Ranchhoddas:
Ego is part of it. Doesn't make the assertion false.

Ego SHOULDN'T be a part of it & assertion IS false.

[quote author=essenceplus post=79152716]Next time don't devalue yourself by telling ladies the story of your life. Ladies need men for emotional support more and not the other way around.

Also, do not be quick to bring up location you stay and your profession in the friendship stage,let it grow so love would grow before you start revealing yourself and when you do this,make sure its gradual


Do not spend weekends at home, go out, go to church,make new cliques outside your teaching environment. Try to meet new people weekly,being a teacher doesn't stop you from meeting ladies in church,supermarket. Join a church,join a department,when you're seen on close range,someone will pick up interest and be the one chasing you instead of the other way around


Don't let it affect yourself esteem. You're only a teacher at work. Outside school, you're not.

Jaonnyster



True talk boss

ITbomb:
Don't start telling them the story of your life

Next time you meet a girl, develop friendship with her first

Can a girl of 36 develop friendship first? is it not marriage they want?

dingbang:
You mean fellow village ladies dey form for you? Chai. Odiegwu

Look down on no one for tomorrow is pregnant.

Stat guided

dingbang:
You mean fellow village ladies dey form for you? Chai. Odiegwu

Look down on no one for tomorrow is pregnant.

Stay guided

pinkygurl:



Op I can I marry you? I am interested.just be handsome.message mi privately your WhatsApp .location Lagos.but I don't mind settling down in imo

chai.... maturity

LilMissFavvy:
Am very close already. Ahhh.....so female teachers don't find their counterparts attractive, I think you are correct. But I bet you a female teacher will find a lecturer attractive .......hmm! Teachers aren't treated well in this country.

teacher and lecturer no be the same thing o, a lecturer earns more than a teacher

[quote author=Jaonnyster post=79170233][/quote]

Both teach to impart knowledge. Of cuz I know it's the monetary difference that would make one to chose a lecturer over a teacher.

Mdtoba:
teacher and lecturer no be the same thing o, a lecturer earns more than a teacher

I don dey see the You-Must-Have-100K-And-Above-Gang comments...

I no go talk my mind but make una kwantinue to dey whine the OP una hear..

The reality is that most of 'em don't wanna settle down with a teacher not to mention a teacher in a remote village..

Sorry, females are becoming wiser now.

No one wants to come and suffer in that village with you.

When things get better, you can pick any lady of your taste.

Don't just find anyone to marry when you know you don't love her...you are just using her to hold body and suffer with you only to treat her like trash when you have more money.

dingbang:
lol, who is getting married

I dey talk about my Igbo sis, omugwo na like jackpot for their Mumsy, man wet no carry no fit do beta omugwo

jojothaiv:
I don dey see the You-Must-Have-100K-And-Above-Gang comments...

I no go talk my mind but make una kwantinue to dey whine the OP una hear..

The reality is that most of 'em don't wanna settle down with a teacher not to mention a teacher in a remote village..

A teacher makes a good home

Rita30:
You have not met your wife when u do there will be no question of where you live, how much you have or earn , how ugly you are, where you are from , how old you are. Everything is beautiful when you are with the right person. Forget this story of women and money most Men run to it just to comfort themselves . the worst of men marry the most beautiful of women that is love, love is actually blind at some point and then grow to begin to see that is after you have established a family. It is God's own way of creating holy matrimony.

Just pray and be good yourself

This is the most sensible thing I have read all day!

Rita30:
You have not met your wife when u do there will be no question of where you live, how much you have or earn , how ugly you are, where you are from , how old you are. Everything is beautiful when you are with the right person. Forget this story of women and money most Men run to it just to comfort themselves . the worst of men marry the most beautiful of women that is love, love is actually blind at some point and then grow to begin to see that is after you have established a family. It is God's own way of creating holy matrimony.

Just pray and be good yourself

best comment I have read so far on nairaland. Thanks

Amanda4life:



A teacher makes a good home

I respect your opinion but 'the ladies' according to the OP ain't ready for marriage with a teacher...

Spinojaja26:
Please friends I need your advice, I am a teacher that teaches in one of the Govt. technical schools in Imo state.

I resides in the rural area due to the current transfer from the ministry, though I can go on transfer to any part of Imo state if I want. my problem is that all the ladies that I wanted to settle down with when I tell them what I do for a living and where I stay, they will quit the relation. it is becoming difficult for me to get a wife here.

Drop me your account number let me Bless your Hustle

pocohantas:


My love...

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That your meme....Hm

ahahnow:
Ask yourself sincerely, do you deserve a wife? If you had a daughter would you want her to marry someone like you? If not then don't cry and shout here. Its not by force

what you said is incomprehensible.try and explain properly

UyaiIncomparabl:
How much do you earn?

Common keep quiet,little child.

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essenceplus:
MENTALLY FVCK THEM AND THEY'LL BE THE ONE DOING THE CHASING. YOU DON'T NEED MONEY, YOU NEED GAME MORE THAN ANYTHING

U r just repeating words u read. I don’t think u know what “game” means in dating. Define game

ochukwuma15:
You haven't met your wife yet, you may stop searching and face your teaching job and allow her to come looking for you

Why not do same with other things, like money. Stop working and let your money come to u!

Safiaa:
Darling no. Let’s be real here, sometimes we need to look in the mirror and tell ourselves this truth. No it’s not always about money, but look at your character. Some men have really serious issues and baggage, laziness, addiction, lack of motivation etc are huge character flaws. I don’t believe a man has to have it all to get married, but please sometimes the reason you are not meeting the right woman is because you are full of problems.

I think you just typed the one thing lot of peeps here are scared to point out

bukkyemotions:
Can a girl of 36 develop friendship first? is it not marriage they want?

Majority of your posts seems to target women above the age of thirty, maybe you are among those who think all ladies are crazy about marriage once they cross the thirty mark, Sorry bro, thats a big mistake

Unrated900:
OP you need to travel to Ghana to pick a pretty beautiful bbw who will love you for who you are

And not what you have,like the way our Nigerian ladies do.

Ghana girls are pretty soft spoken easy and calm women.they are family oriented and can plan with ur 500GHC which is 35k here compair to our iPhone girls here

Likes for Ghana women,shares for Nigeria ladies.

Thats how you guys type Rubbish, later you will come here and cry about how Nigerian girls refuse to marry you. Who will want to marry someone with this kind of mentality?

Ranchhoddas:
Utter crap. The man is the prize. It is women who are competing. Any woman that thinks otherwise is delusional.

Dont worry, you will soon open thread on how no woman wants to date you. A woman is a prize men compete for except those who Dont know their worth and the power they hold. Treat a woman like a queen and watch her submit (not referring to slay queens)

Oga yu never see yur wife relax na them go rush you.

OAUTemitayo:

Critique yourself first sir.
There is something missing in you.
Psychologically or Physically.
Make up for it.

OK boss thank u will do DAT. @ fortifiedcity me and oge is a close chapter let her live her life d way she want

Bossjakande:
OK boss thank u will do DAT. @ fortifiedcity me and oge is a close chapter let her live her life d way she want

I still see that connection between you and sisisioge, please you guys should take one more chance.

FortifiedCity:
I still see that connection between you and sisisioge, please you guys should take one more chance.

a girl DAT insult me for no reason all d time. d fact is wen u have feelings for someone u take shit.I bring myself to her level wen in real life dey cant look at my eye and say rubbish if I wont slap thier dirty mouth. guy end dis matter dont mention any lady again wen u quote me.I beg u