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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Exodora: 3:28pm On Jul 14, 2019
GraGra247:
Refuse the job if you have an alternative.

If you don't, take the job if it's a well paying one. Save money and buy the girl a car or something valuable to compensate her family.

Cut ties with her and her family few months afterwards. Don't touch the girl throughout.







That is savagery .If he doesn't want the girl then he should reject every thing about them , that is the only way he can walk away with blessings awaiting him. You don't want the devil why not reject everything about him so that at the end they will not have anything to hold against you.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Babaheekmat: 3:28pm On Jul 14, 2019
Ramanto:
I'm not convinced I can marry her but her mum is getting me a job now. Should I decline the offer please? I seriously need your contributions. I need the job, but I don't want to be indebted to the family

You have already decided..

Why bring it here
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by timibare(m): 3:28pm On Jul 14, 2019
Link me up Bro.....I can marry anything....I need a job

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by psalmylee(m): 3:29pm On Jul 14, 2019
Quality20:
it's OK u accept it. One of my former neighbor, a strong Muslim guy from Auchi, Edo state who used to remind us of prayers even got a lady like that together with a job and also got converted .So urz isn't much my guy, just close ur eyes and marry her, u will b ok
so u are one of those head slammers who come here to defend the lifeless one bullhari abii angry
Quality20:
it's OK u accept it. One of my former neighbor, a strong Muslim guy from Auchi, Edo state who used to remind us of prayers even got a lady like that together with a job and also got converted .So urz isn't much my guy, just close ur eyes and marry her, u will b ok
so u are one of those head slammers who come here to defend the lifeless one bullhari abii

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jul 14, 2019
Better grab the Job, always give the excuse that you are not ready yet for marriage, save some money, get another job in a far place and port away.
Be smart so that poverty no go kill u.
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Bartork(m): 3:29pm On Jul 14, 2019
Ramanto:
I'm not convinced I can marry her but her mum is getting me a job now. Should I decline the offer please? I seriously need your contributions. I need the job, but I don't want to be indebted to the family


Take the job
Its not certain you will marry her unless the wedding has been planned and traditional stuffs done.

Take the job
Be nice to her and her mum, don't or stop sleeping with her.

Grow your influence on the job through hardworking, commitment and good connections with the right people.

If you do it right she will leave you herself

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Chubhie: 3:29pm On Jul 14, 2019
Is the lady aware about you not willing to go the distance with her? Maybe she doesn't even love you.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Unrated900(m): 3:30pm On Jul 14, 2019
Is it a security job?
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by GuestLog: 3:31pm On Jul 14, 2019
FuckThaMod:

Marriage is not all about benefits oga..
Tell that to our forefathers and kings who use marriage as a tool to unite kingdoms. Marriage is meant to make you grow, it is a contract where both parties agree to help out each other for life. Don't ever forget that

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by stanliwiser: 3:31pm On Jul 14, 2019
Viktorino:
Dont take that job.Why will a mother willingly trade her daughter's happiness so easily if there is no skeleton in their cupboard? I guess her daughter may be having an issue she wants to burden you with.
which one is trade here again?
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by RALPHOW(m): 3:33pm On Jul 14, 2019
Please reject the job, otherwise the woman will have a stand to torment your life physically and spiritually .

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Jtmanager(m): 3:33pm On Jul 14, 2019
GraGra247:
Refuse the job if you have an alternative.

If you don't, take the job if it's a well paying one. Save money and buy the girl a car or something valuable to compensate her family.

Cut ties with her and her family few months afterwards. Don't touch the girl throughout.

Best advice so far
I repeat do not sleep with her throughout this.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by mabea: 3:34pm On Jul 14, 2019
This thread shows that many people here are not intelligent. Somebody made an undetailed statement here and everybody is busy dishing out advises some are even passing judgement. Op you have to give details on the situation if you really need a good advise

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by princejayy(m): 3:34pm On Jul 14, 2019
mikezuruki:



Take the job Abobi. Build your CV. Cater for yourself with salary.

