Whitewolf8:



I don't Bleep her..we have sex, which is mutual,we both enjoy it. I don't joke with my space at all, else I will lose my mind.

Whitewolf8:
We've only known each other barely a month, but she acts and behaves like we've known for years, Cooks, cleans, etc acting like we are about getting married when I obviously didn't say anything about commitment to her ....

Now she wants to have a spare to my apartment so she wouldn't have to be calling Me for keys anymore...

Thing is I'm an introvert and I love having my space sometimes, how do I decline her request without making her feel untrusted or rejected?? or do you think I should give her??

ogbonti:



Stop, you can never make the kinda money you want or target before u maar, never make a mistake of wasting your life


If you love her, tell her to wait a bit, that maybe u want to pass a certificaton all that ,

Once you are sure of her ways, marry her fast my brother, time wasted in life van never be reclaimed


Now to answer your question, tell her some if your things have been missing really entry before u met her and you are suspecting the caretaker of the house, so if you share a key with her, u can't verify your investigation as she automatically becomes part of your investigation and you don't want that for now backseat you want to catch him red handed..

Omo, she go thank her God say she no getime your key, she will never ask you again

Thank me later

cococandy:
You don’t joke with your space but you joke with your peniis.

One month and you’re already having sex. What did you tell her that got her so relaxed to have sex with you in less than a month. To the point of doing your other chores for you. Some of you guys think you’re smart. You want a wife without the responsibilities and also want the freedom to sleep around. I’ll bet my shoes that’s why you don’t want her having the keys. So she won’t walk in on you with someone else.

Why not be a responsible human being and tell her the truth about how you feel concerning the relationship.
And keep your peniis in your pant if you’re so concerned about not getting serious.

Hypocrite.

Lexusgs430:



Love don dey shack you......... Tell her it's stated on your contract not to give anyone a spare key.......

If you give her that key, you are packed, parked, sealed and delivered.............

noble71:


One bottle of red wine for you. The babe is desperate cus she is not comfortable with her roommate.

Lexusgs430:


No BBQ chops + Cherry juice to mix this Chateau Sirac?.....

Daeylar:


I didn't even read this part of the thread.

I hate guys like op.
Manipulative assholes.
See how he tried to make himself look like a helpless innocent "nice" guy who has problems setting boundaries and who is being taken advantage of by this pushy overbearing desperate girl.

Why did he hide the information that he has been having sex with her in the thread? why didn't he put it in the op?

Now wonder she feels like they are moving towards marriage. She is sleeping with him. Cleaning for him and they are cooking together, but op wants to act like he had no hand in this happening and he doesn't know why she is acting like this.

That's why women have little patience for these so called "nice" guys, manipulative A**holes. Users, All of them.

He is just asking what he will tell her to ensure that she keeps doing chores and sleeping with him even though he refuses to give her the key.

This one he is pretending that he and his girl have known each other for barely a month. If you check well now you'll find that they have been together for up to 6 months.

These so called nice guys
Mtchewww


It's even a new moniker

Whitewolf8:





most times my busy work schedule don't allow me to do chores..so I appreciate the help n I can't turn it down

IRALIFE:
Ladies abeg, respect yourselves... give yourselves some dignity. Doing chores will not make a man love you or be more committed to you. If he loves you enough to want to spend the rest of his life with you, he will do so even though you don't take up doing chores. Stop being desperate. You carry so much greatness in you and should not sell yourself short.

Whitewolf8:




I wish I can be this Mean. lol

optimusprime2:
As *coughs* is part of the matter, it gets complicated...
All the *coughs* for the past one month especially during the festive periods certainly deserve the house key...

Perhaps it was 4 *coughs* a day, 50 *coughs* a week? Who knows, some people *coughs* like animals ... and one has to eat well to sustain the *coughs* and she was certainly the one cooking for before and after *coughs* I think she deserves the key...

You may be an introvert as you described, but all that talk that you keep inside, most definitely could have been unleashed during *coughs* who knows how you dealt with her during *coughs* guy, maybe you may have slackened her mechanism, fractured her gondola or pulverized her anatomy because of the psychotic blasts of introverted energy she has to deal with during *coughs* and she needs a place to recuperate-even Footballers rest after injuries... I think she deserves the key.

