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Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Feb 27, 2019
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 2:26pm On Feb 27, 2019
For me, I really do not have issues with food. And yeah, I can date a lady who doesn't know how to cook

But the truth is, it's not about her not knowing how to cook that's the problem. The real question I ask myself is "WHY DOES SHE NOT KNOW HOW TO COOK?"

Not knowing how to cook, somehow, tells a lot about who she is, especially if she's not from a very very rich family where they have cooks and maids ant their disposal

So not knowing how to cook is not really the problem. It's the reason why you refused to know how to cook that I centre on.... And most times, my answer is usually laziness



And if I may ask, did you ever ask your mum why she never learnt how to cook?

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by NNAMDIII(m): 2:37pm On Feb 27, 2019
I can't marry a woman that can't cook, as if no be only sex and food they have to offer

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Oyindidi(f): 3:06pm On Feb 27, 2019
Lol, let her go and do her homework

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 3:13pm On Feb 27, 2019
Oyindidi:
Lol, let her go and do her homework

Wey my soup? angry

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by ImaIma1(f): 3:14pm On Feb 27, 2019
Inability to cook should not be the determinant in a relationship especially if she has many other good things about her.

But seriously, cooking is basic...it is a survival necessity. What was she doing with her time that she didn't learn even the basics?

How does she want to go about it in marriage? Eat out, buy pots of soups and stews or depend on maids?

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:17pm On Feb 27, 2019
Cooking is no longer a big deal.
There are YouTube videos and small books that teaches everyone how to cook different delicacies.

If she is willing to learn or not, it does not matter, there are women that knows how to cook but still employs chefs because of work and busy schedule.

Beyonce is worth almost half a billion dollar and she dont know how to cook, she is succesfully married with kids for more than a decade now.

Those female celebs that can win tournaments in cooking, some of them are divorced now, some are mere baby mamas.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Feb 27, 2019
NNAMDIII:
I can't marry a woman that can't cook, as if no be only sex and food they have to offer
Lol. You think so?

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Feb 27, 2019
MRsoftapple:
Cooking is no longer a big deal.
There are YouTube videos and small books that teaches everyone how to cook different delicacies.

If she is willing to learn or not, it does not matter, there are women that knows how to cook but still employs chefs because of work and busy schedule.

Beyonce is worth almost half a billion dollar and she dont know how to cook, she is succesfully married with kids for more than a decade now.

Those female celebs that can win tournaments in cooking, some of them are divorced now, some are mere baby mamas.
Good one

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by BlueAir: 3:37pm On Feb 27, 2019
Basic cooking skills are quite important. I'll encourage her to learn it plus there are plenty of cooking manuals around but it's no big deal for me to do the cooking when I have the time. cool I would lovvve to taunt her with my cooking skills at times

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by lilmax(m): 3:40pm On Feb 27, 2019
it shouldn't even be on the table for discussion

yes,I met you, you can't cook,does that mean through toasting, dating, courtship you just sit your ass down having orgasms on your inability to cook?


or you try to fill the void till I marry you


only lazy women can't cook

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:41pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.
She should let me know while dating, she can use that opportunity to learn how to cook by enrolling in a catering school even before marrying her...

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Feb 27, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
She should let me know while dating, she can use that opportunity to learn how to cook by enrolling in a catering school even before marrying her...
I doubt one can hide such while dating
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Oyindidi(f): 3:44pm On Feb 27, 2019
izzou:


Wey my soup? angry
grin
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Feb 27, 2019
lilmax:
it shouldn't even be on the table for discussion

yes,I met you, you can't cook,does that mean through toasting, dating, courtship you just sit your ass down having orgasms on your inability to cook?


or you try to fill the void till I marry you


only lazy women can't cook
You can teach her.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Oyindidi(f): 3:44pm On Feb 27, 2019
izzou:


Wey my soup? angry
I no sabi cook

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 3:45pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I doubt one can hide such while dating

You didn't answer my question

I can remove it if you find it offensive.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Feb 27, 2019
BlueAir:
Basic cooking skills are quite important. I'll encourage her to learn it plus there are plenty of cooking manuals around but it's no big deal for me to do the cooking when I have the time. cool I would lovvve to taunt her with my cooking skills at times
Great.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 3:45pm On Feb 27, 2019
Oyindidi:
I no sabi cook

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:46pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I doubt one can hide such while dating
Yeah.. True

Catering school is the sure bet.... Both of us should learn how to cook both local and international(some) dishes...gringrin Me wey like sweet food
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Feb 27, 2019
izzou:


You didn't answer my question

I can remove it if you find it offensive.
So many relatives and househelps plus she's d last born.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Oyindidi(f): 3:46pm On Feb 27, 2019
izzou:


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True grin my hand dey pain me anytime I want cook
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 3:49pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Which question?

izzou:
For me, I really do not have issues with food. And yeah, I can date a lady who doesn't know how to cook

But the truth is, it's not about her not knowing how to cook that's the problem. The real question I ask myself is "WHY DOES SHE NOT KNOW HOW TO COOK?"

Not knowing how to cook, somehow, tells a lot about who she is, especially if she's not from a very very rich family where they have cooks and maids ant their disposal

So not knowing how to cook is not really the problem. It's the reason why you refused to know how to cook that I centre on.... And most times, my answer is usually laziness




And if I may ask, did you ever ask your mum why she never learnt how to cook?
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Feb 27, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Yeah.. True

Catering school is the sure bet.... Both of us should learn how to cook both local and international(some) dishes...gringrin Me wey like sweet food
You can find practical videos on YouTube
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 3:49pm On Feb 27, 2019
Oyindidi:
True grin my hand dey pain me anytime I want cook

undecided angry
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 3:50pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So many relatives and househelps plus she's d last born.

Wow

Okay smiley
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Oyindidi(f): 3:50pm On Feb 27, 2019
izzou:


undecided angry
Kilode?
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:51pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You can find practical videos on YouTube
Hehehe... That one?? cheesycheesy You're Right though... smileysmiley
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Feb 27, 2019
grin op jus made me remember my guy's girlfriend wey no sabi cookcheesy. Dat beans wey she prepare for us wen we visitcheesy.. Chai! I wan die. See as red oil full d beans and beans no even don sefcheesy. Wat of d whole bag of salt wey she pack full d beanscheesy. Na wa for some babes oocheesy. I dont think i can be with a girl wey no sabi cookcheesy.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Feb 27, 2019
ImaIma1:
Inability to cook should not be the determinant in a relationship especially if she has many other good things about her.

. What was she doing with her time that she didn't learn even the basics?

probably slaying in front of mirror and uploading d pix on facebook and instagram or she was busy watching zeeworld while d mom was sweating out in d kitchencheesy. Even me dats a man i can cook so cooking is no big deal but i get surprised wen i find out dat some ladies cant even boil common eggshocked. Wen i was much younger i remember anytime my mom's cooking i will watch her then later i will cook d food. I made some errors but i later perfected it. Some girls dhier mom will be in d kitchen cooking and sweating it out and they will be in the sittingroom watching a telenovella or gossiping with their friends.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 27, 2019
Oyindidi:
I no sabi cook
u no sabi cook? Na big liecheesy
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Oyindidi(f): 4:14pm On Feb 27, 2019
lefulefu:
u no sabi cook? Na big liecheesy
My hand dey pain me once I hold spoon

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