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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by sacx: 8:17pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Best u don't draw conclusions on matters u know nothing about. What's so bad in seeing someone you've been chatting with since December in February? I think me asking him to assist in the Tfare was just God's way of letting me know who I was dealing with.

I never flipped, instead I gave him reasons y I initially asked for assistance but for him not to worry cause I got an unexpected cash. But this wicked soul refused. I don't know d lies he dished out o but I'm over it all.


Do you know instead of cheap whatsapp for correspondence this idiot made us communicate with SMS? I swear I called and sent SMS to this ungrateful bastard worth more than 10k between December and yesterday and I never asked him for airtime.

Yigiyaga I knew you to be a wicked soul the day I told u had no airtime reason for my not calling and next thing an unknown Number sent Me a Used Card. I never Begged you for Shit.

I have deleted your number and messages and please desist from messaging me. Why d heck did u message me just now?

Kindly leave the local, broke runs gal alone OK. I've been surviving on my own and will continue to do so.

Nwanyi calm down. You've been cool until now. Don't blow your top and resort to name calling.

There's nothing wrong in wanting to see someone you've been having an online relationship with. You did nothing wrong in wanting to see him. I even don't see anything wrong in asking for transport fare. What was important was timing.

In my opinion, you hastened to smoothen things up without having a better understand of who you are getting on with. Different people react to issues differently. Given that you are knowledgeable on the human psychology, I think the onus lied with you to know when to press and when to tarry.

Did you factor in what led to the crash of his last relationship? Could it have had a little to do with finance? Then you could have tread with caution on that subject. You get my point?

Count your losses. Forgive and let go. He is not wrong, neither are you. You both were just not right for each other at the moment.

To the success of your next relationship.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:18pm On Feb 05, 2019
wetdick:


ok ooh....... but i am satisfied with our ass here....... LOL to everyman his own taste....
The white women of thesedays are not the ussual pale skinned, blonde, blue eyes flat bottom bimbos.. grin

I see, maybe co's you live in Nigeria.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:20pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Its normal to spend money on calls but he insisting on communicating with her through text message is pure wickedness, she really gave this guy a chance to misbehave I swear, he smelt marriage desperation and truth be told, from what I have read, she was acting really desperate, which is why the guy could getaway with anything and dictate how the relationship will go, which is also why he got mad when she refused to obey him like a sheep and come to Lagos with her own money, I'm also sure when she reach that Lagos, he will expect her to bring money to feed herself and transport herself home without giving her a dim. I know his type and how to deal with them.

Firstly, there is nothing wrong in going to Lagos with HER OWN MONEY. He doesn't have to insist, it is what she should do. I wanna believe she wanted to see him as much as he wanted to see her. I love to spend my own money, it quickly sends the message that you either behave well or you fck off.

I wouldn't know why he insisted, if I were her, I will tell him it isn't cost effective. Lol @ chance to misbehave. Give them an inch and they will take a yard...

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Feb 05, 2019
gypsey:
The white women of thesedays are not the ussual pale skinned, blonde, blue eyes flat bottom bimbos.. grin

I see, maybe co's you live in Nigeria.

Dude not because i live in Nigeria, i have been abroad before but i still go out with black girls, it has to do with culture, i have seen how they behave and i dont think they are what i want.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Feb 05, 2019
It's really shameful reading some comments. Too many kids everywhere.

Some guys are a disgrace, a big shame to manhood. A lady wants to visit you, and you can't even offer to take care of her travel expenses. And you call yourself a man?

She was not even supposed to ask.

You don't have a business dating or approaching a lady if you can't afford to incur some expenses.

You want a fine babe but you no wan spend. Which kind baby men be these?

One only needs to avoid lavish spending.

The immaturity this guy displays here is too appalling, even when OP never mentioned his moniker specifically.

Some people are not old enough to be in a relationship.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Feb 05, 2019
pocohantas:


Firstly, there is nothing wrong in going to Lagos with HER OWN MONEY. He doesn't have to insist, it is what she should do. I wanna believe she wanted to see him, as much as she wanted to see him. I love to spend my own money, it quickly sends the message that you either behave well or you fck off.

I wouldn't know why he insisted, if I were her, I will tell him it isn't cost effective. Lol @ chance to misbehave. Give them an inch and they will take a yard...
He even sent her a used card, that nigga never wanted to take her serious.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Feb 05, 2019
That lady running her mouth, 'if it is me,if it is me','nl boys this,nl boys that'..
I know their type
Nwanyiawkaetiti,you did nothing wrong my dear,absolutely NOTHING,everything happened for a reason

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Feb 05, 2019
pocohantas:


Firstly, there is nothing wrong in going to Lagos with HER OWN MONEY. He doesn't have to insist, it is what she should do. I wanna believe she wanted to see him, as much as she wanted to see him. I love to spend my own money, it quickly sends the message that you either behave well or you fck off.

