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We've only known each other barely a month, but she acts and behaves like we've known for years, Cooks, cleans, etc acting like we are about getting married when I obviously didn't say anything about commitment to her ....

Now she wants to have a spare to my apartment so she wouldn't have to be calling Me for keys anymore...

Thing is I'm an introvert and I love having my space sometimes, how do I decline her request without making her feel untrusted or rejected?? or do you think I should give her??

Abort mission!!! I repeat it again abort mission!!!, to avoid story of how all my properties was sold by my girlfriend.

My guy, u are the one dating her so I believe for the few period u have known her u can tell ur self if she's worth giving ur keys to ur apartment or not. And I believe u already know where she lives.

Lol. So that she can come and be dropping her luggages bit by bit abi

Whitewolf8:
We ve only known each other barely a month,but she act and behaves like we ve known for years, cooks,cleans, etc acting like we re about getting married when i obviously didn't say anything to her ...now she wants to have a spare to my apartment so she wouldn't have to be calling Mr for keys anymore...,thing is I'm an introvert and I love having my space sometimes, how to I decline her request without making her feel untrusted or rejected?? or do you think I should give her??

iCauseTrouble:
Lol. So that she can come and be dropping her luggages bit by bit abi

I'm not interested in her moving in at all.

Yes. It will make it easier for her to break your things and burn down the house when you guys have a misunderstanding

Jayslicky:
Abort mission!!! I repeat it again abort mission!!!, to avoid story of how all my properties was sold by my girlfriend.

Lol

kenn4rill:
My guy, u are the one dating her so I believe for the few period u have known her u can tell ur self if she's worth giving ur keys to ur apartment or not. And I believe u already know where she lives.

squats with a room mate.

Tell her you lost the spare, unless she has seen it already. But never make the mistake of letting her have that right. Taking it back will be war.

husband scarce na...she's only trying to book a space in life. Give her but when any misunderstanding or u get tired of her, change d key lock immediately.

Valro:
Tell her you lost the spare, unless she has seen it already. But never make the mistake of letting her have that right. Taking it back will be war.

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She knows I have spares.

EmekaBlue:
husband scarce na...she's only trying to book a space in life. Give her but when any misunderstanding or u get tired of her, change d key lock immediately.

I don't like the idea of living with her,or her coming to my place anytime she likes.

Whitewolf8:
I don't like the idea of living with her,or her coming to my place anytime she likes.

then u r in trouble, its either u manage d situation and get used to it but if u cant,get rid of her as in break her heart

just a month? be very careful

this one na plan work, she's too fast

lilmax:
just a month? be very careful
this one na plan work, she's too fast

that's my thoughts too

U can give it to people u trust around the nebohood, so she can go get it there anytime she comes, with the excuse that u usually forget ur own personal keys at work... Just play forgetful sometimes.

Whitewolf8:
that's my thoughts too

Lol. She's just rushing like that cos she's squatting with a friend. If your mind ain't in it, tell her No nicely.

Besides what stops u from telling her not to do home chores for u?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol. She's just rushing like that cos she's squatting with a friend. If your mind ain't in it, tell her No nicely.

Besides what stops u from telling her not to do home chores for u?

most times my busy work schedule don't allow me to do chores..so I appreciate the help n I can't turn it down

Just Tell Her You Not Ready For Couples Life,She Can Be A DistracTIOn, Prevention Is Better Than Cure, No Come Here Later Come De Tell Us Say You Give Am BellE. And No Be Say Na She You Wan MarRY Or Na She?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol. She's just rushing like that cos she's squatting with a friend. If your mind ain't in it, tell her No nicely.

Besides what stops u from telling her not to do home chores for u?

Abi?

Stop playing that nice guy thing. Be straightforward with her

waleyp:
Just Tell Her You Not Ready For Couples Life,She Can Be A DistracTIOn, Prevention Is Better Than Cure, No Come Here Later Come De Tell Us Say You Give Am BellE. And No Be Say Na She You Wan MarRY Or Na She?

I never de reason marriage now bros, I wan make the money first .

Newboss:
Abi?

Stop playing that nice guy thing. Be straightforward with her

Yea I want to...but I'm looking for a nice way to do it,because so far ,I think she's a nice person .

Don't offer a key unless you are 100 percent confident in your decision

Worst case scenario. You come home to an empty place with only a single blank yellow post-it on the door.

Only if you're committed to marrying and staying faithful to her. Otherwise get ready to take pictures of how she destroyed your apartment on just a hint of promiscuity.

Whitewolf8:
Yea I want to...but I'm looking for a nice way to do it,because so far ,I think she's a nice person .

Don't be nice with girls. If the case comes up again, just tell her no that you won't do that. If she ask why, tell her you don't want that. She'd respect you more for not being a doormat.

Whitewolf8:
most times my busy work schedule don't allow me to do chores..so I appreciate the help n I can't turn it down

So y mentioning it here and painting her as one desperate chick? Abeg give her keys so she can relax in her boyfriend's house away from roommate when she wanna.

You are an introvert and so? Won't u marry one day?

Earthbound:
Only if you're committed to marrying and staying faithful to her. Otherwise get ready to take pictures of how she destroyed your apartment on just a hint of promiscuity.

Women re just difficult to understand atyms, why would she do that when we re not engaged or married .

IamLucy:
Worst case scenario. You come home to an empty place with only a single blank yellow post-it on the door.

Lol...I doubt if she can do that.

Newboss:
Don't be nice with girls. If the case comes up again, just tell her no that you won't do that. If she ask why, tell her you don't want that. She'd respect you more for not being a doormat.

I wish I can be this Mean. lol

Bro don't start what you can't complete.