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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by UrbanExotica(f): 7:14pm On Feb 27, 2019
Chrisus:

'Beyonce can't cook'
You know this because you live with her, right?
Hes right.her husband said it
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:14pm On Feb 27, 2019
Tallesty1:
There's no such a thing as a woman who doesn't know how to cook but willing to learn. If she is willing to learn then she would have learned it before being old of enough to marry.


Any adult who doesn't know how to cook is either a lazy overgrown baby elephant or a spoilt brat.
gbam! A lady or dude too lazy to learn how to cook a simple meal would probably be lazy in order things.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by samisj4real(m): 7:14pm On Feb 27, 2019
NNAMDIII:
I can't marry a woman that can't cook, as if no be only sex and food they have to offer
grin grin grin chai Nnamdi this your mouth no go kill you.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Jaemes(m): 7:15pm On Feb 27, 2019
Since she will be willing and eager to learn; No problem!. But I may not be the one to teach her
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by alexola20(m): 7:16pm On Feb 27, 2019
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 27, 2019
Well for me personally, if he ticks other boxes and he’s a good provider/ potiential husband then forget about sex. Everyone has what the can and cannot tolerate so I won’t judge.
Beedude:

So it's after marriage u want to start teaching a guy ? Ladies and double standard. God see u tru
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Beedude(m): 7:16pm On Feb 27, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Cooking isn't equal to lovemaking.
Its all about meeting ur partner's need. Some men can't trade food with anything and some ladies can't trade lovemaking with anything. They are both of good value in any relationship and nothing can substitute both

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Holiegrail2: 7:17pm On Feb 27, 2019
am I mad?
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Tallesty1(m): 7:18pm On Feb 27, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Maybe her mum is a terrible cook too.
Don't shift blames. If her mom is a terrible cook and she knows right that her food tastes awful then should have learned to cook to replace her.


Besides bad cooking isn't hereditary so don't make excuses for her. She simply refused to learn.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by uuzba(m): 7:19pm On Feb 27, 2019
MRsoftapple:
Cooking is no longer a big deal.
There are YouTube videos and small books that teaches teach everyone how to cook different delicacies.

If she is willing to learn or not, it does not matter, there are women that knows know how to cook but still employs employ chefs because of work and busy schedule.

Beyonce is worth almost half a billion dollars and she doesn't know how to cook, she is successfully married with kids for more than a decade now.

Those female celebs that can win tournaments in cooking, some of them are divorced now, some are mere baby mamas.
...small books that teach...
...women that know...
...but still employ...
You seem to add "S" at the end of words in the wrong context.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Mursz: 7:20pm On Feb 27, 2019
I can cook all the food for both of us, besides i like cooking so who cares if she doesnt know how to cook.

Not a problem for me.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 27, 2019
UrbanExotica:
Hes right.her husband said it
na wao.. Jayzee jus fall her hand
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by okwabayi(m): 7:21pm On Feb 27, 2019
The answer is no.
A lot of women dream of the day they cook for a loved one.
Any woman who cannot cook must learn.
It's 2019, any female who cannot cook is worthless.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Adesouth(m): 7:21pm On Feb 27, 2019
op no Sabi cook....she wan calculate her chances

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Winningr14: 7:21pm On Feb 27, 2019
See prove bellow...

Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Tallesty1(m): 7:22pm On Feb 27, 2019
AntiBrutus:

Maybe her mum is a terrible cook too.
Bad cooking skill isn't hereditary
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Eroms4life17(m): 7:22pm On Feb 27, 2019
Let's not stand here and believe it's okay for a woman not to know how to cook. It's a decision she has taken since her youthful days. She had all the opportunities to learn but ignored all of it. Now if any man will ignore that and still go ahead to wife her, that's his own tea cup. But for me, it's a BIG NO!

