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The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ecstasy357(m): 12:29pm On Jun 21, 2019
I saw this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5248360/red-pills-mgtow-cause-gynophobia

And I really would like to enlighten that op about is assumptions about red pilled men.

I got to know about about mgtow on YouTube from sandman. And God, the guy explained a lot...many of the things he talked about were things I've seen happened or experienced personally.

Mgtow isn't really about hating on women but bout men going their own way. OK, I know that sounds a little gay-ish but let me explain further. Mgtow didn't say hate women or worship them, it simply says acknowledge that they are not as weak and defenseless as you think. As a matter of fact, women know you want them and you'll definitely chase after them...this knowledge they use to their advantage, the birth of manipulation.

After I took the red pilled, I treat men and women the same way, no special treatment for the girls. I barely look at a lady twice. Though I strike interesting conversations with girls, I never intend to repeat them.

When a girl ask me something and she changes her voice to sound more romantic, I tell her no and to use her normal voice. When they try to touch me lightly, I gently remove their hands from my body as if it was dirt. I reduced the time I spend with girls, spent more time chatting with my guys during my free time.

The aim of taking the red pill is to reduce dramas in my life but the result I got was astonishing...

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ecstasy357(m): 12:39pm On Jun 21, 2019
After I read this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5248360/red-pills-mgtow-cause-gynophobia

I had to do a little flashback into my life...how has mgtow affected the women around me?

1. When I'm returning back from work, the girls in my compound would just run up to me, taking turns welcoming me leaving whoever they are with striking meaningless conversation.

2. I've had two girls cooked for me. They've also had an altercation about who is crushing on me.

3. Night visitors mostly cause I return home late, throwing themselves at me.

4. Girls ask for my number, and some try to impress me with cash forming independent women.

5. Increased stalkers on Facebook and unnecessary calls.

6. A girl (gf of a month) begging me for sex like there's no tomorrow. I'm actually a celibate now grin

I don't hate girls, I actually love them as a fellow human being but I've come to realize that they will do anything to get what they can't have.

Until I find a girl without drama and has sense, my guard will forever be up

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Kirchhoff01(m): 1:49pm On Jun 21, 2019
gäyàss_mothafucker

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by partnerbizz5(f): 2:00pm On Jun 21, 2019
Kirchhoff01:
gäyàss_mothafucker

The dude raised some valid points.
I expected you to attact him with ratiocination but you flunked.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ecstasy357(m): 2:17pm On Jun 21, 2019
Kirchhoff01:
gäyàss_mothafucker

A girl did call me gay and promised to rape me....but I'm not interested. She's the gf I mentioned earlier
Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ecstasy357(m): 2:20pm On Jun 21, 2019
partnerbizz5:


The dude raised some valid points.
I expected you to attact him with ratiocination but you flunked.


He's blue pilled.

BTW I expect u to attack me and call everything I wrote up there "lies"

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by CosmicPhoenix: 2:59pm On Jun 21, 2019
impossible @ bold text

ecstasy357:
After I read this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5248360/red-pills-mgtow-cause-gynophobia

I had to do a little flashback into my life...how has mgtow affected the women around me?

1. When I'm returning back from work, the girls in my compound would just run up to me, taking turns welcoming me leaving whoever they are with striking meaningless conversation.

2. I've had two girls cooked for me. They've also had an altercation about who is crushing on me.

3. Night visitors mostly cause I return home late, throwing themselves at me.

4. Girls ask for my number, and some try to impress me with cash forming independent women.

5. Increased stalkers on Facebook and unnecessary calls.

6. A girl (gf of a month) begging me for sex like there's no tomorrow. I'm actually a celibate now grin

I don't hate girls, I actually love them as a fellow human being but I've come to realize that they will do anything to get what they can't have.

Until I find a girl without drama and has sense, my guard will forever be up
Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jun 21, 2019
partnerbizz5:


The dude raised some valid points.
I expected you to attact him with ratiocination but you flunked.


i know you are male in female moniker..you past comments left that trace..
Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jun 21, 2019
ecstasy357:
After I read this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5248360/red-pills-mgtow-cause-gynophobia

I had to do a little flashback into my life...how has mgtow affected the women around me?

1. When I'm returning back from work, the girls in my compound would just run up to me, taking turns welcoming me leaving whoever they are with striking meaningless conversation.

2. I've had two girls cooked for me. They've also had an altercation about who is crushing on me.

3. Night visitors mostly cause I return home late, throwing themselves at me.

4. Girls ask for my number, and some try to impress me with cash forming independent women.

5. Increased stalkers on Facebook and unnecessary calls.

6. A girl (gf of a month) begging me for sex like there's no tomorrow. I'm actually a celibate now grin


I don't hate girls, I actually love them as a fellow human being but I've come to realize that they will do anything to get what they can't have.

