IamD18:

Just shurrup!

You lots are always quick to support shiiiit when you think it suits you.

So you'll be happy if your son you carried for 9 months tells you that he'll need to discuss with his wife before giving you money?

Una go just calm down dey disgrace una self with confidence.

Partnership indeed!!

Redhot111:


Bros, una well at all? So the man should put in 60% while the woman put in only 50% of their respective earnings into some Mumu joint account. Why didn't you suggest the woman putting 80% and the man 20%? I no dey like ojoro ooooo.

Barryseal:
A man can tell his wife for information sake, not as an obligation.

deltateam:


The joint account has advantages and disadvantages. Its easier for the other partner to have access to it on the other's demise but what if one partner can't wait to have it alone by putting otapiapia in the other's meal?

Besides it puts restraint on how you spend cos consultation is necessary before spending and it can also cause problem where both parties don't agree together on what to spend on.

NaijaTushboy:
Your Opinion please

Consult?

Yes ofcourse, that would be a pussy-whipped, stupid man.

What if l ask: Should a man CONSULT HIS MOTHER....before giving Money to his wife?



Mother: See ehn, he lived inside me for nine months, came out from between my legs and sucked my Bwreast for two years. Who do you think you are?

Wife: He wakes and sleep between this my legs and he has been sucking my own Bwreast for the last nine years, go and siddon somewhere joor?

Wife and Mother, both are Women, always competing for a man's attention and brain.

NaijaTushboy:
Your Opinion please

Mynd44:

Both instances are different.

lamideee:
@Olufela30 "The wife's work is only in the kitchen n other wifely duties..."
what kind of yeye statement is this? It is men like you that would make their wives full house wife. It's not a must he inform her before giving his mum money, same thing applies to the woman.

MizMyColi:
Some of you here and your idiotic comments.

Not all women are mother in law haters.

If you are in a marriage where you do everything together....where you cooperate sincerely and share.
If you are in a marriage where you as both man and woman ACTUALLY care for the wellbeing of inlaws from both sides of the family. There won't be need for consultations.

Both of you will do your best to ensure your inlaws are happy.

Have you people not seen a marriage where it is the woman that advocates that more money be sent to her mother in law?

Have you people not seen a scenario where the wife's mother calls her daughter to request for one thousand naira (for instance) and because the husband is always carried along, the man says "no. one thousand is not enough, give her five thousand?"

You people just use your hands, mouths and minds to create problems for yourselves.

Most of you talking here are not married.

Instead of you to be praying, and speaking like someone who wants to be in a marriage where openness, sincerity and trust is the order of the day, you are here displaying and projecting your trust issues.

Well done.

miketayo:


It's always fine when they r the wife but when they become the mother in-law they won't agree

MizMyColi:
Some of you here and your idiotic comments.

Not all women are mother in law haters.

If you are in a marriage where you do everything together....where you cooperate sincerely and share.
If you are in a marriage where you as both man and woman ACTUALLY care for the wellbeing of inlaws from both sides of the family. There won't be need for consultations.

Both of you will do your best to ensure your inlaws are happy.

Have you people not seen a marriage where it is the woman that advocates that more money be sent to her mother in law?

Have you people not seen a scenario where the wife's mother calls her daughter to request for one thousand naira (for instance) and because the husband is always carried along, the man says "no. one thousand is not enough, give her five thousand?"

You people just use your hands, mouths and minds to create problems for yourselves.

Most of you talking here are not married.

Instead of you to be praying, and speaking like someone who wants to be in a marriage where openness, sincerity and trust is the order of the day, you are here displaying and projecting your trust issues.

Well done.

ifyalways:
Well, if its a marriage were all both spouses do is joint account, joint expenses, joint investment, joint this N that, then i guess yes since its an equal yoke marriage

On a normal level and for me, Hell NO and vice versa. I make and spend my money anyway i deem fit after fulfilling my financial obligations to the family.