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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by elonize(m): 4:46pm On May 08, 2019
ubunja:

Bite me
ram ram ,I don bite u grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 4:47pm On May 08, 2019
elonize:
ram ram ,I don bite u grin
was it sweet?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by jackals(f): 5:06pm On May 08, 2019
ubunja:
it's because you are shît

Harsh
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by iNeedACar: 5:31pm On May 08, 2019
Jaapaa:
You’re the one allowing all these bullshit. I hardly call the girls I have Bleep and I made it known to them I’m doing them a favor not the other way round. It’s like Christmas to them whenever I pick their calls. You need to make it known to them that it’s a privilege been with you!

Baddest

Some woman are like a 'news headline', read and go to the next.

Hahahahaahaha

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 5:39pm On May 08, 2019
Jaapaa:
You’re the one allowing all these bullshit. I hardly call the girls I have Bleep and I made it known to them I’m doing them a favor not the other way round. It’s like Christmas to them whenever I pick their calls. You need to make it known to them that it’s a privilege been with you!
how did I miss this comment?

This is on point. the man is ALWAYS the prize. Always

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 08, 2019
ubunja:
how did I miss this comment?

This is on point. the man is ALWAYS the prize. Always

Where is your Girlfriend Saffi? cheesy cheesy grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 5:43pm On May 08, 2019
jackals:


Harsh
that means your pussy is getting wet then. You did say you like to be treated like shît...

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 5:44pm On May 08, 2019
truthsayer009:


Where is your Girlfriend Saffi? cheesy cheesy grin
somewhere hating on men.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by iNeedACar: 5:57pm On May 08, 2019
catwalq:


Dance if you want,play nice,jump,clap,simp if you f**king want to. No one should lead their lives and teach you how to lead yours...

LOL, this Ubunja of a guy is tormenting some bit'ches here. I will promote this thread on Facebook if need be, many young/old guys need to see this.

Some women are only good just like the bathroom; ease yourself and go!

Some are dustbin kinda sha...

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by iNeedACar: 6:04pm On May 08, 2019
pansophist:
This female behaviour is completely understood when you understand the underlying female psychology. Female psychology is in reverse to the Male.

Men are hardwired to care and be sacrificial for others, meanwhile, women are hardwired to be cared and catered for. Their psychology is in reverse to the Male, hence, the observation the poster described accurately. Treat a woman nice, she will think she is better and awesome, and might consider you undeserving of her, it appeals to her self centeredness and narcissism. Conversely, Treats a man nice and he will think you're awesome, and treat you like the best thing ever. This is also why some men are stuck in the friend zone, since they are judging a woman from their own worldview. They think that when you are like a saviour to her, she will honour and wants you, just as a man will behave. That's a fatal mistake.

To break yourself through and not be a victim of her psychology, you have to put yourself first, treat yourself nice and focus all the energy in making yourself like the best thing. In other words, be as selfish and self centred as her, and set your standards high, that's when she interpret such as a sign of a quality man, and sit up to get your commitment. Dont worship her, shower her with attention and dont even spend much on her, it's a death sentence and an instant attraction killer. Thank me later.

Summary of everything here.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by nwachukwu9(m): 7:30pm On May 08, 2019
This thread is very Educative. The truth is that there are some women that reciprocate the love shown to them, but about 95% dont do it

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by fcdgrand(m): 10:17pm On May 08, 2019
djon78:

From experience, it is true. The more you suck up to s woman, she takes you for granted.

A man has to be firm.
Don't be a Sissy.

Its not just in relationships but also in marriage.
Respect a woman, but don't be a Sissy.

And another thing; go for a woman that want you. If a woman is not into you, don't waste your time.
A woman into you will sacrifice a lot to please you and be with you.
but a woman not into you is like pouring water on stone. In fact it is a waste of precious time.

Am talking from experience.

And the sad thing is that many men waste there time on women not into them and thereby Pierce themselves with many sorrows.

