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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by chigoziri2403(m): 5:12pm On Jan 09
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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 7:29pm On Jan 09
elonize:
4d record, he is not ur atm machine, wrk out ur money wit fear n trembling, if u get wrk,u wont mind him... Let him change his arogant nature

But did you really read through what she wrote? It"s not about Atm machine.. Some men are just stingy.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 7:33pm On Jan 09
nick50:
Don't loose a sleep over a woman,help ur fellow man instead of a woman..always look for money cos with money all women will worship u,


VERY VERY WRONG.. Not all women wld woship you with or cos of your money. Pls take note

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 11:31am On Jan 10
Spectre007:
u didn't get my point Oga,what i meant was... How were you able to avoid getting her pregnant while going raw with her all these years/months?
lol OK ok ok all thru those countless moments we straffed, na pull out method oh.
I never for once spilled in grin

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 11:32am On Jan 10
Evercurious:



VERY VERY WRONG.. Not all women wld woship you with or cos of your money. Pls take note
shut up hypocrite.
It's all naija girls except u are American
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 2:55pm On Jan 10
OgaBuhari:
shut up hypocrite.
It's all naija girls except u are American


Pls speak for all the females in your family and not everyone.. Better still go make all the money and see if all women ll worship you.. FOOL

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 9:37pm On Jan 10
Evercurious:


But did you really read through what she wrote? It"s not about Atm machine.. Some men are just stingy.

What do u mean by stingy, babe work ur money, and b d one to sponsor his lunch or pay for his bottle water,
So dating a man means he must carry all ur basic amenities on his head because of lve abi? Then my question for u is what do u have to offer him in return?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 9:49pm On Jan 10
Evercurious:



Pls speak for all the females in your family and not everyone.. Better still go make all the money and see if all women ll worship you.. Fool
I've already made the money so I'm speaking from experience you this

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 9:52pm On Jan 10
Evercurious:

Some men are just stingy.
u see? Coming from a hoe who says women don't worship morning but she's here accusing men of being stingy.
A hoe is a hoe

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 10:50pm On Jan 10
OgaBuhari:
u see? Coming from a hoe who says women don't worship morning but she's here accusing men of being stingy.
A hoe is a hoe


It"s obvious that you are really frustrated.. Guess the women you ve been with have really done hell to your life.. And one more thing. YOUR MOTHER AND SISTERS ARE THE HOES YOU ARE REFERRING TO. BASTARD LIKE YOU. HOW DARE YOU CALL ME THAT, FRUSTRATED BEING

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 10:56pm On Jan 10
larryking540:


What do u mean by stingy, babe work ur money, and b d one to sponsor his lunch or pay for his bottle water,
So dating a man means he must carry all ur basic amenities on his head because of lve abi? Then my question for u is what do u have to offer him in return?

Life is all about giving and sharing carried out by both parties.. If this can't be found in any relationship,then i really dont see the need for it
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 10:59pm On Jan 10
OgaBuhari:
I've already made the money so I'm speaking from experience you this


Congratulations. And now that you ve made the money every woman is now in love with you? SILLY AND CHEAP TALK
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 3:13am On Jan 11
Evercurious:


Life is all about giving and sharing carried out by both parties.. If this can't be found in any relationship,then i really dont see the need for it

I wish as u take talk am na so females see relationship, I don't know if it's a general stuff or just peculiar to 9ja ladies o ,I have never been outside nigeria b4 ,cus d only ladies dat are of good description to wat u just pointed out are those ones whose love is more then d guy's own
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 3:15am On Jan 11
Evercurious:



Congratulations. And now that you ve made the money every woman is now in love with you? SILLY AND CHEAP TALK

Babe welcome to 9ja, if u don't fall for money 100 and 10 ladies will fall for in just within ur area

If u don't fall for money what do u fall for?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 3:22am On Jan 11
Evercurious:



It"s obvious that you are really frustrated.. Guess the women you ve been with have really done hell to your life.. And one more thing. YOUR MOTHER AND SISTERS ARE THE HOES YOU ARE REFERRING TO. BASTARD LIKE YOU. HOW DARE YOU CALL ME THAT, FRUSTRATED BEING

Now am getting d whole story from u and ur formal quote /reply to people

But for real u are siting inbetween a fence, pick one side

U said some men are stingy 1
And there u go again that a responsible lady will not fall for a man's money dats 2

Are u for d money or u are not for d money?

There is a big difference between a partner voluntarily giving u money and u making it mandatory dat he must give u money, u b federal worker?
Babe I sorry to say dis, men knows very well that if not for children, we don't have any business with a woman, I might sound rude but no vex.