Port Harcourt boy grin
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by BrainSanitizer: 3:34pm On Jul 14, 2019
@op. How did you meet her? How far have you gone with her? Why is her mother interested in getting you a job? Give us the details and we'll advise you appropriately.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Exodora: 3:35pm On Jul 14, 2019
Beside Op didn't give us the full gist .Just bash in here and Boom I don't want to marry her should I reject the job. You didn't tell us why you don't want to.






While my advice is resist the devil and everything about him. If you accept that job knowing fully well that their intention of getting you that job is for you to marry her and at the end they lost trust in you bros you will find life more than harder ooooo. The earlier you think fast the better for you oooo.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Abusadiqworld: 3:35pm On Jul 14, 2019
That job offer na trap bro.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by mmadu5(m): 3:36pm On Jul 14, 2019
reject the job immediately thank God you have sense to know what to you want and what not

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Tajbol4splend(m): 3:38pm On Jul 14, 2019
Ramanto:
I'm not convinced I can marry her but her mum is getting me a job now. Should I decline the offer please? I seriously need your contributions. I need the job, but I don't want to be indebted to the family



Take the job and don't marry her if you don't like her
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by smarttm: 3:39pm On Jul 14, 2019
Ramanto:
I'm not convinced I can marry her but her mum is getting me a job now. Should I decline the offer please? I seriously need your contributions. I need the job, but I don't want to be indebted to the family



This is wickedness bro...better quit the relationship and stop coming here to ask trash...if she is your daughter will you like it?

You aren't convinced...what are you doing with her?

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Jtmanager(m): 3:39pm On Jul 14, 2019
timibare:
Link me up Bro.....I can marry anything....I need a job

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by omolola12345(m): 3:39pm On Jul 14, 2019
Don't start what you may not finish.Once you know that marrying her daughter by fire by force is the criteria for your job. FLEE. I say unto you again FLEE. Better job is coming your way if you can be patient enough.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by DonMekino(m): 3:40pm On Jul 14, 2019
Did they tie giving u job as a condition to marrying her or u just feel that it's wat they are planning?
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:40pm On Jul 14, 2019
The important question IS: do you think you would be offered the job if it wasn't because you wanted to marry her daughter.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Chukalemon(m): 3:41pm On Jul 14, 2019
Gbajabiamila eeeh.nice go ahead and reject it
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jul 14, 2019
Viktorino:
Dont take that job.Why will a mother willingly trade her daughter's happiness so easily if there is no skeleton in their cupboard? I guess her daughter may be having an issue she wants to burden you with.

Don’t u get the situation... this truth the guy is telling us here is not known to the girl or the mother.... why would u think a mother wants to get her daughters boyfriend a job if they know the guy is a Yoruba demon that’s just wants to use them to get daily bread....obviously the girl likes the guy and the guy too is pretending like he feels the same deceiving them to make them think making him more comfortable will also help their daughter....
Na wah for u oooo..which one is skeleton inside cupboard?

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Neddyogu(m): 3:41pm On Jul 14, 2019
Despise the free lunch. Save urself the obligations that would definitely come. If u have doubts about marrying her, call d relationship quits now. Bail d water now that it is still ankle-deep. Use ur teeth count ur tongue.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by cmecproblem(m): 3:43pm On Jul 14, 2019
Take the job, if you're good at it, thats an experience and cv booster.

Is she getting you the job to marry her daughter?
Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jul 14, 2019
Drabeey:



You don't smell what you won't eat. Why ask her out when you detest her



Drabeey was Here
na mind him, u don't like her and u want to fu, ck her.

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Re: I Don't Want To Marry Her. Should I Reject The Job? by olabisiolaniyi3: 3:47pm On Jul 14, 2019
GraGra247:
Refuse the job if you have an alternative.

If you don't, take the job if it's a well paying one. Save money and buy the girl a car or something valuable to compensate her family.

Cut ties with her and her family few months afterwards. Don't touch the girl throughout.
him don touch the girl already

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