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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 12:18am On Apr 04, 2019
Goterry0123:

Was He Blocked?
Nope. But he doesn't wanna spoil things further. So he's stuck.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Goterry0123: 12:20am On Apr 04, 2019
ceeroh:


Nope. But he doesn't wanna spoil things further. So he's stuck.


Stuck Where. Last From the Babe
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Goterry0123: 12:22am On Apr 04, 2019
You don't leave a Convo feeling defeated. She already sees him as a weaker vessel and his balls are half gone.

Maintaining a Masculine Frame wud do a nice job at this time.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Sugarmum00: 12:22am On Apr 04, 2019
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 12:23am On Apr 04, 2019
Goterry0123:


Stuck Where. Last From the Babe

The girl hasn't blocked him yet. But he paused the chat when she said she had plans of blocking him.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 12:25am On Apr 04, 2019
Goterry0123:
You don't leave a Convo feeling defeated. She already sees him as a weaker vessel and his balls are half gone.

Maintaining a Masculine Frame wud do a nice job at this time.

Yes, you're right.
At least the balls are not totally gone. grin
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Goterry0123: 12:31am On Apr 04, 2019
ceeroh:


Yes, you're right.
At least the balls are not totally gone. grin

Pass the Drills to him. It has Helped me. I pulled same stunt on A Lady Like 2 days back, making her feel the way your friend is feeling now.

I used banter on her and got to know about her family and her extended family.

It was time to know about me. Babe was like, i would like to know more about you and i asked her what will she like to know and she listed some few tins.

I simply told her my eyes were wet and heavy after a long time on phone dat i have to sleep.

She wished me good night and i zoomed off, this morning i got a good morning from her but i haven't replied.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 12:39am On Apr 04, 2019
Goterry0123:


Pass the Drills to him. It has Helped me. I pulled same stunt on A Lady Like 2 days back, making her feel the way your friend is feeling now.

I used banter on her and got to know about her family and her extended family.

It was time to know about me. Babe was like, i would like to know more about you and i asked her what will she like to know and she listed some few tins.

I simply told her my eyes were wet and heavy after a long time on phone dat i have to sleep.

She wished me good night and i zoomed off, this morning i got a good morning from her but i haven't replied.

Nice move!

So what do you suggest?
Continue the chat with her or he should just ignore her for now?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Goterry0123: 1:15am On Apr 04, 2019
ceeroh:


Nice move!

So what do you suggest?
Continue the chat with her or he should just ignore her for now?

I would Suggest he ignores her for now and get busy with his purpose.

When he is gonna initiate a convo with her again, it should be on Phone call. He should maintain a masculine frame, keep it light, fun and short. Then stick to phone game for a while before he returns to chat.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:21am On Apr 04, 2019
ceeroh:
HARDDON, kollinzgee, Ubunja and co... Make una come to my rescue oo.

My condition right now is very critical.
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she was always looking at me anytime I'm passing. One way or the other, we started talking and chatting after we exchanged numbers (Long story though). It was when we started talking I discovered she's much younger than I expected. She just has a very matured physique. And when we got closer, I discovered she isn't discrete at all, she would spill the beans and tell people what happens between us out of excitement. And I'm a very coded guy. To the extent she told her parents she was now friends with 'that brother that lives in that house who doesn't speak with anyone'..grin Then gradually, her family members also got closer, then I relaxed a bit and stopped being uptight.

So after some time, I developed interest in the girl's elder sister. Much calmer, matured and reserved unlike the hyperactive younger sis. But the younger sis wouldn't let me be, always wanna chat, loves attention and wanna know about some private stuff. She visits me at will, which I don't find comfortable, with her parents' consent oo. They're aware she comes visiting. She has been showing signs she wants me to ask her out so badly, but never. I'll never make that mistake. Though I must confess, this girl is super drop dead gorgeous. She fine dieee.

So recently, I spoke with the elder sis that I wanna hang out with her this weekend and she was so excited, cos she also been showing signs of interest. She agreed.

