baby124:

Oga, pay for your child abeg. Stop all the insults. It’s now you will truly understand the value of a condom for the rest of your life. Go and deposit money for the birth of your child. Once a man releases sperm in a woman, he has lost control of what happens after the sperm is released. Before having unprotected sex you should have weighed your options carefully. Now it’s too late. OP, please let him know what hospital to go and pay for your upcoming birth. I wish you a safe delivery.

Go and take your drugs. This nonsense is not for me.

KMegas:


Go and take your drugs. This nonsense is not for me.

You just registered an account today specifically to blast OP? You either need deliverance or you are the guilty party.

obowunmi:
Don't remove any pictures until you get what you want.

Don't mind these women who are wimps and easily intimidated.

Thanks dear... I want them to bring it on. I am so ready for them.

Mamatoppy:
Go and die jobless fool. This post is gonna be up there and if you've got an issue with it, take sniper to end your mystery.I am not the cause of your problems. Confirm from your mom if you were not adopted.

You'll die first. Aids will get to you before old age.
Fool. Just keep sleeping around without protection.

I said disappear. I didn't ask you to take down your post!

baby124:

You just registered an account today specifically to blast OP? You either need deliverance or you are the guilty party.

My account registered today? You are blind.

baby124:

You just registered an account today specifically to blast OP? You either need deliverance or you are the guilty party.

He is the guilty party. He told me he is on nairaland. I am pretty sure it's him or someone close to him.. Don't be a coward.Come out of hiding so that I can blast you. Oloriburuku.

KMegas:


My account registered today? You are blind.

Ok, 2 days ago. You are still a new comer fishing insults up and down!

KMegas:



This post confirms you are a dumb mođafucker.

So you knew all well about his financial situation yet you
still let the mofo to spread and deposit his sperm inside you... Actually you even confimed he gave you payment!

You are a slùt.

Abortion was an option yet you broke aśs piece of trash couldn't even afford that. You are broke and he's too so who's going to take care of the baby?! Foolish woman.

Don't be so harsh. She's struggling with her emotions.

KMegas:


You'll die first. Aids will get to you before old age.
Fool. Just keep sleeping around without protection.

I said disappear. I didn't ask you to take down your post!

You open this account today just to insult me. Come out of your shell and let me know whom you are. You and your generations to come will disappear from the earth like smoke.

She said her EDD is next month, it’s in her post.

crackhaus:

You let her answer it herself na

Some of you here attacking a pregnant woman about to give birth next month are very senseless. She has obviously been trying to reach him for 8-months now to no avail, which led to her creating this thread. She is understandably in an emotional state, not just b|c of her condition but the situation with this man. Your replies shows how backward the Nigerian society is b|c the woman always gets blamed.

Don't remove his picture, OP. He needs to be shamed.

baby124:

Ok, 2 days ago. You are still a new comer fishing insults up and down!

And what is she doing? Blessing people abi??

Who are you again? Please swerve abeg. You are blind.

Mamatoppy:
You open this account today just to insult me. Come out of your shell and let me know whom you are. You and your generations to come will disappear from the earth like smoke.

You cannot even count. You truly fóolish.
My account was created two fúcking days ago.

KMegas:


And what is she doing? Blessing people abi??

Who are you again? Please swerve abeg. You are blind.

The question is who the hell are you? You come here insulting a poster like this is personal to you? You careless and useless being. Get away from this thread you idiot if you cannot contribute meaningfully or provide money to take care of the baby. If you are the intending father, send money for your child and shut up. You sound like a complete waste of sperm yourself. Sonofabitch.

KMegas:


And what is she doing? Blessing people abi??

Who are you again? Please swerve abeg. You are blind.

Be a Man here, and stop exchanging words and insults with a pregnant woman.


Be guided, my guy! Except, you have something else you ain't telling us.

KMegas:


You cannot even count. You truly fóolish.
My account was created two fúcking days ago.

I am so damn ready for you. Call him when you data is exhausted cos I can do this with you all day.

Mamatoppy:
You open this account today just to insult me. Come out of your shell and let me know whom you are. You and your generations to come will disappear from the earth like smoke.

Has he contacted you to take care of the bills? Cause I see you removed his pic.

baby124:

The question is who the hell are you? You come here insulting a poster like this is personal to you? You careless and useless being. Get away from this thread you idiot if you cannot contribute meaningfully or provide money to take care of the baby. If you are the intending father, send money for your child and shut up. You sound like a complete waste of sperm yourself. Sonofabitch.

God bless you dear.

Mamatoppy:
You open this account today just to insult me. Come out of your shell and let me know whom you are. You and your generations to come will disappear from the earth like smoke.

Words are stronger than it seems! There are many ways of handling comments, other than curses.

I wish you safe delivery and peace of mind.

baby124:

Has he contacted you to take care of the bills? Cause I see you removed his pic.

I did not remove them. They are up there. Let me check.

OreoPaschal:


Be a Man here, and stop exchanging words and insults with a pregnant woman.


Be guided, my guy! Except, you have something else you ain't telling us.

