NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

Cromagnon:
gmwtmamw women will find big men to marry?

lefulefu:
na wao.. Jayzee jus fall her hand

NNAMDIII:
I can't marry a woman that can't cook, as if no be only sex and food they have to offer

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol. Wetin him go school go do? Who will teach the kids when I'm not around? He'll have to go to night classes o

Stanley126:
Uncle Nairaland was bleepingly boring and I decided to open a thread that has to do with our social reality ni.


Have you seen an Anambra babe that cannot cook? Chim






















Haunty go and learn how to cook,stop looking for consolations...

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

AntiBrutus:


I am actually a good cook, but then, I haven't been with a guy who is overly interested in my cooking skills.

AntiBrutus:


You asked what she was doing in her growing years. Meaning you assume(d) she should have been learning/watching her mum cook.
Meaning you assume(d) she should have learned better. Meaning you agree that good cooking skill could be/is hereditary.



Like I said to another poster, cooking is a skill, just like driving. Some people are good at it, others will always always make a mess of it.

Toks2008:

Lol! This is a perfect naija based question.
In the western world they will laugh at you.
Anyways I use to have this mindset but not anymore...
I can marry a lady who can't even boil egg.

Toks2008:


Lol! This is a perfect naija based question.

In the western world they will laugh at you.

Anyways I use to have this mindset but not anymore...

I can marry a lady who can't even boil egg.

Mariangeles:
Whether you admit it or not, FOOD is a very vital part of a marriage!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Sir u would have bitten of you ur fingers if u had tasted that soup. It's in the blood Sha.

Tundexxy:


Meaning you will do the cooking ba?

Toks2008:


Lol! This is a perfect naija based question.

In the western world they will laugh at you.

Anyways I use to have this mindset but not anymore...

I can marry a lady who can't even boil egg.

Mariangeles:
Cooking is more of a necessity than it is a skill.
Cooking and driving don't compare .

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So you guys will other food everyday?

The west also had a time when women were taught how to cook and please their men only. Infact they couldn't even met a man without a chaperone. So calm down.

vicben27:
the question is, what was she doing when her mates were learning how to cook? a well brought up girl wouldn't be lacking in that area. it's a Big" NO " for me! she should go and learn how to cook, there are catering schools every where. it's not all about having a vagina between your legs, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

Mariangeles:
Our people keep comparing themselves to the western world.
They have their ways and we have our beautiful culture... and our culture is our identity.
We lose culture, we've lost ourselves.

The day we stop measuring ourselves using them as a standard, is the day we gain total EMANCIPATION!

Mariangeles:
Our people keep comparing themselves to the western world.
They have their ways and we have our beautiful culture... and our culture is our identity.
We lose culture, we've lost ourselves.

The day we stop measuring ourselves using them as a standard, is the day we gain total EMANCIPATION!

Saffi:
What were you doing when your mates were investing cash to make profit? A way to a woman’s heart is cash, most of you barely have it yet we manage you and compromise for the sake of love. Before a lady pronounces the ‘b’ in broke, 5 guys will haunt her down with abusive words but now you can’t compromise with cooking skills. Well I’ve seen it all on Nairaland and I’m fed up of this site honestly.

Toks2008:


Sis take it or leave it...only a myopic guy will say he can't marry a lady who can't cook in the western world.

Everybody is busy and you don't expect one house help to come home and start cooking for you not when you are even involved in interracial marriage.

It is only a plus if the lady loves cooking but you can't force it.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Nice one.

peroristic:
99% of lagos girl only knows how to cook indomie. thats all when there mum was cooking na broda uche room she dey!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Good one but u can't make him view reality from your own window. You are very correct though, why lose a good woman over poor culinary skills