Please I hope I'm not making the wrong move?
Knowing fully well the younger sis wouldn't find it funny at all.

*Modified*
The reason why I don't wanna go ahead with the younger sis is because she looks like a baggage of trouble and drama. If not, I'd have gladly gone for her.


Someone didn't read yours truly's experience with two sisters huh?

You are walking gallantly on land mines bro! Running where angels fear to tread.

Experience, they wrongfully opine, is the best teacher. Take it from me bro, it is the worse teacher ever.

In yours truly's case, the younger one was even forming hard to get yet it still blew up unlike this walking time bomb of a younger one!

Then there is the huge issue of dipping your red pen into home inks whose mother Hen is casting watchful eyes over! Brooooo!!!! Hmmmm

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:53am On Apr 04, 2019
Agp19:
Hardon

Pls I need you on this one I think am stuck here and confuse on what to do.

There is this lady that got transfer to my work place Feb this year.after using the attraction trick on her and got her sway she was so into me despite the fact that I told her I have a galfriend which she even comfirm to be true.she came to my crib on Sunday and we had a fanstatic sex session,then she came around yesternight was feeling good and all that. After a round of sex she just change her attitude , I ask her y, she said she doesn't want to cause mishap in my relationship like she's has been distracting me.that she wants things to go back normal. She was even like she still love me and she will forever do but she has to use her head.
But for me I like her don't want to let her go .
What shld I do?
Should I let her be and play the jealousy game on her??
Or
I shld just burst her with more witty and funny lines ?

At first Emphasised, where did you learn the attraction trick ooo, we want to know. because we ain't trickstars here.


At second bolded, chop knuckle bro! You got balls. Telling a new soft doll you got some interest in, that you got a gurl, takes balls. While Average guys wud wano hide that, we brand 3.
SUPER SENDLESS. REVERSE PSYC. works like charm everytime!


3rd bolded, super Test Time! Men would always live through these tests!

Suddenly she has woken up. Suddenly she wants u for keeps. You've blown her mind away. Now she wants to know where ur loyalty lies. Now she wants you to get rid of the competition. Doesn't wano share. This is where you put your foot down. If you fancy ur gurl more.

Here is the meaning of his action/words:
"He's got the balls, let's Blow his mind away first, recoil, blackmail his emotions into some decision n effectively confound him as we steal the balls. "

It is working bro.

Never read literal meaning into actions/words of gurls bro. Especially in situations like this. That has been the Bane on the existence of average guys.


When she throws such tantrums, you laugh it off and use it against her!

"Aawwww, someone is falling in love already ooo, just look at her lovey dovey eyes.! Don't worry, I wudnt tell my gurl you tasted her cookies! " grin

Sexy Sendless!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:05am On Apr 04, 2019
ceeroh:
Bosses in the house, help a fellow guy out. He was just telling me about a girl he met on Monday. I think he called her today and the girl's response was very much okay.

Then he chatted her up and the girl was feeling the vibes until he asked to know more about her. Then she said she doesn't share her info with strangers and that she was even planning to block him. Though she hasn't blocked him yet, but Baba is yet to reply her after what she said... I asked him to hold on

What do you guys think is the best response?
Dis one dey very urgent oo

What effrontery! Be the first to block and delete her after replying her with " I don't respond well to threats, get your childish, senseless sorry a33 off my space! "

Without waiting for some stupid replies, blam! You block! Go out there and meet fun people!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 8:10am On Apr 04, 2019
HARDDON:



Someone didn't read yours truly's experience with two sisters huh?

You are walking gallantly on land mines bro! Running where angels fear to tread.

Experience, they wrongfully opine, is the best teacher. Take it from me bro, it is the worse teacher ever.

In yours truly's case, the younger one was even forming hard to get yet it still blew up unlike this walking time bomb of a younger one!

