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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Feb 05, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Don't worry, Tomorrow we shall know what's up....
Alright smiley
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:49pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:


The nigga sabi!!!
I sweargringrin
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 05, 2019
Lalasticlala, seun kindly take down this thread.

My linen is clean and dried now.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 7:51pm On Feb 05, 2019
Fear guys,
Fear Nairaland guys more.

The ones from Romance section, when you see their PMs... flee.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:52pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Best u don't draw conclusions on matters u know nothing about. What's so bad in seeing someone you've been chatting with since December in February? I think me asking him to assist in the Tfare was just God's way of letting me know who I was dealing with.

I never flipped, instead I gave him reasons y I initially asked for assistance but for him not to worry cause I got an unexpected cash. But this wicked soul refused. I don't know d lies he dished out o but I'm over it all.


Do you know instead of cheap whatsapp for correspondence this idiot made us communicate with SMS? I swear I called and sent SMS to this ungrateful bastard worth more than 10k between December and yesterday and I never asked him for airtime.

Yigiyaga I knew you to be a wicked soul the day I told u had no airtime reason for my not calling and next thing an unknown Number sent Me a Used Card. I never Begged you for Shit.

I have deleted your number and messages and please desist from messaging me. Why d heck did u message me just now?

Kindly leave the local, broke runs gal alone OK. I've been surviving on my own and will continue to do so.

Wait, let me get his straight, you only communicated through calls and SMS, do you even know how he looks like Did you do video calls I hope you did cos pictures alone can be deceiving and if you didnt, something is wrong with you, why will you want to travel to see someone like that Who suggested the sms, calls thing undecided

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Forzap: 7:52pm On Feb 05, 2019
awon tfare association crew above^^^




thought you girls on here got class,to PM sef dey fear me not knowing that your broke AF!! na to rant and form feminist una sabi undecided undecided

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 7:52pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Best u don't draw conclusions on matters u know nothing about. What's so bad in seeing someone you've been chatting with since December in February? I think me asking him to assist in the Tfare was just God's way of letting me know who I was dealing with.

I never flipped, instead I gave him reasons y I initially asked for assistance but for him not to worry cause I got an unexpected cash. But this wicked soul refused. I don't know d lies he dished out o but I'm over it all.


Do you know instead of cheap whatsapp for correspondence this idiot made us communicate with SMS? I swear I called and sent SMS to this ungrateful bastard worth more than 10k between December and yesterday and I never asked him for airtime.

Yigiyaga I knew you to be a wicked soul the day I told u had no airtime reason for my not calling and next thing an unknown Number sent Me a Used Card. I never Begged you for Shit.

I have deleted your number and messages and please desist from messaging me. Why d heck did u message me just now?

Kindly leave the local, broke runs gal alone OK. I've been surviving on my own and will continue to do so.
Another mistake spotted. Babe you need to pm me let me give you relationship coaching, you shouldn't have spent 10k on someone you have not met and not sure, you would have insisted on the WhatsApp
Seriously, he should ThankGod he didn't meet someone like me, he go humble by force. I dont take shite from nobody.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:54pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lalasticlala, seun kindly take down this thread.

My linen is clean and dried now.


Please don't let him do that yet, let other ladies learn from this.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Feb 05, 2019
sacx:


Okay I will.

I've read through many comments on this thread and have decoded some personalities. Based on the understanding of who you are, I think the Nwa girl moved too fast which made you suspicious. By your personality, you value rationality over emotionality. And also, being a sensitive person yourself, you saw the act as one that seeks to play on your emotions.

What you saw may or may not have been real, but your perception holds it valid. That's what matters to you.

My opinion on this is that you lower your expectations of people just a little, as they may not meet up to your standard a little. Also, I don't know for how long you've been divorced, but I think you're still hurting from your past failed relationship which has further heightened your suspicions.

I think you should take time to heal, and also give a little room to trust people; but that must not be at the expense of rationality. Lastly, you can shut the door on this thread and refrain from granting further public audience on this issue.

