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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by stalwart123(m): 5:57am On Jan 16, 2019
angry
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Laeroy(f): 7:04am On Jan 16, 2019
Omnipresent:
You are not alone brother. You just love having peace of mind that's all.
But as you grow older, you will realize you need people.

U took the words outta my mouth, in exactly like the O.P, although getting better at it, and unlike him, I don't cut ties with people who have impacted meaningfully in my life, I might do that initially but mend the relationship asap, however if there ain't any cordiality between us, Omo u never existed ni oo, also just like u said, U'LL need people as one ages, so tell me when you have blanked almost everyone in your life, how do you cope?

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Vickwinners: 6:28pm On Jan 16, 2019
Callmeibironke:
I love this.

Can I pm you?

Yeah sure

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jan 16, 2019
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

Story of my life. I tell my poeple to leave me be that I need Space and that I'm Tired of Seeing and Hearing from them all the time. I've burnt Bridges over dumb things.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Vickwinners: 10:10pm On Jan 16, 2019
Vickwinners:


Yeah sure

Just saw your pm but the reply is not going through.

You may send an email directly at
askvictorwinners @gmail.com
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jan 16, 2019
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.
Was like this before... Along the line it catches up with you. You might not prepared when the emotional cracks sets in
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Offpoint: 10:36pm On Jan 16, 2019
FavouriteMe:
How people exceed a year or two in a relationship still baffles me!
Anyway this your condition only reflects the low value you have for others.
So you break up yearly
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by ThegreatLion: 10:41pm On Jan 17, 2019
AryaSand:


Story of my life. I tell my poeple to leave me be that I need Space and that I'm Tired of Seeing and Hearing from them all the time. I've burnt Bridges over dumb things.



Please check your email. I sent you a mail
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by ThegreatLion: 4:08pm On Jan 18, 2019
AryaSand:


Story of my life. I tell my poeple to leave me be that I need Space and that I'm Tired of Seeing and Hearing from them all the time. I've burnt Bridges over dumb things.


@AryaSand, check your email, i sent you a mall
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by ePrive(m): 2:47pm On Jan 19, 2019
See my people here.
I guess most of you are Libras.
Some peeps described my life up there.
Most times I feel superhuman, nothing is wrong with y'all.
And don't create a group/forum as some are suggesting, except it's an alpha group...which wouldn't hold water either way.

It's a defence mechanism by the way, built by the subconscious.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 11:23pm On Jan 19, 2019
Successdude:
baba Toks thank God I found you. Would like to chat you up about something

Olakoredey@gmail.com
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by immaculate1234(m): 8:16pm On Jan 20, 2019
mine is different I feel I am better in terms of intelligence than everyone so if your brain or IQ is not as high as mine we can't be friends but so far I have not seen anyone like myself I swear maybe it's because i have not changed environment.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by ArcToyin(m): 4:50pm On Jul 21, 2019
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.
It is a weakness and you cannot help yourself with it except you take it to God in prayer. You can keep on jettison people because you won't know the one that will be very helping as regards destiny.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Tiasma: 3:34pm On Dec 27, 2019
Hello Krissconnect,
I suspect you have a personality problem which has some features of BORDERLINE PERSONALITY and NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY. Of course I can't be sure as this would have to be confirmed through psychological assessment. Something is not right with the way you process interpersonal information (the way you evaluate your interaction with others) and the expectations and goals you form in and towards relationship. There are some psychological techniques that can used to assist you in understanding yourself better and improving your relationship with ohers. I would recommend you see a SOUND and COMPETENT psychologist.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by krissconnect(m): 8:27pm On Dec 27, 2019
Tiasma:
Hello Krissconnect,
I suspect you have a personality problem which has some features of BORDERLINE PERSONALITY and NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY. Of course I can't be sure as this would have to be confirmed through psychological assessment. Something is not right with the way you process interpersonal information (the way you evaluate your interaction with others) and the expectations and goals you form in and towards relationship. There are some psychological techniques that can used to assist you in understanding yourself better and improving your relationship with ohers. I would recommend you see a SOUND and COMPETENT psychologist.
Pls make suggestions for me.. what do i do?

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