If u are not for d money then I believe u are capable of taking care of ur self and u are working why even alter out such a statement dat some men are stingy,

Lady dat is not working says, some men are stingy
And u dat is working is also saying some men are stingy ,should he give u Pluto planet or jupital planet as a gift ,
The problem with us is we are just easily deceived by what d media /youtube video shows us (perfection) and we forget dat there is no perfect living, nigeria is different from American,there economic is completely different , the truth is relationship isn't a child's affair and don't expect ur relationship to look like a 19 year old dating a 16 year girl relationship forever, ,,u want him to shawer u gift everyday, so he should pay u for breathing or living on earth ? Abi


What do u really want exactly?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 7:06am On Jan 11
larryking540:


Now am getting d whole story from u and ur formal quote /reply to people

But for real u are siting inbetween a fence, pick one side

U said some men are stingy 1
And there u go again that a responsible lady will not fall for a man's money dats 2

Are u for d money or u are not for d money?

There is a big difference between a partner voluntarily giving u money and u making it mandatory dat he must give u money, u b federal worker?
Babe I sorry to say dis, men knows very well that if not for children, we don't have any business with a woman, I might sound rude but no vex.

If u are not for d money then I believe u are capable of taking care of ur self and u are working why even alter out such a statement dat some men are stingy,

Lady dat is not working says, some men are stingy
And u dat is working is also saying some men are stingy ,should he give u Pluto planet or jupital planet as a gift ,
The problem with us is we are just easily deceived by what d media /youtube video shows us (perfection) and we forget dat there is no perfect living, nigeria is different from American,there economic is completely different , the truth is relationship isn't a child's affair and don't expect ur relationship to look like a 19 year old dating a 16 year girl relationship forever, ,,u want him to shawer u gift everyday, so he should pay u for breathing or living on earth ? Abi


What do u really want exactly?

Oga go read my last statement. And if you are not okay with it, i can't help any further. Do check you email.
Good morning
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 11:35am On Jan 11
Evercurious:


Oga go read my last statement. And if you are not okay with it, i can't help any further. Do check you email.
Good morning

Morning morning
Check ur email I just sent u a reply
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 1:47pm On Jan 11
larryking540:


Morning morning
Check ur email I just sent u a reply

Done.. Check yours for my response
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by TessBiwom(f): 5:47pm On Jan 11
OgaBuhari:
shut up hypocrite.
It's all naija girls except u are American

How much do you even have?please allow us to breathe fresh air in peace.
Alpha male!Alpha male!na woman matter you carry for head;please go get a life and you better don't quote or mention me.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jan 12
TessBiwom:


How much do you even have?please allow us to breathe fresh air in peace.
Alpha male!Alpha male!na woman matter you carry for head;please go get a life and you better don't quote or mention me.

Take it easy on him madam cheesy
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Spectre007: 4:45pm On Jan 12
OgaBuhari:
lol OK ok ok all thru those countless moments we straffed, na pull out method oh.
I never for once spilled in grin
u be Legend,i dey hail oo,pls try begin use protection make you no run out of luck one day.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by ahukannakate: 5:53pm On Jan 12
PrinceBBlack:
Well for me, i had a girl who i met in 2016. She is currently in her final year and i work with Nigerian Breweries in Enugu. I give this babe a monthly allowance of 50k while she doesnt even get 10k from being that her parents are in the village and he uncle gives her schoolfees.
First, i realized that i loved her so much with my heart that i forgot to use my head. I had a car accident in 2017. i was in the hospital for four months and then relocated to Ibadan where i was till september in 2018 where i was recouperating getting ready for a final surgery. I got her an Iphone X in that same september. In october, i told her that i was no longer getting salary that i wont be able to keep up with the 50k allowance but i could still manage 25k. Do u believe this girl said she cant come to Ibadan cos its far to visit and that i reduced the allowance i give her that what is 25k going to do for her. She finally said if i cant carry out my duty as a bf, that i should let her be. Well it was easy for me... i could part with the money but i personally sent someone to collect the Iphone X i bought for her and told her that the phone isnt my problem but she is an ungrateful piece of a person. Broke up with her and the phone is still in my wardrobe with full accessories since its not up to 1month i bought it waiting for the next person. I didnt love with my head but loved with my heart. If u dont take care of them, na war, if u do, na still wahala.
Some girls are so lucky but they end up messing things up.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 11:25pm On Jan 12
TessBiwom:


How much do you even have?please allow us to breathe fresh air in peace.
Alpha male!Alpha male!na woman matter you carry for head;please go get a life and you better don't quote or mention me.
you are the one who quoted first and I've seen that u really want me to notice u
It's alright, the picture below describes u

Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by TessBiwom(f): 11:55pm On Jan 12
OgaBuhari:
you are the one who quoted first and I've seen that u really want me to notice u
It's alright, the picture below describes u

A very cute one at that.keyboard warrior go get a life and stop spilling your frustration online.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 12:02am On Jan 13
TessBiwom:


A very cute one at that.keyboard warrior go get a life and stop spilling your frustration online.
broke ass frustrated feminist. U actually quoted me when I said I've got experience spending money on ur fellow hoes and they all worship me since money is the god of naija girls.
So u actually quoted me so I could notice u.
Sorry dear I don't date nairaland girls they are all craps and broke asses with dead careers looking for an alpha male to push their burdens on.
So kindly fvck off hoe. You're not my type.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by TessBiwom(f): 12:18am On Jan 13
OgaBuhari:
broke ass frustrated feminist. U actually quoted me when I said I've got experience spending money on ur fellow hoes and they all worship me since money is the god of naija girls.
So u actually quoted me so I could notice u.
Sorry dear I don't date nairaland girls they are all craps and broke asses with dead careers looking for an alpha male to push their burdens on.
So kindly fvck off hoe. You're not my type.


