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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by stchinedu: 10:17pm On Jul 13, 2019
Adonko:
Ok let me pour out mine on three fronts.
Firstly ,when I was at the university, I was dating one babe from microbiology dept who was a year lower than me in school levels, I also had a strong pal who was also in her Dept but same level with me. It all happened that I travelled home for 3 days and . I came I never told babe but visited my pal who called me to come around and narrated everything playing between his cousin and bae ( who is a member of Aye and and from a different school), he was quite tall, he told me that my bae is even coming that evening and they will be going to the nite club together ...aaaah I almost died lol, I decided to catch her red handed cos his cousin went somewhere far, I quickly took his timberland boots and kept it outside and took his Aye overall and wore it( I am tall too) and deemed/switched the light to club light and lie down on the bed while my guy was sitting on the reading table.

Bae came as expected around 8pm, greeted my friend and ran to the bed straight telling the guy (which was me ) if he forgot they are going somewhere while rubbing his chest ( what pains me most is that is my bae that was doing the tripping), when I switched on the light cos I was holding the switched, she shouted as if she saw a ghost and quickly open her bra and put her breast in my mouth ( knowing fully well I liked her boobs so much) ... I just jeje remove her breast stood up uttered nothing and left.

I WILL CONTINUE THE SECOND SOON.

The breast must have tasted sour cheesy

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Sirmuel1(m): 10:17pm On Jul 13, 2019
sircrabo:
Thts why i like the idea of checking phones and social media accounts of your bf/gf. It helps reveal a lot. mine was having her puna greased by one yahoo boy in our street. On one occasion, we were supposed to go out together. I waited at the bus-stop for her but she never turned up. One day she gave me her facebook password to upload pic for her. My heart was heavy after logging into that account. I saw her chat with the guy about how he didn't last as long as he used to, but she still enjoyed him though. I found out that the day they had the sex was the day i was waiting for her at the bus-stop. She said she was searching for a job and i volunteered to assist her, just to contribute positively to her life. we used to move round ikeja looking for opportunities together. That's the day i knew some people don't deserve to be treated like humans but as animals. Some ladies will always prefer people that have nothing to offer them (bad guys). I later confronted her abt her affair and she said "Did i ever tell you that i loved you"...... She later came apologizing, even said she cant marry the guy because he is Muslim. still apologizing yrs later but i have locked up completely. No atom of feeling for her now..... I once traveled to Abia state from Lag to see this SHE GOAT. Three years old relationship went down the drain. CHECK UR PARTNERS PHONE PLS


Trust nobody! As for me, I don't have time to check Phones.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Heineken(m): 10:18pm On Jul 13, 2019
NewDelhi:
I used to form strong man and laugh at my colleagues who feel bad and even cry like babies after a break up but I was wrong grin

Omo the feeling is out of this world honestly. You might not cry but there's this unexplainable feeling in your heart. Food will stare at you , u won't eat. Even to sleep go turn war. grin no be here o .grin. I always wondered why people even commit suicide after a breakup until I had mine. Its just insane.
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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by 4ckTOT0: 10:18pm On Jul 13, 2019
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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by stchinedu: 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2019
nuelyoyo:
Lol, then when you decide to settle down with someone else, the girl that cheated on you will start calling you out and cursing, saying she gave you six years of her life and you dumped her. She will spin the story of your break up in a way that will make you look like the devil, she will not tell people that you guys broke up coz she was caught cheating.

That is, if he is lucky she doesn't claim he 'raped' her

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by macfish101(m): 10:21pm On Jul 13, 2019
Menh.... E no easy for Ezekiel at all. Girls always cheat, you can't control them. Even my present girl just traveled today, she told me that she is going for a duty somewhere in another LGA, but I know there is more to it. I over heard her talking to a man last night, he has been waiting for her to come for two days. I claimed to be asleep last night and she picked the call in my presence. Luckily for me, I could also hear the man even when the phone is not on speaker. I don't plan to confront her about it when she comes back. I only know we have no future together but I will keep her in the dark about that.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by sylve11: 10:21pm On Jul 13, 2019
SaucyBenks:
Bitches... Especially those with flat stomach, 32inches wide butt, 52inches round hips n coconut-like pointed breasts angry

Most of you stupid guys are dating girls who's contacts are on Codedruns.com n the rest.. We Bleep them n pay them off every weekend, 18years,19, 21,22,24,25...? Just name it...!

They'd still come home to you n open them filth of a mouth and say I love you and your heads will be blowing like balloon but real guys are spreading their tight creamy cum-milking vaginas and even cumming deep deep inside of them every weekend without any I love you bullshit talk. Remember, even your boo get boo.

