BAVOSKI:

Fool

Lol.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Ok.

I'm much in a very smooth relationship, and we are good. No hassles. You can't always be right everytime. Everyone can have the same mentality as yours. I hope you have sense in your later years.

You just had to come and reply and Yab me Even when i no quote you
You are so immature and inexperienced. I hope itk no go kill you
Pls Be calm and take life easy #peace

sacajawea:

You just had to come and reply and Yab me Even when i no quote you
You are so immature and inexperienced. I hope itk no go kill you
Pls Be calm and take life easy #peace

Lol. Ok.

The mature man. Ancient of Days, I sight you.

77up:
I humbly retraced my comment , donno op issa sisy

Sorry to the person i quoted , he deserve more than you gave him .

You're forgiven.

generationz:

thanks dear

you're welcome

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Ok.

The mature man. Ancient of Days, I sight you.

so That Is What You Will Do When I Introduce you To My Elders

IamPlato:
so That Is What You Will Do When I Introduce you To My Elders

You must be drunk.

i

bebanky:


25k? It simply shows you do not even own one

this is like saying someone who tells you an Android phone can be bought for 10k doesn't have one.

Check online and you'll see a washing machine of 25k, I saw multiple at that rate last year, spread your tentacles.

That you don't know there are washing machines of that price means you are not knowledgeable of certain things.

Single tub washing machines come as low as 18,000 Naira, but ojukokoro will not allow a lot of people see those ones.

chiefqueen:

If my mother in-law is against me for not washing her clothes I'll try my best to avoid her. I married her son, not her. If my husband truly loves me he'd explain to her why I refused to do her laundry, and if she's a good person she'd understand. I did not come to this life to die because I'm a woman. I didn't choose my gender.
If you say you don't like housemaids, you can always get a houseboy. Case closed.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hahahahahhahaha.
AMEN!

Nse ukpa imam? Uyeme adi yed affong yak abo edidiong ato eka ubed

Dididrumz:


If me as the husband will wash my wife dad's clothes then she can wash my mum's clothes, but I can't wash his clothes so why will my wife be washing my mum's clothes, it doesn't sound nice

Oga are you married?

sacramento1212:


Nse ukpa imam? Uyeme adi yed affong yak abo edidiong ato eka ubed

It's not a must, mbok. The truth is, the OP is dumb, and needs validation for his warped knowledge, I'm not giving him that audience, you can if you want to. Any how e dey, Nfana ibagha.

UyaiIncomparabl:


It's not a must, mbok. The truth is, the OP is dumb, and needs validation for his warped knowledge, I'm not giving him that audience, you can if you want to. Any how e dey, Nfana ibagha.

eyeneka, duok odudu mfo. Idoho a must but when situation warrants, idioko afo adi yed. Usok mkpo asi do idomo. Ami nkeme ke adi yak awan nmi adi do eyen ufok uyed afong nno eka nmi. Mkpo uyed afong ana aba ku ufok. Nkom ibaha, mbio uyed afong ana aba. Idoho afid owo ema adi yed afong ku ubok.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You must be drunk

Is That So? Victoria So It Is Insult I Get For Playing With You... NO PROBLEM! Weldone! Well Served...

IamPlato:
Is That So? Victoria So It Is Insult I Get For Playing With You... NO PROBLEM! Weldone! Well Served...

I'm scared.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm scared.

The Person Who Called You Fool You Didnt Insult. But You Used Me To Massage Your Ego Right? Anyway Good Night

jakandeola:
Pls I need answer from matured ladies only

Should we even be discussing this? Chai... I weep for Africa. Everything now na job, common to wash again. Years back women do the whole damn farm and feel very happy and fulfilled. Today what do we have, so called female graduate of economics that cannot even reason out a good business she can engage in, hanging around with a mobile device that is 20 time smarter than them. Honestly the world was indeed a better place when Apple was still a fruit!

