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elantraceey:
Now let you correct you on something, A girl of 30 yrs can be single not because of she was promiscuous all her youth but there are several reasons that could make a lady stay single that long. Plus your idea of age gap is wack , a 20 year old girl can look like she's in her 30s in two years if she doesn't take good care of her self, same way an older lady can look 16 most of her life with good maintenance, so I'll advice you guys to stop taking advantage of children's innocence and exploit them for yourself at their young age .

Rita30:
You are a frustrated mentally deranged nicumpuc
They are always the first to throw stones

breakerofchains:
This is just BS.

A 30 years old dating an 18 years old girl.. Grooming.

She hasn't even fully known herself!

This kind of relationship is usually abusive. She's still in
the process of building her identity. This kind of relationship leads to her building her identity around this man. Let's not even go into how manipulative this can be.



Parentss please please and please, don't let your teenage daughters date men who are more than 3 years older than they.
When she gets to the age of 25, she can date a man 100 years older than her if she likes.

OP leave her alone. Her life is just beginning.

If at the age of 25 she still likes you,then you can date her.
Period.

coldFLARES1:
One young man sits down, shuts himself to the world; isolates a girl that's bogged down witha huge deficit; gets fixated on her and thinks she's the next best thing after fried rice!

Quite refreshing to think that your love story would have a happy ending.

You're a firstborn, probably with siblings, whose parents may still be alive and the best girl you visualize a future with is an 18 yr old whose parents are so poor they cannot foot the bill of their child's tertiary education?

You'll surely get what's coming to you, and more sensible young men would learn.

LordAdam16:
Would they learn?

Fortunately, there's some decent advice on the FP already. Hopefully he doesn't neglect them.

Finally, f*ck hormones! The way it makes peeps suspend reason is the stuff of legends.

-Lord

Skmoda360:
Now you are speaking English, slowpoke.....a common dimwit like you.....I guess you are a jobless dunce who manage to pick few lines of some books to throw jabs at me.....I will arrange your matter if you don't shut up oooo.....

swerve bitch

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her. I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week, my problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

elantraceey:
Now let you correct you on something, A girl of 30 yrs can be single not because of she was promiscuous all her youth but there are several reasons that could make a lady stay single that long. Plus your idea of age gap is wack , a 20 year old girl can look like she's in her 30s in two years if she doesn't take good care of her self, same way an older lady can look 16 most of her life with good maintenance, so I'll advice you guys to stop taking advantage of children's innocence and exploit them for yourself at their young age .

Deepfeel:
Op look for a matured lady in her late twenties that will contribute to your life progress and marry ' forget this love thing you are talking about that girl is still a blind teenager she will leave you for a richer guy once she gets the exposure she needs

placeofallure:
There are no hard and fast rules about these issues of the heart. You may be right or wrong. The odds are not always clearly spelt out.

I was in my late teens when I started dating my husband, at about the same time, I gained admission into the university. My husband was 12 years older. He contributed to my schooling and I came back to marry him. We're still the best of friends.

I think OP should just follow his mind.

Skmoda360:

good morning bitch

Rukkydelta:
Op you are really suffering from low self esteem that's why you are going for a little girl. She is probably looking for a big brother or father figure in you and definitely not a lover but she is too young and will be confuse about this things
You think she loves you my dear? Well she don't cos she is still very much naive and isn't yet expose to the reality of life. And when you said she is submissive I know you meant you can easily control her
Please and please do that girl a favour and don't marry her now, don't ruin her life please by continue a poverty generation because if you get married now you will definitely start having kids in a year time or more continuing the circle of poverty.
I don't blame the girl or you I blame her parents for allowing her to date a 30 years old grown ass man. Poverty is never an excuse to raise your children properly even if you can't send them to school. Discipline, advise them you can register them for a handwork or trade

Please if you eventually still wants to get married to her wait for three years more by then she will be matured and expose to know if she really wants to spend her lifetime with you or not for your both sake cos I can sense future regrets right now

menvocate:
Get a lawyer... Sign a contract to marry her and educate her. If she breaches, she will be compelled to pay no matter the years it takes her.

If you breach your side of sending her to school, you should also pay certain amounts....

Kendumazy:
I have this feelings that you will regret sending her to school cos she is gonna leave you. She is too young to be in school and not lose focus on your love affairs in school and her parents won't help you with their attitude of you guys aren't married, she shouldn't stay long with you while they know you are about to embark on shouldering their responsibilities.

My advice. Suspend the school for now.

Marry her first, after that. Let her learn a lucrative trade. After that, establish her, look for a part time school and let her enroll in that. You won't be the only one footing the bills of her school. She will also be sponsoring herself from the proceeds of the trade.

That way, it's a win win for both of you. Firstly, you secure her with marriage, secondly, the school, you lower your financial responsibility by helping her with a trade.

Wish you all the very best. Use your brain sha.

Rita30:
You really should culture yourself.
Feeding your negative emotions off someone's head like a chicken is not life and not a solution

Xaos:
99% of the female monikers against this are unmarried women. And the excuses are just too short of nonsense.

This should be an interesting ride.

Where is lalasticlala self

Rita30:
Is she not too young at 18?
Will you like marriage for your daughter at 18?

Ahmed0336:
My Grand father once told me not to marry any lady out of pity.

HitSong:
30 years old chasing after 18 years old child...
You're a pervert!
What about all those girls of your age group that you fuckéd back then, who are you leaving them for to marry now?
Now you've seen a young beautiful virgin that you want to devour abi?
Will you give out your daughter at 18?
Karma will play out on the females in your life too...
Ẹ̀gbọ́n leave that small girl alone and Goan hustle.