It is not a wise thing to do.
but woman that want me are totally different from what i want in a woman, imagin sex worker asking me to wife her, that is damn bull & the sh*t
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 10:32pm On May 08, 2019
habsydiamond:
what if she flashed u nko... Which category that one go dey. undecided
she dey flash u make u call her so she will ask u to send her racharge card.dat one na d same category e dey wit d one wey no even dey call u at all.if a girl really dey into u she go even use d remaining 20 naira call u.i know some guys wey dey recharge their babes phonelines with 8k every week but unfortunately such gehls na once in a blue moon dem even dey manage flash d socalled guy number.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 10:35pm On May 08, 2019
fcdgrand:
but woman that want me are totally different from what i want in a woman, imagin sex worker asking me to wife her, that is damn bull & the sh*t
why will a sex worker be asking u to wife her? such a sex worker don see u finish nau.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 10:38pm On May 08, 2019
pansophist:
This female behaviour is completely understood when you understand the underlying female psychology. Female psychology is in reverse to the Male.

Men are hardwired to care and be sacrificial for others, meanwhile, women are hardwired to be cared and catered for. Their psychology is in reverse to the Male, hence, the observation the poster described accurately. Treat a woman nice, she will think she is better and awesome, and might consider you undeserving of her, it appeals to her self centeredness and narcissism. Conversely, Treats a man nice and he will think you're awesome, and treat you like the best thing ever. This is also why some men are stuck in the friend zone, since they are judging a woman from their own worldview. They think that when you are like a saviour to her, she will honour and wants you, just as a man will behave. That's a fatal mistake.

To break yourself through and not be a victim of her psychology, you have to put yourself first, treat yourself nice and focus all the energy in making yourself like the best thing. In other words, be as selfish and self centred as her, and set your standards high, that's when she interpret such as a sign of a quality man, and sit up to get your commitment. Dont worship her, shower her with attention and dont even spend much on her, it's a death sentence and an instant attraction killer. Thank me later.
pls oo advice those young guys that will use the tuition fee given to them by their parents to throw a birthday party for their girlfriends
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by pansophist(m): 10:41pm On May 08, 2019
lefulefu:
pls oo advice those young guys that will use the tuition fee given to them by their parents to throw a birthday party for their girlfriends

Why should I give such a counterproductive advice? abi you de whine me ni ? grin

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by fcdgrand(m): 10:52pm On May 08, 2019
highcollide:
Gentlemen. This is the modern woman for you. They twist your every statement against you. Every truth claim becomes a political statement that will be used against you. They hate the truth and will manipulate you at any moment. This thread has been all about our relationship with women, how they react when you're a nice guy and when you're a bad guy. When have we bashed women on this thread? can you see how the truth gets them angry? Can you see why the easiest way to get into a womans legs is to lie to her because she's very much comfortable with lies? Her hair, nails, face, bra, height etc they're all lies. All fake...


Nietszche wasn't wrong when he said "The great art of women is the LIE"....
truth! only but truth!
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by fcdgrand(m): 10:58pm On May 08, 2019
lefulefu:
why will a sex worker be asking u to wife her? such a sex worker don see u finish nau.
i don't know, i was thinking that she is a good one until i SPY on her
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 11:07pm On May 08, 2019
fcdgrand:
i don't know, i was thinking that she is a good one until i SPY on her
oh ok u mean u were d one who found out she' s an ashawo.hmm i was thinking it was the ashawo u might have been patronising in a brothel that was asking u to wife her cos dat would have been weird.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by fcdgrand(m): 11:24pm On May 08, 2019
lefulefu:
oh ok u mean u were d one who found out she' s an ashawo.hmm i was thinking it was the ashawo u might have been patronising in a brothel that was asking u to wife her cos dat would have been weird.
the funny part is that; she is a member of the one of those church that have many branches & she don't miss sunday services, she can't believe that i find out, me i CIA that coded b*tch
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by luminouz(m): 11:36pm On May 08, 2019
lefulefu:
pls oo advice those young guys that will use the tuition fee given to them by their parents to throw a birthday party for their girlfriends
Lefu...leave me jor...I.wan spend my tuition fee on onyeka...that's how to show her I love her...once I finish that,I will come borrow from you.. grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 11:45pm On May 08, 2019
nwachukwu9:
This thread is very Educative. The truth is that there are some women that reciprocate the love shown to them, but about 95% dont do it
and meeting that 5% is as hard as finding snow on the Sahara desert