Until I find a girl without drama and has sense, my guard will forever be up

Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW /ˈmɪɡtaʊ/) is an anti-feminist, mostly online community advocating for men to separate themselves from society, and particularly to eschew heterosexual marriage and cohabitation. MGTOW have "...vowed to stay away from women, stop dating and not have children".

pls what you are practising is not MGTOW..stop deceiving us, infact you have no proof to back up anything you said.

what you wrote down does not only happen to guys because of redpill, it happens to many guys who do not believe in red pill and MGTOW..so it is nothing special.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ecstasy357(m): 3:39pm On Jun 21, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
impossible @ bold text


I guess I'll keep being me
Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jun 21, 2019
The only thing I like and picked from MGTOW is treating women as normal people and not being manipulated by bipolar weirdoes parading as ladies. cheesy


Also MGTOW taught me a massive great deal about Hypergamy, if you read on it, you would understand a bit about how woman operate relationship wise typically but it never applies to the general but it is something to be aware of, especially in improvished environments especially like us. Woman looking for Mr Right who must be rich and handsome, that teaching has found it's way into the media, the prince ready to save the girl is a man who has it all figured out, but then again this was also done by men too, as during the early 80/90(s) the movie industry was mostly dominated by men, so we created this problems for ourselves if you think about it.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jun 21, 2019
lilwetdick:


Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW /ˈmɪɡtaʊ/) is an anti-feminist, mostly online community advocating for men to separate themselves from society, and particularly to eschew heterosexual marriage and cohabitation. MGTOW have "...vowed to stay away from women, stop dating and not have children".

pls what you are practising is not MGTOW..stop deceiving us, infact you have no proof to back up anything you said.

what you wrote down does not only happen to guys because of redpill, it happens to many guys who do not believe in red pill and MGTOW..so it is nothing special.



Not really it was never anti-feminist until we came to this current political atmosphere, when it started it was a community of men who felt they were disfranchised by the government, as they felt that when it came to family laws, a woman was always favoured regardless of the circumstances, a lot of men lost out in paternity fraud, alimony and child custody. So the MGTOW was one where men avoided getting involved in marriage institution that involved the government. Some will date as long as they want, but marriage no way.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ecstasy357(m): 9:07pm On Jun 22, 2019
pcguru1:


Not really it was never anti-feminist until we came to this current political atmosphere, when it started it was a community of men who felt they were disfranchised by the government, as they felt that when it came to family laws, a woman was always favoured regardless of the circumstances, a lot of men lost out in paternity fraud, alimony and child custody. So the MGTOW was one where men avoided getting involved in marriage institution that involved the government. Some will date as long as they want, but marriage no way.

You got the whole idea behind MGTOW spot on

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ecstasy357(m): 9:08pm On Jun 22, 2019
pcguru1:
The only thing I like and picked from MGTOW is treating women as normal people and not being manipulated by bipolar weirdoes parading as ladies. cheesy


Also MGTOW taught me a massive great deal about Hypergamy, if you read on it, you would understand a bit about how woman operate relationship wise typically but it never applies to the general but it is something to be aware of, especially in improvished environments especially like us. Woman looking for Mr Right who must be rich and handsome, that teaching has found it's way into the media, the prince ready to save the girl is a man who has it all figured out, but then again this was also done by men too, as during the early 80/90(s) the movie industry was mostly dominated by men, so we created this problems for ourselves if you think about it.

Men have always been their own problem. We created the problem that's killing us

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nasri100(m): 9:17pm On Jun 22, 2019
I don’t know if I am happy or sad that MGTOW is becoming popular in Nigeria.

Real MGTOW’s don’t even acknowledge the name. They just practice it. It’s more of a mindset. Peaceful mindset.

Been there and done that and the benefits are just endless.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by BossDante: 8:43am On Jun 23, 2019
ecstasy357:


A girl did call me gay and promised to rape me....but I'm not interested. She's the gf I mentioned earlier

Calling you gay is part of their manipulation strategy bro.. don't fall for it wink another trick you'll encounter soon, is them calling you immature when you refuse to commit, they'll be like ''are you this immature that you so scared of commitment grin ''.. men must be liberated, the ones who wants to though..

Cc ubunja

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by ubunja(m): 9:04am On Jun 23, 2019
BossDante:


Calling you gay is part of their manipulation strategy bro.. don't fall for it wink another trick you'll encounter soon, is them calling you immature when you refuse to commit, they'll be like ''are you this immature that you so scared of commitment grin ''.. men must be liberated, the ones who wants to though..

Cc ubunja
not every man wants to be saved.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Defenderalert(m): 11:09am On Jun 23, 2019
ubunja:
not every man wants to be saved.

Nicur save your gay loser imb.ecile son first and leave our kids to.learn the right way. Desperate loser

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 11:36am On Jun 23, 2019
Nasri100:
I don’t know if I am happy or sad that MGTOW is becoming popular in Nigeria.

