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| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by islandmoon: 10:27am On Feb 28, 2019 |
op shut up! and be a man, girls ain't loyal , so you are crying like a wussy guy and begging. lol. you never see anything , if you have spent the money you spent on her on a dog and the dog born, do you know how much you would have made? 3 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Davindal(m): 10:31am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Op!!! You are a complete mother-fucking buffon, and a personification of the word 'weakling'. So...because of her so-called beauty, you lost your sense as a man. Oga, you a complete Ode. Well, I don't give a flying Bleep about pussy niggas like you. You are hereby advised to go and die, huh. F*ck you Mehn!!! Well, let me advise you weakling. In your next relationship, don't allow sex to reformat you brain. The rule: Don't you ever agree to do for a lady that which her patents cannot do or afford her, unless she is your wife, sister, or mother. If the situation is aside these set of ladies (mother, sisters, wife, et'al) above, you are hereby advised to take it as a sacrifice (no stringe attached, after all, you can help someone in dire need) when you help a lady. Anyway, if you are near me, I would have given you a brain resetting slap. Pussy Man. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by openmine(m): 10:33am On Feb 28, 2019 |
After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.This is the part where you virtually lost all your VALUE before her! Sorry! 2 Likes
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| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nicoddemus(m): 10:33am On Feb 28, 2019 |
What one church girl in university days did to me eh. She cured crase commot for my brain. Now i run relationship with business mindedness. Nothing to regret 5 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by crispyJ: 10:33am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382: just forget her and beauty, people more beautiful than her are too many, besides beauty, character nah wargly (war war + ugly). bro double your hustle and recuperate, live her let her go and find people that will use her pant to buy Benz. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by johnnyever(m): 10:35am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Guy u gat to forget about all the bullshit u guys have spend together. Focus on your life and be more productive to yourself. Many fishes dey inside river. Beautiful girls plenty but never allow beauty to deceive u. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by MrFly(m): 10:35am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Shut down ur memory of her, hustle hard, i bet u d guy dt bought her iphone is just after the puna.. She finish u though! |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by openmine(m): 10:39am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382:bro go and read this thread on nairaland! https://www.nairaland.com/4879367/what-friends develop a wonderful relationship with yourself. It is difficult for people to love you if you don’t love you. You must be your own best friend, don’t be desperate for the endorsement or approval of people. The first step in cultivating a personal relationship with yourself is understanding and accepting who you are first then defining who you want to become. Once you set personal goals and a vision, begin to develop plans and strategies for your pursuit, you’ll discover you’ll start falling in love with an advancing you as you keep progressing and achieve your set goals. A life without personal goals, dreams and pursuits is a confused and frustrating one, hence the desperation to seek people and friends to fill the void. When you’re very busy working hard on yourself, chasing your goals and building your dreams, you wouldn’t even have enough time for too many unnecessary people in your life. 3 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 10:39am On Feb 28, 2019 |
A relationship with her was like being content in a room but always looking out through the window for the next big thing. She dated you while she was vulnerable and I'm very sure you saw some red flags before now but swayed them aside because of the love wey dey shark you. Moral of this story : don't overspend on a girl you're not married to and don't think because you've been good to her, she cannot pack her bag immediately she gets exposed. Some women have fallen victim as well .No matter how hurting her utterances and actions are, you just dodged a bullet and should be grateful for that. She's probably getting those stuffs from yahoo boy or a married fella and you know the implications? Move on with your life even though its not easy, double your hustle and pray to God to renounce every negative words she said to you . Don't put a price on your happiness brother! 4 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Elliot2(m): 10:41am On Feb 28, 2019 |
I have been there. Bro,just move on. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 10:43am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Brother give me her number, make I dribble her like football. She will regrets knowing my type in 100years. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by nelklyn(m): 10:46am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382: Well it's good you accepted that you did some stupid things. You should never let emotional blackmail from anyone push you into going out of your way to please them. Fine you made some sacrifices for the girl in question but I will be honest with you...she owes you nothing, not loyalty, not money, not kind words, not s*x, nothing at all. If or when you decide to give any other female/male anything, give without any form of expectations. It baffles me you had to beg someone for a month to unblock you from a mere social media platform. This tells much about how you carry yourself. No human should ever have to go through such begging process... Your words up there "I adore this girl" still in the present...so you want her back after all this BULL  ...you also said "in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life." believe me you will meet more beautiful girls in your life time. Worse will be when you become a sugar daddy  My advice to you, delete any form of contact you have with that girl, block her on whatsapp and any other social platform you have her on, focus on whatever business it is that you do, then get like 3 or 4 girls (it doesn't matter if they have boyfriends as long as they aren't married) and explain to them explicitly that all you want is to have fun and s*x, when you feel you need warmth, call anyone of them that is available. Please no sleep overs lest you get attached  2 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Isoduwa(m): 10:46am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382: That girl so get HIV if you doubt me go do test 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by dboss12(m): 10:47am On Feb 28, 2019 |
