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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by ubcandid(m): 5:34pm On Jul 14, 2019
FROGMAN101:
Ahhhh... Simisola.

I don’t blame her sha. Long distance obviously to blame. But she always told me via Skype that she was clean and honest and me the mumu was busy snubbing hot women in my college.

Traveled back home one December . My friend told me he knows someone that shags my babe steady.

Met them together at the Lekki private beach kissing and all. Walked up to them, handshake, I introduce myself as a friend. Mehn the girl wan die for sit. She was just smiling and all. Apparently shocked I would do that. I left the place afterwards. Later found out that my friend that exposed her also bleeped her while we were dating.

Since then it’s mostly friends with benefits.

The truth is most guys are not true G's. You let them know their babe is a LovePeddler or give them clues they still lie wet. That Jimmie who put you through was a nigger who got your back. I have been in similar position before, banged the hell outta the bitch and found her to be a deeper LovePeddler that expected, stylishly hinted my hommie only for the bitch to spill our content out and my dumb hommie reconciled with her and put me out. I don't back tell for any hommie again, I so my mind my business these days. I guess you fell out with that hommie. Go make with him bro he got your back.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by mkpurumma090(f): 5:37pm On Jul 14, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.

I wonder who are the cheats. grin

I believe, You are one of them

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by FROGMAN101(m): 5:47pm On Jul 14, 2019
ubcandid:


The truth is most guys are not true G's. You let them know their babe is a LovePeddler or give them clues they still lie wet. That Jimmie who put you through was a nigger who got your back. I have been in similar position before, banged the hell outta the bitch and found her to be a deeper LovePeddler that expected, stylishly hinted my hommie only for the bitch to spill our content out and my dumb hommie reconciled with her and put me out. I don't back tell for any hommie again, I so my mind my business these days. I guess you fell out with that hommie. Go make with him bro he got your back.

Bros before h oes..... We still talk lol

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by emkz: 5:51pm On Jul 14, 2019
I followed this story so far and I found it teary. Some of the stories are severely heartwrenching. I found them hard to believe.

I wish to ask women who enjoy jumping from men to men (I am sure you are reading this) please can you at least clear us why you do it? I ask because when women begin to misbehave in matters traditional to men, I think society is heading towards calamity.

I am a man and at a point in my life, I liked jumping from women to women. It was fun until I had an HIV scare...thrice. So women, is it adventure, foolishness, lack of esteem or outright sluttiness? I once heard an old woman whose daughter was messing herself up. She said the child be left alone and admitted there was no gain in sleeping around; she knew because she had done it. So women of today, what do you gain from having many men cross you?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by ubcandid(m): 5:56pm On Jul 14, 2019
romenna:
Mine is very fresh.
Met her in a conference last yr.
She 28 n me 32. Our focus was clear, friendship- dating-marriage.
She told me abt her ex bf who left her to marry anoda lady.
She visited me last month - June 2019 n I gave her an iPhone.
She downloaded all social media apps n was really happy abt her new fone. While she was in d kitchen, her fone was in d living room with me.
All of a sudden, there was dis rush of msgs on her Instagram. The last msg read "I love you" and dat caught my attention.
She didn't lock d fone yet cos it wud really not make sense to lock a fone I just gave to her even wen she is still in my house.
Na so I open her Instagram app, went straight to her inbox n found out she was still fucking her ex bf dat left her to marry anoda lady.
I was devastated.
They meet in diff hotels n chatted like dey were still dating.
I allowed her return to her base b4 disclosing wat I found in her fone n told her to stay with d guy n stay away from me.
Hope you got your phone back?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by EllaBella115(f): 6:10pm On Jul 14, 2019
Mine is still fresh
We were colleagues but he was sleeping with the HR too
When gossip started I asked and he said she was hitting on him...
Being the HR and in power, she demoted me and made me look bad before the management meanwhile bobo was still lying...
But I was smarter esp when I had the evidence that they were banging even in the office and it cost her her job.
I got admitted into school early this year after I had forgiven him but he still left after he went to another state...
It made me bitter, I became a shadow of myself(still am) But I am getting better but no to be someone's fool again...
Never!!!

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by 40secondsguy(m): 6:10pm On Jul 14, 2019
Reading some scary shii mehn.... embarassed


These hoes ain't loyal cry embarassed

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jul 14, 2019
MenGoingThereWay:
No matter how this ladies call men dogs it still doesn't change the fact that ladies cheat more than men.

My own experience is that most of the girls I have nice time with all have boyfriends or someone they are serious with. It's so bad that they tell me about their relationship issues and I get to advise them after we have had rounds of Sex. Some even have 3 guys they claim to be serious with, some even tell me about pastors and married men who toast them or who they had unplanned Sex with and how there bf is suspecting them.

