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It's best explained with examples:

- Two security guards have an argument over N50, one brings out a plank and hits the other one dead.
- Two business men or politicians have a disagreement, one sends the other one assassins.
- A man approaches a girl, she rejects the advances, the girl is killed or seriously injured.
- A man has a particular political affiliation, he organizes a mass shooting killing many.
- Alek Miniassian of Toronto could not find a girlfriend. To express his dissatisfaction he rented a white van, went to a busy section of Toronto and murders over 10 ppl and injured another 10 with the van.
- Reckless driving.
- In 1989 a Montreal Canada man went to a classroom in Montreal Canada separated the young men from young women and murdered over 10 women by gun shut just because he was against feminism.
- el Rufai threatens ppl that "interfere" will go back in body bags- that's toxic masculinity.
- I could go on and on.
Toxic masculinity affects us all. It's time to strip men of their "Leadership" partriachal privilege since thet are nonsense at it snd are actually murderers and make them accountable.

Bashiru.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity... Those people you sighted as examples up there simply have mental problems and that is it.... Just last week a 13 year old boy just went... And beheaded his mother... Now he is not even yes a man... Will you call that toxic masculinity?

A wife whips out a blade and cut her husband's cock off because he was sexting another woman is she suffering toxic masculinity...

Bashiru... You be man I guess... No dey follow oyinbo proper gate this yamayama... Brainwashing talk... They want all men to begin tie wrapper...

Franzinni:
Bashiru.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity... Those people you sighted as examples up there simply have mental problems and that is it.... Just last week a 13 year old boy just went... And beheaded his mother... Now he is not even yes a man... Will you call that toxic masculinity?

A wife whips out a blade and cut her husband's cock off because he was sexting another woman is she suffering toxic masculinity...

Bashiru... You be man I guess... No dey follow oyinbo proper gate this yamayama... Brainwashing talk... They want all men to begin tie wrapper...

For centuries men have claimed that they are more rational than women and women are too emotional and excuse themselves by citing mental problems. Now I'm giving you raw facts.

The statistics from police departments worldwide simply prove that men are murderous and have very poor conflict resolution skills.

BigBashiru:
For centuries men have claimed that they are more rational than women and women are too emotional and excuse themselves by citing mental problems.

The statistics from police departments worldwide simply prove that men are murderous and have very poor conflict resolution skills.

yes you might be right on that but... That makes us men.... We are stronger and we have shorter fuses... And that is down to our chemical makeup... I can guess you are female and have no clue what it t be a man or you are of the gay extraction... And not trying to be insulting here so please don't see it that way.... My point is you don't really know what it is to be a man... Not in the slightest.

I am male and a masculine male for that matter.... I am gentle when I need to be but it is well within me to become a brute when needs arise... That doesn't mean it is toxic masculinity... It's just means I am a man...

Franzinni:
Bashiru.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity... Those people you sighted as examples up there simply have mental problems and that is it.... Just last week a 13 year old boy just went... And beheaded his mother... Now he is not even yes a man... Will you call that toxic masculinity?

A wife whips out a blade and cut her husband's cock off because he was sexting another woman is she suffering toxic masculinity...

Bashiru... You be man I guess... No dey follow oyinbo proper gate this yamayama... Brainwashing talk... They want all men to begin tie wrapper...

Most violence women commit is in the context of occultism, marriage/ relationship and petty theft. But men commit most brutal/ violent crimes and their actions are a menace to society.

This bet guy again,someone pls tell that @$$hole to enjoy his sure bet alone....

Franzinni:
yes you might be right on that but... That makes us men.... We are stronger and we have shorter fuses... And that is down to our chemical makeup... I can guess you are female and have no clue what it t be a man or you are of the gay extraction... And not trying to be insulting here so please don't see it that way.... My point is you don't really know what it is to be a man... Not in the slightest.

I am male and a masculine male for that matter.... I am gentle when I need to be but it is well within me to become a brute when needs arise... That doesn't mean it is toxic masculinity... It's just means I am a man...