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Feb 27, 2019
Saffi:
Well for me personally, if he ticks other boxes and he’s a good provider/ potiential husband then forget about sex. Everyone has what the can and cannot tolerate so I won’t judge.
at least if ur husband dey provide money and other comfort but im dey lack in za oza room dept u can always get a young willing sugarboy to fill out dat space. I concurcheesycheesy.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Feb 27, 2019
Beedude:

Its all about meeting ur partner's need. Some men can't trade food with anything and some ladies can't trade lovemaking with anything. They are both of good value in any relationship and nothing can substitute both

Lovemaking isn't equal to cooking.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by uuzba(m): 7:24pm On Feb 27, 2019
Mursz:
I can cook all the food for both of us, besides i like cooking so who cares if she doesnt know how to cook.

Not a problem for me.
The day you come back from work hungry and tired and she will be watching Zee World, waiting for you to come and cook for her.... Hmm.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by milanseedorf(m): 7:26pm On Feb 27, 2019
Me wey like food die. It's a big No for me. She go kill me with hunger cus I lazy for kitchen
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Feb 27, 2019
Tallesty1:
Bad cooking skill isn't hereditary

You asked what she was doing in her growing years. Meaning you assume(d) she should have been learning/watching her mum cook.
Meaning you assume(d) she should have learned better. Meaning you agree that good cooking skill could be/is hereditary.



Like I said to another poster, cooking is a skill, just like driving. Some people are good at it, others will always always make a mess of it.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by uuzba(m): 7:26pm On Feb 27, 2019
Human being is the only animal on earth that cooks food before eating. Why shouldn't every human being know how to cook the damn food and stay alive?
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

definitely not dating one.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 27, 2019
Eroms4life17:
Let's not stand here and believe it's okay for a woman not to know how to cook. It's a decision she has taken since her youthful days. She had all the opportunities to learn but ignored all of it. Now if any man will ignore that and still go ahead to wife her, that's his own tea cup. But for me, it's a BIG NO!
well most men who end up marrying ladies who cant cook and unwilling to learn are mostly men who are very excellent in the cooking dept and also very submissive.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by ImaIma1(f): 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2019
Beedude:

Can u marry a guy that can not make love ?


Is cooking equal to love making?
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Feb 27, 2019
martineverest:
is she your cook?...is culinary skills now a criterion for love/dating?

really sad that modern Nigerians still think like this...
archaic mentality
quite funny, so you wanna tell me I'll take care of the financial and security burden of the family, only for her not to know how to cook? So what does she add to my life if I may ask..

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Feb 27, 2019
alexola20:

If she's ready to learn,Alright.
But slay queens of nowadays,smh,they a write-offs.
Men love slay queens. Forget that thing.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by MannieA(f): 7:29pm On Feb 27, 2019
lefulefu:
grin op jus made me remember my guy's girlfriend wey no sabi cookcheesy. Dat beans wey she prepare for us wen we visitcheesy.. Chai! I wan die. See as red oil full d beans and beans no even don sefcheesy. Wat of d whole bag of salt wey she pack full d beanscheesy. Na wa for some babes oocheesy. I dont think i can be with a girl wey no sabi cookcheesy.


Beans that's very easy to Cook!!chai
I love beans,so anytime I want to Cook it I settle down and prepare it well.
There was one time that I let my roommate cook beans for me coz she offered to do it...My gawd I almost died while eating the beans. Too much water and no taste.
I almost cried that day.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by izzou(m): 7:29pm On Feb 27, 2019
AntiBrutus:


I believe cooking is a skill, some people get a hang of it... others do not.


Not liking how to cook is different from not being able to cook

As a young girl, yes you Poco grin, your mum at some point in your life, must have taught you some skills in cooking. Now, you may not like to cook, but that does not mean you can't do it

I wish I could explain more clearly sad

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Feb 27, 2019
Amarabae:
If she can't cook, she should learn how to cook.
Simple.
you're the only sensible woman here so far.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by MannieA(f): 7:30pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Men love slay queens. Forget that thing.



True. Men love slay queens.
It's the ones who don't know how to get them that criticize them.

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