These girls keep making it difficult for me to trust ladies with their cheating and selfish ways. They don't feel a single remorse when in the act till they are caught. One was riding me and a call from her boyfriend came in and she immediately put her hands on my neck, giving me the eye sign to stop my thrusting. These babe spoke to her boyfriend as if she wasn't doing anything and even told him she loves him and after the call she aggressively rode me while she had this evil grin. I had a lot of thoughts run through my head at that moment.

The second instance, I was with this babe and her phone rang and I helped her reach for it and the call ID read " MY love" . I handed the phone to her and she just threw it on the bed saying " abeg abeg I don't have time to be answering jamb question". You can imagine.

Another one asked me in her words "how can I say I have boy friend and it feels like am single" and I was like then let him go and in her words " he is a nice guy, he understands me and will make a good husband ". These girls can be selfish and mean.

You may think it's about money, care and time but most times its not because many have serious bf who do their best to give them all these and you wonder what these girls want. I used to make out with one whose bf was super rich and cartered for her but do you know this girl opened mouth to tell me about two other men and that she will be touring with one of the men while she tells her bf she has gone to visit her sick mum.

Aside students even the working class aren't left out...That's a talk for another day.

Men take my advice and you will be happy you did

- Men don't need love we need respect. Once a girl don't respect you dump her sorry bum

- Always have it in mind that no girl owes you anything till you pay her bride price

- Make yourself less available for these girls. These has worked for me well. Itso good you give these girls an impression that you are busy, focused and they come second. Do this and watch how they will always want to be around you and jump to come meet you each time you call.

- Give these girls space don't choke them

- When it comes to the bed be dominant let them see you using them to satisfy your sexual cravings. Don't pity them ooh..spank ass, pull hair etc. That does a lot to their psych. Topic for another day

- Never take a cheating girl back. I once advised my cousin the young man refused and 2 years down the line his girlfriend who he introduced to the family got pregnant for yahoo boy ���.

Many are still screwing me, they are unrepentant whilst they confess love to their bf.

- Mengoingthereway

There's no difference btw you and the girls you were sleeping with who were in serious relationships. You're as guilty of what you're accusing girls of.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nche95(m): 6:27pm On Jul 14, 2019
tinny898:


i feel like collecting your account number
collect mine instead
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Hullabaloon: 6:30pm On Jul 14, 2019
goalgetter01:
bro pls can you help a brother on how to do that? I would really appreciate

Mine is very simple. Download any screen recorder app.
Tell babe that you can't access your account, tell her you don't know what's wrong, whether it's network or a problem with your account.

Give her your phone and Tell her to try logging in and out to see if hers will go through.

Switch on The app before giving it to her, as she inputs her email and password, the app will capture everything.

Thank me later

Cc : Nobleking2000
Iberu001

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jul 14, 2019
GrabHisBalls:
There's no difference btw you and the girls you were sleeping with who were in serious relationships. You're as guilty of what you're accusing girls of.

GrabHisBalls na wah oo what sort of moniker is that one

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Favy1235(f): 6:37pm On Jul 14, 2019
Surviving through hrtbreak isn't that easy.
Got to know him bk then around 2017.he was the best any girl could ever wish for
then i was able to have access to his fbk account.
Fast forward to when he got admitted everytin changed,has 2 give excuse of always being busy.
Then i noticed his chat with 1 particular gal frm his sckul.he was always lyk she z just a frnd that do help me out,but their chat was more of that.my part nt 2 b called a jealous gf i waved it off.
1 day lyk dat i noticed i couldn't acces his fbk acct again that was where it all startd.there was neva a day u wil cal him without him talking abt his female frnds
1 day lyk dat o he cald to tel me it's ova btwn us without any tangible reason.
Today d so calld ordinary frnd became his gf afta 3wks of brkup.
It was very hard to move on but thank God i finally did.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Goddyj(m): 6:40pm On Jul 14, 2019
luvyaself95:
You're just so stupid.
I swear...
I don't normally allow myself to be dragged down to the level of idíots like you. So, try the next door. Cheers!
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by BabbanBura(m): 6:44pm On Jul 14, 2019
Joystark:
Just here to read comments.
This should make front page in a bit... If it hasn't already.

Mek I kukuma sit beside u read comments. Perhaps I may be led to pen down my plenty beautiful experiences

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jul 14, 2019
MenGoingThereWay:
No matter how this ladies call men dogs it still doesn't change the fact that ladies cheat more than men.

My own experience is that most of the girls I have nice time with all have boyfriends or someone they are serious with. It's so bad that they tell me about their relationship issues and I get to advise them after we have had rounds of Sex. Some even have 3 guys they claim to be serious with, some even tell me about pastors and married men who toast them or who they had unplanned Sex with and how there bf is suspecting them.