By this admission, you admit then that men are inferior to women and men belong in the jungle where bruteness is the order of the day. So all men can go into Sambisa forest and brute it out with their bh brothers and leave the modern world to women. Not trying to be insulting just trying to be thought provoking for others that will read this. With thought provoking statements everyone can learn.

Headlesschicken:
This bet guy again,someone pls tell that @$$hole to enjoy his sure bet alone....

As in eh

BigBashiru:
Most violence women commit is in the context of occultism, marriage/ relationship and petty theft. But men commit most brutal/ violent crimes and their actions are a menace to society.

trust me what women lack in brute strength... They more than compensate for in devious schemes and nefarious tendencies... As a man I will never underestimate a woman for as long as I live.... I did and I paid the price.... Still carry the scars till this very moment...

I digress...... The bitter truth is women are just as brutal as men of not more.... So we don't need to give it a name and then turn it into a "thing"...

My point is men are great but definitely have capacity to be better men.

Franzinni:
trust me what women lack in brute strength... They more than compensate for in devious schemes and nefarious tendencies... As a man I will never underestimate a woman for as long as I live.... I did and I paid the price.... Still carry the scars till this very moment...

I digress...... The bitter truth is women are just as brutal as men of not more.... So we don't need to give it a name and then turn it into a "thing"...

I agree with you. But I would rather fall victim to a woman's schemes that be murdered by a man because his ego was bruised before my time. While women scheme and are nefarious but in most cases it doesn't endanger life thru violence. If someone is robbed by a woman they most likely will still be still alive, but if someone is robbed by a man, chances are the person will also be shot dead in the process.

BigBashiru:
By this admission, you admit then that men are inferior to women and men belong in the jungle where bruteness is the order of the day. So all men can go into Sambisa forest and brute it out with their bh brothers and leave the modern world to women. Not trying to be insulting just trying to be thought provoking for others that will read this. With thought provoking statements everyone can learn.

well if it will make you wet.... Then I will admit that men are inferior to women... But inside your mind you know that no person is superior just by admission of sex... But by the content of your person... So don't let the west deceive you.... I am an advocate of preservation of masculinity... Women are now saying they don't need men but they still getting piped down on the down low.... We see through all the bs

BigBashiru:
I agree with you. But I would rather fall victim to a woman's schemes that be murdered by a man because his ego was bruised before my time. While women scheme and are nefarious but in most cases it doesn't endanger life thru violence. If someone is robbed by a woman they most likely will still be still alive, but if someone is robbed by a man, chances are the person will also be shot dead in the process.

well yeah but a woman will rather not rob.... Because she knows her abilities are minimal.. Strength... Agility and to hit the nail on the head.... Testosterone.... But when it's come time to plan deep evil.... I bow for unah!

Franzinni:
well if it will make you wet.... Then I will admit that men are inferior to women... But inside your mind you know that no person is superior just by admission of sex... But by the content of your person... So don't let the west deceive you.... I am an advocate of preservation of masculinity... Women are now saying they don't need men but they still getting piped down on the down low.... We see through all the bs

What you don't understand is there's positive masculinity and toxic masculinity. The west is doing away with toxic masculinity: The world welcomes positive masculinity.

Did I even mention road rage. At least five men are killed every week in road rage incidents. A man brushes another mans car or cut the man in traffic - A heated argument ensues and one driver comes out of the car and shoots the other man dead. One happened in Lagos few weeks ago.

You know deep down there's toxic masculinity it's your ego that doesn't wanna let you accept it.

BigBashiru:
What you don't understand is there's masculinity and toxic masculinity. The west is doing away with toxic masculinity while wl rufai is a typical example of a toxic masculine man (murder threat by a Govenor). The world welcomes positive masculinity.

Did I even mention road rage. At least five men are killed every week in road rage incidents. A man brushes another mans car or cut the man in traffic - A heated argument ensues and one driver comes out of the car and shoots the other man dead. One happened in Lagos few weeks ago.

