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Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by noble71(m): 8:55am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Whitewolf8: To be honest with you, you have got yourself a wife. You won't even know when she will move in fully. 1 Like |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by TheKingIsHere: 8:59am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Whitewolf8: Don't try it if you love your life. Women are very deceitful and dangerous |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by suaveBrother(m): 9:00am On Jan 21, 2019 |
...have you heard "Mona Lisa" by lil Wayne? |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Hollasmall: 9:00am On Jan 21, 2019 |
ogbonti: 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Daeylar(f): 9:07am On Jan 21, 2019 |
cococandy: I didn't even read this part of the thread. I hate guys like op. Manipulative assholes. See how he tried to make himself look like a helpless innocent "nice" guy who has problems setting boundaries and who is being taken advantage of by this pushy overbearing desperate girl. Why did he hide the information that he has been having sex with her in the thread? why didn't he put it in the op? Now wonder she feels like they are moving towards marriage and feels comfortable enough to ask for a key, She is sleeping with him. Cleaning for him and they are cooking together, but op wants to act like he had no hand in this happening and he doesn't know why she is acting like this. That's why women have little patience for these so called "nice" guys, manipulative A**holes. Users, All of them. He is just asking what he will tell her to ensure that she keeps doing chores and sleeping with him even though he refuses to give her the key. This one he is pretending that he and his girl have known each other for barely a month. If you check well now you'll find that they have been together for up to 6 months. These so called nice guys Mtchewww It's even a new moniker 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by noble71(m): 9:11am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: One bottle of red wine for you. The babe is desperate cus she is not comfortable with her roommate. |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Lexusgs430: 9:13am On Jan 21, 2019 |
noble71: No BBQ chops + Cherry juice to mix this Chateau Sirac?..... |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 9:13am On Jan 21, 2019 |
I really hate it when people don't define their relationship. If you are just dating her for sex and house maid chores, let her know straight up. It appears you don't really like her especially now that she is clingy. If you were smitten over a proud lady that knows her worth, you will be begging her to take your keys. But she will never. And by the time it dawns on her that you are irresponsible, she will leave and never return for someone worthy. I trust the kind of daughter I birth in the future. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by noble71(m): 9:23am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Lexusgs430:All this once de cause quick ejaculation. You be man nah you don't need it. |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 9:28am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Baba don't do it . that's how they start all nice and all. |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 9:35am On Jan 21, 2019 |
My dear leave manupilative talk first. so the fact that I am in a relationship with a girl that bleeps me,cooks and cleans for me does that automatically mean she must move in with me? Na wah Daeylar: |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by IRALIFE(f): 9:35am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Whitewolf8: You can't turn it down or you won't turn it down? Sincerely, you are considering only yourself. You should turn it down and pay someone to do your chores. Then she would get the message that you want to take things slowly. Your acceptance to her shows commitment as her doing them depicts same. That is why she is requesting for spares. 1 Like |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by IRALIFE(f): 9:42am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Ladies abeg, respect yourselves... give yourselves some dignity. Doing chores will not make a man love you or be more committed to you. If he loves you enough to want to spend the rest of his life with you, he will do so even though you don't take up doing chores. Stop being desperate. You carry so much greatness in you and should not sell yourself short. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 9:47am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Lol IRALIFE: 1 Like |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Whitewolf8: My gf of close to three years asked to keep a spare key to my room recently, I didn't agree, told her I will give her when it is time. Regards, |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by 19grigri: 10:02am On Jan 21, 2019 |
optimusprime2: Brotherly This your Cough go kee you o 4 Likes |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Lexusgs430: 10:06am On Jan 21, 2019 |
noble71: Quick ejaculation? Who delayed ejaculation epp? 58 seconds is more than enough, when no be say I wan build on top am............ |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 10:06am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Whitewolf8:ooh, i now see. Generally, we all like the comfortable life. From what I understand here she may just need somewhere more comfortable. U bet spending more time in your place means more comfort to her than squatting with a room mate |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by noble71(m): 10:11am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Lexusgs430:58 seconds? Oh man you need delayed ejaculation to practice different styles and satisfy your woman. |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Lexusgs430: 10:13am On Jan 21, 2019 |
noble71: Leave satisfaction, not all ladies require penetrative cassava to cum........ Give her 20 minutes of fore.play and chop the remaining 58 seconds....... QED..... 4 Likes |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by mechanics(m): 10:20am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Jayslicky:hahahaha. |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by mechanics(m): 10:22am On Jan 21, 2019 |
After you have given her the keys, she will make your house her new home and if anything bad happens to her, her people won't take it lightly with you. |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by UyiIredia(m): 10:26am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Lemme just dissect this. The OP got a babe he sexes and she cooks and cleans for him. He's worried she acts all familiar with him when they have been intimately familiar. He's worried she wants to move in when that's no new thing; strangers move in and nothing bad happens. Family and friends can move in and wahala starts so I don't buy the hysteria people here have. Someone you've been having sex with for a month is no stranger except all that sex came without talking to know yourselves better. Things like your goals, beliefs, interests, your character, finances etc. Absent that you have a 'friend' with benefits and I can understand you not wanting her in. She needs to know you better and vice-versa. But if you guys have been talking on that level which I doubt then you should know more than enough to judge whether she can stay with you or not or you give it time. I would suggest in such a case if you are okay with what you see, let her. If she gives you the sex and you aren't complaining and you like her cooking and cleaning bro I no know wetin you want again o cause many men are looking for that kind of wife. But she's acting all familiar? Sha sha not when una dey Bleep. Okay take style talk to her about your concern. If she likes you then it's no biggie. If she reacts negatively then you probably played smart not immediately granting her request. |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Whitewolf8:look @ things this way. she may pose tendencies which suggests that she's despirate but you, You can't eat your cake and still have it. Unless you're not comfortable having her do the chores, cook and having S3x. From the very first day you allowed her do the chores, cook and even sex then you must begin to take responsibilities. Everything na sense, we all can't tell you what's right for you. Know what you want and go for it |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by luluosas(m): 10:39am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Have you ever had carnal sex with her? Whitewolf8: |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Nobody: 10:40am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Omo girl they bleep me well, clean my full 3 bedroom flat steady, do all chores etc. I never once drop my spare key. I don't fail at my duties as a caring boyfriend. My point is the fact that you bleep yourselves and she does yr house chores can not be the only reason you would decide to drop yr spare keys for her. Forget the rubbish people the write on this thread abeg. Last last you are the man in the relationship do what you think is right. 1 Like |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by busayo2uk: 10:48am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Then dont give her your key except you want to commit to marry her. Having your key takes away ur independence. Whitewolf8: |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by busayo2uk: 10:50am On Jan 21, 2019 |
She will collect it and never return it to those people. it has happened to me before. miguel4suee: 1 Like |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by BigIyanga: 11:02am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Daeylar:Typical Naija sex transactional relationship.. so if sex is mutually involved, she deserves to have a spare to his house?? |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by elonize(m): 11:12am On Jan 21, 2019 |
royalair:;Dy always bra or pant first |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by elonize(m): 11:12am On Jan 21, 2019 |
busayo2uk: |
Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by elonize(m): 11:15am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Looking at it sha, she's too fast like flash,be careful, I will never give a girl my spare key nobi evrytime person go dey gum guy like chewin gum |
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