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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by UyiIredia(m): 11:02pm On Mar 11, 2019

Saffi:
Everybody talking about her age like they weren’t doing worse at 19. Nigerians and hypocrisy, nonsenses.

At 19 I hadn't gone to parties or sexed girls. Lord forgive the porn though. What are you talking about? Good boys and girls still exist.

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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by PennywysCares(m): 11:03pm On Mar 11, 2019

lilianofentse:
Any advice?

I suggest you go back to school. Make a good life for urself and don't be so desperate on men
Ur life and happiness depends on you.
Stop silly luv and have focus for ur future.
When live go well with you good people we come around.

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Mar 11, 2019

lilianofentse:
am single rn no time for boys anymore

This is hilarious. You are one good dick away from changing your mind, from your write up.

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by UyiIredia(m): 11:05pm On Mar 11, 2019

truthsayer009:
This is hilarious. You are one good dick away from changing your mind, from your write up.

Lord knows this true.

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by jboycrb(m): 11:27pm On Mar 11, 2019

Fake

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by mamatwiny(f): 11:37pm On Mar 11, 2019

adetoroamos:
If you are in your late 20s or ready for marriage tell him to make the introduction asap but if you just need him to solve your boredom then move on with your life without him �

Introduction to a cheating partner?
Don't go there. He will never change. It is a no no!

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by martyns303(m): 11:46pm On Mar 11, 2019

lilianofentse:
I just Wish i never gave too much in the relationship

Are u South African? If yes, I have noticed such traits with the men. Please no offense meant. Men all over the world cheat, however some just don't put enough effort to hide it.

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by davillian(m): 12:35am On Mar 12, 2019

I believe he is about same age with u.
When I was 19 I was testing my wings and hunting skills.

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by queiii: 12:56am On Mar 12, 2019

oops, if I'd known from the start she was a south african, I wouldnt have bothered commenting here. south african teenagers are mostly hoes... doing shit in schools and all. Das all I gatta say

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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 1:18am On Mar 12, 2019

HARTSL:
I love this advise and coming from a guy oh. Well if she go hear oh

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 1:28am On Mar 12, 2019

truthsayer009:
I just gave you one like

Why

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Ishilove: 1:44am On Mar 12, 2019

Omoluabi16:
but but..he knows how to sex her

She is suffering from Dickmatosis, brought on by expert sexing grin

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Ishilove: 1:48am On Mar 12, 2019

UyiIredia:
At 19 I hadn't gone to parties or sexed girls. Lord forgive the porn though. What are you talking about? Good boys and girls still exist.

At 19 I was in 200 Level fighting tooth and nail to get a 2:1 grade. I don't know what children of nowadays are looking for. Wetin dey hungry them no dey market.

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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 1:57am On Mar 12, 2019

Guest007:
Why

That's how we treat guests here.

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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Omoluabi16(m): 2:02am On Mar 12, 2019

Ishilove:
She is suffering from Dickmatosis, brought on by expert sexing

And so far, all efforts to find a lasting cure for dickmatosis has proved abortive. cry

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 2:15am On Mar 12, 2019

truthsayer009:
That's how we treat guests here.

Thank you

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by frozen70(f): 2:49am On Mar 12, 2019

Am glad you lives him and he knows how to sex you well

I will advice you take it easy with him

Guys will always cheat because they like variaties

When he is satisfied or have enough of his game, he can now learn how to be a decent guy

You are also choking him alot, learn to give him breathing space so that he can reflect on himself

What if he ends the relationship eont you cope or move on with your life ❓

Relax and take it easy with him

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by tipviewsolution: 3:25am On Mar 12, 2019

Believe at your Peril... grin

No one should send anything ooh

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by femi4: 5:14am On Mar 12, 2019

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.

2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else.

Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.

He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx

You are his intimacy gadget and he knows it ll be difficult for you to leave because of the sex

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by zolajpower: 5:18am On Mar 12, 2019

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.

2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else.

Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.

He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx

We meet here on Nairaland for a purpose, buh I will tell you , though it may not be easy , I will want you to dm me and let's try up something. I can assure you that you won't regret it wen u give me chance. You are stock on him bcus u still won't try something else . He's telling u indirectly that hes tired of you ,but u can't read between the lines .

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 6:07am On Mar 12, 2019

Ishilove:
At 19 I was in 200 Level fighting tooth and nail to get a 2:1 grade. I don't know what children of nowadays are looking for. Wetin dey hungry them no dey market.