You know deep down there's toxic masculinity it's your ego that doesn't wanna let you accept it.

madam bashiru... Very soon you feminist will say a mad man is suffering from masculinity. When he sees a woman and proceeds to beat her up for ignoring him... That kind person is mad! Simple... Let's not label it toxic anything... If you are a man and you are violent like a rabid animal.... You are simply a mad violent man... Eg el rufai.... But we can't seriously say there is toxic masculinity... Let's be honest... El rufai is not even a masculine man... If not for money... Only empty women will pick any interest in his presence... And as a short man we can't expect him to be less agressive because.... He must feel God cheated him vertically....

I digress again.... Road rage is not unique to me. Alone women too are guilty but why they don't mostly involve physical violence is because of..... The recognition of their limits... Eg lack of the man juice... Testosterone... I am no expert and I am only having this discussion based on my level of understanding

Franzinni:
madam bashiru... Very soon you feminist will say a mad man is suffering from masculinity. When he sees a woman and proceeds to beat her up for ignoring him... That kind person is mad! Simple... Let's not label it toxic anything... If you are a man and you are violent like a rabid animal.... You are simply a mad violent man... Eg el rufai.... But we can't seriously say there is toxic masculinity... Let's be honest... El rufai is not even a masculine man... If not for money... Only empty women will pick any interest in his presence... And as a short man we can't expect him to be less agressive because.... He must feel God cheated him vertically....

I digress again.... Road rage is not unique to me. Alone women too are guilty but why they don't mostly involve physical violence is because of..... The recognition of their limits... Eg lack of the man juice... Testosterone... I am no expert and I am only having this discussion based on my level of understanding

Road rage is male on male violence. When two females get involved in road rage incident they don't bring out a gun or bottle and hits the other person dead. Let's talk of female to female road rage; in that case they don't kill themselves. It's men that are always killing themselves and it's nothing to be proud of.

Let's talk about gangs. There are female gangs too but the difference is the female gang members and gang rivals don't go about killing themselves.

This is the thrust of feminism and this is why the movement is here to stay.

BigBashiru:
Road rage is male on male violence. When two females get involved in road rage incident they don't bring out a gun or bottle and hits the other person dead. Let's talk of female to female road rage; in that case they don't kill themselves. It's men that are always killing themselves and it's nothing to be proud of.

Let's talk about gangs. There are female gangs too but the difference is the female gang members and gang rivals don't go about killing themselves.

This is the thrust of feminism and this is why the movement is here to stay.

my sister let me be honest with you right now!! And I say this out of the purity of my soul.... And for your information I am surrounded by female individuals everyday.. I take care of them and they take care of me as the family that we are.... And with this I can tell you feminism is a myth.... And no matter how much it is pushed it won't ever come to bare.... A woman will always do like a woman and a man will do like a man.... Trying to fight nature is the same as suicide...

Please look up the story of Aileen wornous... And let me see what you have to say about that... She is not even a man.

Franzinni:
my sister let me be honest with you right now!! And I say this out of the purity of my soul.... And for your information I am surrounded by female individuals everyday.. I take care of them and they take care of me as the family that we are.... And with this I can tell you feminism is a myth.... And no matter how much it is pushed it won't ever come to bare.... A woman will always do like a woman and a man will do like a man.... Trying to fight nature is the same as suicide...

Please look up the story of Aileen wornous... And let me see what you have to say about that... She is not even a man.

You are basically saying that's how men are - by saying so you are degrading men. In advanced societies men have listened to the feminist side and adjusted their behaviours appropriately. And the society is better for it

Of course women aren't angels and so there will be outliers like the serial killer you have mentioned.

It does not feel good to be identified with a violent gender so preach to other men to become less violent and also to commit less violent crime like kidnapping, rituals, etc

BigBashiru:
You are basically saying that's how men are - by saying so you are degrading men. In advanced societies men have listened to the feminist side and adjusted their behaviours appropriately. And the society is better for it

Of course women aren't angels and so there will be outliers like the serial killer you have mentioned.

