ebonyggurl:
So I have read many threads here in which men keep mentioning the fact that women usually have an age limit at which they ought to have gotten married (usually 25-30) and that men can keep playing the field till they are 40 (someone even said 50 lmfao) without feeling any pressure because apparently they are sexually agile for most of their lifetime (or fresh till 100 as said by ubunja ). But is this really true? That only women's bodies age sexually? you guessed it mate, NO it isn't. Mens' bodies do in fact go through several changes sexually as they mature. So the purpose of this thread to enlighten our deluded "alfa meils".


One thing doesn’t change, older men’s—and women’s—ability to enjoy erotic pleasure. But with age, sex changes. It becomes less like the Fourth of July, and more like Thanksgiving. However, even without exploding fireworks, the erotic flames can still burn hot and bright—if older men adjust to the changes aging brings, and if women involved with older men understand what’s happening to their lovers.


When does a man become sexually “older?” It varies, but usually between 45 and 50. A medically problematic lifestyle, for example, smoking, typically accelerates the changes, and a healthy lifestyle may postpone them, but even men in robust health with exemplary lifestyles experience age-related sexual changes. Depending on the man, the changes may develop gradually or surprisingly suddenly, like within six months.

1. Erections become iffy.

After 45 and certainly by 50, erections rise more slowly and become less firm and reliable. Sexual fantasies are no longer enough to raise one. Men need handling, and as they grow older, often increasing amounts of more vigorous stroking. It’s disconcerting to lose firmness and suffer wilting from minor distractions—a phone ringing—but these changes are normal. Unfortunately, many men mistake them for erectile dysfunction (ED) and become anxious that they're nearing the end of the erotic ropes. This makes things worse. Anxiety constricts the arteries that carry blood into the penis, making erections even less likely.

2. Premature ejaculation (PE) may return.

PE is usually considered a young man’s problem, the result of over-excitement in young bucks starting to rut. But the landmark University of Chicago “Sex in America” study shows that many men—about one-third—report it throughout the lifespan, meaning that PE is men’s most common, most persistent sex problem. A recent scientifically rigorous survey shows that PE affects 31 percent of men in their fifties, 30 percent in their early sixties, 28 percent from 65 to 70, and 22 percent from 75 to 85.
The reason PE sometimes returns after 50 is that age-related erection changes make men anxious: Will I get hard? Will I stay hard? What the @#$% is happening to me?


3. Intercourse fades from the sexual menu.

Intercourse is fundamental to reproduction, but after the reproductive years, it becomes problematic. For older men, iffy erections and ED become increasingly prevalent. When they can't get it up anymore especially without depending on performance drugs, they tend to just relegate sex to the background.



5. Men's sexual pace becomes much like a woman's. Metabolism rate in older men is slower than in women, so they tend to gain a lot of weight. If you do your research you'll find out that weight gain has effects on older peoples' sex life.

And let's not forget that men younger than 40 have a better chance of fathering a child than those older than 40. The quality of the sperm men produce seems to decline as they get older. Most men make millions of new sperm every day, but men older than 40 have fewer healthy sperm than younger men.

So dear "alfa meils" by all means keep chopping and cleaning your mouth, keep age shaming women, keep deluding yourself that you will remain fresh and agile till you are 50, na your body go tell you

ubunja:
Regina Daniels married a man old enough to be her grandfather. If Regina was the grandmother would a 19 yr old boy have married her?

ebonyggurl:


Lmao. So what should we call the Nigerian "alfa meils" who marry their white grandmothers for the green card?

PUSSYHOE:
Kai ladies and competition and jealousy, this slowpoke is arguing with biology just to prove not only women expire. ofcourse both gender expire women quicker.

catwalq:
NL guys don awaken all the sleeping tigers in the women. See countering everywhere

A theory of Karl Marx comes to mind..

ubunja:
repeat after me, "Marry for the.... GREEN CARD".

Is that happening in Nigeria?

ebonyggurl:


Lmao. So what should we call the Nigerian "alfa meils" who marry their white grandmothers for the green card?

ebonyggurl:



You asked if a 19 year old would marry Regina if she were the grandmother. If young men get the chance to marry a woman as old and rich as Ned Nwoko, believe me they will

ubunja:
actually for the first time they're fearing for their position as Angels and Queens.


[s][/s]the Alpha Male concept is giving you sleepless nights.[s][/s]

Martinez39:
Off point reply. You can do better than this. Oh wait, you are a woman hence I won't really expect much from you intellectually on this issue.

ebonyggurl:


I don't have time to engage misogynistic re.tards like you.

ubunja:
so now it's "Believe me?" are you Jesus?

we can't rely on your beliefs.


oh, and since you're as empty as a tin, this is the last time I'm replying to your brainless thread

ebonyggurl:

Haha brainless thread indeed. In your future miseducations when you are advising men on ways to chop and clean mouth continuously, pls do well to tell them they have a limited amount time to chop and clean mouth cos age is also catching up with them. Cheers.

catwalq:


On the contrary, Alpha Meil is a cry for help and attention. Cries of the Manipulated Man

ubunja:
Regina Daniels married a man old enough to be her grandfather. If Regina was the grandmother would a 19 yr old boy have married her?

catwalq:


I can't read you sir.. Cat got your fingers?

catwalq:

I can't read you sir.. Cat got your fingers?

ubunja:
Nigerian women will even argue with God Himself.

Martinez39:
The feeling is mutual. I have learnt from experience that when it comes to relationship issues, gender issues and roles, women's right/equality and other related issues, a woman, with her self-serving logic, is not worth arguing with expect one wants to waste one's time and put up with crap. From your op, you are full of crap.

Paxie55:
Alfa male kor.

Please, if you should be an online alfa male, make sure you have money to stand in real life. Cos out There, if you don't have money, you ain't shit, both men and women will look down on you.

The strength you use in proving you are an online alfa male can be channelled into something productive in reality.


I hate poor men.

catwalq:
NL guys don awaken all the sleeping tigers in the women. See countering everywhere

A theory of Karl Marx comes to mind..

Martinez39:
My lovely sperm toilet(no slut shaming intended) shaming is outdated, you know? Can you come up with something better, please?

PUSSYHOE:
When have women sleep? Men go to work, think how solve problems, event things what do you do think of dresses, make up, how to increase butt and boobs, how to manipulate,lie and dig his money/resources. It should be the other way around but your vagina (emotions) always blind you from the truth.

MariaLavina:
Lol Alpha male no dey Nl nah, I've met two and I hardly see them ranting on social media. You don't see them making noise or calling themselves alphas, people accord them that title after seeing the characteristics in them.

What we have here on Nl are crying babies, and they are given too much attention.