We wouldn't have to entertain these idiotic questions if y'all would just buy freaking washing machines! This is 2019 for Christ's sakes, washing machines go for as low as 25k.

Buy one and all these foolish questions will not matter to you

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Don't enslave the girl to wash for your mother o. Get your mother a maid / washing machine to do her washing. The first response has all the answers you need...Good luck!

What's bad in washing for one's mother in law? If you can wash for your own mother, then it's no big deal. ..you must not have washing machine to wash for your mother in law. ..we will all grow old. ..what you give is what you get ...some kain advice I've been seeing up na waooo...

I happily wash for my mother in law even without her asking. I don't see it as a big deal

UyaiIncomparabl:
It's not right. Is she your maid? Is your mum so old and frail or doesn't have a daughter(s) to do them for her? If your mum needs help with the laundry(ies), please get her a washing machine.

That isn't a way to define a wife material, which in actuality, your fiancée is trying too hard to please and prove to you. Some girls and desperation are inseparable. I read your former thread, you were so incoherent, unwilling to adhere to people's advice and here you are again, fidgeting and pleading for us to give you another? For what? For you to perhaps chose a comment which best suits your interest and myopic/faulty thinking.

Simple, get your mother a maid or a washing machine, and of course I expect you also teach her how to use it. Don't stress someone else's daughter, and please, get a frigging life!

You're too egotistical. And errr, she's not your wife yet. Still a fiancée. She owes you or your immediate family no homely rights. You leave the important things undone and tend to the minute ones which are utmost inconsequential. Even if she eventually becomes your wife, she still owes no RIGHT. Grab that!

You have time my brother

Yewandequeen:
It is a bad thing to not wash for your husband mother when applicable. She is also your second mother whether you kike it or not.

hmmm

UyaiIncomparabl:
It's not right. Is she your maid? Is your mum so old and frail or doesn't have a daughter(s) to do them for her? If your mum needs help with the laundry(ies), please get her a washing machine.

That isn't a way to define a wife material, which in actuality, your fiancée is trying too hard to please and prove to you. Some girls and desperation are inseparable. I read your former thread, you were so incoherent, unwilling to adhere to people's advice and here you are again, fidgeting and pleading for us to give you another? For what? For you to perhaps chose a comment which best suits your interest and myopic/faulty thinking.

Simple, get your mother a maid or a washing machine, and of course I expect you also teach her how to use it. Don't stress someone else's daughter, and please, get a frigging life!

You're too egotistical. And errr, she's not your wife yet. Still a fiancée. She owes you or your immediate family no homely rights. You leave the important things undone and tend to the minute ones which are utmost inconsequential. Even if she eventually becomes your wife, she still owes no RIGHT. Grab that!

Do you know that you're a witch if you can wash for your mother but cannot wash for your mother in law.

You don't want him to suffer somebody's daughter but you will shift your family's financial responsibilities to somebody's son.
The way some of you reason is pathetic.

UyaiIncomparabl:
It's not right. Is she your maid? Is your mum so old and frail or doesn't have a daughter(s) to do them for her? If your mum needs help with the laundry(ies), please get her a washing machine.

That isn't a way to define a wife material, which in actuality, your fiancée is trying too hard to please and prove to you. Some girls and desperation are inseparable. I read your former thread, you were so incoherent, unwilling to adhere to people's advice and here you are again, fidgeting and pleading for us to give you another? For what? For you to perhaps chose a comment which best suits your interest and myopic/faulty thinking.

Simple, get your mother a maid or a washing machine, and of course I expect you also teach her how to use it. Don't stress someone else's daughter, and please, get a frigging life!

You're too egotistical. And errr, she's not your wife yet. Still a fiancée. She owes you or your immediate family no homely rights. You leave the important things undone and tend to the minute ones which are utmost inconsequential. Even if she eventually becomes your wife, she still owes no RIGHT. Grab that!

I don't understand this your fiancee part. The subject emphasized "husband mother". Mother in-law is a mother, forget the words.

However, act of kindness and sense of responsibility is not pride neither does it take away your glory. Be humble

jakandeola:
Pls I need answer from matured ladies only

the best way to live life is letting love lead the way. just let love rule. with love, you could do anything you wish not caring what the world thinks.


with love, you would do anything necessary for her
and with love also, she won't let the necessary occur.

IjebuWarrior:


Awon oloriburuku of a somebody be dis ooo Of course we know where una type come from... Land of the rising sun..

And you dey wonder why men no go fit marry pple like you Instead of doing the basic things like...being homely, submissive and humble, you go dey go church dey pray for husband upandan.

Olofo!

hmmm

77up:
May God bless you and perfect your home .


Every women must not be like that stupid pained ftc else , many people including me 'll not marry o.

lol. You will marry, it will just take you a while to get the right woman meant for you.

lol....is it girls of 19 years comment you guys are taking seriously?

oh my days, old family section comes to mind....

77up:
Am sure that ftc is one of those stupid low life pained basterd feminist


Did she know that op before cox am just wondering why she's so bitter laidat

Pls go through the OP's thread about his girlfriend's mother frustrating him, I'm sure you will understand the reason for her response..


https://www.nairaland.com/4898963/girl-mother-frustrating-me

It is not a bad thing but it is also not a by force thing

Me wey no like washing rara rara even with washing machine na him una wan add another one cone put? No be by force biko but if you get strent carry go

It's not right. Is she your maid? Is your mum so old and frail or doesn't have a daughter(s) to do them for her? If your mum needs help with the laundry(ies), please get her a washing machine.