Mariangeles:
Change your mindset !
If you truly accept your mother in-law with a pure heart as your mother, you'd see NOTHING wrong with it !

If you can't do a simple thing as laundry for your mother in-law, then what can you do for an elderly stranger ??

Ok ma'am.

IamPlato:
The Person Who Called You Fool You Didnt Insult. But You Used Me To Massage Your Ego Right? Anyway Good Night

Oil dey your head.

od501:



Should we even be discussing this? Chai... I wipe for Africa. Everything now na job, common to wash again. Years back women do the whole damn farm and feel very happy and fulfilled. Today what do we have, so called female graduate of economics that cannot even reason out a good business she can engage in, hanging around with a mobile device that is 20 time smarter than them. Honestly the world was indeed a better place when Apple was still a fruit!

God bless u

od501:



Should we even be discussing this? Chai... I wipe for Africa. Everything now na job, common to wash again. Years back women do the whole damn farm and feel very happy and fulfilled. Today what do we have, so called female graduate of economics that cannot even reason out a good business she can engage in, hanging around with a mobile device that is 20 time smarter than them. Honestly the world was indeed a better place when Apple was still a fruit!

The world is evolving, brother. Don't be left behind.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Oil dey your head.

k

od501:



Should we even be discussing this? Chai... I wipe for Africa. Everything now na job, common to wash again. Years back women do the whole damn farm and feel very happy and fulfilled. Today what do we have, so called female graduate of economics that cannot even reason out a good business she can engage in, hanging around with a mobile device that is 20 time smarter than them. Honestly the world was indeed a better place when Apple was still a fruit!

Things have really changed my brother. It's so unfortunate

SURElee:
Is the husband's mother living with the son and his family? If yes, then they should find a way to do laundry in that home. They can get laundry woman or man to do laundry weekly on weekends or get a washing machine.

If the woman can wash her own mum's clothes, then no issues with MIL. Then again, it is depends on the DILs schedule, she can't work in Lagos, go through traffic stress and then come back home to begin laundry of the entire village in ekiti state, she is a wife not a slave in a plantation farm.

Get a washing machine, this is 2019 no longer stone age or cave man Era.

Laziness and Pride are the problems of you ladies. No sane man would want his loving wife to be a slave for his family members.
But some situations warrant a good wife to be good to her mother in-law. Is it an everyday thing? No!

If they visit their In-laws like spending days with them. What stops a good girl from a good home to help her mother in-law with Kitchen chores and Laundry? If it was her own parents home would she watch her mum wash her cloths while she folds her arms?

The same way you don't expect me as a man to visit my in-law and my Father in-law goes out into the compound to wash his car and I sit down reading the News paper, watching TV or Chatting.

Do I need anyone to tell me what to do before I know its my duty as a son in-law to help out in such situation. Should I watch him Iron his cloth and walk pass. Or he goes into the backyard farm to weed and I start acting potche .

There some things you don't need someone to tell you is right to do before you know its right.

This might sound weird or arkward. If I meet my mother in-law washing her cloths , I will attempt to do it for her. if she accepts I will do it. But most mothers won't want that to happen because it is a man .

[quote author=UyaiIncomparabl post=73795464]It's not right. Is she your maid? Is your mum so old and frail or doesn't have a daughter(s) to do them for her? If your mum needs help with the laundry(ies), please get her a washing machine.

That isn't a way to define a wife material, which in actuality, your fiancée is trying too hard to please and prove to you. Some girls and desperation are inseparable. I read your former thread, you were so incoherent, unwilling to adhere to people's advice and here you are again, fidgeting and pleading for us to give you another? For what? For you to perhaps chose a comment which best suits your interest and myopic/faulty thinking.

Simple, get your mother a maid or a washing machine, and of course I expect you also teach her how to use it. Don't stress someone else's daughter, and please, get a frigging life!

