jaymejate:

Mtchew
Must it be a man to approach every time?

marvin906:
she's brave..
which is rare..
most chicks will just drink poison than confess their feelings

igbodefender:
Is she cheap or brave?

richard69:
Funny enough it happened to me today, the feeling was mutual but I couldn't. That takes a lot of courage

apelike1:
Naija women are useless set of animals

You will see these set of baboons claiming feminist but can't open there dirty mouth to approach a guy!

You will hear them calling tagging themselves cheap!

Yes! You are cheap you useless piece of shiits living in a cave

World are advancing but naija women are still living holes.

Many women have approach men but I turn them down in a civil manner, and still date we are still friends (I'm not talking about black women )

Creativebae:
Once told this guy i like him alot, nigga invited me on a date and came with his girlfriend introducing me as his crusher, i nearly lost my breath. i just respected myself and told him i was actually writing a script so i needed a reaction from him to help me build my story. ..
I won't try it again, not even advising anyone to try it

adaminda4you:
Its not advisable for a girl to walk up to a guy and toast him. She should just show him the green light for him to take the necessary action. If he doesn't respond then be sure that he is not interested.

igbodefender:
Your reason for turning them down, what was it?

bobolizim:
brave.Well, I was asked out by a lady recently. She told me that she's in love madly with me and I accepted, cause I love her too. In fact, I really do love her. I do not see a big deal in what she's done and ain't gonna take her for granted for doing so. Most important thing is we both love each other. It all boils down to ideology and refinement.

surveyProf:



The African tradition doesn't permit such, it is tarboosh for a lady to do that in this part of the world, perhaps in the western world it just might be acceptable....

igbodefender:

Could you please educate us on why you couldn't? From your quote, you considered her brave and courageous. So, why couldn't you accept? Please let us know and learn.

DateMynd44:
What do you girls always take yourself as?
Last last you'll be nothing than a liability when you have nothing to offer to a man.
So what's the big fuss in showing how cheap you girls are by humbly approaching him and pulling down your useless ego.
And this comment I just quoted is coming from a recharge card and data seller not even a lady of class.

MajorJeffery:
Speak for yourself alone. If she is as ugly as Lupita Nyong or whatever her name is, I will say a big NO.

igbodefender:


That's how some women may now lose the man meant for them, because they did not express their feelings. But on the other hand it is not always advisable for women to open up, because some old fashioned men may consider the woman too forward and cheap and run. So, girls could still lose Mr Right by expressing theie feelings to the 'wrong' men

I know an African tribe were woman are allowed to cook a delicious meal for the man they want to marry them and bring the food to the bachelor. That is the toasting. They are not considered cheap or forward.

Maybe the world should adopt that practice. Indirect but direct expression of love by women.

igbodefender:
Is she cheap or brave?

faithfull18:
It's not advised. That's my final answer.

Fafesot:
She's not cheap
we guys are the cheap one..
no matter hw bad her toasting skills are..
we will always say yes

Deicide:
Why would a girl want to do that its not worth it abeg.....

First she has to monitor the guy for sometime know all his scheduled, then when it is right she would approach him and most times this doesn't go well cause the guy might just ignore here existence or tell her he doesn't want to talk or say shes not his type or make mockery about her with his friends and walk away.

Lets say the guy does manage to grant her audience, he hears what she has to say he tells her he is going to think about it knowing fully well he is going to be playing hard to get? Why should any girl go through this stress?

faithfull18:
It's not advised. That's my final answer.

apelike1:
Naija women are useless set of animals

You will see these set of baboons claiming feminist but can't open there dirty mouth to approach a guy!

You will hear them calling tagging themselves cheap!

Yes! You are cheap you useless piece of shiits living in a cave

World are advancing but naija women are still living in there mental holes.

Many women have approach men but I turn them down in a civil manner, and still up to date we are still friends (I'm not talking about black women )