nwanneni:
How I take fall mugu?by being a gentleman to drop her off?
Because I did not spend 1 naira on her and deleted her number immediately she left.
I no dey do that kind thing abeg!

Mariangeles clearly didn't read your story.

beatcoins:
A girl I was planning on getting married to some few years back said if She doesnt have iPhone 6, she's not getting married. Today I'm happily married, iPhone 6 is out of trend & unfortunately, she's still not married. She still sends me msg from time to time asking for money. God saved my ass from awon slay mistress.

Bro. You just dodge a bullet. Congrats.

zed7:
Not first date. Actually she agreed to date me and we dated for a while. Then the billing started, house rent, clothes, this and that and I had to flee. I really liked her and wanted to marry her. Funny enough she's a sweet girl with a great personality but i don't know what the whole demanding was about. It's been almost 10 years now. Whilst I have since gotten married, babe is still single. If she wasn't so demanding I believe she would have been my wife now. I hope she finds someone as she was a real sweet girl.

If she was not demanding in that manner, she may not haven even bn ur wife. May be one of those she dated before you would've married her even before u got to know her.

Women let me tell u, that way u value your pnssy is the same way men value their money. If a man keep demanding for ur pnssy constantly even without doing much for u, I beliv u will run away from him.
If u are a lady that values ur pnssy very well, and u just met a guy, he requested that he wants u to come to his house and stay for 2 or 3 days so dat he will have a good taste of u. Won't u say he is a stupid guy? This is the same way guys see a woman that make these outrageous demands especially at the beginning of a relationship.

Riele:
let me throw my mat here...


Who wants to take me on a date

make you go close down shoprite on top my head?!
No thanks

Elbone2:
Back then in school...Met this pretty chic on campus and got her number...I could tell she was my next gf...Called her by the weekend for us to meet and hang out at a restaurant(fast food)...We agreed to rendezvous by 6pm...At around 5:30pm she called me to ask if she can come with her friends that they were bored and she doesn't want to leave them like that at home,I was like ahh no probs sha thinking she was a reasonable Girl....I got there before her and kept calling to make sure they were coming since i was expecting to see her and may be two of her friends....Only for she to show with five other girls making them six in number....To me this was the height of madness and i wonder what would be more demanding on a simple first date than this?! ..Me wey don budget like 5k for the night but carry extra 5k incase the enjoyment com enter another level(thats i was with 10k only)...I had to call her aside and ask her if they came for a birthday party or something and she kept saying"but i told u na"...I just kept back my cool and asked them to order something...Na when them begin dey place order for rice and chicken with a can of Smirnoff ice each...i just do like say i dey receive call John Benson...Dem call my fone tire that night.

Lmao na wa o, how these babes take they reason self . Abi u mistakenly mention say Dangote na your uncle

AwkaetitiBabe:
Here to read lies o. Cos I can't imagine making demands on a first date! Unless you don't like the guy and wanna chase him off

Make your demand and send me off. Benz, Bentley, iPhone X, etc. Just chop my money.

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Stallion2019:
1st meeting demands ??

Most of the guys here won't make heaven due to lies.

OP and his cohorts have fabricated lies from the pit of hell just for entertainment .

[/s]shut up

Aystarz:



Mariangeles clearly didn't read your story.

I was blinded by rage !
After the first few lines, all I could see was ...

