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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by stevio(m): 5:50pm On Jul 21, 2019
You said "She's a sweet Akata",my question is,Have you tasted her before? If you think with your Dickson,you might make some mistakes.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by THUNDER4real(m): 5:51pm On Jul 21, 2019
Escape BUBU now or continue suffering..

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by tsamson(m): 5:51pm On Jul 21, 2019
Blastedholligan:
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.

Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.

Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.

My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.

Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.

Pardon my scattered words.


There is actually no cause for alarm

It is only debt acquired while you are married that you are responsible for, you can only help her if you wish, its none of your fucking business

Let her take the education loan before you marry her, and when you do, ensure she's doesn't take any loan, then you are safe bro

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by BBM: 5:51pm On Jul 21, 2019
She they wine you jare. She is not owning any money

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by falopey: 5:52pm On Jul 21, 2019
Technically, you are going into slavery serving the lady to pay up her loan. With all other financial responsibilities in the US, that kind of student loan can take decades to offset if care is not taken
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Obosiland: 5:52pm On Jul 21, 2019
Greek gift open your eyes,ears and mouth biko

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Flier: 5:52pm On Jul 21, 2019
Pack your things and leave,she is going to pay her loan they are not Nigerian women
Beside the money isn’t much, she is going to get a job and pay it herself,you could even divorce her and move on if you are not satisfied and I am sure you won’t pay a cent out of the loan during divorce since she acquired it before you got married
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by omobaba1759: 5:53pm On Jul 21, 2019
Yanga sit down you go wake am . There are plenty akata online looking for something serious.
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by B1ak3: 5:53pm On Jul 21, 2019
Oga u don't need to pay her loan. You are only obligated to pay any loan taken while both of you are married.
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Geenosko: 5:53pm On Jul 21, 2019
Blastedholligan:
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.

Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.

Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.

My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.

Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.

Pardon my scattered words.



You bear no responsibility for her debts

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by DarlingEmojist(m): 5:54pm On Jul 21, 2019
Wait!! Are you indirectly Mocking we Nigerians or Whining us?
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Adukpe19(m): 5:54pm On Jul 21, 2019
Wetin bring Buhari for this matter?
lastempero:
Keep marrying Buhari,akata is better than marrying Buhari.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Jokkarm2: 5:55pm On Jul 21, 2019
Oga even if na one million dollar debt please just enter plane run comot here. Me I dee work dee earn 80k still not funny at allllll

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jul 21, 2019
Blastedholligan:
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.

Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.

Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.

My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.

Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.

Pardon my scattered words.

My guy, run for ur life!!! Akata will enslave you ooh.. keep looking. But make sure its a nigerian or african girl that resides over there. Run ooo.. run!!
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by lastempero: 5:56pm On Jul 21, 2019
Adukpe19:
Wetin bring Buhari for this matter?

He raped Nigeria.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by lakesider(m): 5:57pm On Jul 21, 2019
Flier:
Pack your things and leave,she is going to pay her loan they are not Nigerian women
Beside the money isn’t much, she is going to get a job and pay it herself,you could even divorce her and move on if you are not satisfied and I am sure you won’t pay a cent out of the loan during divorce since she acquired it before you got married

LoL
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by chukwuibuipob: 5:57pm On Jul 21, 2019
sad dnt allow Satan to fill ur eardrum with Spirit of deaf N Dumb.U have sincere/open lady.Who told u dat she won't pay up her debt? Dnt let diz opportunity slip from U.Wen u get there,(by His Grace.I pray for ur open door) .U'll work and assist her to pay part of d debt(to show appreciation) .Dnt listen to those shouting SLAVES. God didn't created u a slave.Block ur ears to NEGATIVE pipu..GO FOR IT

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by uuzba(m): 5:58pm On Jul 21, 2019
Blastedholligan:
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.

Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.

Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.

My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.

Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.

Pardon my scattered words.
H
She's getting along with you because she is in need.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jul 21, 2019
I am in this guy shoes just that mine wants my baby first before marriage and she is a Nigerian-British.. told me if i dont make moves in 3 or 4 years time about meeting her dad who resides in France and about her proposal of impregnating her first then she will dump me if she sees i am playing around not serious with out. She is based in UK.. I have thought about it all. I am leaving once i am done with school nextyear and well i am aware of child support so i am signing in for this shît. smiley

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by lagdmark(m): 5:59pm On Jul 21, 2019
RDPMAN:
You think oyinbo women are like the black woman, she doesn't need you to pay her loan, how much do you have, after her course she will get a better paid job and the loan will be removed in her salary ... Common, leave the fucking country.
Poor man's idea, everything is so sweet and easy outside the country

