learn. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Dollypizzle13: Hmm....you better start exploring wella because experience is the best teacher |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by News101: 9:46am On Jan 08, 2019 |
sophiathefirst: No I never said it's applicable to guys. It's not applicable to guys. It's only you ladies it's applicable to. Nigerian guys/men are very good but the women are the problem because of their money monger attitude & their bad character. So stop trying to rope guys into this issue. The problem lies with you ladies. Period. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Yuneehk(f): 9:48am On Jan 08, 2019 |
flyca:Be looking for their trouble Sometimes, you see people who date those who aren't deserving of their love. While the others, deserve every bit of what they're getting. They're on this thread sef. One has just gotta be careful about matters of the heart. Good morning Nne 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Divay22(f): 9:48am On Jan 08, 2019 |
chubbyswit:If you say so. |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Yuneehk(f): 9:49am On Jan 08, 2019 |
islandmoon:No. That's Pankshin, Plateau State. |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 9:50am On Jan 08, 2019 |
chigoziri2403: Right away |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by pansophist(m): 9:52am On Jan 08, 2019 |
luminouz: Best comment so far. Men have been programmed from birth to be emasculated and as Nigerians are typically not people that like to read, knowledge like this won't be known to them. Many men think that giving to all of a woman's demand is strength, they judge their value by how much they have, and can give a woman. But knowing that being a man, the kind women respect is not something you "hammer" or land upon. It has to be cultivated, developed and perfected. Part of the reasons Nigerian Women are materialistic is because a true male figure is generally lacking around them, so they become materialistic since money is the only thing men can offer. Women by their nature, generally lean towards social consensus, their behaviour is a pure reflection of the society the men have created. Nigerian men have created this mess for so long that it's shocking to most girls if you don't give them money. Your comment is refreshing, a candle of hope to the tsunami of feminized men that has polluted the dating scene. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by luminouz(m): 9:56am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Paxie55:Same here...ur text not u!!! Take care our little Cinderella |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by TessBiwom(f): 9:57am On Jan 08, 2019 |
flyca: So on points.This table you're shaking has all this keyboard warriors and cry babies on top. 6 Likes
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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 10:08am On Jan 08, 2019 |
pansophist:.... |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Paxie55: 10:12am On Jan 08, 2019 |
flyca:Table shaker!! Shake it wella Best comment so far. People that are in serious and nice relationships don't have time to wail and wail on social media. They are just too busy with their lives and careers 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by samkevie: 10:13am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Okay now,you’re to cheat? BecaciaBarbie: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Obarofrederick(m): 10:17am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Judybash93:mask off(if u know u know) |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Richy419: 10:17am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Hoodbilonia:lol hmm u self no try oo no so u jobless reach abi fucking don turn government work... |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by pansophist(m): 10:17am On Jan 08, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: In Nigerian and western society. I lived in both and men are emasculated. Most men have no goal higher than themselves to pursue. Their goal is sleeping with varieties of women and seeking female validation. They do not understand what constitute a male in deeds, and lack father figures to walk them through the path of masculinity. Their role models are celebrities and are deeply buried in hedonism. Your other iteration is an extension to the aforementioned foundational problem. Garbage in, garbage out. A man without any shred of masculinity is not fit for leadership and will lead a dysfunctional home. Feminine energy is triggered by the presence of a true masculine man with traditional male qualities. Until then, Nigerian men will always complain about the women. Women will never change and be feminine if men won't be masculine. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by bigpicture001: 10:21am On Jan 08, 2019 |
.love ONLY who loves you first....nd when the person stops loving,dont fight it simply PULL OUT!!!! 4 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by chubbyswit(m): 10:23am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Divay22:yup I just did nne. |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BecaciaBarbie(f): 10:25am On Jan 08, 2019 |
samkevie:This is not about me cheating, this is about me making my options open. For instance, I have a relative who was in a relationship with her man for more than a decade, she turned down other men for this guy but when she realized how much time she had wasted in the relationship, she walked away. I'm very weary of destiny and time wasters, I try to avoid them like plaque but how will you know if the man you are with is going to keep you or not...so my advise is, don't cheat but don't turn other men down and don't also give them the impression that you are in a very serious relationship as that could lead no where. This doesn't makes sense right? Until you become a victim. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by pansophist(m): 10:28am On Jan 08, 2019 |
NarnieSnyper: Depending on your level of consciousness, you'll see reality in a different dimension. Usually, I never attract or go for women most men complain about. If you do not attract women like this, you're doing the right thing. Women are smart in social dynamics far more than men. They hold all the power in our society directly or indirectly (to this effect, read the book "the myth of male power" by Warren Farell) , they know when a man is emasculated from first interaction and will never respect or concede to his leadership. Men need to know that changes comes from within, not expecting all women to change. It has never happened and it will never happen. For those thinking foreign women are the best, first of all, look at their societies. Their men created a perfect society and restricted the dark nature of women. The universe is encoded in laws and if you break them, well, you'll suffer the consequences. And when you've truly unleashed the graceful femininity in a woman, you've unlocked one of the greatest feeling in the world. 7 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by hansomb: 10:30am On Jan 08, 2019 |
chiefqueen:Are u afraid of something ? |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Hoodbilonia: 10:31am On Jan 08, 2019 |
i miss her but i knw she will come bac i dnt cum datz d ish. its hard to find real girl they get tired of fuckin me be ause i dnt cum and i like am. 1hr hard fuc Richy419: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by samkevie: 10:34am On Jan 08, 2019 |
I understand though But then again every relationship is a risk BecaciaBarbie: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by islandmoon: 10:37am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Yuneehk:I know plateau state is the only state with such beautiful landscape. |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 10:41am On Jan 08, 2019 |
elonize:I was deceived back then with trust but now it ain't gonna happen again. NEVER 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 10:44am On Jan 08, 2019 |
hansomb:Nah. Wasn't into any of them. |
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