I wouldn't know why he insisted, if I were her, I will tell him it isn't cost effective. Lol @ chance to misbehave. Give them an inch and they will take a yard...

Praise the lord, lets hope you are not all talk on NL but a doer of your word in real life.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:29pm On Feb 05, 2019
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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:29pm On Feb 05, 2019
Simplep:
That lady running her mouth, 'if it is me,if it is me','nl boys this,nl boys that'..
I know their type
you did nothing wrong my dear,absolutely NOTHING,everything happened for a reason
Hmmm, some people never jam.... It's better you do your thing codedly
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:29pm On Feb 05, 2019
ceeroh:
Like I said in the other thread... Back then in school, We lived in the same lodge, she had a fiancee that visits her regularly, but we were so close that one thing led to another and we started smashing. After the first smash, she wouldn't let me be. It was tough, gradually she started cooking for me, we were doing assignments together, reading together... then gradually sleeping in my room. It continued for two (2) good sessions. I was trapped, couldn't play home or away, very sad. The fiancee was still visiting but the dude would always call before coming (mistakes guys make). The dude would even buy me stuff when coming, guilty conscience set in. So whenever the guy was around, she'd move back to her room. I wanted out, but the girl wouldn't have any of that. Na there I start to dey fear girls, she didn't even feel sober. Later on, I discovered she started having true feelings for me but I dare not try it, I was scared. This same girl would tell her fiancee on phone she loves him just immediately after I finish smashing her. Fear catch me, some people no get conscience. Thank God we went for I.T... That was how I escaped.
Till today, I still haven't had a girlfriend since then, the whole thing made me lose trust in relationship. I practically learnt ALL the tricks ladies play in a long distance relationship. It's not worth it.
Today, she's married to the guy with a kid. And even while we were co-habiting, she was even cheating on me.. . I caught her countless times.
Dude ,what you experienced is less astonishing to what I saw during my university days.
That is why I will always say it anywhere I go that igbo ladies are the most promiscuous. In my lodge alone I had like 4 ladies that their fiance/husband where abroad hustling and financing them but yet they couldn't resist the temptation of following young guys in school.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:30pm On Feb 05, 2019
Simplep:
That lady running her mouth, 'if it is me,if it is me','nl boys this,nl boys that'..
I know their type
Nwanyiawkaetiti,you did nothing wrong my dear,absolutely NOTHING,everything happened for a reason
Mtcheeeeeew.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by LordAdam16: 8:30pm On Feb 05, 2019
FRoosevelt:
Totally right. There's no greater alpha feeling than the one you get when you have another man's lady subdued and and humbled under your virile masculinity and therefore making her push him to the sidelines under the influence of your irresistible pleasure rod.

I've had several ladies get asked on phone by their guys if they are crying or if they are okay....why?? because when they call in while we're in the middle of stuff, her voice is overwhelmed with lust and moans.

I feel so high when I see her struggle to string up a sentence without moaning in between and I intensify the pleasure at that moment to make her break down and moan grin therefore triggering her man's curiosity and worries grin

It's elating really grin

You could say that again.

Been there, done that. Part of the convincing reason why I opine that s*x is overrated.

But from what I know of the guys who've been on the pleasurable side of that equation and have that pesky thing called emotions, connecting on an emotional level with a skirt becomes difficult. Like the dude earlier up in the thread.

It becomes a double-edged sword of sorts. I mean ideally one should be able to just see it as game if it happens to you seeing you've done it to someone else's bae. But the mind can be tricky, so I imagine for some, it would fill their hearts with dread to ever find themselves on the receiving end. To essentially be the "mugu."

In the same way cheaters lose their mind when they're on the receiving end. Because they know for sure how seriously amazing the feelings are and how they're the subject, much to their chagrin.

-Lord

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:32pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
He even sent her a used card, that nigga never wanted to take her serious.

The guy is plain mischievous and it is good it's all over. She has learned her lessons. Lots of these guys here are snitches. Once they have a misunderstanding with you offline, the first thing that enters their head is to troll you online. Especially if you are a popular/active female.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Feb 05, 2019
pocohantas:


The guy is plain mischievous and it is good it's all over. She has learned her lessons. Lots of these guys here are snitches. Once they have a misunderstanding with you offline, the first thing that enters their head is to troll you online. Especially if you are a popular/active female.
Exactly, which is why I don't reply their pms and choose to be anonymous, they kiss and tell too much. nairaland alpha male wannabe.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:35pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Dafuck you talking about, I am not even yoruba.
in that case, my moniker is funmisticqueen, not funmiNIsticqueen. There is no Ni inside.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:38pm On Feb 05, 2019
funmisticqueen:
in that case, my moniker is funmisticqueen, not funmiNIsticqueen. There is no Ni inside.
Ummmm are you expecting me to cram your moniker or something?