Then there is the huge issue of dipping your red pen into home inks whose mother Hen is casting watchful eyes over! Brooooo!!!! Hmmmm


Hmmmmm... Wiser words have never been said. HARDDON I troway salute

I don't wanna get my fingers burnt either.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 10:10am On Apr 04, 2019
HARDDON:


What effrontery! Be the first to block and delete her after replying her with " I don't respond well to threats, get your childish, senseless sorry a33 off my space! "

Without waiting for some stupid replies, blam! You block! Go out there and meet fun people!

Now this is soo funny.

So the girl hasn't blocked the dude since last night. Told him what to do from what I got here.. And this was how the conversation went.. But it seems Baba doesn't wanna lose the girl yet, so he applied Wisdom.

Conversation


Boy: Woke up this morning and found out you haven't carried out your threat.
You know some people don't respond well to threats and that includes me. I would have done you the favour of blocking you myself but Naarh... Only kids do that. I'm just gonna sit and watch how this unfolds. Take care

Girl's response:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Lol
You didn't get what I meant
So��‍ you got it wrong anyways.

So what's the next step? He hasn't replied yet.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Yampotatocarrot(m): 10:24am On Apr 04, 2019
ceeroh:
Bosses in the house, help a fellow guy out. He was just telling me about a girl he met on Monday. I think he called her today and the girl's response was very much okay.

Then he chatted her up and the girl was feeling the vibes until he asked to know more about her. Then she said she doesn't share her info with strangers and that she was even planning to block him. Though she hasn't blocked him yet, but Baba is yet to reply her after what she said... I asked him to hold on

What do you guys think is the best response?
Dis one dey very urgent oo

He should ask her to block him na

Abi is her nose made of gold?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:02am On Apr 04, 2019
ceeroh:


Now this is soo funny.

So the girl hasn't blocked the dude since last night. Told him what to do from what I got here.. And this was how the conversation went.. But it seems Baba doesn't wanna lose the girl yet, so he applied Wisdom.

Conversation


Boy: Woke up this morning and found out you haven't carried out your threat.
You know some people don't respond well to threats and that includes me. I would have done you the favour of blocking you myself but Naarh... Only kids do that. I'm just gonna sit and watch how this unfolds. Take care

Girl's response:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Lol
You didn't get what I meant
So��‍ you got it wrong anyways.

So what's the next step? He hasn't replied yet.

Smh At emphasized

SENSE PILL: The fear of not losing a gurls is the beginning of losing YOUR BALLS and finally losing the gurl.

That is not wisdom your friend applied, that is a wimp wine. A loser line.
This is the beginning of balls' losing.

You thinks she didn't know what she was doing when she threw that totally unwarranted threat?

The best way to have her is to block her. Some would call because they wud be flabbergasted how a guy could actually have the balls to blovk her . Others wudnt.we careless. Some wud use running into you as a platform to ask listless Qs.

This threat is a red flag. Guys like us don't abode red flags.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 11:18am On Apr 04, 2019
HARDDON:


Smh At emphasized

SENSE PILL: The fear of not losing a gurls is the beginning of losing YOUR BALLS and finally losing the gurl.

That is not wisdom your friend applied, that is a wimp wine. A loser line.
This is the beginning of balls' losing.

You thinks she didn't know what she was doing when she threw that totally unwarranted threat?

The best way to have her is to block her. Some would call because they wud be flabbergasted how a guy could actually have the balls to blovk her . Others wudnt.we careless. Some wud use running into you as a platform to ask listless Qs.

This threat is a red flag. Guys like us don't abode red flags.

U too much abeg
This is what I call Balls of steel grin

I think I might have to go through the drills myself. There are stuff I could actually learn.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Topmaike007(m): 11:26am On Apr 04, 2019
HARDDON:


Smh At emphasized

SENSE PILL: The fear of not losing a gurls is the beginning of losing YOUR BALLS and finally losing the gurl.

That is not wisdom your friend applied, that is a wimp wine. A loser line.
This is the beginning of balls' losing.