Aaawwwhhhh....did I touch a nerve?cry baby oya go to momma so she can wipe your nose.
For the records,you don't even seem like someone that can approach me on a regular day.
Nairaland girls have class,it's not pride and we ain't feminists.we believe in treating everybody the way you want to be treated..
Now back to my question"how much do you have"that you won't allow us live in peace.
Have you heard this before"you attract what you are".upcoming artist grin

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 12:35am On Jan 13
TessBiwom:



Aaawwwhhhh....did I touch a nerve?cry baby oya go to momma so she can wipe your nose.
For the records,you don't even seem like someone that can approach me on a regular day.
Nairaland girls have class,it's not pride and we ain't feminists.we believe in treating everybody the way you want to be treated..
Now back to my question"how much do you have"that you won't allow us live in peace.
Have you heard this before"you attract what you are".upcoming artist grin
why are u so keen on this?
Oh u want me to expose your fellow hoes (you inclusive).
I'll ask u a question.
Why is it that if an alpha male working in a reputable company let's say Shell, ExxonMobil or Chevron walks up to girls (that's if you're worth it cos ur type looks like those cheap girls that attracts Okada and Keke drivers).
Why is it that you'll accept him instantly? Cos he has money (your god) and you'll be submissive to his dictates and he'll use u the way he wants and even if you catch him cheating you'll keep quiet cos u got no choice..
My advise for you is get a career for yourself and be an independent woman if your own and stop chasing these rich men if not you'll end up as a ritual victim.
NB : I'm working with Exxon and my eyes have seen things and I've lost interest in naija girls

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by TessBiwom(f): 12:46am On Jan 13
OgaBuhari:
why are u so keen on this?
Oh u want me to expose your fellow hoes (you inclusive).
I'll ask u a question.
Why is it that if an alpha male working in a reputable company let's say Shell, ExxonMobil or Chevron walks up to girls (that's if you're worth it cos ur type looks like those cheap girls that attracts Okada and Keke drivers).
Why is it that you'll accept him instantly? Cos he has money (your god) and you'll be submissive to his dictates and he'll use u the way he wants and even if you catch him cheating you'll keep quiet cos u got no choice..
My advise for you is get a career for yourself and be an independent woman if your own and stop chasing these rich men if not you'll end up as a ritual victim.
NB : I'm working with Exxon and my eyes have seen things and I've lost interest in naija girls

I don't actually care about where you work or what you do,stop generalising women as hoe(for someone that is educated,your way of reasoning is shallow)
I'm not one of those girls that get carried away by material things neither do I prioritize them.I am my own woman and I don't depend on a man.I have got two hands and a functioning brain,that's enough to get me far and achieve my dreams.
I'm done with this conversation.....keep wallowing in your self pity.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 1:02am On Jan 13
TessBiwom:


I don't actually care about where you work or what you do,stop generalising women as hoe(for someone that is educated,your way of reasoning is shallow)
I'm not one of those girls that get carried away by material things neither do I prioritize them.I am my own woman and I don't depend on a man.I have got two hands and a functioning brain,that's enough to get me far and achieve my dreams.
I'm done with this conversation.....keep wallowing in your self pity.
and u had to present urself this way so u would get a husband on nairaland Abi?
Cos that's what brought u here.
Keep searching.
Bye

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by emkz: 1:29am On Jan 13
Awesome stories. My greatest lesson is: always trust your instinct, it never lies.

All these guys telling you to be hard on girls, to be in control, bossy, forming alpha males; PLEASE stop pretending to understand the mentality of a woman. It is complex. They are perpetually confused, and as Mozart described them: "a woman is fickle, she is inconstant anc always changing her mind". A good girl would be a good girl until life changes her to be bad. A bad girl with a slutty character would hardly change whether you are nice to her or an alpha-male to her. If you are nasty to them, they would cheat to feel in control and empowered. A pampered girl is the worst, avoid them.

Work hard, make money and you'd comfortably get any woman. Never prioritize a woman above yourself and your family. When yawa gas, na your family you go still run to.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by stanboy28(m): 1:52am On Jan 13
ajalawole:
if you know, you know
dis 1 weak me.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by TessBiwom(f): 6:48am On Jan 13
[quote author=OgaBuhari post=74708393] and u had to present urself this way so u would get a husband on nairaland Abi?
Cos that's what brought u here.
Keep searching.
Bye[/


E pain am oooo grin tongue....oya wipe your tears

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