Is that your definition of what it means to be a man?

You are very myopic like most of the other posters.
You failed to see how she attacked other people.

She's is not the victim here. What is happening to her is the consequences of her stupídity. The only victim here is the baby in her care which I suggest she gives out for adoption because it's obviously they both cannot afford to raise that child. But no. What she is after is monetary support from a man who she claims can't even afford to buy a motorcycle. So who is fooling who?

theButterfly:
Some of you here attacking a pregnant woman about to give birth next month are very senseless. She has obviously been trying to reach him for 8-months now to no avail, which led to her creating this thread. She is understandably in an emotional state, not just b|c of her condition but the situation with this man. Your replies shows how backward the Nigerian society is b|c the woman always gets blamed.

Don't remove his picture, OP. He needs to be shamed.

Thank you. He hacked my account and removed the pictures.I don't know how he did it.

majamajic:
if una know where una bath, make una go there pack una clothes, if the man talk him own now, church will dismiss, the only pregnant case I can put mouth is if the woman is below 20

He can't talk cos he knows he is guilty. He hacked my account and removed the pictures.

Mamatoppy:
He can't talk cos he knows he is guilty. He hacked my account and removed the pictures.

He probably asked the mods to remove it. You can repost it till he owns up and takes responsibility

Mamatoppy:
May God punish you wherever you are. The fool never gave me a dime for an abortion.How much did he pay you for this? It will never be well with you and your generations to come. Oloriburuku.

Madam all your curses come back to you undoubtedly .. None rests upon people who are trying to tell you the truth.. It simply will not break the Higher laws!!

Read your write-up and note when you mentioned he wanted you to have a Top..

Wish your baby the best.

Shalom!!

.

I like ur guts in bringing this to the public if it were to be me I can't do this cos I'm so soft hearted and I pity people quickly and I can never hurt whoever I love or had once loved no matter what they do. I pray u get what u looking for

She really has guts, risking ridicule and double standard bashing from very judgmental Nigerians. Unfortunately that’s the only way she will get what she wants. After ignoring her calls for months, he finally calls her as soon as he is outed on NL.

Plolly:
I like ur guts in bringing this to the public if it were to be me I can't do this cos I'm so soft hearted and I pity people quickly and I can never hurt whoever I love or had once loved no matter what they do. I pray u get what u looking for

Mamatoppy:
You are the definition of the word Dumbo. Who are you to judge me? Have you eaten this morning? Even your English gives you away. Did you pass your JAMB?

That Lady you quoted and called a dumbo just told you the truth, albeit rather harsh with her usage of words.

People are refusing to say things exactly as they are just so they don't come off as judgemental but trust me, the result may be three kids for three different men if we keep hiding the truth. Oh yes!

The Nigerian society doesn't favour women in any way, from the youngest of us to the oldest so it's our duty to protect ourselves in every possible ways we can, emotionally, physically etc. Being in a relationship shouldn't make you lose your sense of reasoning and self preservation.
If you were living in an organized society, the law would sort you out and that would be a different kettle of fish altogether and Of course you wouldn't be on Nairaland posting this Crap. Yeah, this is bullshi.t and crap.

It's Bullshi.t because you totally planned this out and unfortunately, it's a plan gone wrong. The public pric.k is 40 and single aha? but that doesn't mean he's a father material or even ready to be one or married and you went ahead to take your chances anyways.

He had a live in girlfriend(who was smart enough to not fall pregnant) whom you knew about but you still went on to play.

You caught him whoring with three different women and you still didn't leave. At least, you would have borrowed a leaf from the live in girlfriend that left him because of you, but you didn't. You clearly had a mission to achieve.

He still brought his public peni.s into your Vagin.a (which you clearly don't respect) and you didn't make him use a Condom. You weren't scared of contracting some incurables from him. Wow!

The 'morning after pills' would have saved the day even after all the intentional 'mistakes' but you again chose not to use it.

Women make this 'intentional mistake' for one of three reasons; to have a baby of their own with or without the involvement of the father. These women see and treat the pregnancy as a gift, they have the means and are happy to take care of the kid all by themselves. The idea of being able to have their own babies whether or not marriage happens is their motivation.These ones are the wise sisters, they don't go embarrassing themselves because they know what they want.

The second category are the ones that tie a man to marriage with pregnancy. It works for a lot of sisters but some others get their fingers burnt and their lives altered forever.

The third category are the ones that want some extra cash from Child support. This is a mistake in Nigeria as you'll spend more in time, energy and money trying to get some kobo that isn't worth the hard Labour The law will work for you abroad and you could get an extra coins from the government for the upkeep of your kids
The last group are the genuinely ignorant and innocent sisters who were deeply in love with a man, got sweet talked and lied to and mistakenly fell for the lies and got pregnant. These ones, i feel some pity for 'cause they never saw it coming.

You know which category you fit in but my advise is that you let it go. The deed has been done, pregnancy has advanced and you got an amazing gift from God already. You said money is no problem and you can pay people's salaries on here so, save yourself this stress and channel all energy to welcoming your gift and giving it a good life.