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 21, 2019
cenaman:
Bros u no dey go anywhere who una wan live this country for if everybody travel go yankee? we die here together.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Blastedholligan: 6:00pm On Jul 21, 2019
prettyynx:
Firstly, you do not have to pay for her debts, its a loan of a life time and most of them do not pay it all back during their life time.

now your concerns should be

1) how to fund your schooling over there
2) can you actually live with an akata with one kid, think about this one very deeply, itas easier said than done.
3) are you ready to be a bread winner cos thats what your signing up for although its going to be 50/50

FYI, if you eventually make it over there with the right papers, you will get a job that will cater for your family in naija properly. Plus your generations will always have dual citizenship which is a gift to any child .

Thanks alot for your input, but I wish to ask; what are the dangers of living with an akata with a kid? Any issue involved? And how do I get these right papers with and without her help? I just wanna weigh my options to see what I can do here.
Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by babzo(m): 6:01pm On Jul 21, 2019
See this oga.
You think its Nigeria .
EVERYONE in America has or had one big debt or the other.
The Obamas had debts, Trump had and still has debts.
Debt is how that country progresses. If you dont pay, not only can't you progress, you wont even get a good job.
Infact without having credit card debt, you cant get a good job because most employers check credit score now and to have a good credit score you must have at least one debt.
Whats bad is when you dont pay.
The average American has a Credit Score of over 630 which is ok.
Fair is 650 and above.
Good is 700+
Excellent is above that.

Even the millionaires have debt, they all pay mortgage on their homes including Tiger Woods and Magic Johnson and Tom Brady.

The whole idea is that government doesn't want you to have to save all your life before buying the good things of life.

The average 23 to 30 year old already can buy a brand new car and house worth N100 million naira.

There is nothing bad in debt, whats bad is not paying or borrowing more than your capacity.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Adukpe19(m): 6:02pm On Jul 21, 2019
R u serious!!!
lastempero:


He raped Nigeria.

Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by tiger28: 6:03pm On Jul 21, 2019
bisi16:
You want to enslave yourself bro? $150k no be here o! Also bear in mind women change after marriage. She’ll surely change for the worse. Use your upper!
did your mother CHANGE after she married your father? All these children of NL

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Ajixegun: 6:03pm On Jul 21, 2019
RDPMAN:
You think oyinbo women are like the black woman, she doesn't need you to pay her loan, how much do you have, after her course she will get a better paid job and the loan will be removed in her salary ... Common, leave the fucking country.
Akata means Africa-American not white ones, and Akatas are usually stubborn just like our women.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Ugosample(m): 6:04pm On Jul 21, 2019
GogobiriLalas:
Don't do it bro! Flee the Harlot, do you think she's a catch that's why she's looking for some mumu African to marry her? No sane man marries an American woman, not to talk of one with a child and debts, don't let anyone use coming to America to induce you into slavery, believe me, America is not that great.


what is this olodo saying bikonu?

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by bizhop01: 6:04pm On Jul 21, 2019
Funy people with chicken mind full nairaland no one is ready here to take risk but the all pray for change,
No Risk No Gain.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by grandstar(m): 6:04pm On Jul 21, 2019
Blastedholligan:
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.

Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.

Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.

My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.

Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.

Pardon my scattered words.


I admire your honesty. I doff my hat to you

Be honest with her. Let her know you're worried about your financial future, fearful of the loans she is taken that you'll be compelled to pick up the bill if it isn't paid. Tell her about your family that you feel obligated to help them out and that a huge financial burden may jeopardise that.

Let her know that a poor financial footing is not a good foundation to start a marriage and money problems are one of the prime reasons marriages suffer shipwreck. Let her know you do not want a separation or a divorce. That once in, you're in for life.

Let her know you don't want to use her to get a green card and that's why you're being open with her. That it maybe wise both of you call it quit.

I also advise you to obtain that digital marketing skill. It will bring a lot of financial succour to you.

Tell her to sleep over it.

She'll get back to you and both of you will jaw jaw until you find a working solution.

Please flee from adultery. It ruins marriages. And worse, the American court can rip you of all you have to give to your wife even if she's the one at fault.

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Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by DanniBozz(m): 6:05pm On Jul 21, 2019
Americans don't think like Nigerians and their woman hardly depend on guys for money. You are the only one thinking you will have to repay loan for her and I bet you she doesn't even see doing that in the near future except it's what you decide to do by your own self which normally they don't like guys doing such for them. Don't be surprised that even with her loan she can still feed and cloth you wella knowing fully well you are from the poorest country in the world the way they see it. If you have the opportunity to go I will advise you go so that your mentality will also change.

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