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In this era we live in I've seen children in the streets fending off for themselves at a tender age ranging from the age of 12 and above which I find abnormal (in most cases I think it's due to poverty) but I see zeal in them, some of them are those we see in traffic selling pure waters, etc....

While some men/women at the age of 25-30 are still living under their parents roof, still being fed by their parents. I also find this not a good standard for a person of that age.


This prompted me to ask this question, at what ideal age should an individual start an independent life?

for me, I didn't move back with my folks after NYSC... so, it depends on individual abilities and desire to be successful on your own rights

So far ur parents don't complain ur good to go

@25...My opinion.

But d country's economy is not friendly, dats y u see older ppl in their parents' house.

In fact, no matter the kinda freedom u ar given by ur parents...U'l start feeling uncomfortable under their roof at a certain stage.

Once he / she is old enough to masturbate, it's time to leave

snrman:
So far ur parents don't complain ur good to go

stupid talk

25 max...no excuses

a child cant leave his/her parent. if he/she is stubborn, they can crawl away but mama will still get him or her back home.

for male child, upon graduation from uni or at most masters

seyigiggle:
for male child, upon graduation from uni or at most masters

At most Upon Graduation from Uni you say because you go thief for Uni abi na business be your primary aim for Uni?? People and their mentality self..You didn't even say NYSC,So let's assume you graduated at 20yrs,You should Leave abi??

your type might still be with his parents at 30-35..

On a more serious note

parents need to force their children out of the home once they graduate university, they also need to support them financially until they get their first job.

in life, we all need support to succeed.

Poverty has really done bad to this one.
Mr. no be everybody be suffer head like you and your lineage.
my family no be Dangote, but well structured.
Even if they delay your destiny, you would graduate before 26.
Anyways, I am a proof of what I wrote.
By the way, how old are you? Can you get married by 27?

By the way, I have a colleague whose child is schooling abroad and would graduate by 19 this year.
The child is not willing to relocate to naija.
What do you have to say?

latexxbro:
At most Upon Graduation from Uni you say because you go thief for Uni abi na business be your primary aim for Uni?? People and their mentality self..You didn't even say NYSC,So let's assume you graduated at 20yrs,You should Leave abi??

your type might still be with his parents at 30-35..

It all depends on individuals. I am 32 and still living in my parent's house. An employed graduate. I travel out a lot from town for a one job or the other. So no need paying for a house I won't stay more than six days in a month.

So, every one is cut out for different cases.

seyigiggle:
Poverty has really done bad to this one.
Mr. no be everybody be suffer head like you and your lineage.
my family no be Dangote, but well structured.
Even if they delay your destiny, you would graduate before 26.
Anyways, I am a proof of what I wrote.
By the way, how old are you? Can you get married by 27?

By the way, I have a colleague whose child is schooling abroad and would graduate by 19 this year.
The child is not willing to relocate to naija.
What do you have to say?

Boast not and if U must, boast by God's grace. Not everyone will be privileged as you na. You sound like a mommy's boy though (no offence).

When they start showing signs of maturity! A 25yrs old guy or girl can still be immature, no sense of responsibility. So just stay with your mummy and daddy

wetdick:
On a more serious note

parents need to force their children out of the home once they graduate university, they also need to support them financially until they get their first job.

in life, we all need support to succeed.

so how do they support you when they force you out

shege45:
so how do they support you when they force you out

it written there already-financially, they can help you get your own place and can also send you cash to survive if squatting with someone.

comfortably eating mummy's food at home doesnt bring out the best in you before you know it you will be 35 and still at home

xpac01:
It all depends on individuals. I am 32 and still living in my parent's house. An employed graduate. I travel out a lot from town for a one job or the other. So no need paying for a house I won't stay more than six days in a month.

So, every one is cut out for different cases.

you're igbo, I guess

seyigiggle:
Poverty has really done bad to this one.
Mr. no be everybody be suffer head like you and your lineage.
my family no be Dangote, but well structured.
Even if they delay your destiny, you would graduate before 26.
Anyways, I am a proof of what I wrote.
By the way, how old are you? Can you get married by 27?

By the way, I have a colleague whose child is schooling abroad and would graduate by 19 this year.
The child is not willing to relocate to naija.
What do you have to say?

"poverty has really done bad to this one" bro, if you or your family are rich, it's not by your effort, it's just God's mercy and He can be MERCIFUL to anybody, anybody!

I can't really say.
My only guess is one should use the legal guideline of 18 in some countries and 21 in others.
What parents should do is groom children to become independent on reaching those ages.


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don't even put HER. woman dey commot for house? dey wait till man come....
even when dey have issues with husband, most of them still return to their father's house.
I know just ONE female friend who has rented a house and refused to return home after nysc.
she's responsible....yeah I know her that well.

I left Finally @25 ... When I began M.sc !!

Once through with service.

Sincerely sha

Male children don't live home!


If you know you know


Ovbokhan eku mi mio owa

In Bini
It means no matter the comfortability and excitement you get outside you will still return home.

Stupid question to be ask in naija

Partially left home when I gained an admission

Left for good at the age of 21

Whenever you’re matured to know you need peace and comfort...
Moreover at 30 a man (suppose) to be living in his personal apartment (Not parents aboard) , no house mate, no roommate

It varies. No be everybody wey be age-mate be sense-mate. I'll advice you wait until you can take responsibility for your every action.