These girls keep making it difficult for me to trust ladies with their cheating and selfish ways. They don't feel a single remorse when in the act till they are caught. One was riding me and a call from her boyfriend came in and she immediately put her hands on my neck, giving me the eye sign to stop my thrusting. These babe spoke to her boyfriend as if she wasn't doing anything and even told him she loves him and after the call she aggressively rode me while she had this evil grin. I had a lot of thoughts run through my head at that moment.

The second instance, I was with this babe and her phone rang and I helped her reach for it and the call ID read " MY love" . I handed the phone to her and she just threw it on the bed saying " abeg abeg I don't have time to be answering jamb question". You can imagine.

Another one asked me in her words "how can I say I have boy friend and it feels like am single" and I was like then let him go and in her words " he is a nice guy, he understands me and will make a good husband ". These girls can be selfish and mean.

You may think it's about money, care and time but most times its not because many have serious bf who do their best to give them all these and you wonder what these girls want. I used to make out with one whose bf was super rich and cartered for her but do you know this girl opened mouth to tell me about two other men and that she will be touring with one of the men while she tells her bf she has gone to visit her sick mum.

Aside students even the working class aren't left out...That's a talk for another day.

Men take my advice and you will be happy you did

- Men don't need love we need respect. Once a girl don't respect you dump her sorry bum

- Always have it in mind that no girl owes you anything till you pay her bride price

- Make yourself less available for these girls. These has worked for me well. Itso good you give these girls an impression that you are busy, focused and they come second. Do this and watch how they will always want to be around you and jump to come meet you each time you call.

- Give these girls space don't choke them

- When it comes to the bed be dominant let them see you using them to satisfy your sexual cravings. Don't pity them ooh..spank ass, pull hair etc. That does a lot to their psych. Topic for another day

- Never take a cheating girl back. I once advised my cousin the young man refused and 2 years down the line his girlfriend who he introduced to the family got pregnant for yahoo boy ���.

Many are still screwing me, they are unrepentant whilst they confess love to their bf.

- Mengoingthereway

Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by MenGoingThereWay: 6:54pm On Jul 14, 2019
GrabHisBalls:
There's no difference btw you and the girls you were sleeping with who were in serious relationships. You're as guilty of what you're accusing girls of.

See the way you females jump into conclusion. Why will you say am as guilty? Or are you guilty of what I typed up there? Have u been in the arms of another man while your boy friend or fiancee keeps calling?

I have nothing to explain or prove to you. You can think or type whatever whilst you feel good in your ignorance.

- Mengoingthereway

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nche95(m): 6:58pm On Jul 14, 2019
RulerIAm:
Ben cheated on twice by the last 2 girls I dated. In the third one and facing the worst. She had always been a good girl until she got introduced to one guy by one of her customers. She was like the guy is always disturbing me but I told him I have a bf. Found out that number had been calling persistently for a while and she makes excuse not to come spend nights in my house these days . I eavesdropped on her call and heard her telling d guy that he Shd buy the gas so she can start cooking for him.. I froze where I was. There was a Saturday night she was supposed to come to my place but I didn't see her. Called her from 8pm till 9am the next day but she didn't pick a single call. Over 70 missed calls. She later called that she want to church very early and as at when I was calling the previous night, she had slept. She was even querying that y Shd I b calling that much. I gave her insults. Called her a slut tat would bleep me 2day n bleep another guy the next day. She stopped taking my calls. Na me begin beg o cos I love her. After many people helped me beg, she agreed but she's still talking with d guy. I still love her but with what I've read her so far, I'm getting stronger. Some girls just socks.
why you go call girl 70 time??

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 7:03pm On Jul 14, 2019
RulerIAm:
Ben cheated on twice by the last 2 girls I dated. In the third one and facing the worst. She had always been a good girl until she got introduced to one guy by one of her customers. She was like the guy is always disturbing me but I told him I have a bf. Found out that number had been calling persistently for a while and she makes excuse not to come spend nights in my house these days . I eavesdropped on her call and heard her telling d guy that he Shd buy the gas so she can start cooking for him.. I froze where I was. There was a Saturday night she was supposed to come to my place but I didn't see her. Called her from 8pm till 9am the next day but she didn't pick a single call. Over 70 missed calls. She later called that she want to church very early and as at when I was calling the previous night, she had slept. She was even querying that y Shd I b calling that much. I gave her insults. Called her a slut tat would bleep me 2day n bleep another guy the next day. She stopped taking my calls. Na me begin beg o cos I love her. After many people helped me beg, she agreed but she's still talking with d guy. I still love her but with what I've read her so far, I'm getting stronger. Some girls just socks.
You got self-esteem issues

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by zolacoded(m): 7:10pm On Jul 14, 2019
Joystark:


Monitoring spirit lipsrsealed
Lolzzz..... I'm just seeing you on every section or topic. wen u turn Yello ambassador
Everywhere you go!!! tongue tongue