Some newly married women are even there... We Bleep them and pay them off the same money they use to help your families, and you'll hear one stupid senseless guy day there's this girl I met, she has all the qualities I want in a woman hahahahahaha I just laugh...

We even ask some of them this question does your husband Bleep better? And you know their responses it's even sweet fucking someone's girlfriend/wife-to-be/wife cos mine has been bleeped in the past and I have grown to enjoy the feeling of enjoying another person's woman.

Akanchawa. sad cool

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by 4ckTOT0: 10:22pm On Jul 13, 2019
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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by chieme123(m): 10:24pm On Jul 13, 2019
My gf was running things with one married man like that, but was always careful to cover her tracks.

I'd been suspecting her and the man, but because there was no hard evidence, I let it slide. Until..... she became complacent / careless and I stumbled on one of their chats that she hadn't had time to delete.

Married man: Babe... You broke my dick last night.
My gf: Serves you right. You called for it.

Married man: I'm sitting with style. It's peppering me all over.
My gf: Naughty boy.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by makdcash(m): 10:24pm On Jul 13, 2019
HIPOCRITE


pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,
Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.
Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.
Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.
I wonder who are the cheats. grin
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by mcyemite(m): 10:25pm On Jul 13, 2019
All these teenagers Forming hard guy that can never be cheated on, should just leave this thread and go and read their books, their opinions isn't needed here... Inexperienced mofos.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by IAMBlesssed(f): 10:26pm On Jul 13, 2019
SaucyBenks:
Bitches... Especially those with flat stomach, 32inches wide butt, 52inches round hips n coconut-like pointed breasts angry

Most of you stupid guys are dating girls who's contacts are on Codedruns.com n the rest.. We Bleep them n pay them off every weekend, 18years,19, 21,22,24,25...? Just name it...!

They'd still come home to you n open them filth of a mouth and say I love you and your heads will be blowing like balloon but real guys are spreading their tight creamy cum-milking vaginas and even cumming deep deep inside of them every weekend without any I love you bullshit talk. Remember, even your boo get boo.

Some newly married women are even there... We Bleep them and pay them off the same money they use to help your families, and you'll hear one stupid senseless guy day there's this girl I met, she has all the qualities I want in a woman hahahahahaha I just laugh...

We even ask some of them this question does your husband Bleep better? And you know their responses it's even sweet fucking someone's girlfriend/wife-to-be/wife cos mine has been bleeped in the past and I have grown to enjoy the feeling of enjoying another person's woman.


So what's your point
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jul 13, 2019
martyns303:
Guy called and she couldn't talk properly, she was saying "hmm" "OK" "yes" "ok". snatched the phone from her and put it on speaker, the guy wasn't happy with her about something, he was yelling at her through the phone "is this how u used to talk to me"? "hello, hello!!!!!" I ended the call, she kneeled down and started begging.

Called the guy later with my phone, talked to him as man and he opened up and gave me the whole rundown. I died 1001 times within 5mins.

Oh! did I mention we had been dating for 6yrs?
wow! Thank God u ar still alive to share ur testimony today..

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by psalmylee: 10:27pm On Jul 13, 2019
met my babe ,we were both teenagers at DAT tym.I loved her so much that everyone around knows abt us.we ve been dating for 7yrs naw.to cut long story short sha.she logged in her fb acc on my phone n forgot to log out.me just saw fb msg taught it was my guys at home that left me msges BT Lo n behold,wat I saw that day.I almost died .my heart stopped beating for mins n was devastated.I cried for days sha I no go lie cos she was my life. I confronted her n all she did was beg.wlkept begging for days I was so angry that I wanted to breakup with her BT a good friend of mine advised me to still keep her around for emergency kongi.she thinks have forgiven her .Lol.I make sure I Bleep her daily naw n.I treat her as a prostitute naw.she no dey fit complain sef.I no dey wan care if she z enjoying it or not.wats my business. just Bleep her finish sef like an hour ago.I will chase her like a dog wen am done with the bustard. na me u warn scam.Ogun kill u there.omo ale jati jati.#spits#

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Heineken(m): 10:30pm On Jul 13, 2019
Sirmuel1:



Trust nobody! As for me, I don't have time to check Phones.
checking ones phone is wrong. It's better not to know. The best thing is to tell your girl to know what she's doing. As any rubbish, that's the end.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by piagetskinner(m): 10:31pm On Jul 13, 2019
God will not allow me date someone that will cheat on me