Real MGTOW’s don’t even acknowledge the name. They just practice it. It’s more of a mindset. Peaceful mindset.

Been there and done that and the benefits are just endless.

MGTOW is not becoming popular in Nigeria, nairaland isnt Nigeria, evn if there are MGTOW, they will be the losers, millions of nigerian men will still marry nigerian girls, so let be realistic

The only reason a Nigerian in the west will follow MGTOW is because of lack of game and small dating pool, many guys dont go out, they stay in their apartment all days and night without exploring, so it easy for them to take their anger of lack of sex and unite with other people who are also troubled minded people like them

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 11:43am On Jun 23, 2019
All these Nigerian boys that call themselves MGTOW, it is because they dont have cash and lack game, let them have cash and see how they behave infront of women, at the end of the day, it is still the women they were avoiding that will still end up finishing their money, then they will run back to MGTOW when broke and start complaining

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nasri100(m): 11:50am On Jun 23, 2019
lilwetdick:


MGTOW is not becoming popular in Nigeria, nairaland isnt Nigeria, evn if there are MGTOW, they will be the losers, millions of nigerian men will still marry nigerian girls, so let be realistic

The only reason a Nigerian in the west will follow MGTOW is because of lack of game and small dating pool, many guys dont go out, they stay in their apartment all days and night without exploring, so it easy for them to take their anger of lack of sex and unite with other people who are also troubled minded people like them

Anything you say is true in your world. It’s your world.

There is no need of game over here. There is happiness, freedom and wealth.

And then you said lack of sex. Hmmmm. Mate you know how Nigerians girls are with money na. Even the most moral of them would get down if the price is right.

“Nasri I don’t know why you keep refusing to talk to me. You know I would do anything for you if you give me the chance.”

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nasri100(m): 11:53am On Jun 23, 2019
lilwetdick:
All these Nigerian boys that call themselves MGTOW, it is because they dont have cash and lack game, let them have cash and see how they behave infront of women, at the end of the day, it is still the women they were avoiding that will still end up finishing their money, then they will run back to MGTOW when broke and start complaining

You can’t just generalize na mate. We are in the 21st century. Not everyone can fit your agenda.

There are exceptions. There are different people. It is a big big world.

Sometimes I think a woman is behind this moniker cause you are so emotional about it.

Relax mate and take a deep breath. Life is beautiful.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 11:54am On Jun 23, 2019
Nasri100:


Anything you say is true in your world. It’s your world.

There is no need of game over here. There is happiness, freedom and wealth.

And then you said lack of sex. Hmmmm. Mate you know how Nigerians girls are with money na. Even the most moral of them would get down if the price is right.

“Nasri I don’t know why you keep refusing to talk to me. You know I would do anything for you if you give me the chance.”

if there is no need for game, but why are PUA teachers all westerners teaching people games, the most popular PUAs are all whites

from life experience, people(men and women) will be loyal to you as long as they benefit something from you, once the benefit finishes, they leave to the next, if you understand that, you will be able to control people rather than get angry.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nasri100(m): 11:55am On Jun 23, 2019
lilwetdick:


if there is no need for game, but why are PUA teachers all westerners teaching people games, the most popular PUAs are all whites

from life experience, people(men and women) will be loyal to you as long as they benefit something from you, once the benefit finishes, they leave to the next, if you understand that, you will be able to control people rather than get angry.

I am not angry. You are worked up.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jun 23, 2019
Nasri100:


You can’t just generalize na mate. We are in the 21st century. Not everyone can fit your agenda.

There are exceptions. There are different people. It is a big big world.

Sometimes I think a woman is behind this moniker cause you are so emotional about it.

Relax mate and take a deep breath. Life is beautiful.

i am not generalising, i am saying the facts, african culture is different from western culture, we are communal in nature, the expectations from our parent is to marry and let them see their grand kids...in nigeria, people are getting poor daily, men cant marry becaue of lack of fund, the women have understood that for them to survive they have to sell something but the men dont understand that, that is why they whine, if they understand, the sex has been transactional from ages and upgrade then life will be easy, our fore fathers never fell in love but their women respected them because they were able to lead and provide for them, reality of life is that in african culture, there is nothing like love, marriage is all about service and leadership

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 23, 2019
Nasri100:


I am not angry. You are worked up.

who said you were angry, when i was just giving an illustration using "you"

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Deicide: 12:02pm On Jun 23, 2019
I have not joined any association and I treat human beings equally irrespective of the gender it seems like a rational thing to do grin basically on this earth no one is SPECIAL we all live and die!