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by luvyaself95(m): 7:12pm On Jul 14, 2019
Goddypost=80262378:

I don't normally allow myself to be dragged down to the level of idíots like you. So, try the next door. Cheers!
Pardon me Bro i didn't mean it. wrong message to wrong person...
i wanted to type you're just so funny.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by romenna: 7:13pm On Jul 14, 2019
ubcandid:

Hope you got your phone back?
yea she sent it bak to me

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Yohans(m): 7:21pm On Jul 14, 2019
TanyLoe:
Really funny
All am seeing here is she did that
I caught her doing this
What about "him"
you can share yours, if you have ever experienced one, besides you are a lady
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Timagex(m): 7:22pm On Jul 14, 2019
Felyyaks:
Hmmmm with all this stories am getting scared of starting a relationship�
. grin grin grin lemme EPP you[left][/left] wink
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by doggedfighter(f): 7:31pm On Jul 14, 2019
Yohans:
you can share yours, if you have ever experienced one, besides you are a lady
Don't mind the saints grin grin grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by luvyaself95(m): 7:45pm On Jul 14, 2019
Press333:
In my case I was the one who cheated on my partner we have been dating for 2yrs and still dating till date I had a feeling that my partner was cheating on me.
I was like why being loyal to a guy who cheats on you (I never caught him oo I just had the feeling) .
So I decided to date a guy that have been asking me out, we were not even in thesame state he was in Abuja it was a long distance relationship we only met once we did not have sex then my partner started suspecting me he went through my chat with the guy and my guy saw the part where I denied him and every other thing....long story.
We sought everything out and we are still dating but I know deep down that he is cheating.
then why you never confront him.
you have the right to incase you think is not right to do so...

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 7:46pm On Jul 14, 2019
pocohantas:


Another stupid one. And 4cktoto is what? So una like una mama like this? Shior!! grin
I don't normally allow myself to be dragged down to the level of idiots like you. So, try the next door. Cheers!
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Jonra(m): 7:53pm On Jul 14, 2019
SaucyBenks:
Bitches... Especially those with flat stomach, 32inches wide butt, 52inches round hips n coconut-like pointed breasts angry

Most of you stupid guys are dating girls who's contacts are on Codedruns.com n the rest.. We Bleep them n pay them off every weekend, 18years,19, 21,22,24,25...? Just name it...!

They'd still come home to you n open them filth of a mouth and say I love you and your heads will be blowing like balloon but real guys are spreading their tight creamy cum-milking vaginas and even cumming deep deep inside of them every weekend without any I love you bullshit talk. Remember, even your boo get boo.

Some newly married women are even there... We Bleep them and pay them off the same money they use to help your families, and you'll hear one stupid senseless guy day there's this girl I met, she has all the qualities I want in a woman hahahahahaha I just laugh...

We even ask some of them this question does your husband Bleep better? And you know their responses it's even sweet fucking someone's girlfriend/wife-to-be/wife cos mine has been bleeped in the past and I have grown to enjoy the feeling of enjoying another person's woman.

Yet you're not satisfied. Neither are you fulfilled. How long will you enjoy this sweet nothingness?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jul 14, 2019
MenGoingThereWay:


See the way you females jump into conclusion. Why will you say am as guilty? Or are you guilty of what I typed up there? Have u been in the arms of another man while your boy friend or fiancee keeps calling?

I have nothing to explain or prove to you. You can think or type whatever whilst you feel good in your ignorance.

- Mengoingthereway
Reversed psychology. It's not going to work. It's amazing how most of the people who contributed on the thread are guys. Who have the girls been cheating on their bfs with? Themselves?

That said, you on the other hand knew the girls were in serious relationship, that they even discuss their relational issues with you, but like the typical player, you still bleeped them regardless just to come on here to condemn girls. Who's fooling who?

As for your question, I value relationships and respect whom I am dating.

You don't have the right to condemn thos girls 'cause you're an exact replica of the people you're condemning here.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by pocohantas(f): 8:36pm On Jul 14, 2019
weyreypey:

I don't normally allow myself to be dragged down to the level of idiots like you. So, try the next door. Cheers!

I thought this element told me "ignored" hours ago. You have a hard time keeping your words or what? Hope you do not struggle to keep your erectîons too. undecided

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jul 14, 2019
davillian:

Only kids do that.
For the fact you got hurt by a lady doesn't stop you from loving another woman.
It only takes time but you will meet someone who will give back all the love you've given without getting back in return.

Tell them o. All these people saying I turned bad are those that spread HIV because they contracted it from someone. Very selfish beings

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 8:44pm On Jul 14, 2019
pocohantas:


I thought this element told me "ignored" hours ago. You have a hard time keeping your words or what? Hope you do not struggle to keep your erectîons too. undecided
My erections are very selective.... Not for your ilks.

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