WestGodspower:
This kinda rubbish happened to me twice in one week. I went out with a girl and she suggested shoprite, we got der and she was pulling everything her hands could touch from d shelf into d shoppin cart, i asked her, babe who go pay for all these things? She said you of course, i calm down and told her no p, i gat u, let me go and bring extra cart for u cos tis one is filling up already. I left and never looked back. Deleted her number asap. Kept calling me but never picked. Days later she texted and said she's sorry that she will love to see me again, me i know she just want to try again with a different format.
Second one, after d first one, i had learned my lesson and decided never to take any girl to shoprite again to avoid such stories, invited a girl out to d local bar. Called her, babe where are u, she said we are on our way, i asked who is we, she said me and my friend. And i tot to myself, if her friend looks as good as she looks that i will focus on her. She showed up with two friends both, not good looking at all. They sat down and i started laughing, they asked why i was laughing i looked at them dead on and said 'I'm about to order some expensive shits and leave them to pay for it', they laughed thinkin i was jokin. They ordered for 3 point and kill, i was like only? They ordered plenty hollandia big sized yogurt and chi exotic, i was like only? They said amarula, i said ok I will be back let me go and pay downstair and i zoomed off, never looked back.
I don't have time for arguments and i decided, no decent girls in this life again and I'm gonna hang boot on girls for now.

my guy! one cold "33" for you. damn!!!!!!

waywardpikin:


God nose best jare, free the babe.

Hahahahhahah

AwkaetitiBabe:
Here to read lies o. Cos I can't imagine making demands on a first date! Unless you don't like the guy and wanna chase him off

My dear I met one yesterday's night, after the usual pleasantries, we decided to sit at a joint, get to know each other and all.
20 minutes into our conversation, she asked me to help her sort a need, guess what!!! She needs 10k to get something done. That was the turn off for me

DennickSoftman:
First date with this naija babe then, she came with her friend without telling me. They ordered two plates of fried rice and chicken each worth N5,000 because they place was expensive but I no shake. Next thing them start to complain say them no like the food and bla bla bla omo e be like say them dey mad ni. Them no chop the food finish come wan do shawama and burger take away, I use style waka go meet them for counter ask for the bill them don first chop, bill reach 15k both food and drinks, I pay waka go outside, enter moto press ahead. Few minutes later my phone start to ring tire, I lock up. Later I receive text messages with many many insult, I come reply "thank you, please feel free to delete my number". Who wan see you again self, you you help.

And you think you won ? You still de learn work

Actually, she is merely interested in the first encounter, its a hit or miss game for leech. If you have a yahoo friend, you can learn this mentality from them. They live for the moment. When you catch a mugu, you extract as many resources possible from the first interaction. If done, then it is a success. Then any other future extraction is complimentary. If the mugu finally wise up, goodluck to the mugu, he paid at least and their scamming effort is not in vain, that's the point.

Next time, dont allow yourself to be leeched in the first place. Thank me later

pansophist:


Same here.

A woman has bought me an iPhone, paid for a trip abroad, with other miscellaneous such as out dining, buying clothes, etc (of course the spending is mutual). Guys should work on themselves, women are not a goal, fulfillment or a purpose. Truly masculine men are hardly leeched on by women, because, in her mind, she knows deeply that her man is her catch, and leeching on him will make him replace her. They will sit tight and be at their best behaviour, as she will know that a man in his caliber will see through her bullshit and manipulations.

Exactly... I don't understand this new breed of men that feel bowing to every whim of deceitful and manipulative ladies will get them settled in the best relationships.

cyclops:
u just contradicting ur self

demand nah demand weather u like d guy or not
anyway lovely lips

Stop complimenting AwkaetitiBabe. I am getting jealous.

ikechukz:
I think it has to do with the way you present yourself. All my life, I've never had a girl ask me directly for money or any material thing and I also don't don't think I've ever sent airtime to any girl that isn't my sister or cousin.
There's a way you carry yourself and only responsible people would come close to you.

Aka gum!!!! I can't even date you!!!!

Any demand more than 2.5k


Forget it......



Go to hell

There's are many fishes in the river

Mariangeles:
I was blinded by rage ! After the first few lines, all I could see was ...

A part of me felt so too.

StrikeBack:


I only go out for business dates.

The Great Ashawo himself i hail thee . na una get codedruns.com and instamessage na.

EVILFOREST:
WATCH and Observe how LADIES will avoid this THREAD.
They Hate being told the TRUTH...!!
MINE:
First of all, 99% of NIGERIAN LADIES are always hungry at first outing.

