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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Beedude(m): 7:31pm On Feb 27, 2019
Jaemes:
Since she will be willing and eager to learn; No problem!. But I may not be the one to teach her
Someone that didnt learn how to cook till she clock 20+ and start telling me she's eager to learn is a scammer. Even as a guy, I can't even remember when and how I started cooking.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by eltata(m): 7:31pm On Feb 27, 2019
80% of Americans eat out. Thats why you see lot of them with cancers. It is their culture to always eat out.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Feb 27, 2019
sacramento1212:
Cooking is a secondary requirement. If the primary requirements which are as well the essentials are in place but she cannot cook, I will gladly date her and either teach her how to cook or hire someone to do so.

Nobody was born perfect in the aspect of cooking but only learnt to become better in it. Consistency in it will definitely yield the desired results.
what are the primary requirements if I may ask?
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by uuzba(m): 7:32pm On Feb 27, 2019
sudeba:
Most ladies are lazy and can't bend the kneels knee. All in the name of AM THE LAST BORN OR THE ONLY GIRL.

Knee - the name of the joint in the leg
Kneel - the action of bending the joint.
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1. You bend a knee - You bend the body part
2 You kneel down - you carry out the action/ .process
3. ...Every KNEE shall bow...

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 27, 2019
Make she fry beans now. Lesson number one food is a big deal, I mean food competition between us
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by divineappo(m): 7:34pm On Feb 27, 2019
if she is willing and humble to learn, if she loves me, and if she has good character/attitude, then I will marry her for sure
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by MannieA(f): 7:35pm On Feb 27, 2019
Knowing how to cook is very important.
No matter how we try to twist it, this is Africa and not the western world..
It's important very important for a woman to be able to prepare nutritious and delicious meal for her family.
Even women who know how to cook still go to catering school....it gives additional knowledge on new recipes to try out and also perfect your cooking skills.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Feb 27, 2019
Yoighaman:
She cannot cook? Ok nau, she would go back to her dad's crip to learn, we can consider the relationship later, that's if there's still vacancy....BS.
my guy, a lot of men just dey yarn dust. Nice one

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Divay22(f): 7:35pm On Feb 27, 2019
lefulefu:
grin op jus made me remember my guy's girlfriend wey no sabi cookcheesy. Dat beans wey she prepare for us wen we visitcheesy.. Chai! I wan die. See as red oil full d beans and beans no even don sefcheesy. Wat of d whole bag of salt wey she pack full d beanscheesy. Na wa for some babes oocheesy. I dont think i can be with a girl wey no sabi cookcheesy.
Nothing dey ever happen to you o, na so so your friends angry

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Feb 27, 2019
eltata:
80% of Americans eat out. Thats why you see lot of them with cancers. It is their culture to always eat out.




Nija dey learn am, you nor get money you nor sabi cook wetin you go offer. You nor sabi Na scam and a fat lie
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Feb 27, 2019
UrbanExotica:
Hes right.her husband said it
so even if he's right, just because Beyonce can't cook and it's acceptable by her husband, means all men should see cooking as a trifle matter? Erroneous logic.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by bluefilm: 7:38pm On Feb 27, 2019
As long as she can fück and fück me satisfactorily all the time, my answer is YES.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Feb 27, 2019
uuzba:

The day you come back from work hungry and tired and she will be watching Zee World, waiting for you to come and cook go her.... Hmm.
wen ur wife cooks for u and the kids it will even bring d family closer. Imagine a family eating out cos there is no cooking done in d house.na wich kain family be dat one.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by sprints1: 7:39pm On Feb 27, 2019
Dating a woman that cannot cook be like buying hitachi TV without remote.. Cucu ma no date the woman shior how can a woman not know how to cook.... Nonsense... 21st century baes and Dominos' be like 5& 6
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Divay22(f): 7:42pm On Feb 27, 2019
lefulefu:
probably slaying in front of mirror and uploading d pix on facebook and instagram or she was busy watching zeeworld while d mom was sweating out in d kitchencheesy. Even me dats a man i can cook so cooking is no big deal but i get surprised wen i find out dat some ladies cant even boil common eggshocked. Wen i was much younger i remember anytime my mom's cooking i will watch her then later i will cook d food. I made some errors but i later perfected it. Some girls dhier mom will be in d kitchen cooking and sweating it out and they will be in the sittingroom watching a telenovella or gossiping with their friends.
Are you talking about me

Help me thank God for noodles and snacks.
While in school for 1 year, i cooked soup just twice. If i wanted Eba, either i go home or visit any of my female friends or just buy.