You thinks she didn't know what she was doing when she threw that totally unwarranted threat?

The best way to have her is to block her. Some would call because they wud be flabbergasted how a guy could actually have the balls to blovk her . Others wudnt.we careless. Some wud use running into you as a platform to ask listless Qs.

This threat is a red flag. Guys like us don't abode red flags.
hi bro pls I have issue with a girl I met lately in school.
The thing is this I have feelings for this girl that made prompt me to tell her how I feel,but she never told me "Yes or NO",but the thing is this she always visit me, pays my bills when I am out of cash,but the funny thing that pissed me off is what she use to save my name on her Droid which I suspected she is hiding things From me and I am just down since her last visit yesterday when I confronted her and ask her why and she told me that I will not understand, Bro pls help I need your advice on this matter pls
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Limitless72(m): 11:56am On Apr 04, 2019
HARDDON:


Smh At emphasized

SENSE PILL: The fear of not losing a gurls is the beginning of losing YOUR BALLS and finally losing the gurl.

That is not wisdom your friend applied, that is a wimp wine. A loser line.
This is the beginning of balls' losing.

You thinks she didn't know what she was doing when she threw that totally unwarranted threat?

The best way to have her is to block her. Some would call because they wud be flabbergasted how a guy could actually have the balls to blovk her . Others wudnt.we careless. Some wud use running into you as a platform to ask listless Qs.

This threat is a red flag. Guys like us don't abode red flags.

e
Exactly my thoughts too.. I mean once and girl tells you she would block you ( even if she's damn serious or joking) such clear shot is highly targeted towards you balls/esteem/pride. You got to make the first call,,block her first to send a strong message that (a) you don't take shit from nobody (b) there one thousand and one girls out there craving for your attention (c) she's not that important (d) you masculine she's feminine, one have to submit to the other and you ain't settling for the less spatial position.

I have read quite some books about stuffs like this including the bang rule, advance bang rule, ways of a superior man, et al.. Nd first rule to attracting the feminine/girls is zero exhibition of fear, kill/conceal or suppress emotions first. It aids you have a hitch-free game. You show the I don't care attitude. Secondly, Niggaz should always remember that to have the advantage in the game, to retain your balls it's best you NEVER ASK A GIRL OUT. e.g telling her you like/love her Nd you want to have a relationship with her or you want her to be your girlfriend..Never try that..! I mean that puerile, men with balls don't do that.. Because in most cases, they would never tell you YES. Nd once you've received No, your balls is automatically in her grasp..

Anyways lemme not bore you guys with my long rhetoric... So that Nigga should Block that goddamn love-vendor that's trying to prove too important..He's gat to show the brotherhood he's got balls. We don't groom weaklings here!!.

Lastly Boss Hardon I hail thee..it's been a while ooooo. You get another book at your disposal?. something of plenary knowledge

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 2:14pm On Apr 04, 2019
Topmaike007:
hi bro pls I have issue with a girl I met lately in school.
The thing is this I have feelings for this girl that made prompt me to tell her how I feel,but she never told me "Yes or NO",but the thing is this she always visit me, pays my bills when I am out of cash,but the funny thing that pissed me off is what she use to save my name on her Droid which I suspected she is hiding things From me and I am just down since her last visit yesterday when I confronted her and ask her why and she told me that I will not understand, Bro pls help I need your advice on this matter pls

..Abeg give me the babe number,!!! ur vexing because of the way she saved ur name?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by abercrombie(m): 4:30pm On Apr 04, 2019
hello guys, have really been an active user of this tread, hardon keep up with the great work...


am in a confused situation right now,last monday which was April 1st, i decide to play some pranks on my girlfriend and i text her this


''Hello Madam, i think have heard enough of you, i don't think you are the right person for me, please it OK we have come this far, please don't call my line again.. thanks''


after series of missed calls, i decide to call back later in the evening, and she's swear i spoiled her mood for that day, and i started laughing saying it only a joke i decide to play some pranks on her but she won't have any of it, worst she refused to come back home,so i decide to lock up because i don beg tire, please guys what the way out, no insult please...
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Agp19(m): 5:45pm On Apr 04, 2019
HARDDON:


At first Emphasised, where did you learn the attraction trick ooo, we want to know. because we ain't trickstars here.


