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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:37pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Rhombic(m): 11:38pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:38pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
I totally disagree with u OP.....this is the simple truth,any man who dumps his old girlfriend when he's rich have a reason best known to him. We men are not beast ooooo,there is no way a lady will struggle and suffer with you and you will dump her when you are rich....Like I said earlier something must be wrong somewhere for a man to do that,it might be that the lady is cheating on the guy of which the guy is aware of but he will just endure for the time being. A REAL MAN KNOWS A GIRL WHO GENUINELY SUFFER AND STRUGGLE (without cheating)WITH HIM AND WILL NEVER DUMP SUCH A GIRL. nb: even if he cheat on her ,he won't dump her,he will always remember the past 9 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:38pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Money doesn’t make you it just reveals who you really are I’ve pondered about this and I’ve arrived at the conclusion that no matter how a particular person treats you never stop striving to do good in this world. The same people you spent time to build up once they get up may want to pull you down. I think it’s due to being rich but still having the poor mentality while those who assist and love us through our struggling time understand life better and it’s ups and downs. I’ve been there for someone and they’ve turned round and spit in my face even ridiculed the little steps I’m taking towards my future but what if I didn’t bother what if I just folded my arms like they are There would be no wisdom there would be no self control it would just be bitterness A relationship is a mirror so what you tell your partner is really what you see in the reflection I have people that I haven’t seen face to face but they’ve helped me in a bunch and just simply reward them in the way I know how there’s also those who won’t even let you cover any expenses and then there’s those where because your present it’s like an invitation to be taken advantage of. Whatever you get and who ever it is don’t base yourself on that experience alone think of the growth you’ve made as a person think of the importance of having a patient and loving partner and focus more on your strengths not your weakness And lastly every fight is not an opportunity to hurt others money won’t throw you a funeral but people will 12 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by VcStunner(m): 11:39pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
lefulefu:you need to step away from your phone screen for a while after reading this. Have a full thought before responding. For your info. While Jonathan was been lifted graciously through ranks in POLITICS, Mama Peace was building a formidable political fortress around her husband. She is the reason Jonathan is still alive. Ask Aoandokaa former AGF, ask Wike and Amaechi. A lot will testify, so as Gej grew, she also was growing into exactly what Jonathan felt he needed her to be. Today they are still cool. Don't rush topics like this, just calmly read and digest and if it is worth it then u respond. Cheers 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
SilentListener:I also miss that dude |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by rapcy(m): 11:40pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
If a lady stick with you when you're broke, helped you out till you attain success, please don't dump her 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by phesthus(m): 11:42pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by matadonis(m): 11:42pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
she was an asset when she there with you through your poor and uneducated financial level. Then when you've acquired rich and educated financial level, She becomes a liability. What is the essence of the money if you can't build her to your standard? If you can't open up a business for her to manage in order to enhance her financial level? Upgrading her financial level through your rich financial level is a plus to your financial education. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by boban007: 11:44pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
THIS ALSO APPLIES TO WONEN.INFACT WOMEN ARE WORSE MOST MEN ENCOURAGE AND DEVELOP THEIR WIVES/GIRLFRIEND THE MOMENT THEY ARE COMFORTABLE THEY BECOME BOLD DARING AND UNCONTROLLABLE SOME EVEN CHEAT OUTRIGHTLY AND START CLAIMING EQUAL RIGHT ESPECIALLY WOMEN IN TOP POSITIONS AND AFRICAN WOMEN SENT ABROAD BY THEIR SPOUSES.THE MEN ARE ALWAYS FULL OF REGRETS COS MOST TIMES THEY DON'T SEE IT COMING AND WOMEN HAVE A WAY WITH PRETENCE.HENCE HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE IN THE COUNTRY.HAVE U NOTICED MOST WOMEN IN HIGH PLACES ARE DIVORCED ESPECIALLY THE JUDICIARY. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by boban007: 11:46pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
ONCE A WOMAN ATTAIN SUCCESS THEY FIND IT DIFFICULT TO LIVE UNDER A MAN OR RESPECT HIM.WOMEN ARE POOR MANAGERS OF SUCCESS. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by WomanOfRace(f): 11:47pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE: You are right. I dated someone for 3 good years; we went through a lot together...then suddenly he saw a light and he told me he needs someone that will be very sound and with skills, probably not HND certificate( I laughed). Finally, I believe our parts are different because I am among the most intelligent women with vision on earth. With what is in my head , mind and the support I need... my man and I will be unstoppable. Not everyone knows the value of a raw gold and in the wrong hand, will be taken for granted. A woman is a liability only to a man who couldn't identify her strength, her value and only want to mold her to his own definition of success. It is all excuse , and most men end up making the mistake of dating their wife and ending up with girlfriend. To such a man, the end shall tell, don't concluded yet the light shines only for you. Better to end up with a good woman with vision and ways to build empire with you, than with a woman with so many grammar ,certificate and will be comfortable just working 5-6 job everyday for the rest of her life with you. Highest a duplex. Don't throw away raw gold in place of bronze. Such women ends up a blessing to another man who would accept them , patient and supportive enough to help them refine the gold in them and not mold them to strangers they are not. God speaks and work in parables. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:48pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
