Divay22:

Amen!
I say a big Amen to that

as expected.. I seen your other replies to comments so this isn't surprising...

SaucyBenks:
as expected.. I seen your other replies to comments so this isn't surprising...

Okay okay okay.
Can you lemme alone now

Divay22:

Okay okay okay.
Can you lemme alone now

was I pulling you before? I expected this kinda reply too... I remembered those times you use to fire guys here back to back in the days... Never knew you could be this cool and have conversations with a guy on nairaland as I've seen in your previous convos... But your ways of replying to discourage a guy who's trying to strike a convo with you when you don't want to is heartbreaking... But not for me.

I know what your reply to this will be like tho...

Chase money and ladies will chase you because most of the matured ladies know a man with prospect.
If your mind begin to tell you that your girl is cheating, you are most likely to be right.
It is also important that your girl is afraid of what you might do when she misbehaves.
Some ladies need hot slaps once in long while to stay focused

SaucyBenks:
was I pulling you before? I expected this kinda reply too... I remembered those times you use to fire guys here back to back in the days... Never knew you could be this cool and have conversations with a guy on nairaland as I've seen in your previous convos... But your ways of replying to discourage a guy who's trying to strike a convo with you when you don't want to is heartbreaking... But not for me.

I know what your reply to this will be like tho...

Hmmm
Now i know what this is all about...

Okay.

I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?

Divay22:

Hmmm
Now i know what this is all about...

Okay.

just as my girlfriend would reply

BronzeMajik:
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?

and on top of that, you still give am pussy join... That guy wicked oo

SaucyBenks:
and on top of that, you still give am pussy join... That guy wicked oo

aren't you funny..... he wasn't wicked sir, just plain stupid.

BronzeMajik:
aren't you funny..... he wasn't wicked sir, just plain stupid.

well, even though you've learnt your lessons, don't let it make you loose a good man who has real intent... I don't mean the stoopid ex that drained you but your next man which I'm sure you'd carefully look into before saying yes to....

BronzeMajik:
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?

Many Abuja guys are just fake, they boast and all but when u get to really know them, u discover they don't even have. God help us. The ones that are even OK are not loyal

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Many Abuja guys are just fake, they boast and all but when u get to really know them, u discover they don't even have. God help us. The ones that are even OK are not loyal

Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association .

SaucyBenks:
well, even though you've learnt your lessons, don't let it make you loose a good man who has real intent... I don't mean the stoopid ex that drained you but your next man which I'm sure you'd carefully look into before saying yes to....

of course thanks for the advice, i appreciate it, I think I'll enjoy single hood for now and try to focus on my business and rebuild my dead bank account.

BronzeMajik:
of course thanks for the advice, i appreciate it, I think I'll enjoy single hood for now and try to focus on my business and rebuild my dead bank account.

i wish you all the best....

BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association .

Its well dear. You really tried buying a phone for a man

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Its well dear. You really tried buying a phone for a man

lol

BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association .

Divay22:
I don't know how to cheat.. But would love to learn it.

You don't have to "learn" it. As a Nigerian girl cheating has been in imprinted in your DNA. You just need time to discover your true nature.

Vibesking:


You don't have to "learn" it. As a Nigerian girl cheating has been in imprinted in your DNA. You just need time to discover your true nature.

Hahahahaha
Still counting on that time.

Divay22:

Hahahahaha
Still counting on that time.

Whatever

BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association .

Way to go, girl!

Angela777:
Way to go, girl!

thanks

BronzeMajik:
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?

If he's always asking you without reciprocating. Then you shd be sure he never saw a future with you. A man who intends building a family he wants to head with any woman. Would not willingly do what he knows will erode that headship in any way. Not being the full breadwinner is an erosion of headship.

It's a different thing if he asks every now and then perhaps for small things. But for a man to turn you to ATM, gurl, you shda japa-ed since

evolved:



If he's always asking you without reciprocating. Then you shd be sure he never saw a future with you. A man who intends building a family he wants to head with any woman. Would not willingly do what he knows will erode that headship in any way. Not being the full breadwinner is an erosion of headship.

It's a different thing if he asks every now and then perhaps for small things. But for a man to turn you to ATM, gurl, you shda japa-ed since

Stop wasting your precious time advising them fine boy seekers...Most Abuja girls are plain silly

evolved:



If he's always asking you without reciprocating. Then you shd be sure he never saw a future with you. A man who intends building a family he wants to head with any woman. Would not willingly do what he knows will erode that headship in any way. Not being the full breadwinner is an erosion of headship.

It's a different thing if he asks every now and then perhaps for small things. But for a man to turn you to ATM, gurl, you shda japa-ed since

thanks.

morningstar55:

Stop wasting your precious time advising them fine boy seekers...Most Abuja girls are plain silly

I'm not an Abuja girl, neither am I based there, helping someone out gat nothing to do with being stupid.

P.s I might have over exaggerated a wee bit, I'm grateful I have the money at least.

BronzeMajik:
I'm not an Abuja girl, neither am I based there, helping someone out gat nothing to do with being stupid.

P.s I might have over exaggerated a wee bit, I'm grateful I have the money at least.

If you were only helping out...there shouldn't be regrets

never take women seriously, never treat a woman with specialty

mikaelangelov:
[s]It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.[/s]
Finally it's over
I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to her boss who offers her nothing, just because they all offer her marriage which I don't want to tell her first because I want her to learn a skill this 2019 first, before I'll think about tying the knot with her, my only crime was loving her too much, well next 60 days I'll be moving permanently to Copenhagen so I guess marrying a white chick is the next thing,

infact I know that I've reached my boiling point and enough is enough

never believed someone like you is still on this planet, are u an angel?

morningstar55:

Stop wasting your precious time advising them fine boy seekers...Most Abuja girls are plain silly

Fine boy seekers? Best to b with someone you happy with all round. Abi fine boys no be human being? Will aliens date them?

morningstar55:

If you were only helping out...there shouldn't be regrets

Don't encourage such. No one wanna go into a relationship that will drain them instead of adding Value.

logan2:
never take women seriously, never treat a woman with specialty

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