Forget about that man, he's a dead beat and very irresponsible. If you want to stress yourself fighting him, you'd be doing your mental and physical health no good as High BP may set in. The agencies and lawyers you're calling on will not do you much good. An order will be given that he pays the Child support but paying it regularly may not be achieved.

This guy rejected this pregnancy from the start, forget about him. If in the future he decides to come take responsibility, that would be fine. Let your family and friends channel all their resources towards you and your baby because you'd need as much support as you can get. Being a single mum isn't a walk in the park and that phase of your life will begin soon.

This is just an opinion and you may decide not to take it. Any quotes with insults will not be dignified with a response. i'm a very busy person but i took out time to write this here. Maybe some girls planning on using this 'intentional mistake' method may reconsider because it hardly ends well. The exact advise i'd give to my flesh and blood.

I sincerely wish you all the best!

crackhaus:

Full and over flowing with spices..

Aunty is a boss lady who can pay people's salary, yet she is dragging for upkeep from the run-away daddy whom she claims doesn't even have the capacity to buy okada.

Update:

He that is not be mentioned opened account on 15th, has 15 posts out of which 13 are on this thread.

And the posts are quite heavy.

OP said she's pregnant, guy is talking about the baby in her care.

Is OP preggers while caring for a suckling baby?

Question will be when did she get preggers.

You people should leave me, I am tired.

@TV01,

Happy new year o, long time no see.

ahnie:

Where have you been? You've been greatly missed!

Glad to hear.

Thanks

DBestDoc:


That Lady you quoted and called a dumbo just told you the truth, albeit rather harsh with her usage of words.

People are refusing to say things exactly as they are just so they don't come off as judgemental but trust me, the result may be three kids for three different men if we keep hiding the truth. Oh yes!

The Nigerian society doesn't favour women in any way, from the youngest of us to the oldest so it's our duty to protect ourselves in every possible ways we can, emotionally, physically etc. Being in a relationship shouldn't make you lose your sense of reasoning and self preservation.
If you were living in an organized society, the law would sort you out and that would be a different kettle of fish altogether and Of course you wouldn't be on Nairaland posting this Crap. Yeah, this is bullshi.t and crap.

It's Bullshi.t because you totally planned this out and unfortunately, it's a plan gone wrong. The public pric.k is 40 and single aha? but that doesn't mean he's a father material or even ready to be one or married and you went ahead to take your chances anyways.

He had a live in girlfriend(who was smart enough to not fall pregnant) whom you knew about but you still went on to play.

You caught him whoring with three different women and you still didn't leave. At least, you would have borrowed a leaf from the live in girlfriend that left him because of you, but you didn't. You clearly had a mission to achieve.

He still brought his public peni.s into your Vagin.a (which you clearly don't respect) and you didn't make him use a Condom. You weren't scared of contracting some incurables from him. Wow!

The 'morning after pills' would have saved the day even after all the intentional 'mistakes' but you again chose not to use it.

Women make this 'intentional mistake' for one of three reasons; to have a baby of their own with or without the involvement of the father. These women see and treat the pregnancy as a gift, they have the means and are happy to take care of the kid all by themselves. The idea of being able to have their own babies whether or not marriage happens is their motivation.These ones are the wise sisters, they don't go embarrassing themselves because they know what they want.

The second category are the ones that tie a man to marriage with pregnancy. It works for a lot of sisters but some others get their fingers burnt and their lives altered forever.

The third category are the ones that want some extra cash from Child support. This is a mistake in Nigeria as you'll spend more in time, energy and money trying to get some kobo that isn't worth the hard Labour The law will work for you abroad and you could get an extra coins from the government for the upkeep of your kids
The last group are the genuinely ignorant and innocent sisters who were deeply in love with a man, got sweet talked and lied to and mistakenly fell for the lies and got pregnant. These ones, i feel some pity for 'cause they never saw it coming.

You know which category you fit in but my advise is that you let it go. The deed has been done, pregnancy has advanced and you got an amazing gift from God already. You said money is no problem and you can pay people's salaries on here so, save yourself this stress and channel all energy to welcoming your gift and giving it a good life.

Forget about that man, he's a dead beat and very irresponsible. If you want to stress yourself fighting him, you'd be doing your mental and physical health no good as High BP may set in. The agencies and lawyers you're calling on will not do you much good. An order will be given that he pays the Child support but paying it regularly may not be achieved.

This guy rejected this pregnancy from the start, forget about him. If in the future he decides to come take responsibility, that would be fine. Let your family and friends channel all their resources towards you and your baby because you'd need as much support as you can get. Being a single mum isn't a walk in the park and that phase of your life will begin soon.

This is just an opinion and you may decide not to take it. Any quotes with insults will not be dignified with a response. i'm a very busy person but i took out time to write this here. Maybe some girls planning on using this 'intentional mistake' method may reconsider because it hardly ends well. The exact advise i'd give to my flesh and blood.

I sincerely wish you all the best!