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nasri100(m): 12:09pm On Jun 23, 2019
lilwetdick:


i am not generalising, i am saying the facts, african culture is different from western culture, we are communal in nature, the expectations from our parent is to marry and let them see their grand kids...in nigeria, people are getting poor daily, men cant marry becaue of lack of fund, the women have understood that for them to survive they have to sell something but the men dont understand that, that is why they whine, if they understand, the sex has been transactional from ages and upgrade then life will be easy, our fore fathers never fell in love but their women respected them because they were able to lead and provide for them, reality of life is that in african culture, there is nothing like love, marriage is all about service and leadership

Again you are generalizing.

I have a question though, how does all these problems relate to “MGTOW”.

These men have decided to stay on their own and not deal.

So what are they doing wrong?

I guess the communal nature of Africa is the part of the reason why we are in the poverty chart and backwards.

Not everyone is prime for marriage. It’s a choice. You are not financial buoyant and then you start bringing children you can’t take care of. Many girls are into prostitution.

I am privilege to be 23 and working a good job in Nigeria with a very decent salary. I don’t want a girlfriend or a wife. I choose the minimalist lifestyle and invest in bitcoin and etc. I have a decent amount in savings. I have a lot, a lot of girls on my case but I choose not to deal. I don’t have problems with women. They are sweet but I don’t want to deal. Maybe cause I understand female nature.

In your world though, I am a sin. It’s all good.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jun 23, 2019
Nasri100:


Again you are generalizing.

I have a question though, how does all these problems relate to “MGTOW”.

These men have decided to stay on their own and not deal.

So what are they doing wrong?

I guess the communal nature of Africa is the part of the reason why we are in the poverty chart and backwards.

Not everyone is prime for marriage. It’s a choice. You are not financial buoyant and then you start bringing children you can’t take care of. Many girls are into prostitution.

I am privilege to be 23 and working a good job in Nigeria with a very decent salary. I don’t want a girlfriend or a wife. I choose the minimalist lifestyle and invest in bitcoin and etc. I have a decent amount in savings. I have a lot, a lot of girls on my case but I choose not to deal. I don’t have problems with women. They are sweet but I don’t want to deal. Maybe cause I understand female nature.

In your world though, I am a sin. It’s all good.

when A nigerian man decide to stay on his own and not chase women, it is because they are not Buoyant, if they were buoyant, they will love to show off to the world that they have arrived, it is a common nigerian stuff

MGTOW, does not relate to any part of african culture, it is foreign and unafrican..simple as abc, most people just copy anything foreign to look cool, they might just be hiding their low pay, their inabilty to get women and not being able to bang because of the present economy situation that has made women desperate for cash...

the reality is that many dont have the resources that is why they are celibate, if they did have cash, they wont be complaining..as you wrote not every one is financial buoyant to marry and i agree with that, if you dont have money dont marry because money makes marriage sweet.

being communal does not mean poor, china is also a communal society and rich

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nasri100(m): 12:34pm On Jun 23, 2019
lilwetdick:


when A nigerian man decide to stay on his own and not chase women, it is because they are not Buoyant, if they were buoyant, they will love to show off to the world that they have arrived, it is a common nigerian stuff

MGTOW, does not relate to any part of african culture, it is foreign and unafrican..simple as abc, most people just copy anything foreign to look cool, they might just be hiding their low pay, their inabilty to get women and not being able to bang because of the present economy situation that has made women desperate for cash...

the reality is that many dont have the resources that is why they are celibate, if they did have cash, they wont be complaining..as you wrote not every one is financial buoyant to marry and i agree with that, if you dont have money dont marry because money makes marriage sweet.

being communal does not mean poor, china is also a communal society and rich

lol

“they would love to show off to the world they have arrived, it’s a common NIgerian stuff”

At this point, everyone is the same. We are all robots with the same traits.

Enjoy the busy week incoming. God bless you.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by Nobody: 12:41pm On Jun 23, 2019
Nasri100:


lol

“they would love to show off to the world they have arrived, it’s a common NIgerian stuff”

At this point, everyone is the same. We are all robots with the same traits.

Enjoy the busy week incoming. God bless you.

we are not all the same but the trait of showing off is a common stereotype of Nigerians..they make lot of noise, when they have money, i have never seen a humble nigerian with money,the only ones that dont show off are poor people because they dont have..bye.

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Re: The Truth About Mgtow And Red Pilled Men — My Story by BossDante: 1:34pm On Jun 23, 2019
lilwetdick:


we are not all the same but the trait of showing off is a common stereotype of Nigerians..they make lot of noise, when they have money, i have never seen a humble nigerian with money,the only ones that dont show off are poor people because they dont have..bye.


'Truth is perception, justice is illusion'. I won't wrong you on your truth as it bore out from your perception and maybe experience in life. Most times in life, we attract our kinds, if these are the kinds of rich people you have been meeting, it only shows the kind of person you are.

Remain blessed. Bye

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