guy you need advice on how to deal with your stupidity, nangsense!

okayyyyy

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault) [/quote]

The relationship is very healthy for you, continue you hear. Just listen to the kind yeye question where this one dey ask. You need crowd flogging I swear!

lmao

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be coming home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.

Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

But why are our "modern" men so weak.

Nijanija:

Like seriously, Bros I think u are right........I just want to know what could have gone wrong .

When everything that could go wrong has already gone wrong right before your eyes...some boys sha.

Bia, OP. It is too early in the morning to start laughing. It seems as if you’ve eaten the bearded meat and now you’re hooked or you’re living off this woman who obviously is feeding you from the proceeds she’s getting off other men. That’s the only reason why you don’t want to let go of a farm implement.

Since you need clarification despite the glaring obviousness, let me educate you.

*She’s still stuck on her ex.

* I’ve never seen any tradition where a person buries the dead in the presence of their ex’s relatives

* Her ex is looking forward to chopping the bearded meat one more time

* As I type this, he is picking his teeth after chopping said bearded meat while you lament like a player of Dundee United on Nairaland.

With this fee points of mine, I hope you’re convinced and not confused that you have been played like a Sony audio cassette.

Tank sah

Nijanija:

@ madridguy , we are not full knowledge and neither are void of mistake . This happens for a purpose that's why I seek for you people 's opinion on this . She is that kind of lady who will help out each time she pays me a visit . She will do the cleaning and all sought of things u can ever imagine a lady will do . She never gave me headache for once not until the guy came back .

Ladies are perfect pretenders, sebi now her true colors don show, you even call her a stubborn girlfriend

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be coming home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.

Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

Every relationship be it business, platonic or romantic is built on mutual respect and loyalty. Your relationship lacks both, it's bad enough that your lady is talking to an ex n it is worse that the ex is married. Every real man will walk away we don't have the stomach for drama, life is too short for it.

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be q home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.


Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

This is where your problem started. I am sorry, I cant help you. Some things should not be allowed in the name of love, or anything else. To her you re not man enough.

Can't you see that she is taking you for a ride?
She is certainly not your God-approved wife.

LET HER GO.

ain't no b*itch, dead or alive try such with me!

#BITTER TRUTH she's using you as a rebound!

LET GO!

madridguy:
@ OP are you for real or just open this thread for opening sake?
Your GF is meeting with a man and you still consider her your GF? Are you sure you're sound health wise? I don't think so.

thumbs up...

ok, may be they are just together for two weeks and they dont have sex. I cant cope with such an arrangement.

LegitGirl:


I don't get it. You're asking if being in a relationship with a cheat is healthy?

You're asking if being in a relationship with someone running after another person's husband is healthy?

The guy na oponu

Oga u don't need an advise, what u need is a slap to c if your brain will reset

Pray 4 her 2 change

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be coming home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.

Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

You may need to read what you wrote wholeheartedly. You mean your girlfriend went to see her ex who happens to be a married man, and has been with him for 2 weeks plus?

Do you still need advice after my first paragraph above?

Nijanija:

Telling her am done and don't want us to see each other again is what I'm really battling with . She wont tell me as she is doing this just to let me go

don't tell her anything just cut off contact with her because if you tell her she would look for defences that would make you accept her.

madridguy:
@ OP are you for real or just open this thread for opening sake?
Your GF is meeting with a man and you still consider her your GF? Are you sure you're sound health wise? I don't think so.

God bless you man! Although you're a supporter of the lifeless one, but for this precise thread, jahbless you man.

The op is mentally dilapidated and needs help asap before it leads to lobotomy. Imagine his useless and deranged question.

Donjazzy12:

I am crying with so much deep pain in my heart right now! OMG! Is this how stupid, idiotic and silly young men of nowadays have become? God have mercy.

I see women taking over every aspect of leadership very soon, young men of nowadays are totally worthless and completely useless!

See the kind of question an educated young man is asking! My dear, I don't want to say that you are cursed with foolishness but I am so tempted! How can you consider a woman who bleeps a married man your lady? Are you cursed?

My dear cut off your dick and hand it over to bobrisky! We have donated you wholeheartedly to the women because you are completely useless to us!

Idiot! Will you dump that woman ASAP before Amadioja kills you!

You deserve a presidential handshake for this.

KevMitnick:
My friend you better send her away from your life before you die of hbp or you end up doing the unthinkable to her. The earlier you do the better. She knows you won't leave her that's why she does it. Surprise her.

Lol bro ur head z dia..
Surprised mine a week ago
She couldn't bliv I'll leave hr
Bt my mind z made up
Since den my fone kips buzzing with
hr calls nd abeg msgs
Am single nd will only date again
wen am ready to settle down..
I can't tolerate a disrespectful lady..
Instead of u bugging my life, i just lay you off..
Simple
I make my money legit nd u come de do
iyanga fr me ??
It can't work naw.

madridguy:
@ OP are you for real or just open this thread for opening sake?
Your GF is meeting with a man and you still consider her your GF? Are you sure you're sound health wise? I don't think so.

Its like the lady they apply honey for her kpekus, na itake the opp no knw how to let go

No, you're just plying a toxic relationship train that is unfortunately headed no where. I know you love your girl really deep; proly thinking she might come around. Are you scared of what heartbreak might caused you whenever you see her on the social platform whilst stalking her ? Hmm... Don't you think it's hightime you dealt with your worst nightmare now than later. Now lemme teach how real men break up without feeling much pain - DON'T tell her you're done with her; cos if you do, her response will surely bring you pain.... Break up with her from your end ONLY and leave her to keep guessing if you're in the relationship with her or not - Don't call; don't text... Even if she calls or text; don't pick up; don't busy her call, don't reply her texts - Cut all attentions both on air and physical. Add this to the tips; after exercising the above tips, she'll try to locate your home to know your mind when you've not been picking her calls or replying her text - let it be the time you should be heading somewhere and you wanna lock your door OR attend to her outside your home stating the fact that you don't entertain strangers in your home - Don't let her fool you crocodile tears, cos you should be expecting some............................... Lets see who the Boss is!


NOTE: Never allow your hastiness take over your cool to achieve this - just sit back, grab some pop corn, relax your mind then watch as the scene unfolds. Note my monicker; HolyTitus and share with me the testimony...

Offpoint:
Someone advice some people seek on the internet makes me wonder what happened to common sense.
There are some I see I'll feel like locating them and unleash a lifetime beating into their lives.
Op sorry to say... "your mununess na imported one, it can't be the local ones I see everyday"

The way I'm seeing, that fella will visit her someday in your house and you'll excuse them.
SEÜN NAIRALAND NEEDS A SLAP BUTTON

Samsung Galaxy S5 US used available for sale. 40k, negotiable

lol take it easy on him guy he's being childish..he's no experience peradventure his 1st relationship ever

just ignore her for three months. no talk, no call . she will wort nothing.

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Thnks my bother [/quote be saying thanks up and down like someone begging for alms. Don't go and use your tongue to count your teeth. You're not the boyfriend, you're just a sidekick. Cos she cooks, clean do blablabla... Does that make one a wife material/good lady? With all the women in this land, you're there killing yourself for one cheap hole. Shows for sure you're not street-smart, cos if youre , you won't be asking us this goddamned question. ]

Nijanija:

@ madridguy , we are not full knowledge and neither are void of mistake . This happens for a purpose that's why I seek for you people 's opinion on this . She is that kind of lady who will help out each time she pays me a visit . She will do the cleaning and all sought of things u can ever imagine a lady will do . She never gave me headache for once not until the guy came back .

Kill the guy since he's your only problem.