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Re: The legitimate concubine. by Ugosample(m): 4:36pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Humans by default are polygamous But we are not animals Hence monogamy is the way to go. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 9:56am On Mar 28, 2019 |
truthsayer009: This is one of the most intelligent comments i have read on nairaland for a long time. I totally agree with you on that part that ladies hate people who speak the truth about this issue and i am ready to be hated. If i woo them let them decline but i will always say it as it is. The world is annoying with hypocrisy,many men who will come on this thread to condemn this write up are most likely guilty of sleeping around whilst me the writer can boast of sexual faithfulness to one lady..how strange. But does the fact THAT I CHOSE monogamy makes polygamy a sin? HELL NO...Its a choice and if i find any reason to have another woman in my life i will do so with no explanation to anyone except GOD. GOD BLESS YOU for your intelligent comment. I hope lalasticlala puts his on front page tonight cos its long over due.I weep inside when i see these ignorant pastors crash over infidelity when they could have easily married another woman legitimately and keep their name and ministry. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by andyanders: 10:32am On Mar 28, 2019 |
ImaIma1: On point my sister. Bible is a knife with two edges. Even satan has bible verses to buttress his points. The writer has some point though but by encouraging men of God or other people to have concubines is not Christlike. Every woman has emotion and once a man start having an extra moral life style with another woman to the knowledge of his wife, the woman's life will be shattered. Whether she starts having extra moral affairs or not, her life can never be the same. Op surely made some points, as most life people live now are centered on his write up. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 12:44pm On Mar 28, 2019 |
andyanders: Just to set the tables straight. I'm not encouraging anyone and this statement if yours is the reason for the crazy hypocrisy we have today. Pastors can't preach this cos they don't want to lose members and it is understandable that many ladies will not like this but that is not my business to worry about. My write up is aimed at pointing out the fact behind polygamy in relation to men in general. Only an objective and mature lady wi l see sense in this. Emotions can not change facts. If your hubby decides to marry another lady at al cost you either accept or leave the marriage but if you are lucky to have a man that sticks to you alone without secretly having side chics everywhere then good for you. The most bizarre twist is that many ladies will prefer their husbands to have side chics rather than marry a second lady so the question is WHO IS FOOLING WHO? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by andyanders: 4:56pm On Mar 28, 2019 |
Toks2008: Your write up is surely ok, I am not saying otherwise. Very mature write up, but it depends on individuals and their believe. Be you a pastor, an Alpha or whatever, you are on your own. Good write up and I love your expression of your views. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 5:33pm On Mar 28, 2019 |
andyanders: Perfect. All man to his choice regardless. 2 Likes |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 9:01pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Lalasticlala I guess this thread is insightful for front page. I'm Fed up seeing our pastors falling into the pit of hypocrisy. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by ednut1(m): 10:19pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Any pastor that cannot control his dick is fake. Ie iginla, suleman, oyakilome. Why are pple like oyedepo , kumuyi and adeboye into this pussy game |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 10:32pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
ednut1: Not all men are monogamous... pastor or no pastor. 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by ednut1(m): 10:35pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Toks2008:same for women. As usual u wont agree |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 10:52pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
ednut1: Abeg remain for lane. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by ednut1(m): 11:16pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Toks2008:expected |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 11:30pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
ednut1: As you wan start another topic all together. Any woman wey decide to marry many husbands at the same time nah her choice so that one nah digression. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 9:48pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Lalasticlala there is no better time to put this on front page with the trending Regina Daniels story. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Westsida: 10:21pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
prettysassygirl: You cum Dey parapara like this |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Jkt001(m): 10:22pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Toks2008: You're Spiritually Blind....... That Solomon had over 300wives and 700concubines now tells you to do the same.... We're now operating majorly under the New testament dispensation.....Everything u find in the Old testament are only there to serve as precaution and lessons for us... I want to believe you still give Sheep or rams to ur Pastor or Priest for atonement of your sins everyday... You'd better Repent and come into the true knowledge of the light...If not, Eternal judgement is inevitable... |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Lol the only married man I’ve ever been involved with came to me as a single man When I suspected and blocked him he called me names said I was mad and imagining things and a crack head he found me on Facebook I forgave everything even his marriage to someone he just met well it crashed i forgot to say he even mocked me in the mutual hangout we used to go to singing whizkid fine lady lol I always maintain he’s the love of my life sha though he confused me and insulted me a lot of my personal growth and maturity as a woman came because I was willing to love even with the lies Men I edited it out |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Westsida: 10:28pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