It does not feel good to be identified with a violent gender so preach to other men to become less violent and also to commit less violent crime like kidnapping, rituals, etc

You women always want to eat your cake and have it back... Let's talk about the low life expectancy of men? Or should we talk about the high standards that men have to reach to even be recognized as a man? Or how men are suppose to take violence from women and accept it as being a man.... Hell no.. If a woman comes to slap me... Boy am I taking off my shirt and sure there is gonna be some ass whopping coming next.... I don't see man and woman... I see people and since women are tired of being delicate and tender... You are welcome to our world... Where we see man to man... Haha let's see how long y'all last.

Franzinni:
You women always want to eat your cake and have it back... Let's talk about the low life expectancy of men? Or should we talk about the high standards that men have to reach to even be recognized as a man? Or how men are suppose to take violence from women and accept it as being a man.... Hell no.. If a woman comes to slap me... Boy am I taking off my shirt and sure there is gonna be some ass whopping coming next.... I don't see man and woman... I see people and since women are tired of being delicate and tender... You are welcome to our world... Where we see man to man... Haha let's see how long y'all last.

Friends and family have been left heartbroken over to the death of a lady identified as Ezeobi Oluchukwu popularly known as Luchy Belle.

It was gathered that the deceased, a popular makeup artist - was stabbed to death yesterday during an early morning exercise/jogging in Awka, Anambra state capital.

Though the main reason for the attack on the beautiful lady is yet to be determined, but it is alleged that her phone was collected by the killers. She passed away instantly after being stabbed. Her corpse has been deposited at the mortuary.

A Facebook user Chibuike Igwe posted;

What a wicked world. Can you believe she is no more. The pictures attached to this post is my friend, a smart hard working lady with great sense of humor .. She was stabbed to death while doing early morning exercise. The persons/people that did this to you will know no peace forever. #Blackmonday . Am still shocked after confirming you are no more. RIP OLUCHI

The latest attack is coming days after six people were killed in a renewed cult clash in Awka.

https://www.nairaland.com/5017742/lady-stabbed-death-anambra-during

** my comments ** These are the actions of the so called biblically ordained leaders of the society(men). It's embarrassing. And these stories happen every day

Men don’t like broke women either.

And it shows who’s broke. Get y’all sensitive asses out my mentions.

There’s a difference between being broke with no job, no hustle, and no ambition .vs. being broke with a job, trying to make a living, and shit just ain’t working in your favor. Don’t just sit on your ass. That’s wtf I’m saying.
Women don’t like a broke man so why should a man like a broke woman? Y’all weird. most women feel the need to depend on their man when they need something, your man should be able to lean and depend on you if he falls short of something.

And I’m done. I got money to make.

BigBashiru:
Friends and family have been left heartbroken over to the death of a lady identified as Ezeobi Oluchukwu popularly known as Luchy Belle.

It was gathered that the deceased, a popular makeup artist - was stabbed to death yesterday during an early morning exercise/jogging in Awka, Anambra state capital.

Though the main reason for the attack on the beautiful lady is yet to be determined, but it is alleged that her phone was collected by the killers. She passed away instantly after being stabbed. Her corpse has been deposited at the mortuary.

A Facebook user Chibuike Igwe posted;

What a wicked world. Can you believe she is no more. The pictures attached to this post is my friend, a smart hard working lady with great sense of humor .. She was stabbed to death while doing early morning exercise. The persons/people that did this to you will know no peace forever. #Blackmonday . Am still shocked after confirming you are no more. RIP OLUCHI

The latest attack is coming days after six people were killed in a renewed cult clash in Awka.

