SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

I think say una be supermen.
Break up don't pain you guys


As women are too numerous,desperate and cheap.

Oya, drink sniper.
Nonsense and ingredients

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

Let me rephrase your question.
"How do I get better from malaria by sleeping at mosquitoe infested area without mosquito net and all while taking malaria drug"

Answer: You simply cannot do that, either you leave the area or you buy mosquitoes net or lastly chase away all the mosquitoes.

To your situation, only TIME will heal you but as it does you have remove many physical contact with her or lastly "buy a mosquito net" meaning get someone you also care about around (it is important you care about this person except ot won't work). The person don't have live with you but it has to be a person you spend quality time with and develop new affections for. Aside this, the last way out is to kick the girl out of the compound, don't as me how.

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

Focus on ur degree exams ...
Focus on not coming back to the school for any spill over....
Focus on getting a good CGPA (not too late)....
By so doing you forgets about her....

Don't conclude that she's finally moved on. Get closer and settle scores if possible (at least for the time being).

If you aren't meant to be together, it will be easier after college.

So Nairaland that you brought your matter to that you needed a way to politely break up your girlfriend is still the same place you are bringing this one on how to cope after the break-up?

GUY; Just concentrate on your studies. If you just want to keep her as your friend, you can still talk to her. Break-up should not be the end of the relationship joooor

spiceadole:

I think say una be supermen. Break up don't pain you guys

As women are too numerous,desperate and cheap.
Oya, drink sniper. Nonsense and ingredients

I smell transfer of aggression here.

The solution is simple... Fall in love with someone else

the easier way is to take sniper nd u will never see her again,useless pple everywhere.

JejeNaija:


You missed two very important points which makes your advice not a good way out.
First they are in the same campus so blocking whatsapp facebook and all will not stop him from seeing her physically regularly.
Secondly he is close to his final exams so you don't expect him at this point to be going to joints anyhow because he wants to be chatting with people and looking for babes to collect numbers. Now use your head, think of something nicer to say and then post again.

I even thought this was someone with intellect. This country sef!

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

Even my own now the shake small small. I know it will soon fall so am just out here preparing for the worse. Just drill many gals toast any girl u will see just in few days shes out of ur mind

Rubbish

Richyicon:
By drinking sniper, fool!

I am sure you think you are humorous, but not everything is to be joked with... His sanity could truly be at stake here. Cyber-bullying is wrong. Grow up!!!

Instead of you to focus on how to kill your enemies with your success, you are here thinking about a girl I probably may never say hello to if I ever come across her... Dude work hard and make money. She left you because you 're broke, don't be pained about it rather it should motivate you more to study hard and hopefully come out with a good result.. By the time you get a good paying Job and start driving your nice car, You go realize say that your babe wowo die because na that time your success go dey attract classy babes for your side

Get a new girlfriend

spiceadole:


I think say una be supermen.
Break up don't pain you guys


As women are too numerous,desperate and cheap.

Oya, drink sniper.
Nonsense and ingredients

He will NOT drink Sniper. Please watch what you say oooooooooo

Divay22:

It's sure always sex for y'all.
Your type no dey ever see any better thing for girl body pass her hole

You see moniker as big prik and you are complaining. lol

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

There is no problem, trust me. When you have a teal problem, you won't come running here

You'll get over seeing your ex. Trust me. Your brain's plasticity will help you adapt. The more you see, the more comfortable you become as your brain will alert that there's no danger and gradually that will sink into you and you'll natural know how to handle it.

And how do you know she too won't feel uncomfortable? I'm sure if she she's you twice with a girl, she will be sleepless.

My friend, you're not losing an eye or a leg and neither did your baby die. Those are real problems. In years to come,you'll just giggle over this

Drestar19:
Whats happening to the boys of the new generation?..very weak and timid...the next thing you will hear is he went and drank substance...where did we go wrong in grooming this weakkings and sisi..gone are the days were boys were boys..girls would beg for your attention...i bet you are one of those that sag your pants..and spend your days taking selfies for instagram..

sorry, you are not fit for this discussion. I am always blunt about relationships and I claim I don't feel anything but when I met the right person. I didn't want to loose her.... I know some people are very dramatic but then when it is true love maybe your time haven't come.
love of this kind happens in many way
Love of mother to child
Blood ties
Friends
etc
This feelings come with a sense of care and you're so emotionally attached to this people

Odinaka00:
Instead of you to focus on how to kill your enemies with your success, you are here thinking about a girl I probably may never say hello to if I ever come across her... Dude work hard and make money. She left you because you 're broke, don't be pained about it rather it should motivate you more to study hard and hopefully come out with a good result.. By the time you get a good paying Job and start driving your nice car, You go realize say that your babe wowo die because na that time your success go dey attract classy babes for your side

Dont make him the victim here, he didn't tell us why he left the girl. he could be at fault and that could be why the girl left him.

I have no advice to offer to u

daddyfreeman1:
bro you just got my attention... What you wrote here is all about me. This has happened to me before as an introveee. I have a new Gf now, but anytime I remember my ex it makes me lose appetite to eat... Gosh ... Please advice me too

lolxx...hahahah

dude nothing to advise you nah..you already gat ya self a new babe,but if you got this current babe 'the same' month or year you broke up with ur ex,then you might be in a rebound relationship,meaning you are using your current girlfriend to bypass the pains and memory of your ex of which is not fare to your current babe..because if you still feel like losing appetite while thinking of you ex,then you still love her and you probably haven't gotten over her..

if she comes back begging,then you current babe is in a deep shit..

just channel everything you have for you ex to you current babe and you will completely get over her with 'time'.