My regards.
Advice taken. I respect ur intelligence. #truefan

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:56pm On Feb 05, 2019
pocohantas:
Fear guys,
Fear Nairaland guys more.

The ones from Romance section, when you see their PMs.. flee.

PM senders, una well-donegringrin....
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Feb 05, 2019
lalasticlala:


The thread made FP in the morning
My First in History
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by luminouz(m): 7:57pm On Feb 05, 2019
I learnt a lot here today..
1. Emotional women make mistakes...
OP had a brush off offline and she posted game online to soothe her shattered ego,nerves,prestige...and it looked good till yogoyigi replied and the shiit hit the fan!! If she had kept mum with her so-called relationship advice,no one would know she was dumped.
I just wonder how come most women become relationship counselors,dishing out solomonic wisdom right after getting dumped..why can't they be wise before??

2. Women are their own worst enemies:
This thread reminded me again of that saying 'all is fair in love and war'.. Women are only seasonal allies..never agreeing on stuff for too long. A woman wanted to pm yogoyaga and suddenly other ladies with skewed intent wanted her roasted alive! Even heard that one of her so called enemies went to the Guy's thread for PM admission letter...so long women exhibit these traits,their game ain't that tight!!

3. By their rants we shall know their GAME!!
I never heard this before sha...girls screaming for tfare so they can visit a guy,cuz apparently the guy is 'entitled' to that duty,yet these same dames want equality with men and u wonder WTF do they even want If ur broke I get the tfare aspect but one girl went all out to describe in details her mechanisms for roping men in for tfare and some even use these methods to scam men of money. I noted these monikers and I wonder if they are married at all or they think their mindset is cute. Whatever happened to using ur money to travel if you really wanna see a guy,if you have it!!! Whatever happened to being independent like u always screamed on SM??

4. MEN GOING THERE WAY
my niggas ain't got time for drama...these guys share stories and learn from shared experiences because that's all related Gees do,not bicker and chitter like engorged crickets cuz women are fighting, some sissy ass niggas dey chose sides and went on throwing banters at the women claiming nice guys!!! Lmaoooo... Real men let the women do their thing and focus on their hustle!

Still me,still observing from the sidelines,the bestest thread of the year!
Luminouz d'Alien!!!

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Another mistake spotted. Babe you need to pm me let me give you relationship coaching, you shouldn't have spent 10k on someone you have not met and not sure, you would have insisted on the WhatsApp
Seriously, he should ThankGod he didn't meet someone like me, he go humble by force. I dont take shite from nobody.
Its disheartening.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 05, 2019
it seems NL romance section is doomed

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:02pm On Feb 05, 2019
schumastic:


Must you generalise? It's unnecessary please.

I didn't say "all", though majority of them are like that. Talk too much.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:
I learnt a lot here today..
1. Emotional women make mistakes...
OP had a brush off offline and she posted game online to soothe her shattered ego,nerves,prestige...and it looked good till yogoyigi replied and the shiit hit the fan!! If she had kept mum with her so-called relationship advice,no one would know she was dumped.
I just wonder how come most women become relationship counselors,dishing out solomonic wisdom right after getting dumped..why can't they be wise before??

2. Women are their own worst enemies:
This thread reminded me again of that saying 'all is fair in love and war'.. Women are only seasonal allies..never agreeing on stuff for too long. A woman wanted to pm yogoyaga and suddenly other ladies with skewed intent wanted her roasted alive! Even heard that one of her so called enemies went to the Guy's thread for PM admission letter...so long women exhibit these traits,their game ain't that tight!!
3. By their rants we shall know their GAME!!
I never heard this before sha...girls screaming for tfare so they can visit a guy,cuz apparently the guy is 'entitled' to that duty,yet these same dames want equality with men and u wonder WTF do they even want If ur broke I get the tfare aspect but one girl went all out to describe in details her mechanisms for roping men in for tfare and some even use these methods to scam men of money. I noted these monikers and I wonder if they are married at all or they think their mindset is cute. Whatever happened to using ur money to travel if you really wanna see a guy,if you have it!!! Whatever happened to being independent like u always screamed on SM??
4. MEN GOING THERE WAY
my niggas ain't got time for drama...these guys share stories and learn from shared experiences because that's all related GS do,not bicker and chitter like engorged crickets cuz women are fighting, some sissy ass niggas dey chose sides and went on throwing banters at the women claiming nice guys!!! Lmaoooo... Real men let the women do their thing and focus on their hustle!