At second bolded, chop knuckle bro! You got balls. Telling a new soft doll you got some interest in, that you got a gurl, takes balls. While Average guys wud wano hide that, we brand 3.
SUPER SENDLESS. REVERSE PSYC. works like charm everytime!


3rd bolded, super Test Time! Men would always live through these tests!

Suddenly she has woken up. Suddenly she wants u for keeps. You've blown her mind away. Now she wants to know where ur loyalty lies. Now she wants you to get rid of the competition. Doesn't wano share. This is where you put your foot down. If you fancy ur gurl more.

Here is the meaning of his action/words:
"He's got the balls, let's Blow his mind away first, recoil, blackmail his emotions into some decision n effectively confound him as we steal the balls. "

It is working bro.

Never read literal meaning into actions/words of gurls bro. Especially in situations like this. That has been the Bane on the existence of average guys.


When she throws such tantrums, you laugh it off and use it against her!

"Aawwww, someone is falling in love already ooo, just look at her lovey dovey eyes.! Don't worry, I wudnt tell my gurl you tasted her cookies! " grin

Sexy Sendless!
thanks boss!!!
After she said all that I just literally let her be the following day at work I just continue with my normal life,was making my female customers laugh out loud while she watch from distances. After the close of work we spoke and she was like I shld pls she cant continue with all what she said yesternight and I was like " I thought that's what you want" she said no she can't continue. I just laugh within me i was like you will always come back.

Thanks to you Hardon

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:38pm On Apr 04, 2019
abercrombie:
hello guys, have really been an active user of this tread, hardon keep up with the great work...


am in a confused situation right now,last monday which was April 1st, i decide to play some pranks on my girlfriend and i text her this


''Hello Madam, i think have heard enough of you, i don't think you are the right person for me, please it OK we have come this far, please don't call my line again.. thanks''


after series of missed calls, i decide to call back later in the evening, and she's swear i spoiled her mood for that day, and i started laughing saying it only a joke i decide to play some pranks on her but she won't have any of it, worst she refused to come back home,so i decide to lock up because i don beg tire, please guys what the way out, no insult please...

Brahahaha!

You want me to Prank you too?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by abercrombie(m): 9:38pm On Apr 04, 2019
HARDDON:


Brahahaha!

You want me to Prank you too?
bawss, this ain't no joking matter, babe hasn't been complying 'since then.... am really confused, don't know what to do
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 3:58pm On Apr 05, 2019
Can't believe I've read the first 45pages of this thread in less than 36hours. This guy called HARDDON has formatted my mentality about women. He practically blew me away.. I'm dusting myself already for this great adventure that lies ahead.
I bless the day I stumbled into this thread.
I've taken screenshots of all the important points to go through them every night before I sleep.

Una go hear am!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by irumole1975: 4:35pm On Apr 05, 2019
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Goterry0123: 5:16pm On Apr 05, 2019
ceeroh:
Can't believe I've read the first 45pages of this thread in less than 36hours. This guy called HARDDON has formatted my mentality about women. He practically blew me away.. I'm dusting myself already for this great adventure that lies ahead.
I bless the day I stumbled into this thread.
I've taken screenshots of all the important points to go through them every night before I sleep.

Una go hear am!

You Learn Better When You Practice. Hope you are Ready to Forget names thereby causing to create more problems by calling wrong name.

The other Day i called Alby Naomi and Hell was let loose. Still trying to master tho

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by jackals(f): 5:25pm On Apr 05, 2019
Girls, what is something that is not nearly “attractive” as guys think?

