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Over sharing.




I know men only share things ( talk about everything that happens in their everyday lives) with someone they are comfortable but sometimes I just can't deal. Most times I pretend to listen and enjoy it.

Example

Boo: bae today was nice, do you remember my friend I told you about? The one I attended the same high school....... we met today, he's the new CEO of......

Me: (in my mind : 'can you just shut it please') Oh yes! what's his name again?

Boo: Ted! he played a prank..........

Me: (Oh God, shoot me already) That's gross !

Boo: Today he blew me off at the *** meeting , his speech on *** was splendid...

Me: (sigh) Nice.

Boo: Are you okay?

Me: (Hell no! shut your mouth!) I'm fine, I'm sorry just that I have a lot on my mind. I think I need some rest.( actually my ears need some rest )

Boo: Alright, I will gist you later nah.

Me: (I hope that later never comes) Thanks love.


Sometimes ehn relationship is a big work.

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Lack of understanding, naging and not being contended turn me off.

Pride and money sucking ladies.

Self centeredness, like every little thing is about you, I'll move on, no time.

AntiBrutus:
You are the one that added the "over".

Of course I am after something,

His heart, head and money.

Woman on a mission.

what do you have to offer in return

Drama and sense of entitlement

Eggovic:
what do you have to offer in return

Nothing...

AntiBrutus:
Nothing...

hehe

Simplep:
lol hope you are loaded? No independent woman for you if you are broke o

must a woman be an independent woman for her to buy her toothbrush, pad, pants and bra for herself with her money.

Cutejaelyn:
A partner that farts in my presence

LMAO! I thought I was the only one. People think it is a sign of openness but to me it is just irritating, embarrassing and annoying.

Sleeping in public

DanXplore:
Sleeping in public

Sleeping in public? Can you shed more light to this comment pls?

lilwetdick:
must a woman be an independent woman for her to buy her toothbrush, pad, pants and bra for herself with her money.

no,the guy said she should have a job,read well before blindly quoting me

internationalman:
I see no difference between you and those little northern kids that run after someone begging for money..

lol almajiris

AntiBrutus:
There is a difference baby.

They use persuasion, I use submission.

I have never run after him for the money. Submit to a man and you will have him eat from your palm.

gold digger, Goan hustle

Simplep:
no,the guy said she should have a job,read well before blindly quoting me

blindly quoting you, i was the one that wrote it...so dont you think it is sensible if a woman have a job get her salary and buy some of her womanly stuff for herself without depending on a man..the way you guys throw the word independent lady is funny, buying your womenly stuff by yourself as a female is what grown ups do, it has nothing to do with being an independent woman

lilwetdick:
blindly quoting you, i was the one that wrote it...so dont you think it is sensible if a woman have a job get her salary and buy some of her womanly stuff for herself without depending on a man..the way you guys throw the word independent lady is funny, buying your womenly stuff by yourself as a female is what grown ups do, it has nothing to do with being an independent woman

you are just confusing yourself,NO lady who has something doing will ask you for money to buy bra and panties,peace

DanXplore:
LMAO! I thought I was the only one. People think it is a sign of openness but to me it is just irritating, embarrassing and annoying.

Openness ke? It's disgusting. Go to the toilet and fart or fart when you are alone.
I'm put off by people who nag, who are belligerent and who always look for an excuse for their shortcomings instead of owning up and be open to corrections.

MariaLavina:
Over sharing.




I know men only share things ( talk about everything that happens in their everyday lives) with someone they are comfortable but sometimes I just can't deal. Most times I pretend to listen and enjoy it.

Example

Boo: bae today was nice, do you remember my friend I told you about? The one I attended the same high school....... we met today, he's the new CEO of......

Me: (in my mind : 'can you just shut it please') Oh yes! what's his name again?

Boo: Ted! he played a prank..........

Me: (Oh God, shoot me already) That's gross !

Boo: Today he blew me off at the *** meeting , his speech on *** was splendid...

Me: (sigh) Nice.

Boo: Are you okay?

Me: (Hell no! shut your mouth!) I'm fine, I'm sorry just that I have a lot on my mind. I think I need some rest.( actually my ears need some rest )

Boo: Alright, I will gist you later nah.

Me: (I hope that later never comes) Thanks love.


Sometimes ehn relationship is a big work.

hahahah quite funny

AwkaetitiBabe:
Sleeping in public? Can you shed more light to this comment pls?

Imagine you were a very high profile fellow in your state and was invited (with your wife/partner) for an important meeting. While the meeting was going on, your wife/partner was called upon but could not respond immediately because she was dozing zzzzzzz. Embarassing!

DanXplore:
Imagine you were a very high profile fellow in your state and was invited (with your wife/partner) for an important meeting. While the meeting was going on, your wife/partner was called upon but could not respond immediately because she was dozing zzzzzzz. Embarassing!

So that's all?

AwkaetitiBabe:
So that's all?

The subject of the thread is to state what one cannot tolerate in a partner. I have stated mine, and I am sure you did yours so what's the fuss na?

DanXplore:
The subject of the thread is to state what one cannot tolerate in a partner. I have stated mine, and I am sure you did yours so what's the fuss na?

I simply meant if that's d only one you cannot tolerate. No vex, I no go quote u again

AwkaetitiBabe:
I simply meant if that's d only one you cannot tolerate. No vex, I no go quote u again

@bolded, obviously no. But the rules of the thread said we should state just one thing na

DanXplore:
@bolded, obviously no. But in the rules of the thread, it says we should state just one thing na

Life is simple my friend. Bye

Weed. I love it. She hates it. I wanna stop too

Lies

i hate when girl farts in my presence or talks about how her shiits went down in the toilet. No matter how beautiful you are, that yansh will irritate me. Just pretend those thing doesn't exist

ladiesreject:
I swear to God if I mention mine, the bashing and insults I will get from both male and female will make me deactivate my nairaland account.

So, I rather not say.

I dey ur side, talk jare. Where my gin. Oya, i don set.

Cc lalasticlala

owowa145:
I dey ur side, talk jare. Where my gin. Oya, i don set.

Lol
Na.
I don ever talk am for Facebook I get up to 70 replies, all insults