With the high rate at which pant thefts are on the rise, maybe due to savage ninjitsu techniques during *coughs* she forgets them at your place and she needs to start monitoring her pants, who knows? Maybe some techniques fling her pants right out the window, bros you never know?there has to be pant supervision during *coughs*... so once again, she needs to start monitoring her pants, with your place being a reference point... brov, her safety is a priority too, so for her pants sakes, I think she deserves the key.

Then again due to the fact that she may have become addicted to *coughs* because you may have a good schlong, I think she deserves the key, after all, you showed her your schlong. Nobody sent you to show her the schlong, so now she needs unlimited access please brov, don't deny her... She deserves the key.

With the following points of mine, I hope I have been able to convince you to give her the key for *coughs* sake.

After all no body knows how you have been enjoying *coughs* and other *coughs* benefits... imagine must of us during the cold periods drink hot water and sleep, but you no, you had hot *coughs* ...
it's when you now see she is setting a strategy to ensure *coughs* ain't free no more, you came for help... Guy take time o.

noble71:

All this once de cause quick ejaculation. You be man nah you don't need it.

Whitewolf8:




squats with a room mate.

Lexusgs430:


Quick ejaculation? Who delayed ejaculation epp? 58 seconds is more than enough, when no be say I wan build on top am............

noble71:

58 seconds? Oh man you need delayed ejaculation to practice different styles and satisfy your woman.

Jayslicky:
Abort mission!!! I repeat it again abort mission!!!, to avoid story of how all my properties was sold by my girlfriend.

Whitewolf8:
We've only known each other barely a month, but she acts and behaves like we've known for years, Cooks, cleans, etc acting like we are about getting married when I obviously didn't say anything about commitment to her ....

Now she wants to have a spare to my apartment so she wouldn't have to be calling Me for keys anymore...

Thing is I'm an introvert and I love having my space sometimes, how do I decline her request without making her feel untrusted or rejected?? or do you think I should give her??

Whitewolf8:
We've only known each other barely a month, but she acts and behaves like we've known for years, Cooks, cleans, etc acting like we are about getting married when I obviously didn't say anything about commitment to her ....

Now she wants to have a spare to my apartment so she wouldn't have to be calling Me for keys anymore...

Thing is I'm an introvert and I love having my space sometimes, how do I decline her request without making her feel untrusted or rejected?? or do you think I should give her??

Whitewolf8:




I don't like the idea of living with her,or her coming to my place anytime she likes.

miguel4suee:
U can give it to people u trust around the nebohood, so she can go get it there anytime she comes, with the excuse that u usually forget ur own personal keys at work... Just play forgetful sometimes.

Daeylar:


I didn't even read this part of the thread.

I hate guys like op.
Manipulative assholes.
See how he tried to make himself look like a helpless innocent "nice" guy who has problems setting boundaries and who is being taken advantage of by this pushy overbearing desperate girl.

Why did he hide the information that he has been having sex with her in the thread? why didn't he put it in the op?

Now wonder she feels like they are moving towards marriage and feels comfortable enough to ask for a key, She is sleeping with him. Cleaning for him and they are cooking together, but op wants to act like he had no hand in this happening and he doesn't know why she is acting like this.

That's why women have little patience for these so called "nice" guys, manipulative A**holes. Users, All of them.

He is just asking what he will tell her to ensure that she keeps doing chores and sleeping with him even though he refuses to give her the key.

This one he is pretending that he and his girl have known each other for barely a month. If you check well now you'll find that they have been together for up to 6 months.

These so called nice guys
Mtchewww


It's even a new moniker

royalair:
Op run run run I repeat again run run. My ex did the same thing. First she dropped her bra, next she dropped her clothes she recovered from the dry cleaners, na so she begin d drop small small things before I knew it she invited her cousin over without telling me. before I knew it I turned a family man without knowing. Run run run run

busayo2uk:

She will collect it and never return it to those people. it has happened to me before.