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by 4ckTOT0: 10:31pm On Jul 13, 2019
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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by medolab90(m): 10:33pm On Jul 13, 2019
Na wa o embarassed embarassed...,........ lemme continue to be single cos I'm not ready for any heart break right now as I'm a fragile person........ This h**s ain't loyal

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by BrainSanitizer: 10:35pm On Jul 13, 2019
She caught you with a woman. She was furious. Nearly left you. You begged. Swore never to cheat on her again. But you weren't sure you'll stop 'cos she's far better than your wife in bed. Clean. Tight. Curvy. 1st class in BJ. Grade 1 lips. 2 days later, you found out that the woman you were 4king is the wife of the guy who's 4king your wife.
Why would somebody in their right senses cheat on a woman like the one you cheated with? You asked yourself. Someone preferred your lazy, unromantic, wide-holed wife to a classical lover? Unbelievable!

The above is to all men and women.
Do not be complacent. Even millionaires who wear gold get tired of wearing gold sometimes. They want to feel how it feels to not wear gold.
It's natural.
Men, women, be dynamic. Give your partner something new. Don't be like what you were yesterday. You'll turn out to be boring no matter how fantastically endowed you are.
Good luck to all men and women.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Heineken(m): 10:36pm On Jul 13, 2019
medolab90:
Na wa o embarassed embarassed...,........ lemme continue to be single cos I'm not ready for any heart break right now as I'm a fragile person........ This h**s ain't loyal
that cheating na normal thing for ladies.. Some don't cheat Sha. Like 20%

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by carter009(m): 10:38pm On Jul 13, 2019
Sharp guy.
macfish101:
Menh.... E no easy for Ezekiel at all. Girls always cheat, you can't control them. Even my present girl just traveled today, she told me that she is going for a duty somewhere in another LGA, but I know there is more to it. I over heard her talking to a man last night, he has been waiting for her to come for two days. I claimed to be asleep last night and she picked the call in my presence. Luckily for me, I could also hear the man even when the phone is not on speaker. I don't plan to confront her about it when she comes back. I only know we have no future together but I will keep her in the dark about that.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by EngrMarve(m): 10:42pm On Jul 13, 2019
martyns303:
Guy called and she couldn't talk properly, she was saying "hmm" "OK" "yes" "ok". snatched the phone from her and put it on speaker, the guy wasn't happy with her about something, he was yelling at her through the phone "is this how u used to talk to me"? "hello, hello!!!!!" I ended the call, she kneeled down and started begging.

Called the guy later with my phone, talked to him as man and he opened up and gave me the whole rundown. I died 1001 times within 5mins.

Oh! did I mention we had been dating for 6yrs?
Dated 6yrs. Uncle data
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 10:43pm On Jul 13, 2019
psalmylee:
met my babe ,we were both teenagers at DAT tym.I loved her so much that everyone around knows abt us.we ve been dating for 7yrs naw.to cut long story short sha.she logged in her fb acc on my phone n forgot to log out.me just saw fb msg taught it was my guys at home that left me msges BT Lo n behold,wat I saw that day.I almost died .my heart stopped beating for mins n was devastated.I cried for days sha I no go lie cos she was my life. I confronted her n all she did was beg.wlkept begging for days I was so angry that I wanted to breakup with her BT a good friend of mine advised me to still keep her around for emergency kongi.she thinks have forgiven her .Lol.I make sure I Bleep her daily naw n.I treat her as a prostitute naw.she no dey fit complain sef.I no dey wan care if she z enjoying it or not.wats my business. just Bleep her finish sef like an hour ago.I will chase her like a dog wen am done with the bustard. na me u warn scam.Ogun kill u there.omo ale jati jati.#spits#

You are not been fair

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by carter009(m): 10:43pm On Jul 13, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin Sharp guy.
macfish101:
Menh.... E no easy for Ezekiel at all. Girls always cheat, you can't control them. Even my present girl just traveled today, she told me that she is going for a duty somewhere in another LGA, but I know there is more to it. I over heard her talking to a man last night, he has been waiting for her to come for two days. I claimed to be asleep last night and she picked the call in my presence. Luckily for me, I could also hear the man even when the phone is not on speaker. I don't plan to confront her about it when she comes back. I only know we have no future together but I will keep her in the dark about that.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Joystark(f): 10:45pm On Jul 13, 2019
Oma307:

you better say your own, or have you not been cheated on before or you have never dated any guy before

