Dickhead02:
dude reminds me of that shema!e jerimiwolf

sweetilicious:
I quite agree with you op.Most of these ladies feel it's an entitlement.If you were dating him while he was poor, work on yourself as he works on himself too.You are supposed to partner with him to build castles.What if he didn't make it or something happened to him, won't be able to to survive still? Build castles together and stop looking for someone to drain.The blessings of God for a man is the same for a woman.He said he will bless the works of our hands.Women should learn how to grab the bag too!

lefulefu:
As AngelMarve rightly said if broke men who become rich are dumping ladies who started with them then why is oga Goodluck still with Mama Peace? Abi u know goodluck met his wife wen he was dead broke. And wat of E money nko? E money started dating his wife when he had nothing. All those guys u see doing away with ladies wen they make it there must be a reason to it. Understand some of these guys when they were ppor such ladies probably disrespected them and flaunted their cheating ways in his face. Its very common to see some ladies bash their own men as useless cos he couldnt buy her murano. Some will have different sugar daddies while in a relationship with their guy and u expect d guy not to leave her when he makes it. Who wants a nemesis in his life.

SilentListener:

ANGELMARVE:
Absolute Nonsense.

A lady stuck by you when you were broke, now that you are Rich, you left the lady because in your words, "She has now become a liability"
So tell me why Goodluck Jonathan is still with patience Jonathan?

Are you more richer and educated than Goodluck Jonathan?

Yes!!! i know a woman must develop her own self, mentally, educationally or resourcefully but that do not mean that if she fails to meet the requirement guaranteed for your financial level, that you should dump her.


A real man will use his wealth to uplift his woman financially, educationally and transform her to your standard.

WomanOfRace:


You are right. I dated someone for 3 good years; we went through a lot together...then suddenly he saw a light and he told me he needs someone that will be very sound and with skills, probably not HND certificate( I laughed). Finally, I believe our parts are different because I am among the most intelligent women with vision on earth. With what is in my head and the support I need... my man and I will be unstoppable. Not everyone knows the value of raw gold and in the wrong hand, will be taken for granted. A woman is a liability only to a man who couldn't identify her strength, her value and only want to mold her to his own definition of success. It is all excuse , and most men end up making the mistake of dating their wife and ending up with girlfriend.

To such a man, the end shall tell, don't concluded yet the light shines only for you.

jezuzboi:
Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.

While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.

A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.

Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.

A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.

If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.

Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.

That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.

That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.

We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.

The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?

If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.

That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.

Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.

Jezuzboi©

Saffi:
This has to be the most stupid thread that I’ve read in a long time.

[s]Get with him whilst he’s nothing and grow with him = you automatically become a liability once he makes it

Look for a rich man to date= you are a goldigger.

You see why I see these men are so stupid and confused. They don’t even understand what they are doing, or the actions they take. They must always find a way to fault the woman.[/s]

matadonis:

she was an asset when she there with you through your poor and uneducated financial level.
Then when you've acquired rich and educated financial level, She becomes a liability.
What is the essence of the money if you can't build her to your standard?
If you can't open up a business for her to manage in order to enhance her financial level?
Upgrading her financial level through your rich financial level is a plus to your financial education.

solasoulmusic:
Money doesn’t make you it just reveals who you really are I’ve pondered about this and I’ve arrived at the conclusion that no matter how a particular person treats you never stop striving to do good in this world. The same people you spent time to build up once they get up may want to pull you down.

I think it’s due to being rich but still having the poor mentality while those who assist and love us through our struggling time understand life better and it’s ups and downs. I’ve been there for someone and they’ve turned round and spit in my face even ridiculed the little steps I’m taking towards my future but what if I didn’t bother what if I just folded my arms like they are

There would be no wisdom there would be no self control it would just be bitterness

Saffi:
This has to be the most stupid thread that I’ve read in a long time.

Get with him whilst he’s nothing and grow with him = you automatically become a liability once he makes it

Look for a rich man to date= you are a goldigger.

You see why I see these men are so stupid and confused. They don’t even understand what they are doing, or the actions they take. They must always find a way to fault the woman.

Saffi:
This has to be the most stupid thread that I’ve read in a long time.

Get with him whilst he’s nothing and grow with him = you automatically become a liability once he makes it

Look for a rich man to date= you are a goldigger.

You see why I see these men are so stupid and confused. They don’t even understand what they are doing, or the actions they take. They must always find a way to fault the woman.

oyatz:
You have a valid argument but you know the real differences between GIRLFRIENDS and WIVES?

ANGELMARVE:
See bro, Nobody is useless in life.
Even if the woman failed to meet the standard, you can help her make the standard.

If someone is not educated, then the person should develop on his or her talent or have a handwork.

So did the successful man got to the top on his own?
Did people not help him got to the top?

what if people refused to help him when he was poor because he is low class?
would he be at the top today?

This generation has destroyed the concept of love with too many principles of westernization and people are too money, class and material conscious.

When you truly love a woman, it don't matter if she is this or that, You stick with her to the end.

jezuzboi:

Read the article more carefully, slower than you did before, and you will see the answer to this your question.

lefulefu:
As AngelMarve rightly said if broke men who become rich are dumping ladies who started with them then why is oga Goodluck still with Mama Peace? Abi u know goodluck met his wife wen he was dead broke. And wat of E money nko? E money started dating his wife when he had nothing. All those guys u see doing away with ladies wen they make it there must be a reason to it. Understand some of these guys when they were ppor such ladies probably disrespected them and flaunted their cheating ways in his face. Its very common to see some ladies bash their own men as useless cos he couldnt buy her murano. Some will have different sugar daddies while in a relationship with their guy and u expect d guy not to leave her when he makes it. Who wants a nemesis in his life.

ANGELMARVE:
Absolute Nonsense.

A lady stuck by you when you were broke, now that you are Rich, you left the lady because in your words, "She has now become a liability"
So tell me why Goodluck Jonathan is still with patience Jonathan?

Are you more richer and educated than Goodluck Jonathan?

Yes!!! i know a woman must develop her own self, mentally, educationally or resourcefully but that do not mean that if she fails to meet the requirement guaranteed for your financial level, that you should dump her.

A real man will use his wealth to uplift his woman financially, educationally and transform her to your standard.

CruellaDeVil:
Smoldering pile of bullshit. See why I am anti-broke men in the first place? It's never worth it to be with them.

WomanOfRace:


You are right. I dated someone for 3 good years; we went through a lot together...then suddenly he saw a light and he told me he needs someone that will be very sound and with skills, probably not HND certificate( I laughed). Finally, I believe our parts are different because I am among the most intelligent women with vision on earth. With what is in my head , mind and the support I need... my man and I will be unstoppable. Not everyone knows the value of a raw gold and in the wrong hand, will be taken for granted. A woman is a liability only to a man who couldn't identify her strength, her value and only want to mold her to his own definition of success. It is all excuse , and most men end up making the mistake of dating their wife and ending up with girlfriend.

To such a man, the end shall tell, don't concluded yet the light shines only for you.

Better to end up with a good woman with vision and ways to build empire with you, than with a woman with so many grammar ,certificate and will be comfortable just working 5-6 job everyday for the rest of her life with you. Highest a duplex. Don't throw away raw gold in place of bronze.