See me for here wo.... Awl love u till the sun grows cold.... My dear, the nigga never truly loved you. He is just there for the fun part of the relationship. My advice to you is, call it quit, work towards becoming a better woman and trust me, good men will chase after you for marriage.

grad2012:
Baby gal u ar 19 u are too young to get stock in a complicated life.
You need to get busy with productive things focus on your studies get engrossed in building up your life.
You need to use your youthful age wisely, pls get your priorities right gal.

A very good advice so far.

truthsayer009:


This is your problem & you'll never leave him. My Sister, carry your cross oh! You have been Dickmatized.

Lol, wetin we no go see for NL.

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.

2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else.

Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.

He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx

the girl who forgave her boyfriend was later killed by him,

[color=#000099][/color]. No wonder buhari called this set of people a lazy youth as if he has seen their future. Baby gal @ 19, I snap ur mumu selfie, ur mate are looking for way to pass jamb test, u dey find how to pass bf test.


Omo, which generation b dis sef

Stay strong please and try , see if you can opt out. If you can't then you need to endure. I won't pretend. Depending on your strength you might leave in the midst of pain......or stay for many years since you love him.

But if you stay you pay the price.

Are you sure is love or infatuation? HPB loading

it might be hard getting him to change,i av a feeling this guy is very gud with girls.just imagine having 3,4 other gals unda his spell and yet u want him to change.he's robin hood and on an adventure.get ova d mind blowing sex he gives and gradually u ll take control of ur life.

UrVillagePpl:


hanty, there r bigger things todo at such a young age other than focusing on relationship..,,,

just recently Kylie became da youngest BILLIONAIRE in the world, that's wat am talking abt. I mean at such age u ought to focus on building ur self, setting goalssss and improving / becoming better all round...

just imagine putting all this effort into developing ur self,.,, (think abt it)



am not judging u oo, am talking to u as my younger sister...

I hope u don't misunderstand mee

And you that have ambition in life how much have you made. Please I am not judging I am just trying to let you know that it's better of you mind your business.

I think you should quit. If he truely loves you, he will never cheat on you. You don't show love by words, but by action. His action has proven that he doesn't love you. You need to move on. Spend your time and energy on developing yourself. At the end you will be happy. Shame on him for not giving you the love you sre giving him. I wish you well!

babes take it eazy on ur self...u nid a gee lyk mua.. one hu will feel ur pain 4 real

olugabbie:
I think you should quit. If he truely loves you, he will never cheat on you. You don't show love by words, but by action. His action has proven that he doesn't love you. You need to move on. Spend your time and energy on developing yourself. At the end you will be happy. Shame on him for not giving you the love you sre giving him. I wish you well!

Tnx for the support Buddy.

Stop throwing yourself cheaply. It's crystal clear you two are just fornicating away time. Not sure if this fornication will lead to marriage. Wise up. Build up your dreams. Try to be financially independent. He is a player which you know but don't like admitting. Stop caging yourself with emotion. He is taking advantage of you big time. I was once like him.

AntiBrutus:


Lol, wetin we no go see for NL.

I dey tell you ehn. NL is not suppose to be free, the comedy here is too much.

sotadegrt:
Stop throwing yourself cheaply. It's crystal clear you two are just fornicating away time. Not sure if this fornication will lead to marriage. Wise up. Build up your dreams. Try to be financially independent. He is a player which you know but don't like admitting. Stop caging yourself with emotion. He is taking advantage of you big time. I was once like him.

Am through with him. tnx any way.

You're 19. Not too young but still young in my opinion.
Technically he might not be older than 24-25.
I doubt most guys are willing to be fully committed to a relationship at such age.

Babe, sex is important but not all in all. If he is good in bed and doesn't respect your relationship now, he'll never see the need to in the future..
The ball is in your court.

Guest007:
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I just gave you one like

Ishilove:

Get busy. You obviously have too much time on your hands.

but but..he knows how to sex her

lilianofentse:

As a lady it is very hard to let go of someone you really loved and never cheated on. btw I plan to marry at 23. 19 going to 20 on May so its not bad if I want a serious relationship

my dear you are still very young, why worry your self over a guy that does not love you? if he loves you he will never cheats on you never, when you get married he will do wost than this so don't ever thinks he will change or you can change him, please why not concentrate on your academics and be a better person so your parents can be so proud of you, yes is good to get married but let me tell you marriage is hard and unending, please don't rush into marriage.

Toks2008:


He may truly love her but she is in love with a dog in human flesh.

That a man loves you no mean sey e no go cheat on you.

but that's too much.

My dear flee fornication and focus on building your future.

May God help this generation

truthsayer009:

I just gave you one like

lol. am following you just for this.

Advice right? Here are them,

#1, Desist from premarital sex.

#2, Don't make a relationship your priority at this young age of yours.

#3, Focus on your studies, cos going by your narrative, you ain't good in English, if you can't write common good English then wetin you gain?

#4 Finally, give your life to Christ ASAP.

Abeg. I've Nothing to Say, i'm Single, Relationship Expert in The House Help Her

He's taking advantage of your kind heart, now you know he cheats and he has not changed, it's better you move on, because if you think he will change after settling down with him, you will be making a mistake.

lilianofentse:
lol. am following you just for this.

Lmao, greetings to your BF.

truthsayer009:
Lmao, greetings to your BF.

am single rn no time for boys anymore

lilianofentse:

As a lady it is very hard to let go of someone you really loved and never cheated on. btw I plan to marry at 23. 19 going to 20 on May so its not bad if I want a serious relationship

Shey u go propose to the guy ni.

I sent you an email

lilianofentse:

Thanks for the good vibes grad

Follow d good advice. That's all from me. Your guy is a player. Don't take them seriously.

dmgr:
You 're asking if u should give him chance,op chance for what if I may ask?

I don't know what's even wrong with some people self,look at op now,from her write up she claims he loves her,if he is really into you he won't cheat on u period. And even if he does,he won't allow you find out..

Hope u know u can't stop him from chatting and socialising with his female folks..
Even if we advise you now, u wont adhere to
what we will tell you because like u said he d!!cks u real good..

I know u will still go and tell him all what we said here