Still me,still observing from the sidelines,the bestest thread of the year!
Luminouz d'Alien!!!
At number 3) if e pain you too much, go hit your head for wall, I should spend big money to come and see a man I'm not sure of or have not seen before, what is he? Jesus?

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:
I learnt a lot here today..
1. Emotional women make mistakes...
OP had a brush off offline and she posted game online to soothe her shattered ego,nerves,prestige...and it looked good till yogoyigi replied and the shiit hit the fan!! If she had kept mum with her so-called relationship advice,no one would know she was dumped.
I just wonder how come most women become relationship counselors,dishing out solomonic wisdom right after getting dumped..why can't they be wise before??

2. Women are their own worst enemies:
This thread reminded me again of that saying 'all is fair in love and war'.. Women are only seasonal allies..never agreeing on stuff for too long. A woman wanted to pm yogoyaga and suddenly other ladies with skewed intent wanted her roasted alive! Even heard that one of her so called enemies went to the Guy's thread for PM admission letter...so long women exhibit these traits,their game ain't that tight!!
3. By their rants we shall know their GAME!!
I never heard this before sha...girls screaming for tfare so they can visit a guy,cuz apparently the guy is 'entitled' to that duty,yet these same dames want equality with men and u wonder WTF do they even want If ur broke I get the tfare aspect but one girl went all out to describe in details her mechanisms for roping men in for tfare and some even use these methods to scam men of money. I noted these monikers and I wonder if they are married at all or they think their mindset is cute. Whatever happened to using ur money to travel if you really wanna see a guy,if you have it!!! Whatever happened to being independent like u always screamed on SM??
4. MEN GOING THERE WAY
my niggas ain't got time for drama...these guys share stories and learn from shared experiences because that's all related GS do,not bicker and chitter like engorged crickets cuz women are fighting, some sissy ass niggas dey chose sides and went on throwing banters at the women claiming nice guys!!! Lmaoooo... Real men let the women do their thing and focus on their hustle!

Still me,still observing from the sidelines,the bestest thread of the year!
Luminouz d'Alien!!!


you are so correct. women never learn, do not do your dirty linen online, if you dont like it, sort out ways for it to work or move on.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:04pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:
I learnt a lot here today..
1. Emotional women make mistakes...
OP had a brush off offline and she posted game online to soothe her shattered ego,nerves,prestige...and it looked good till yogoyigi replied and the shiit hit the fan!! If she had kept mum with her so-called relationship advice,no one would know she was dumped.
I just wonder how come most women become relationship counselors,dishing out solomonic wisdom right after getting dumped..why can't they be wise before??

2. Women are their own worst enemies:
This thread reminded me again of that saying 'all is fair in love and war'.. Women are only seasonal allies..never agreeing on stuff for too long. A woman wanted to pm yogoyaga and suddenly other ladies with skewed intent wanted her roasted alive! Even heard that one of her so called enemies went to the Guy's thread for PM admission letter...so long women exhibit these traits,their game ain't that tight!!
3. By their rants we shall know their GAME!!
I never heard this before sha...girls screaming for tfare so they can visit a guy,cuz apparently the guy is 'entitled' to that duty,yet these same dames want equality with men and u wonder WTF do they even want If ur broke I get the tfare aspect but one girl went all out to describe in details her mechanisms for roping men in for tfare and some even use these methods to scam men of money. I noted these monikers and I wonder if they are married at all or they think their mindset is cute. Whatever happened to using ur money to travel if you really wanna see a guy,if you have it!!! Whatever happened to being independent like u always screamed on SM??
4. MEN GOING THERE WAY
my niggas ain't got time for drama...these guys share stories and learn from shared experiences because that's all related GS do,not bicker and chitter like engorged crickets cuz women are fighting, some sissy ass niggas dey chose sides and went on throwing banters at the women claiming nice guys!!! Lmaoooo... Real men let the women do their thing and focus on their hustle!