But I'm learning thou.. Seriously i hate eating out.
But we keep trying till we get it right smiley
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Tallesty1(m): 7:42pm On Feb 27, 2019
AntiBrutus:


You asked what she was doing in her growing years. Meaning you assume(d) she should have been learning/watching her mum cook.
Meaning you assume(d) she should have learned better. Meaning you agree that good cooking skill could be/is hereditary.



Like I said to another poster, cooking is a skill, just like driving. Some people are good at it, others will always always make a mess of it.
You're just assuming that I assumed. Damn, you assume too much.

When I talked about childhood, I meant it was the best time to learn how to cook, ie for those willing to learn.

There are many things you don't learn from just your parents, cooking is one of them.

My mom is good a cook, but I beat her hands down when it comes to cooking. She taught me what she know and I dug deeper and now I cook soups that she doesn't even know exist, why? Because I kept learning, so I never assumed that cooking is hereditary.

Cooking isn't like a driving skill, so many people will never drive a car in their entire life but they eat at least two times a day.
You need food to survive, so cooking is a basic something. Don't compare with driving.

Now talking about being a bad cook because you're surrounded by bad cooks or because your mom is a bad cook. You're just making excuses.

If you're willing to learn, you will best those around you.

How?

You eat out occasionally and you eat at your friends house. Anytime a person willing to learn tastes a nice food, s/he will ask "how do you make it"

I am sure they will tell you and you will learn if indeed you're willing.


No excuse.

Any adult who doesn't how to cook isn't willing to learn.

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by martineverest(m): 7:42pm On Feb 27, 2019
DeckXavier:
quite funny, so you wanna tell me I'll take care of the financial and security burden of the family, only for her not to know how to cook? So what does she add to my life if I may ask..
what if she a working independent woman?

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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Mariangeles(f): 7:45pm On Feb 27, 2019
lefulefu:
probably slaying in front of mirror and uploading d pix on facebook and instagram or she was busy watching zeeworld while d mom was sweating out in d kitchencheesy. Even me dats a man i can cook so cooking is no big deal but i get surprised wen i find out dat some ladies cant even boil common eggshocked. Wen i was much younger i remember anytime my mom's cooking i will watch her then later i will cook d food. I made some errors but i later perfected it. Some girls dhier mom will be in d kitchen cooking and sweating it out and they will be in the sittingroom watching a telenovella or gossiping with their friends.
It's not about watching telenovelas or what not ...if she knows how to cook, she knows how to cook.
If she doesn't, she can learn if she puts her mind to it

I love watching telenovelas, so does that mean I don't know how to cook ??
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:46pm On Feb 27, 2019
Squillaci:


definitely not dating one.
this your moniker ehn!! The guy kill arsenal that year.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by sacramento1212: 7:46pm On Feb 27, 2019
DeckXavier:
what are the primary requirements if I may ask?

In summary, character. Listing them one after the other still sums up to Character. So if a lady is an excellent cook but has a bad character, you cannot change that except she decides to change which can still be a farce.

But if she has a good character and other good qualities but cannot cook, i don't see it as an issue to me except she's intentionally not willing to learn but if not, i will contract someone to teach her.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by holluphemydavid(m): 7:46pm On Feb 27, 2019
olureignforever:


You can and decide to be the cook.
grin
olureignforever:


You can and decide to be the cook.

But honestly u hardly c a man who will marry such a lady
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Mariangeles(f): 7:47pm On Feb 27, 2019
Tallesty1:
You just assuming that I assumed. Damn, you assume too much.

When I talked about childhood, I meant it was the best time to learn how to cook, ie for those willing to learn.

There are many things you don't learn from just your parents, cooking is one of them.