your headache, why wasting time with unproductive lady, go get yourself busy and stop crying over trashed material. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Uhtred(m): 10:49am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Girls are scum!!! 3 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Chepy: 10:49am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Forget that poo jor. Why you no ask her if her own broda don make am yet or her fada sef! If the answer is yes, she wouldn’t have the time to ask you for money 2 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by AleAirHub(m): 10:50am On Feb 28, 2019 |
See Correct Advice.... Kalashnikov382 mhizdebbygold: 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by asobo: 10:51am On Feb 28, 2019 |
lilmax:Bro is well ooh, Buhari's stolen mandate will not stand by God's grace. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by simplesearch: 10:52am On Feb 28, 2019 |
The relationship seems to be undefined and lacking in direction from the on-set, Two years together doing what? Just sex or helping each other to grow, If it's the former why do you expect her to commit to you alone, and if it's the latter you should be somewhere by now. Whatever it is since she has decided to quit why not let her be, it's definitely for your own good. At this point all you need do is come clean with God and seek his face, take a break from everything stunting your pursuit and growth, and have it settled once and for all. Whoever cannot accept/agree/stay/cope/plan with you at the primordial/threshold of a relationship won't stay long with you when it is consummated. Just work on yourself for now, you can always get someone better than her when you are ready to build a true relationship. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 10:53am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382: She's right. You are addicted to brokenness. If you were not, then you wouldn't be wasting ur precious time on a girl that clearly adds no value to ur life. See, relationship is supposed to be mutually beneficial. Now, if d only values she brings to ur own life is under d sheet, then truly u are addicted to brokeness. You Want 2 Tell Me You Are Not Addicted To Brokeness? Then prove it... Get up, stop being a pvssy man, hustle hard, succeed and make her come back begging. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Ozugbo(m): 10:53am On Feb 28, 2019 |
What is the lady adding to ur life? Pls move on. My wife left me after spending huge amount of money on her hospital bills. Without a quarrel she left me, calling me a pauper. I no die n I have already moved on. Pls forget her. U re even lucky say u never marry her like in my own case. 7 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 10:55am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Why were you both dating in the first place? If you were just dating for dating sake, then her path with you has ended so don't be pained over something that was not clearly defined. I always say you should never date if you are not ready for marriage in all aspects. Just go and huzzle and cancel being in any relationship for now. Except you want to become like all these pained, frustrated negroes on Nairaland that curse females day and night out of misery. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by oluwaphyno(m): 10:56am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Bro u'v gat to calm down k.she has just given u d courage to work hard nd get back on ur feet once more. Your present condition is not a permanent one k. But try to move ahead when tinx turns back to normal,cos she may comeback putting the whole blame on d devil nd beg for you to take her back. @mhizdebbygold. �true talk. 3 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by rukidanty: 10:58am On Feb 28, 2019 |
africandictator:you are right man..same thing happened to me and i moved on and take a break from relationship |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Amhappy(f): 10:59am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Divay22: You took this right out of my mouth. Over to you OP. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Omobada(m): 11:03am On Feb 28, 2019 |
OP, that hoe is as good as gone. And don't ever bother to take her back no matter how much u think you love her. Now, as you embark on new searching journey. Here are some rules of relationship you must study: 1- Don't ever impress any girl with money or material things simply because you need her badly unless you are not ready to live the rest of your life with her. 2- If she eventually says yes, it is necessary to assist her as your girl, but don't ever go beyond boundaries just because you don't want to loose her. 3- If she sees no reason for her to continue with you, try to convince her if you can, but DON'T EVER DO SO AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR INTEGRITY. 4- Lastly, don't ever BEG, I REPEAT, DON'T EVER BEG A WOMAN TO STAY WHEN SHE DECIDES TO GO. DOING SO WILL CAUSE MORE HARM THAN GOOD. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Onyenna(m): 11:03am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Rigel95: The guy is a DISGRACE!!! |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by rukidanty: 11:08am On Feb 28, 2019 |
thesame thing happened to me..gal i was dating for two years and was planning to marry her ,even my parents was telling me to make sure i marry her and i so much love her but immediately she entered despo to continue her hnd ,she met one yahoo boy and under two weeks the guy has transformed her whole life and has spent more than 500k on her ..change everything about her to even her pants self.she told the boy that i don't have a future plan and future ambition and that was why she left me and the boy told me face to face ,i mean the yahoo guy.i was forced to end the relationship with her and move on with my life and wish her well in the future though it was painful..Then i realised that women are like cow that they tied rope on their neck,immediately the rope mistakenly loose,they start running and never look back.what i mean is that,no matter the time and amount you spend on a lady,when she want to leave you,she would leave and forget all what you have done..so op move on and focus on your life...you will meet another decent gal..don't be deceive by their beauty 4 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Unik3030: 11:11am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382:u are stupid and u deserve worst treatment, u fools are d reasons girls believe guys are stupid. y do all these to a mere girlfriend, u believe u can hook her down with money n she has gone to d highest bidder so deal with your problem 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by emaopel: 11:11am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Let her statement challenge you to be great in the near future...Just believe in yourself and stop being foolish. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Unik3030: 11:11am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382:u are stupid and u deserve worst treatment, u fools are d reasons girls believe guys are stupid. y do all these to a mere girlfriend, u believe u can hook her down with money n she has gone to d highest bidder so deal with your problem .am sure u haven't done one quarter of this to any of your family. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Abujalal: 11:12am On Feb 28, 2019 |
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