** my comments ** These are the actions of the so called biblically ordained leaders of the society(men). It's embarrassing.

you have no proof who did it.. It could be a woman for all I know.... Rest her soul.... But girl you sure have some Vernon stirring up in you... You need to let the heat cool down.... All men are not equal.... We all can be brutes when we have to tho... But some men are cool calm and collected.... I can bet you no woman will ever wish to live in a world where its all female... Cus you guys just don't have what it takes to get along.... So feminism is dead on arrival... In my opinion...


Now there is a theory called the mutual enemy theory and it States that two any two people can get along no matter their differences as long as there is a mutual enemy... But as soon as the mutual enemy is eliminated... They automatically seek enemies in each other... It's just natural....and super amplified in the female kind.... You women can't do without men... But you love to pretend you can.... Pssst.. We can see pass all that.. Besides there are on average 7 women to every man on this planet so.... It can't be hard for a man to find a woman with the right mindset intact.

BigBashiru:
Most violence women commit is in the context of occultism, marriage/ relationship and petty theft. But men commit most brutal/ violent crimes and their actions are a menace to society.

violence is violence
Shooting a person because he cheated and shooting a person because he stole a car both end with one way: a dead person

Its toxic masculinity before a woman is in trouble, then it becomes "why didn't you help me? " uuhm Toxic masc....

Let Boko Haram attack a village and I promise you no woman will be making noise about toxic masculinity.

When it's peaceful men are enemies
When it's dangerous men are expected to be heroes.

F U C K T H A T S H I T

ubunja:
Its toxic masculinity before a woman is in trouble, then it becomes "why didn't you help me? " uuhm Toxic masc....

Let Boko Haram attack a village and I promise you no woman will be making noise about toxic masculinity.

When it's peaceful men are enemies
When it's dangerous men are expected to be heroes.

F U C K T H A T S H I T

Boko haram is attacking in the first place because of the toxic masculinity of their members. How come there arent any female boko haram members?? Except the female suicide bombers they sometimes recruit against their will.

BigBashiru:
Boko haram is attacking in the first place because of the toxic masculinity of their members. How come there arent any female boko haram members?? Except the female suicide bombers they sometimes recruit against their will.

so Cleopatra and all the other female warriors are suffering from what?

ubunja:
so Cleopatra and all the other female warriors are suffering from what?

First of all cleopatra was a ruler that sent toxic men to war she didn't fight heself. Same as Jezebel.
It's really simple and it baffles me how many could be so defensive. Go to every police department of every city in the world and look at violent offences stats. In every city without exception it's 90+% male and 3% or less female. It's a statistic men should not only be ashamed of but also start taking steps to correct.

BigBashiru:
For centuries men have claimed that they are more rational than women and women are too emotional and excuse themselves by citing mental problems. Now I'm giving you raw facts.

The statistics from police departments worldwide simply prove that men are murderous and have very poor conflict resolution skills.

what statistics?

Toxic masculinity nonsense is just another phrase brought up by feminists to rope all men into collective guilt for the actions of a tiny minority of men. Not so different from the rape culture nonsense of a few decades ago. While rape is a serious offense that in my opinion should be punished with castration, claiming that there is a rape culture among men is arrant nonsense.

A minority of men who score very high on the five factor model trait of disagreeableness will tend to act violently. That doesn't surprise anyone. It is ridiculous to blame the majority of men for the actions of the minority. Just as ridiculous as seeing most black men as criminals because a small proportion of black men commit many violent crimes.

Ridiculous feminists are now so accustomed to privilege that they forget that those privileges they enjoy did not develop organically. They are mostly the direct result of male willpower, discipline, organization, ingenuity and risk taking.

BigBashiru:
By this admission, you admit then that men are inferior to women and men belong in the jungle where bruteness is the order of the day. So all men can go into Sambisa forest and brute it out with their bh brothers and leave the modern world to women. Not trying to be insulting just trying to be thought provoking for others that will read this. With thought provoking statements everyone can learn.

men are inferior and belong in the jungle yet society was built by men !

we are poor at conflict resolution yet the world order that we know today was created by men ,
yes we are brutal but we are also rational when need be , we have strong and weak sides .