Still me,still observing from the sidelines,the bestest thread of the year!
Luminouz d'Alien!!!
LMAO.... cheesycheesycheesy

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:
I learnt a lot here today..
1. Emotional women make mistakes...
OP had a brush off offline and she posted game online to soothe her shattered ego,nerves,prestige...and it looked good till yogoyigi replied and the shiit hit the fan!! If she had kept mum with her so-called relationship advice,no one would know she was dumped.
I just wonder how come most women become relationship counselors,dishing out solomonic wisdom right after getting dumped..why can't they be wise before??

2. Women are their own worst enemies:
This thread reminded me again of that saying 'all is fair in love and war'.. Women are only seasonal allies..never agreeing on stuff for too long. A woman wanted to pm yogoyaga and suddenly other ladies with skewed intent wanted her roasted alive! Even heard that one of her so called enemies went to the Guy's thread for PM admission letter...so long women exhibit these traits,their game ain't that tight!!
3. By their rants we shall know their GAME!!
I never heard this before sha...girls screaming for tfare so they can visit a guy,cuz apparently the guy is 'entitled' to that duty,yet these same dames want equality with men and u wonder WTF do they even want If ur broke I get the tfare aspect but one girl went all out to describe in details her mechanisms for roping men in for tfare and some even use these methods to scam men of money. I noted these monikers and I wonder if they are married at all or they think their mindset is cute. Whatever happened to using ur money to travel if you really wanna see a guy,if you have it!!! Whatever happened to being independent like u always screamed on SM??
4. MEN GOING THERE WAY
my niggas ain't got time for drama...these guys share stories and learn from shared experiences because that's all related GS do,not bicker and chitter like engorged crickets cuz women are fighting, some sissy ass niggas dey chose sides and went on throwing banters at the women claiming nice guys!!! Lmaoooo... Real men let the women do their thing and focus on their hustle!

Still me,still observing from the sidelines,the bestest thread of the year!
Luminouz d'Alien!!!
There's no equality when it comes to finance. A neighbor married a jobless man and now she's insulting and frustrating the man. I feel sorry for him. Women are not wired to cater for a man, she can support but not full support.

I never washed my linens in public not until the old man decided to wash it for me. Shouting Break up for everyone.

All this shit ain't new so no biggy. Many here have even bought plane tickets for ladies so please no one should accuse me of gold digging

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by luminouz(m): 8:06pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
At number 2) if e pain you too much, go hit your head for wall, I should spend big money to come and see a man I'm not sure of or have not seen before, what is he? Jesus?
Its number 3 olodo rabata!!
If na tfare now,u get PhD for tfare-onomics!!!

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:07pm On Feb 05, 2019
pocohantas:


grin grin Honestly, pseudo-alpha males are my pass time.

That said, I don't see anything wrong in her spending 10k on calls. We make sacrifices in relationships.
Its normal to spend money on calls but he insisting on communicating with her through text message is pure wickedness, she really gave this guy a chance to misbehave I swear, he smelt marriage desperation and truth be told, from what I have read, she was acting really desperate, which is why the guy could getaway with anything and dictate how the relationship will go, which is also why he got mad when she refused to obey him like a sheep and come to Lagos with her own money, I'm also sure when she reach that Lagos, he will expect her to bring money to feed herself and transport herself home without giving her a dim. I know his type and how to deal with them.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by stephleena(f): 8:07pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Another mistake spotted. Babe you need to pm me let me give you relationship coaching, you shouldn't have spent 10k on someone you have not met and not sure, you would have insisted on the WhatsApp
Seriously, he should ThankGod he didn't meet someone like me, he go humble by force. I dont take shite from nobody.
Toughest of all I hail thee!!!.
No matter how tough a lady might be she's still or was vulnerable at a certain point in her life .
U re lucky u never jam your own...
who go believe say our dearest ninja Linda ikeji, one dude take her head play ludo..but life goes on..the lesson is well learnt .
what's that saying about twice abi na once beaten?
life continues

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:08pm On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
will you hoe just shut d f up and know the basis of d story first!