Secondly: 85% of them want TAKE-AWAY meals after they had eaten at similar spot.

Thirdly: 60% of them would prefer to come with their entire Nuclear and Extended Families to the date.

Lastly: 99% of them would prefer to bear you CHILDREN the moment they realize how wealthy you are and not just rich.

There's one I went out with, maybe she will read this thread. After eating to her satisfaction, she bought suya for herself and her four friends in the hall. I had to use ATM in order to settle her bill. Just on the first date that happened. Next morning, no thank you msg. She called me for another one, I got angry and discharged her.

sylve11:



Had similar issue. But mine was asking for sewing machine. She said it out and loud "if I don't get the sewing machine, guy forget it". I was like God, how did I meet this obioma?

The lady in question only needed self empowerment so she can be independent .

5k. For registration fee.

DimkpaBini:
The girl chose ShopRite for our first date
That should have tipped me off.I pulled out all the stops trying to impress her, bought the biggest chicken there, ice cream etc.She was forming ajebo for me.She said she wasn't hungry but made sure she packed everything

She then told me she wanted to go shopping and I foolishly agreed....big mistake
The Mumu girl almost finished my one month salary at one go and had the frigging nerve to tell me that it was a good start.I didn't say anything but as soon as she left I blocked her.
Mehn this chick was desperate,she even went as far as contacting my siblings to complain that I was ignoring her
I learnt never to take a girl to ShopRite on a date.If we can't do it somewhere else.. forget it

If the Bitch cant agree to cook a nice meal in my apartment, na OYO she dey .

kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.

Thank you sis!!!!!

Newguyhere:
'Baby pls can you get me an iPhone'
I was like bitch we just met 2 f**king days ago!!!
And you Don already dey Bill me
Even guys wey dey press sef don't bill clients that early

Baba I dey feel you die. Your kidney Dey work aswear

Aystarz:




A part of me felt so too.

Dumb demanding girls be making mad since 250BC

Mariangeles:
No young lady with dignity and self-respect will make such a demand from a guy she just met .

No. They didn't just meet. They were already dating. Read the first page. I am not talking about greedy and materialistic women. Read the comments on the first page.

Most guys form big boys when toasting girls so y won't wont dey make demands? Besides main reason y boys toast girls these days is because of sex .girls know dat hence demands.lastly poverty is making our boys cing every girl as being "hungry". Any little demand makes dem feel dey r being exploited.even in Europe power of benjamins makes pussy easier to get.d only difference is over there d society is so structured n good girls dnt v to depend on men for survival.

EVILFOREST:
WATCH and Observe how LADIES will avoid this THREAD.
They Hate being told the TRUTH...!!
MINE:
First of all, 99% of NIGERIAN LADIES are always hungry at first outing.

Secondly: 85% of them want TAKE-AWAY meals after they had eaten at similar spot.

Thirdly: 60% of them would prefer to come with their entire Nuclear and Extended Families to the date.

Lastly: 99% of them would prefer to bear you CHILDREN the moment they realize how wealthy you are and not just rich.

Hahaha

pansophist:


And you think you won ? You still de learn work

Actually, she is merely interested in the first encounter, its a hit or miss game for leech. If you have a yahoo friend, you can learn this mentality from them. They live for the moment. When you catch a mugu, you extract as many resources possible from the first interaction. If done, then it is a success. Then any other future extraction is complimentary. If the mugu finally wise up after paying the first time, goodluck to you, you paid and their effort is not in vain, that's the point.

Next time, dont allow yourself to be leeched in the first place. Thank me later

My brother this is not about winning or not. It's a very simple stuff, you have your reason for wanting to go on a date with someone. If you see its not what you expected or what you really wanted to achieve from the date, you move on. If I wanted to just bleep her, I could even do more to bleep she and her friend together all in the name of living the moment like you said. I was already turn off and yeah they enjoyed the moment with their maga but shey them don shit all the food out since, them fit continue dey find other magas but as for me I be history for the matter.