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by LordAdam16: 8:38pm On Feb 05, 2019
vingeophysicist:
Dude ,what you experienced is less astonishing to what I saw during my university days.
That is why I will always say it anywhere I go that igbo ladies are the most promiscuous. In my lodge alone I had like 4 ladies that their fiance/husband where abroad hustling and financing them but yet they couldn't resist the temptation of following young guys in school.

From what I know, it has nothing to do with ethnicity. But I may be wrong.

-Lord

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Feb 05, 2019
How do u mean?
DanDeeBoss:
Hmmm, some people never jam.... It's better you do your thing codedly
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by EzeAnambra: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Its disheartening.
pls dont listen to that hooker who loves tfare more than her life,she is still a small girl and dosent know what she want yet.You played your part but things didnt work out,spending 10k for calls and sms to be intouch with him,u tried. Maybe he's not that into you.Move on with urlife b4 one ashawo will come and teach u how to collect tfare to go and Bleep.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Ummmm are you expecting me to cram your monomer or something?
yes. Learn to spell it correctly

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:41pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Exactly, which is why I don't reply their pms and choose to be anonymous, they kiss and tell too much. nairaland alpha male wannabe.

Alphas males indeed. Fucking preeks who can't keep their mouths shut. If you are alpha, you don't need to say it, it will be obvious. I am even angry that ladies started attacking themselves over one community preek. Make una no do that kind thing again abeg...

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:45pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
There's no equality when it comes to finance. A neighbor married a jobless man and now she's insulting and frustrating the man. I feel sorry for him. Women are not wired to cater for a man, she can support but not full support.

I never washed my linens in public not until the old man decided to wash it for me. Shouting Break up for everyone.

All this shit ain't new so no biggy. Many here have even bought plane tickets for ladies so please no one should accuse me of gold digging

You may neglect this my mention...

but know when you type and know when not to type.

I told you this before, you neglected it and thought you were making me a fool.

I cautioned the guys on the other thread you created prolly felt they were trolling you...

but here you are again.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:46pm On Feb 05, 2019
pocohantas:


Alphas males indeed. Fucking preeks who can't keep their mouths shut. If you are alpha, you don't need to say it, it will be obvious. I am even angry that ladies started attacking themselves over one community preek. Make una no do that kind thing again abeg...


I just won 500 Naira because I knew I would find you here.

Here we go.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 8:47pm On Feb 05, 2019
funmisticqueen:
yes. Learn to spell it correctly









grin


You sef! cheesy


Oh Lord! Chai! grin

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Mystique20(f): 8:49pm On Feb 05, 2019
What do we say about you?
You were well aware of the fact that she had a relationship yet you went ahead to ruin your fellow guy's relationship because you couldn't control your urges. For the record, you are no better than her. For all we know, she might have come clean to her husband but you on the other hand will still see him and hail like nothing happened.

YOU COULD HAVE SAID NO

ceeroh:


How would you know? The whole stuff really fuvked up my mind. Now I can't trust any girl.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Exactly, which is why I don't reply their pms and choose to be anonymous, they kiss and tell too much. nairaland alpha male wannabe.

no be u again, u and bragging na 5 and 6. no provoke me. u tink say if u change moniker like as u don do now and always do after being smacked say we no go no say now u. as u de brag now n so u brag de last time say ur immediate ex na ur last bus stop but u did not see it coming say ihm planned to dump u until ihm doam. now as ur heartbreak don de heal u don begin de brag again.

duck mouth

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by oochi123(f): 8:52pm On Feb 05, 2019
bayocanny:

hmm I hear o.

how was your day?
..good.. Thanks
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by stephleena(f): 8:52pm On Feb 05, 2019
used recharge card..lol
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:54pm On Feb 05, 2019
murphyibiam15:

I enjoy your write-up..to be frank


Thanks a lot smiley
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 05, 2019
BiafraBushBoy:


You may neglect this my mention...

but know when you type and know when not to type.

I told you this before, you neglected it and thought you were making me a fool.

I cautioned the guys on the other thread you created prolly felt they were trolling you...

but here you are again.
On a cheery side I doubt this thread would have made Frontpage without his input which sparked the whole thread.

Atleast I made many people's day less boring today. grin

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