That isn't a way to define a wife material, which in actuality, your fiancée is trying too hard to please and prove to you. Some girls and desperation are inseparable. I read your former thread, you were so incoherent, unwilling to adhere to people's advice and here you are again, fidgeting and pleading for us to give you another? For what? For you to perhaps chose a comment which best suits your interest and myopic/faulty thinking.

Simple, get your mother a maid or a washing machine, and of course I expect you also teach her how to use it. Don't stress someone else's daughter, and please, get a frigging life!

You're too egotistical. And errr, she's not your wife yet. Still a fiancée. She owes you or your immediate family no homely rights. You leave the important things undone and tend to the minute ones which are utmost inconsequential. Even if she eventually becomes your wife, she still owes no RIGHT. Grab that!


It depends on your upbringing. All these your long writr up sound like someone who is feels too pompous.
My wife at times watches my mum's clothes despite I will tell her not to. She will tell me she is using it to do exercise.

Mariangeles:
Change your mindset !
If you truly accept your mother in-law with a pure heart as your mother, you'd see NOTHING wrong with it !

If you can't do a simple thing as laundry for your mother in-law, then what can you do for an elderly stranger ??

A wife material spotted..... Am single, are you??

Is it bad? No, it isn't bad.

Will I do it? No, I wouldn't do it.

I can't remember the last time I even washed my own clothes with seriousness.

I wonder why it is men always asking all these questions.

Mac12:
I happily wash for my mother in law even without her asking. I don't see it as a big deal

Very good of you. May God bless you with a good man.

pocohantas:
Is it bad? No, it isn't bad.

Will I do it? No, I wouldn't do it.

I can't remember the last time I even washed my own clothes with seriousness.

Will my husband wash my father's clothes?
I wonder why it is men always asking all these questions.

it means u are lazy and not ripe for marriage

cococandy yettymuse bukatyne ishilove efemenaxy sisisioge this on front page

JONNYSPUTE:
... The way most of our ladies reason this days is truely disgraceful. This is why marriages dont last again.They see every little thing as slavery. Even those their parents could not afford to keep house maids or buy washing machines will be screaming employ a maid or buy her a washing machine.Very disappointing attitudes.

The op said he is rich.I read his first thread concerning this issue.If he can afford a washing machine,why then is he having this problem?Again I think he said something like he wants to stay on same street with the mother and wife, na!That's not being fair to the wife.

Khallyella:
This man again, the mature comment you crave for is right after your post, but I'll ask you, is it a bad thing to wash for your wife's dad?

If me as the husband will wash my wife dad's clothes then she can wash my mum's clothes, but I can't wash his clothes so why will my wife be washing my mum's clothes, it doesn't sound nice

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jakandeola:
it means u are lazy and not ripe for marriage

Oga calm down.
If you want a lady that will wash your mom's clothes,you should go get that woman.Women plenty for market.Dem full yakata everywhere.Not all men fancy this washing of clothes to prove loyalty things abeg.

Please save and get a washing machine and stop all this inlaw rivalry

I can wash anyone's cloths. Just wear gloves, throw them in the washer-drier, pour some Tide (add bleach a lil later if white) and walah! It's over.before it begins. It won't make me a smaller or bigger person.

nkwuocha:


The op said he is rich.I read his first thread concerning this issue.If he can afford a washing machine,why then is he having this problem?Again I think he said something like he wants to stay on same street with the mother and wife, na!That's not being fair to the wife.

in dat blog I said something u are a woman u will be mother in law soon if u visit ur son will u wished she cook for you or go buy food from outside for u. I have a reason why I stayed in same street

Dididrumz:


If me as the husband will wash my wife dad's clothes then she can wash my mum's clothes, but I can't wash his clothes so why will my wife be washing my mum's clothes, it doesn't sound nice

It doesn't work that way Bros.
You may not wash your in laws clothes,but your wife can wash VOLUNTARILY.The problem I have with the OP is that he thinks it's mandatory.NO!

Yewandequeen:
It is a bad thing to not wash for your husband mother when applicable. She is also your second mother whether you kike it or not.

God bless you. It's ur duty if she's around whether she's sick or not, you are to wash for her cos a wise mother-in-law will join u in washing her clothes once u say u want to do that cos she's another mom to u

jakandeola:
when u marry dont cook or wash for mum in law and see if dey wont chase u away

What kind of archaic living is this?

InSanety:
We wouldn't have to entertain these idiotic questions if y'all would just buy freaking washing machines! This is 2019 for Christ's sakes, washing machines go for as low as 25k.

Buy one and all these foolish questions will not matter to you

ur opinion is idiotic and foolish and insane. mind ur words

pocohantas:
Is it bad? No, it isn't bad.

Will I do it? No, I wouldn't do it.

I can't remember the last time I even washed my own clothes with seriousness.

I wonder why it is men always asking all these questions.

ur own case is Laziness oO.... exactly why getting into marriage is easier this days(anybody with funds can) but staying in marriage is quite difficult....