This has to be the most stupid thread that I’ve read in a long time. Get with him whilst he’s nothing and grow with him = you automatically become a liability once he makes it Look for a rich man to date= you are a goldigger. You see why I say these men are so stupid and confused. They don’t even understand what they are doing, or the actions they take. They must always find a way to fault the woman. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:50pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
WomanOfRace:las las you be igbo woman 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Capitas7: 11:50pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
jezuzboi:Very educative piece. I have a number of stories analogous to this situation, and your points are true for all the cases. I was trying to educate a lady about this recently also 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:52pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Saffi:Who is stupid and confused? |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:52pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
... and "some" of us are lucky charms, our presence alone will help him blow. And, usually if we leave we take the luck with us 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Please we all know what he typed up there is bullshit. The real reason why men leave their gfs who struggled with them, is because their taste has upgraded. A woman who settles for a broke man, has low standards and men subconsciously know this. When a man finally gets money, he now has access to the most expensive high class women available, women with high standards that he can finally impress. He can put all the designer clothes on his gf, he will always view her as low class because she accepted him at his worst, something which a high class babe will never do. It’s subconscious and you men don’t even notice this. That’s why men always get a ‘trophy wife’ once they make it big. They subconsciously now think they can do better than you, and you’re not on their level anymore. If a man decides to stay with his day one gf, he will cheat on her severely or eventually leave because he will never be satisfied with her. Only on rare occasions, he remains loyal, but it’s better to not take that risk. That’s why I always tell women to stop dating broke men, they don’t value you because you don’t even value yourself. They will only use you and suck you dry emotionally until they can stand on their two feet and run away. WOMEN BE SMART! matadonis: 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by VcStunner(m): 11:55pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
solasoulmusic:well, I would say you are partly right and partly wrong too. Let's define Love yeah? Love is patient, kind, humble, slow to anger... and above all in summary, love is Sacrifice yeah? Now let's define sacrifice: "an act of offering something of value for a greater good without expectation of rewards". So yes truly Money changes people, but to say that's the persons true self is ambiguous. If u were a sales boy, u will have sales boys as friends and hangout with them. When u are promoted to a manager (big money), ur circle changes and so does behaviour and itinerary because that's where the cake is coming from. Now I expect my gf to be able to understand why the changes and how she can help but if she lacks financial intel, how can she help. She will definitely pull me down with emotional blackmail. But if she is willing to upgrade, then why not... after all she did it for me when I was WILLING to. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by EmekaBlue(m): 11:55pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
its all about Money and survival...no one is talking of Love. If he truely loves her...na that time he go use d made money brush her up 6 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by BlackSaints: 11:57pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Saffi:how many ladies in Nigeria struggle with their boyfriends? You just they talk talk anyhow 4 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 12:00am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Saffi: Men kill what they love or loved... when are you going to get with the programme, and drop your prince charming illusions? Why are you allergic to working though? Don't you have a dream, Trust me, it's youth, you will appreciate your total freedom, and independence; once you understand your calling. [s]I'm sorry for calling you out your name on 1 thread like that[/s] |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Yankee101: 12:02am On Apr 18, 2019 |
This is an excuse to justify irresponsibilty If she stayed with you all through the valley she deserves every bit of the mountain top with you. No excuses 14 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 12:02am On Apr 18, 2019 |
oyatz: Then why can't the girlfriend be made a wife? |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 12:03am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Smoldering pile of bullshit. See why I am anti-broke men in the first place? It's never worth it to be with them. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 12:04am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE: Thank you 5 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 12:05am On Apr 18, 2019 |
jezuzboi: My dear, he read well and understood it perfectly 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by na2016: 12:07am On Apr 18, 2019 |
lefulefu: I need to buy beer for this man/woman. You head is there!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by omenpetrol: 12:09am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Most men try to lift their woman up...however may of these women are stuck in their comfort zone.....you can only try so much...... ANGELMARVE: |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 12:11am On Apr 18, 2019 |
CruellaDeVil: Lol. Here's a takeaway bag: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH. But... these farm tools ain't loyal, follow the above to avoid the above 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 12:12am On Apr 18, 2019 |
WomanOfRace: My dear that's why I have no sympathy for anyone of them that come complaining about their wives. I have alot of them that made same mistake and still regret their actions till date. You get mad when you hear the flimsy reasons for actions. Hence my response has always been ' always hold on to whatever attracted you to her and if you can't find it any longer, look for another ' 2 Likes |
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