Omoluabi16:
You see moniker as big prik and you are complaining. lol

Lol
I no even check the moniker well self

Make that a life lesson.
Do not fish, sh1t and bathe in the same body of water.

stupidity:
No advice here can help you. Only you can help yourself.



But to be honest, e go hard I swear. Especially that moment when you see her walking with her new guy and the guy is grabbing her asx, your heart will sink and your GP will drop instantly.

If you face your books and tel your self that u wont carry over any course no matter what or else your parents will disown, trust me you wont even notice her.

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

This is a story people like Ubunja and ilegend hate to read .

They hate to know that inspite of all they do, there are still some good guys who love and love hard !

To the op, you'll be fine las las, heartbreak is part of life's process.
It's a phase that'll definitely pass.
Just let the feeling take its full course, you'll be fine in the end .
It's better to have found love and suffer heartbreak than not to have loved at all .
It makes you a better person .

As for Ubunja and ilegend, you don't win until you have truly fallen in love .
I hope you find love someday guys

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

Nothing but heart aches with Nigerian girls. My ex..Or whatever she is in tears needed help. She was gonna be kicked out of her house...school fees, problems here and there.... I assisted her with close to a million naira In the space of 3 months...

The day she was to come visit...after switching off her phone for weeks. Guess what she said she I confronted her.

" let me advice you. Go and think about your life. It's just an advice"

You see..we live in society that places women on a high pedestal. I never knew this until I travelled out, then I saw how blind and stupid the relationship culture of Nigeria is today. Best way to get over her?

1. You are way above her league. Nigerian guys are cherished abroad. You are better.

2. Hussle hard and make money. There ain't no sweeter revenge that your ex seeing you a success.

Forget about her. Nigerian woman and girls are a direct decendant of JEZEBEL. They are the most ruthless set of female on the planet. They are certainly not the most beautiful but by far the most materialistic, fetish and wicked. Nigerian women is one of th2 devil's most powerful weapon. Avoid them if you can. I will never in my life dream of dating one much less marry any. Those who do, well...It's between them and God.

frankdre:
common men!!! don't be chicken hearted, u should know that 90% of all relationships end in the school gate. Its kinda hard, but u have to let go, but i hope u have fuckkked her because if not, U LOSE. You can never satisfy a girls wants on campus, financially, material, sexually and otherwise. A hoe will always be a hoe!!! Ladies are moved with what they see and are easily influenced. So move ahead and get a brand new PUSSYY.The primary aim of being in school is to graduate with a good results. The rest na FUN

something is fundamentally wrong with you.

1.Why accuse girls when the OP haven't told us how they break up.
2. How do you conclude the OP was the victim?
3. Can you tell us comprehensively how sex help us to gain in a relationship?
4. Your advice to person that you want to graduate well is to go and find new pussy

Better behave yourself.

Mariangeles:
This is a story people like Ubunja and ilegend hate to read .

They hate to know that inspite of all they do, their are still some good guys who love and love hard !

To the op, you'll be fine las las, heartbreak is part of life process.
It's a phase that'll definitely pass.
Just let the feeling take its full course, you'll be fine in the end .
It's better to have found love and suffer heartbreak than not to have loved at all .
It makes you a better person .

As for Ubunja and ilegend, you don't win until you have truly fallen in love .
I hope you find love someday guys

goes to show you never understood our writings.

if I hated love I wouldn't have written something like this: https://www.nairaland.com/4967712/ubunjas-miseducation-dont-respond-emotional



don't judge me with what you read people say about me.

SLBMS:



Nothing but heart aches with Nigerian girls. My ex..Or whatever she is in tears needed help. She was gonna be kicked out of her house...school fees, problems here and there.... I assisted her with close to a million naira In the space of 3 months...

The day she was to come visit...after switching off her phone for weeks. Guess what she said she I confronted her.

" let me advice you. Go and think about your life. It's am advice"

You see..we live in society that places women on a high pedestal. I never knew this until I travelled out, then I saw how blind and stupid the relationship culture of Nigeria is today. Best way to get over her?

1. You are whay above her league. You are better.
2. Hussle hard and make money. There ain't no sweeter revenge that your ex seeing you a success.

Forget about her. Nigerian woman and girls are a direct defendant of JEZEBEL. They are the most ruthless set of female on the planet. They are certainly not the most beautiful but by far the most materialistic, fetish and wicked. Nigerian women is one of th2 devil's most powerful weapon. Avoid them if you can. I will never in my life dream of dating one much less marry any. Those who do, well...It's between them and God.

When next you give advise, always state your assumptions clearly and ask for correction if possible.

please stop assuming the OP is the victim here. There are 50% chances that OP could be a culprit, he didn't tell us what happened.

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

Teens/ Young adults love wahalla. All of us once had a serious love affair that eluded us that we felt like ending it then.
Just be sure of one thing: You are going to look back in the future and laugh at yourself real hard. Then it will be clear to you that In matters of life and destiny, no other mortal matters except you and your God. Be strong abeg.