Looks remain the number one thing a woman look for in a guy. If an handsome guy approached girls with all these teachings of Harddon, they'd consder it attractive,But an ugly guy doing same is rude and insulting.She won't even look at his side. I have a friend who told me she don't even respond looking at a guy's face and noticed he's not handsome.....Looks,not money,solves all your problem when dealing with women

I’m a guy and I don’t want to mansplain but I’m gonna answer this anyways because there’s so many misunderstanding on this topic among both men and women, including answers to this question.

As a kid, you probably thought that, because you as a guy were attracted to physically attractive women and other guys could also have attractive and unattractive looks, girls also like guys with good looks. So if you ever were to date a girl like this:

You probably had to look like this:

But then, at some point people told you that women don’t care that much about your looks. What they would care about, varied depending on who you asked. Some tell you that you need to treat them nicely. Others put more emphasis on confidence. Some even went on teaching youall kinds of tricks that would make you an “Alpha” or a ladykiller. And of course, you’d buy them. Because to be fair, you as a young guy just want to get girls and if anyone tells you what to do to get women, you’ll try. Then lastly, there were also guys who tried these things and they didn’t work, and their conclusion was women are attracted to your money, and thus the solution was to become succesful and earn a lot of money. You didn’t want to believe it but somehow didn’t exclude the fact women care about your money either.

These things are, although maybe of some importance, overrated and you’re being lied to by delusional ideologies, from women telling you to “just be nice” to the highly mysoginist “Redpill” that tells you women actually want you to dominate them like a patriarch “Alpha”.

You were right as a kid. Looks are the most important feature in attraction to women like they are to men!!!

But let’s break the lies down.

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Confidence and personality

Both are very important. However, they’re not the only thing that matters. “Confidence” is mainly used to make unattractive men feel like they can fully control their attractiveness. Maybe watch certain episodes of the originally Dutch dating show “Dating in the Dark” in which people have dates in the dark. Often when the personalities click, but the women see the guy’s looks, they’re turned off by them anyways. One time, a woman literally said “I don’t get where he gets the [confident] attitude from because he doesn’t have the looks to back them up.” So yeah, confidence and personality are important to women, like they are to men, but after the woman’s already physically interested in you.

I mean girls, would you date this guy if he had a nice and confident personality?

Many women will actually be repulsed and annoyed when this guy shows confidence and approaches them.

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Money. Despite what some men might tell you, women aren’t golddiggers. If you’re unemployed and live with your parents at age 25, it might be a turnoff to women, but it’s not that an income of 200k is gonna make any difference compared to an income of 100k. A few women are golddiggers and you can get them with money, but in general your level of attraction to women is barely influenced by your net worth. This doesn’t even make any sense biologically; there’s no money in nature and having money doesn’t indicate you’re a good partner or carry healthy or strong genes. The men that tell you this are in denial of their unattractiveness in other fields, and say this to put the blame on women for being golddiggers.

Again girls, is this guy really able to make you Hot and able to make you love them you if he takes his wallet out of his pocket?

Maybe some women will go for a guy based on his money, like some men take a sugar momma, but this isn’t genuine attraction. It’s just biologically false and delusional.

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Being a patriarch alpha This is basically the politically incorrect, mysoginist Redpilled version of personality and confidence. It often means a guy needs to learn PUA “game” and needs to feel like he’s superior to women and treat them like that. Often, men who tell you shit like this believe there’s a huge feminist conspiracy that turned them into “beta males”, unattractive, non-masculine an weak men. But even considering patriarchy is natural, there’s no way guys who are so desperate they end up reading this shit advice would be attractive or dominant “Alpha” males in nature. Being an Alpha male or Alpha female in nature means an individual is the leader of the group and thus able to dominate the group in general, not just the members of the other sex. Some species have Alpha Males, other Alpha Females and others both Alpha Males and Females. As humans are very developed, both genders have a lot of members that would be considered Alpha in nature. Patriarchy is a scam. But even assuming we were to be a patriarchial species, there’s only a few men that would be dominant alpha males and thus get women. As there are at least some guys who have never had any trouble getting at least some girls, there’s no feminist conspiracy keeping you from getting laid or being an alpha male, you’re just not an alpha male.