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 11:46pm On May 08, 2019
luminouz:

Lefu...leave me jor...I.wan spend my tuition fee on onyeka...that's how to show her I love her...once I finish that,I will come borrow from you.. grin
lmfao and he'll give you. Lefulefu is a true friend cheesy

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:01am On May 09, 2019
catwalq:



I see your point. Its like me being nice to friends,acquaintances, young,old and what have you. Does that mean everyone one of em will be nice to me -NO, do they try to take advantage of it - some do, but will that stop me being nice - hell no.

I choose to play nice and leave the jerk part to them - somebody is gotta play it by the way,but it doesn't have to be me. Their being bad will not make me change or try to apply cynical tricks on them. That's just lame.

I'm not exactly a nice person,more of a moral person with strong belief in sincerity, honesty, and goodness.
Also I did not change. But my convictions about the opposite sex changed a bit. Bottom line is you folks need to advice your fellow ladies about your attitude, it works against you and drives men away (ever wondered about the increase in commitment-phobic men?). But to the real ladies, y'all are queens...too bad you are way too few

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 3:58am On May 09, 2019
fcdgrand:
but woman that want me are totally different from what i want in a woman, imagin sex worker asking me to wife her, that is damn bull & the sh*t

Congrats BRO! I celebrate with you.

Na you be MAN!
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by jackals(f): 4:34am On May 09, 2019
Polchiz:

Have you met any of them in person or you are judging their looks on the social media.
Photographers can make a 50-year old woman look 25 years.


Hmmmm. This is so right, so so right
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 5:14am On May 09, 2019
soul95:


I'm not exactly a nice person,more of a moral person with strong belief in sincerity, honesty, and goodness.
Also I did not change. But my convictions about the opposite sex changed a bit. Bottom line is you folks need to advice your fellow ladies about your attitude, it works against you and drives men away (ever wondered about the increase in commitment-phobic men?). But to the real ladies, y'all are queens...too bad you are way too few


I get you bro. Peace!!!
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by habsydiamond(m): 8:53am On May 09, 2019
lefulefu:
she dey flash u make u call her so she will ask u to send her racharge card.dat one na d same category e dey wit d one wey no even dey call u at all.if a girl really dey into u she go even use d remaining 20 naira call u.i know some guys wey dey recharge their babes phonelines with 8k every week but unfortunately such gehls na once in a blue moon dem even dey manage flash d socalled guy number.
True talk...the best na to cast such babe away. With time one will surely find a babe to love him.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by aytuns(m): 6:40pm On May 09, 2019
ubunja:
get it through your head. ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME. it's a matter of Levels. Some are more whorish than others. Some are at the imagination stage of whoring.eg virgins.

coming from a woman, I'm amazed.. I STRONGLY DISAGREE.. not all women are whores. my Mother isn't, my sister isn't neither is my wife nor unborn daughter. So NOT all women are the same.

You choose to be who you want to be. If you decide to be a LovePeddler, that's your choice. Don't generalise nor conclude for every woman out there
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by aytuns(m): 6:49pm On May 09, 2019
ubunja:
you're sorely mistaken if you think wife-material must be treated differently. All women need a firm Alpha hand and reverse psychology. Why do you think a married woman will risk everything for a night of passion with a thug or Bad Boy? Cause they give her vagina tingles. You with your good man, husband material attitude cant

by all means, please enlighten me on YOUR definition of an Alpha male..
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 6:50pm On May 09, 2019
aytuns:


coming from a woman, I'm amazed.. I STRONGLY DISAGREE.. not all women are whores. my Mother isn't, my sister isn't neither is my wife nor unborn daughter. So NOT all women are the same.

You choose to be who you want to be. If you decide to be a LovePeddler, that's your choice. Don't generalise nor conclude for every woman out there
what makes YOUR OWN wife, mother, sister and unborn daughter special from every other woman?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 6:51pm On May 09, 2019
aytuns:


by all means, please enlighten me on YOUR definition of an Alpha male..
its everything you are not

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