You're too egotistical. And errr, she's not your wife yet. Still a fiancée. She owes you or your immediate family no homely rights. You leave the important th

Ladies of this days.I dey fear una o

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Very funny how you people rush to comment without being objective. There are so many circumstances that can make a daughter Inlaw do her mother in law's laundary. If the old woman is staying with them and sick,then she can. If they travel to visit her in her place and she is not in good condition, her daughter Inlaw can help out. Nobody forces his wife to start washing for his mother.Let's always put two and two together before commenting.

Matured Mind

TheMainMan:
After reading all the comments above... i can't but say some people will die single


smh

And it is not a curse to die single.

Even Jesus was single before he left the world.

But he is coming back though... maybe he will marry then

UyaiIncomparabl:
It's not right. Is she your maid? Is your mum so old and frail or doesn't have a daughter(s) to do them for her? If your mum needs help with the laundry(ies), please get her a washing machine.

That isn't a way to define a wife material, which in actuality, your fiancée is trying too hard to please and prove to you. Some girls and desperation are inseparable. I read your former thread, you were so incoherent, unwilling to adhere to people's advice and here you are again, fidgeting and pleading for us to give you another? For what? For you to perhaps chose a comment which best suits your interest and myopic/faulty thinking.

Simple, get your mother a maid or a washing machine, and of course I expect you also teach her how to use it. Don't stress someone else's daughter, and please, get a frigging life!

You're too egotistical. And errr, she's not your wife yet. Still a fiancée. She owes you or your immediate family no homely rights. You leave the important things undone and tend to the minute ones which are utmost inconsequential. Even if she eventually becomes your wife, she still owes no RIGHT. Grab that!

ladies like u will send there husbands to an early grave. And besides we are talking about already married couple not people datung

ShameOnAPC:
Foolish Question, this is my story

I experienced one silly act from my fiance (26) when we both went to celebrate new year with my family, they welcomed her , treat her nice, in fact my mom always want her by her side , we are to leave on the 3rd, I told her to wash my bedsheet and the wrapper that my mom gave her to tie, she declined ,saying we need to take them to laundry as she can't wash them(not a slave mindset) a Lady that her parent doesn't have a washing machine ,after nagging with me for long, I told her she should go back to her base alone as I won't drive her along with me neither will I give her tfare, I will never marry a bossy lady, not knowing my mom was watching her, she said to me secretly, don't fight with her, let her be, you haven't gotten a fiance, let her return to her base in peace and leave her to be dating herself. she later washed the wrapper and bedsheet.
When we were returning back to our base, guess what, my mom called her to her bedroom, talk nicely to her and cracked joke with her, bought 2 different ankara for her , gave her cash & some of her used jewelries .
She as been calling my mom on phone every now and then to thank her thinking she has gotten a mother in-law to be, but didn't know my mom as rejected her and I will soon dump her.

To the OP ,know the type of lady you'll marry, Courtship is very important, Linda ikeji that was shouting men are scum have been used and dumped .

Never marry a feminist

your loss

UyaiIncomparabl:


The world is evolving, brother. Don't be left behind.

Am sorry! I don't and cannot catch up with stupidity all in the name of modernization. In fact what we call modern civilization in Africa today is just sheer naivety. We abandoned our ways and still wonder what went wrong with our feature generation. Look around you, our politics for example, do you think it would have been like this had we stoke to our culture and grow while we make adjustments like every other country in Asia did.

Today politicians embezzle public funds and have the nerve to brandish it in our faces and nothing will happen. Is that the wonderful gift of modernization? Is that the almighty hope western education has for us? Trust me in Nigeria today marriage union is dead , the only reason majority still do so is cos they thing it's trendy thing; they don't even know why they do it, as for the ladies it is just the sex and the money (though they "never" agree to it). My point exactly is, the crack in our marriage union started when we traded our ways for theirs. And besides if sticking to originality means premitivity, then i rather get left behind!