Like you didn't have boyfriend then, kontinue

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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Skmoda360(m): 7:37am On Mar 12, 2019

drmikeadams:
you re way too fine to be a side chick I will give u my phone password,I will giv u good knackings we wil play video games together we voteA atiku together in 2023

Atiku my foot......2023 is for the south.....

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by AlPeter: 7:45am On Mar 12, 2019

lilianofentse:
so you mean all men are cheats?
.
I don't like him because of sex only.

Babe the guy is a player and he doesn't love you. Whether you like it or not that guy is going to continue breaking your heart no matter the promises he makes.
Or maybe you're the side chick.
My advise, for you own happiness leave the guy. Forget him, and his game. Focus on you build your self, learn more about you and what makes you tick. Grow.
Life is much more than just emotions. There are Guys out there who will make you there queen. Guys who will just enjoy being with you, watching smile, talk, or even just sitting down. Guys that'd rather be bored stiff with you rather than have all the fun on the world because in the end that's what real love is about. cheers

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by aanuoluwami14(f): 7:59am On Mar 12, 2019

truthsayer009:
This is your problem & you'll never leave him. My Sister, carry your cross oh! You have been Dickmatized.

Gbam! lobatan!

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Reeberry: 9:20am On Mar 12, 2019

olugabbie:
I think you should quit. If he truely loves you, he will never cheat on you. You don't show love by words, but by action. His action has proven that he doesn't love you. You need to move on. Spend your time and energy on developing yourself. At the end you will be happy. Shame on him for not giving you the love you sre giving him. I wish you well!

You people should stop this line. It's lame already. There's nothing like that. You can love and still cheat if your partner is not available.

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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Reeberry: 9:21am On Mar 12, 2019

Ishilove:
At 19 I was in 200 Level fighting tooth and nail to get a 2:1 grade. I don't know what children of nowadays are looking for. Wetin dey hungry them no dey market.

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by adetem(m): 9:21am On Mar 12, 2019

He may love you more than you think, but the spirit of lady don't let some guys stay one side when they see brest or bumbum they go crazy and forget their in deep relationship. My advice for you is 1st have it in your to let him go.
2nd I bliv at ur age u have male friends that you're not in love with but only friend then lets try it this way
For you to know he love you or not, change ur attitude a little bit, show no care, stop calling Or message him, if he did not care about ur new attitude simple forget about him, he did not love you. but if he challenge you by saying babe why are u doing like this and he give u some pet, love him but don't show it. Then you now involve one of your male friend by closing to him in gist and wait to see reaction of ur loving boy, if he didn't care fully know he just want to chop ur ponmo and dump u, just don't waste your time to forget about him but if seen jealous calm him down and let him know that he's the one that want to push you away. Onelove

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.

2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else.

Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.

He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by ericmor: 9:24am On Mar 12, 2019

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.

2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else.

Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.

He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx

Your picture can give a clue. Anyway sha, a general advice is that if you think you can handle him the way he is you can go on with the relationship bcs nobody is perfect we are just managing ourselves ni. I hope u will take people advice cus most girls like u can die for love

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by ericmor: 9:30am On Mar 12, 2019

zolajpower:
We meet here on Nairaland for a purpose, buh I will tell you , though it may not be easy , I will want you to dm me and let's try up something. I can assure you that you won't regret it wen u give me chance. You are stock on him bcus u still won't try something else . He's telling u indirectly that hes tired of you ,but u can't read between the lines .

Smh. U be bado o. Girl dey find solution u dey put petro for her fire �

Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by JhyMedex: 9:30am On Mar 12, 2019

bonnyhope:
19 years old girl is saying that her boy friend knows how to sex her......I weep for this generation

U jst expressed hw I feel..But tin is its only going to get worse..

Dts y I'm begging for not to give me a girl child...In a few years female children r gon b very difficult to raise morally....

Btw @Op u n I know u not leaving this guy...U will follow ur heart despite all d advice u get here..n ur heart is still wit him...
I jst wish u cld sit bak down n analyse ur life..

At 19 this isn't wat u shld h bothering ursef wit...

Imagine hw ur dad will feel if he knows u being s.exed and besmirched by some guy who has no respect for u..will brk d old man's heart..

cc: lilianofentse

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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by ericmor: 9:42am On Mar 12, 2019

lilianofentse:
am single rn no time for boys anymore

So, who do you now have time for? Girls? From your comment, u. Will still fall for the same kind of guy again if care is not taking

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