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Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 11:51am On May 27, 2019 |
Oma307:she might be feeling insecured dat since op refused to snap with her then dat means he might have another woman somewhere and is just playing. U know how ladies reason and i dont blame her. If u say u really love a particular girl i dont see any reason doin a pre wedding shot wit her if dats wat she wants. 1 Like |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by crismark(m): 12:30pm On May 27, 2019 |
bukatyne:Thank you 4 dis... After all d advice i got frm dis forum, family nd friends, i came to a conclusion dat my decision on dis stands. Trust d reason has gone beyond me being shy. Its nw a case of being a man. If she doesnt agree wit it she shuld find anoda man afterall she is jst 24. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by bukatyne(f): 12:32pm On May 27, 2019 |
crismark: I don't know about been a 'man'. All I know is that lovers make compromises for each other and make the other party priority in their decision making. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by crismark(m): 12:32pm On May 27, 2019 |
habsydiamond:Yeah...she sees me like a soft guy dat succumb to all her wishes |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by crismark(m): 12:36pm On May 27, 2019 |
bukatyne:nt in her case She is nt being humble on dis. Nw i understand wat guys who marry girls frm wealthy home go through. Her mom is anoda wahala in dis issue. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 1:26pm On May 27, 2019 |
lefulefu:you might be right but from the write up of the op, she wants to get married because her friends are married, not that she really love to marry |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 1:28pm On May 27, 2019 |
Oma307:want to get married cos her friends are married?? Then dats not love |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by habsydiamond(m): 2:28pm On May 27, 2019 |
crismark:In that's the case, Let her know u are the one in charge and she's to support u but do it calmly by sitting her down and talking sense into her. Most ladies from well to do homes always want to be incharge of their relationships which is wrong, especially when the guy is not too loaded. U understand what I mean right. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by habsydiamond(m): 2:31pm On May 27, 2019 |
femmoy:its now am understanding his reason for that which is justified. 1 Like |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by femmoy(m): 3:12pm On May 27, 2019 |
habsydiamond: thanks for reasoning along, you are a genius. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by ksbusari(m): 3:16pm On May 27, 2019 |
I told my girl no pre wedding pics. she begged I said No. No argument. wedding preparation is still on going. I love her so much. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by luvyaself95(m): 4:30pm On May 27, 2019 |
Easybela:You are full of wisdom Dear, Don't Mind That Guy... 1 Like |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by sheDD(m): 5:29pm On May 27, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool:u said it all |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by sheDD(m): 5:34pm On May 27, 2019 |
crismark:so guys sometimes are just moonstruck with this mirage called love Girls don't love!!, I bet u she jst wants to tie the knot and add that to her shelve of achievement. U don't here how u are blabbering and complaining here even b4 taking her to d aisle Who knows the trends of disagreement between u both,,u will grace our NL with after tying the knots Good luck brother!! |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Kendumazy(m): 5:56pm On May 27, 2019 |
crismark: Go through this thread. It will enlighten you the more and open your inner eyes. Wish you all the very best in your decision. https://www.nairaland.com/4351460/lessons-marrying-rich-family |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by DBestDoc(f): 7:00pm On May 27, 2019 |
Centrallock: You're giving a very bad advice. This thing you call the small stuff is actually the very huge and mighty stuff. How he handles it will determine his fate in that marriage. @Op, don't let this slide. This is your opportunity to stand your ground and desensitize your woman to that ' pepper them mindset', the show off crew and the competition gang. If she's so interested in showing off that she doesn't care about losing you, then you're going to be in an even bigger mess in the marriage proper. So call her and apologize for being irrational and tell her you're interested in moving things forward but there's still not going to be a pre wedding picture. You want things done differently. Every other thing is okay by you but definitely not a pre-wedding shoot and however she handles it will determine if you should thank your lucky stars and move on or if you should stick it out with her. You made some compromises and she should be able to make some too if she wants stuffs to work. A sensible woman would care less about a photo shoot. Hahaha, i've read things on Nairaland though. All the best! 3 Likes |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by DBestDoc(f): 7:09pm On May 27, 2019 |
ksbusari:That's a sensible woman, you don't push things too much especially when they're so so irrelevant. There are a whole lot of things to argue about and this photo shoot nonsense is definitely not one of them. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 7:31pm On May 27, 2019 |
Six months courting is too short nah crismark: |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Tehlu(m): 7:40pm On May 27, 2019 |
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Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 7:46pm On May 27, 2019 |
Go bak n read wat u commented on 16th feb 2018 @11:38.Dat was ur wish crismark: |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by MissRaine69(f): 8:06pm On May 27, 2019 |
You are falling out over pictures? What happens when the pair of you need to make REAL pertinent decisions in your marriage? Your biggest mistake letting her make all the decisions you set a precedent. 1 Like |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by chinchonglee(m): 11:24pm On May 27, 2019 |
blissgregory:So u went bak to read d OP's previous posts Jobless |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 11:27pm On May 27, 2019 |
flokii: It’s not true I broke an engagement way back because the man wanted to plaster my pictures and videos all over the globe (well, town) I told him I wanted a twenty person wedding or less and he said he would not be caught dead in that kind of arrangement We said our goodbyes cos I did not want him to die at all Dear OP I can totally relate to your post Camera shots can feel like gun shots to me I would not be caught dead in pre-wedding shoots, I would not wear white and those flouncy oyibo wedding gowns and veils. Heck, I would also hate a wedding in a church or mosque. But finally, if I had to for some reason get a church wedding? I would not want to do that “till death do us part” bit (I need to be ready to bail, anytime ). Joking, hopefully In your shoes I would bounce because my spirit would feel crushed if it was subjected to all these (in all honesty I may be a bit too self-involved) But at least I am honest enough to say my own But men (people) need their weddings, no? That’s why you are battling with your personality type. Be ready to be dragged to parties, weddings, whatnots. You will have your pictures taken too, for your fiancee’s peace of mind, not yours Already seems like an impasse to me Also, hope you are not getting married on the rebound? Soon after losing your Nairaland love? |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by crismark(m): 11:32pm On May 27, 2019 |
blissgregory:Dnt judge me based on dat, i woz only joking on it. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by crismark(m): 11:35pm On May 27, 2019 |
blissgregory:It happened so because we av alot in common. |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 4:11am On May 28, 2019 |
Is it ur post?? chinchonglee: |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 4:12am On May 28, 2019 |
Eyaah...sorry crismark: |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 4:13am On May 28, 2019 |
crismark:okk |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by crackhaus: 5:19am On May 28, 2019 |
merahki:I was rolling my eyes till I got to that part. Then I said to myself, 'okay she seems to have a healthy dose of self-awareness since she can admit it to herself' |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by chinchonglee(m): 7:33am On May 28, 2019 |
blissgregory:stop pokenosing |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Raalsalghul: 7:42am On May 28, 2019 |
Centrallock:Is this one even a man. Spits! |
Re: Your Thoughts Pls by Nobody: 9:29am On May 28, 2019 |
crackhaus: I jes dunno wotosay Good morning! |
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