I don’t even understand what’s going on here. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by mercy87(f): 10:30pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
The days of ignorance God overlooked but now has clearly called all men to repent. Is there no believer to correct the errors in this writeup with scriptural references? |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Chimaokigwe: 10:30pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Regina don suffer for una hands o. Chai. If you guys want laugh, go to Instablog9ja and read the comments on the pic of her and her ancestor she married. She has been uselesssd. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Chimaokigwe: 10:30pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
mercy87: Lead front na, we dey your back. Abi you no be believer? 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by darkelf: 10:34pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
ImaIma1: So, Solomon, David et al were living adulterous lives? I don't agree |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 10:40pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Jkt001: Mathew 5:17 "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. Stop posting nonsense. 2 Likes
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Re: The legitimate concubine. by Jkt001(m): 10:41pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
If God knew man would need more than a woman to serve as an helper, He would have created 3-5 women for Adam....But he created A man and a woman....BUT because of the disobedience spirit in man...because of the hardness of heart....because of the rebellion spirit that dwells in man,he began taking in more than a wife for himself.... The same disobedience spirit that dwells in man from creation is still in action...We all know Fornication and Adultery is a sin...If yes...Then why do most people engage in it....Disobedience spirit..... Lying is a sin....as little as it's....why do people find it difficult to adhere to telling the Truth.....the only answer is disobedience spirit.... So please...don't prove ur points with Old testaments as it's written by inspiration to serve as precautions and lessons for us.... Lastly....Why do people divorce today and still back it up with the scriptures when it's boldly written in Matthew19:6...WHEREFORE THEY ARE NO MORE TWAIN(TWO) BUT ONE FLESH.WHAT THEREFORE GOD HATH JOINED TOGETHER,LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER.... Verse 7....THEY SAY UNTO HIM,WHY DID MOSES THEN COMMAND TO GIVE A WRITING OF DIVORCEMENT,AND TO PUT HER AWAY?? Verse 8....HE SAITH UNTO THEM, MOSES BECAUSE OF THE HARDNESS OF YOUR HEARTS SUFFERED(ALLOWED) YOU TO PUT AWAY YOUR WIVES:BUT FROM THE BEGINNING IT WAS NOT SO.... It's the truth that people will always find one verse of the scriptures to prove their wrongdoings....all because of the Hardness of their Hearts..... ONE MAN....ONE WOMAN.....THAT WAS HOW GOD CREATED MAN...BUT BECAUSE OF THE HARDNESS OF THEIR HEARTS,THEY DISOBEYED AND STARTED TAKING IN MORE WIVES..... |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by chinchonglee(m): 10:42pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Jkt001(m): 10:45pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
darkelf: What did David commited with Bathsheba...the wife of Uriah.... Don't u know u can't interpret the scriptures with mere human knowledge.... |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by darkelf: 10:49pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Jkt001: David had other wives before fuc'ing beth. So did Solomon; 700 wives and 300 concubines. Yet, he was the wisest and richest ever. What of Jacob? Do you think i'm saying all these things because I like polygamy? No it brings too much problems and I'm an impatient and temperamental person. I will do away with any bitch before she gives me bp 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by darkelf: 10:53pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
hireet: Sister, you're very factual. Very rare among naija ladies. I duff hat for you 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Jkt001(m): 10:54pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Toks2008: What's the Law Christ was talking about here....isn't it the Commandments sent through Moses and some other laws... Was there anywhere God told Man to marry as much as possible... In Matt5:19....WHOSOEVER THEREFORE SHALL BREAK ONE OF THESE LEAST COMMANDMENTS,AND SHALL TEACH MEN SO,HE SHALL BE CALLED THE LEAST IN THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN:BUT WHOSOEVER SHALL DO AND TEACH THEM,THE SAME SHALL BE CALLED GREAT IN THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN..... That Solomon had many wives,which led him away from God doesn't mean you should also tread in his footsteps.... That David commited adultery with Bathsheba doesn't mean you should also do the same.... This is New testament dispensation...where we don't need any priest to sacrifice ram or sheeps for the atonement of sins... This is new testament where God wouldn't strike anyone dead as a result of sin,no matter how little it might be....If it were to be so....u sure know that you and I may not be alive no more.... This is a dispensation of Grace and Mercy but unfortunately people had taken it for granted.... So I tell u my Brother....Polygamy is a NO NO right from creation |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 10:55pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Jkt001: If I argue this matter with you further make I sleep this night. Continue ranting in ignorance...im out. 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by darkelf: 10:59pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
ednut1: How do you know they don't shag women on the side? Are you with them morning till night? they just might be so good at covering their tracks |
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