Lol. I'm working on becoming a nun.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by gonkin(m): 10:45pm On Jul 13, 2019
Ex offered financial support just like that. So I used a spy app to confirm my suspicion

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kirchhoff01(m): 10:46pm On Jul 13, 2019
You'll go far in life
Illuminated993:
My guy, that incident must have left a terrible scar on you. But the good thing is, scenarios like you had help you learn and get stronger. I got to know my ex slept with a married man while in a relationship with me. The man was her teacher in secondary school. For me now, I'm not after love, my motives are mostly sex driven, let's just fucck, I don't care about the games the woman I'm with plays when I'm not around. I'm not that guy who monitors his woman, or goes through her phones anymore. I now understand that a man can't stop a woman from playing her games. I only demand sex and respect from the woman I'm with, nothing more. I don't bother with the thoughts of her getting fuccked by another man. Maybe she's probably getting fuccked. Being cheated on really does affect one.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by psalmylee: 10:49pm On Jul 13, 2019
weyreypey:


You are not been fair
guy,I for die o na small remain.my whole world crumbled ryt before my eyes.I never deserved it.I fought my family for her,starved myself to make sure she was satisfied.guy just forget abeg.I fon dey vex already set.the girl day heartless abeg.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:50pm On Jul 13, 2019
ImaIma1:


Funny enough, it is mostly men sharing their stories grin.

Ladies are selfish and coward daz why they hardly share their stories. Even on a faceless platform like this this they still had to back out.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by EmekusTHEgreat(m): 10:51pm On Jul 13, 2019
Lemme drop mine here under the cloak of anonymousity, happened back in 2016. I was in my third year, she was in her first year, she wasn't my first girlfriend and I wasn't her's either, but she was the one that really got to me, like my first real love, the first one I ever opened my soul to.

NOTE THAT I'm a very suspicious person, I tend to expect the worst from people and most times they don't fall short of expectations.

So the story goes like this; I and this dark skinned beauty had been dating for a some months then. if you've dated in university you would know that going on long vacations is the real test of strength for any university relationship (except where the couple lives close by, in the same state or city). So there we were, we would be apart for the first time since we started dating, I had to leave my school in the East to go home in Kaduna while she had to go to Lagos where her family lives. She had calmed my suspicions with her soft, convincing words and her beautiful smile, she had often told me that she could never cheat in a relationship, and of course like a fool in love I believed her. I called everyday and tried to know everything that went down in her day, not for the sake of distrust but just to show her that I cared. One random evening, around 7:30, I called her and I noticed that she seemed off, a bit unsettled and on alert, I asked her where she was and she started stammering - something she never did, she's soft-spoken but never stammers - she's said that she had gone to see a friend in a hotel near her house, I asked which friend and her response seemed like she was lying, as it always does, my mind started racing, raising red flags but I shaked it all off. I might have seemed a bit angry and maybe the way I spoke really got to her that evening (calm but aggressive, not a regular trait of mine), or maybe she was just uneasy, who knows. When school was back on session and we were back together after the long vacation, my mind just ran back to that day and something told me that I should ask about it, as usual she seemed to be a bit edgy, this really triggered me, but I didn't make it obvious, however from that moment I made it a point to know what went down that day..

Now this side note is for the gents out there, when a lady starts playing the "so you don't trust me" card then guy, just know that she's hiding something and you have all reason to not trust her...

One day I managed to get into her Facebook account, she had logged into it with my phone and forgot to log out (rooky mistake, right!), so I took the platter-given opportunity to do some "investigating", after a really long night and really weird chats, I ran into her dm with her THEN bestfriend, where she had told her that she suspects that I know what she did that summer, the friend encouraged her to continue lying and telling me that nothing happened, I scrolled abit further up and saw what she had been hiding from me, happens that her ex boyfriend had invited her to his hotel room and she decided to go pay him a little visit, deep down I know she was Hot and just wanted to feel something intimate, well, she got what she wanted, they had sex, she let him have sex with her, for "closure". It happens that immediately she was leaving the hotel, my call had come through, that was what made her edgy. It really pained me, I felt betrayed.

I had prior made it a rule to never cry because of a woman who wasn't my mom or sister but damn!, that day was my exception, I cried like a frickin baby.
After the tears, I confronted her and at first she played the "so you don't trust me" card, so I brought up the evidence and she came clean, I realized that she still loved the guy, she apologized and explained the whole thing to me, I told her to resolve whatever she had with him, and I guess she did.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by biggestmanhood(m): 10:51pm On Jul 13, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.

I wonder who are the cheats. grin
the one you were caught cheating on Fred with his childhood friend

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