Believe me, the Redpill only exists to comfort unsuccesful men. On the one hand, it spares their ego by saying it’s not about their looks and they’re destined to be succesful, and on the other hand it tells them it’s not their fault they’re not but it’s the women/feminists who brainwashed them. The Redpill is a disgusting, mysoginist and delusional ideology.

Women, I know you don’t like to be treated like property or like a kid by your partner. But assuming you were to be turned on by it, would you like this guy to be your patriarch husband?

I guess we all know the answer.

The truth, the undeniable truth, is that looks matter as much to women as they matter to men.

This is to say, personality, financial situation, hobbies, confidence etc. might all be factors that contribute to one’s attractiveness… but ONLY after your looks are well enough to even consider giving the other person a chance.

And maybe this sounds shallow, but its not. It’s biological, it’s inclined in our DNA, no matter hoe attractive or unattractive we consider ourselves, we all want to date someone we find physically attractive. And we can’t be blamed for wanting it.

This is not to say it’s over for you if you’re a physically unattractive guy; being physically unattractive means most women will find you unattractive, however there’s always gonna be some who will find you attractive, or at least attractive enough to give you a chance to attract them with those other factors. Actually, I’ve seen ugly guys with way better sex lives than me and many other attractive guys (although in my case it’s because I don’t really care about sex or relationships so I put zero effort in getting it), not because they could compensate for their looks and now most women were magically attracted to them for having a confident and interesting personality, but because this personality and social skills made them able to recognize and take the chances they got. And some of those chances are really hot tho, because everyone has his/her own taste including hot girls. So you shoud always keep hope and try self-improvement (and not Redpilled self-improvement because that’s BS). You can also try to improve your looks for a part, by hitting the gym, taking care of hygiene, finding the right haircut and whether you should have a beard (and if yes how to shave it). Try to maximize your looks at least.

Conclusion/TL;DR

There’s no key to getting way more women being attracted to you. The only thing you can do is take care of your looks, but in the end, your looks determine the initial attraction women feel towards you and not something you can easily learn or adapt. There’s no trick, no behavioral trait or PUA “game” that will make you a ladykiller that makes all of the women go crazy depeding on you doing that. However, you’re not bleeped either and self/improvement is still good. Yes, a majority of women will find you unattractive, but there’s billions of women so even a small minority is enough for you to find someone sooner or later. If you learn social skills and develop a nice personality, you’ll find out you have plenty of options to get women, just like the guys I just used as examples of unattractive men will have plenty of girls within the thousands reading this answer that will disagree with me and indeed be attracted to them. Even if it’s only a small percentage of the women in the world, you’ll be able to take these chances and have a happy and interesting dating life.

Personality and confidence might not be keys to the gates of attractiveness, but they are tools to decorate what’s behind it

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by jackals(f): 5:26pm On Apr 05, 2019
ceeroh:
Can't believe I've read the first 45pages of this thread in less than 36hours. This guy called HARDDON has formatted my mentality about women. He practically blew me away.. I'm dusting myself already for this great adventure that lies ahead.
I bless the day I stumbled into this thread.
I've taken screenshots of all the important points to go through them every night before I sleep.

Una go hear am!


Get a handdsome face and your problem is solved. True but hurting
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Goterry0123: 5:28pm On Apr 05, 2019
jackals:



Get a handdsome face and your problem is solved. True but hurting

You Don't Have To Be Good Looking But Be Looking Good.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by jackals(f): 5:42pm On Apr 05, 2019
Goterry0123:


You Don't Have To Be Good Looking But Be Looking Good.

Good look is bae.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 5:51pm On Apr 05, 2019
jackals:



Get a handdsome face and your problem is solved. True but hurting

That's a lie. Most handsome faced guys end up with not too good looking ladies. Argue with your keyboard.

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