It is either you are senseless or you sincerely don't have anything upstairs.

Are you insane?
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Feb 05, 2019
stephleena:

Toughest of all I hail thee!!!.
No matter how tough a lady might be she's still or was vulnerable at a certain point in her life .
U re lucky u never jam your own...
who go believe say our dearest ninja Linda ikeji, one dude take her head play ludo..but life goes on..the lesson is well learnt .
what's that saying about twice abi na once beaten?
life continues
My dear, I am not tough, I'm actually a bit emotional, but then I am not desperate, people act different when they are desperate.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:10pm On Feb 05, 2019
stephleena:

Toughest of all I hail thee!!!.
No matter how tough a lady might be she's still or was vulnerable at a certain point in her life .
U re lucky u never jam your own...
who go believe say our dearest ninja Linda ikeji, one dude take her head play ludo..but life goes on..the lesson is well learnt .
what's that saying about twice abi na once beaten?
life continues
lipsrsealedlipsrsealed

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by luminouz(m): 8:10pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
There's no equality when it comes to finance. A neighbor married a jobless man and now she's insulting and frustrating the man. I feel sorry for him. Women are not wired to cater for a man, she can support but not full support.

I never washed my linens in public not until the old man decided to wash it for me. Shouting Break up for everyone.

All this shit ain't new so no biggy. Many here have even bought plane tickets for ladies so please no one should accuse me of gold digging
Babe I get ur point....n sincerely u got heart to post and respond in a mildly controlled manner to this issue...dont get emotional about the whole ishhh....infact,u can pick his calls and come to terms like adults. My humble opinion!

On ur first paragraph....if that's the case,then there is nothing like equality,at least not the way naija ladies go about it! If we are copying the West on this,then let's copy the whole way. Women can't want equality without financial responsibilities, especially Nigerian women...its hypocritical babe.
Once again,keep ur head up

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Feb 05, 2019
Some Women now behaving like victims

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Feb 05, 2019
wetdick:


i see. My problem is i am not attracted to them. I love soft and bouncing ass of black girls. Many of them dont have ass.
mate! i am telling you some white women have big round bottoms, like kim K. the ones who are not %100 caucasian, spanish, Russian, English, Greek and Italian women have fine round bottoms. the white women i see nowadays are from different ethnics, they are not the ussual pale skin, blonde and flat bottomed anymore. look, i like black women, infact. i like every kinda women regardless of their colour or ethnics and i ve been out with quite a few. but if you go out with a white woman you might never want to go with any other kinda woman.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Feb 05, 2019
gypsey:
mate! i am telling you some white women have big round bottoms, the ones who are not %100 caucasian, spanish, Russian, English, Greek and Italian women have fine round bottoms. the white women i see nowadays are from different ethnic. like kim kardashian. look, i like black women, infact. i like every kinda women regardless of their colour or ethnics and i ve been out with quite a few. but if you go out with a white woman you might never want to go with any other kinda woman.


ok ooh....... but i am satisfied with our ass here....... LOL to everyman his own taste....
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:

Its number 3 olodo rabata!!
If na tfare now,u get PhD for tfare-onomics!!!
I dont date broke ass niggas, capisce

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:15pm On Feb 05, 2019
Be careful dear
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Its disheartening.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by luminouz(m): 8:15pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
I dont date with broke ass nigga, capisce
I ain't got beef with u....
Peace out!!

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