My mom is good a cook, but I beat her hands down when it comes to cooking. She taught me what she know and dug deeper and now I cook soups that she doesn't even know exist, why? Because I kept learning, so I never assumed that cooking is hereditary.

Cooking isn't like a driving skill, so many people will never drive a car in their entire life but they eat at least two times a day.
You need food to survive, so cooking is a basic something. Don't compare with driving.

Now talking about being a bad cook because you're surrounded by bad cooks or because your mom is a bad cook. You're just making excuses.

If you're willing to learn, you will best those around you.

How?

You eat out occasionally and you eat at your friends house. Anytime a person willing to learn tastes a nice food, s/he will ask "how do you make it"

I am sure they will tell you and you will learn if indeed you're willing.


No excuse.

Any adult who doesn't how to cook isn't willing to learn.
I like your signature... grin
I totally agree grin
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Feb 27, 2019
Beedude:

Someone that didnt learn how to cook till she clock 20+ and start telling me she's eager to learn is a scammer. Even as a guy, I can't even remember when and how I started cooking.
Scammer? How now?
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by MannieA(f): 7:48pm On Feb 27, 2019
grin
Divay22:
Nothing dey ever happen to you o, na so so your friends angry


Lmao!!!!this babe you too funny!!
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by davillian(m): 7:48pm On Feb 27, 2019
It knowing how to cook is not my problem but refusal or lack of interest on learning how to cook that's were the problem is.
I can cook and I can teach her that's if she is willing and if she is not willing to learn.
Then she should check d next door.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Feb 27, 2019
MannieA:



Beans that's very easy to Cook!!chai
I love beans,so anytime I want to Cook it I settle down and prepare it well.
There was one time that I let my roommate cook beans for me coz she offered to do it...My gawd I almost died while eating the beans. Too much water and no taste.
I almost cried that day.
thank God u sabi cook beans cos thats most of we guys favourite foodcheesy. Most of us wey be guys na even for school we learn how to cook beans. Well i couldnt blame her cos most ladies dont like beans and hence they are bothered to learn how to cook it. Iyam even surprised for a lady u love beanscheesy.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Feb 27, 2019
izzou:


Not liking how to cook is different from not being able to cook

As a young girl, yes you Poco grin, your mum at some point in your life, must have taught you some skills in cooking. Now, you may not like to cook, but that does not mean you can't do it

I wish I could explain more clearly sad

I understand you, but I can assure you there are ladies that flop at it.

I am not talking of those ones that can't cook at all o. I don't understand that category who have never given it a shot, but in the absence of that...I maintain not everyone would be a good cook. We would always have the bad and the ugly.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by DJperdurabo: 7:49pm On Feb 27, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I doubt one can hide such while dating

Yes they can!
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by tintingz(m): 7:49pm On Feb 27, 2019
Yes I can and we can both learn the cooking.
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Feb 27, 2019
ednut1:
u no sabi cook ni
How? Did I mention such
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 27, 2019
Tallesty1:
You just assuming that I assumed. Damn, you assume too much.

When I talked about childhood, I meant it was the best time to learn how to cook, ie for those willing to learn.

There are many things you don't learn from just your parents, cooking is one of them.

My mom is good a cook, but I beat her hands down when it comes to cooking. She taught me what she know and dug deeper and now I cook soups that she doesn't even know exist, why? Because I kept learning, so I never assumed that cooking is hereditary.

Cooking isn't like a driving skill, so many people will never drive a car in their entire life but they eat at least two times a day.
You need food to survive, so cooking is a basic something. Don't compare with driving.

Now talking about being a bad cook because you're surrounded by bad cooks or because your mom is a bad cook. You're just making excuses.

If you're willing to learn, you will best those around you.

How?

You eat out occasionally and you eat at your friends house. Anytime a person willing to learn tastes a nice food, s/he will ask "how do you make it"

I am sure they will tell you and you will learn if indeed you're willing.


No excuse.

Any adult who doesn't how to cook isn't willing to learn.

Okay Sir...
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 27, 2019
tintingz:
Yes I can and we can both learn the cooking.
Good one. Boys b learning now.

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