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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by grandstar(m): 3:05pm On Aug 07, 2019

phidipe:
Hello pals.

Please i need your honest and sincere advice advice please and i will be very happy if you help me out of this silent desire of mine. i attend a church with this woman. She is a lecturer and a widow. She lost her husband some years back and she has two beautiful children a girl and a boy. since i started worshiping in this church my desire is always towards her most of the time i will be staring at her she knows am always do that.

Sometime she will lock her eyes with mine she is older than me a Phd holder and working in a federal university. Please it seems i like this woman. but i don;t want to mess up myself and get disgraced. So please how do get my intention known to her, i asked the Pastor about the pastor said she is free and seriously needs a companion but my pastor is not someone to discuses the intention with from my observation he is not good in that aspect.

So please my fellow nairalander help me out please i am dying in silence, i am not married but i have kids from a woman that has remarried she left when i have nothing then. I am of age too but not as old as her Honest advice please

There's this joke I want to share with yo:

There was this guy who loved a certain lady so much but too shy to approach her. She was his crush.

Every morning he never failed to observe the lady running off too work. He was madly in love with her but never signified his interest. This had been going on for months.

Then one morning , while peeping as she went to work, a guy greets her, gives her a big hug and kissed her on the cheek.

This so imitates her secret admirer that he ran down the stairs, went to where she and he gave her a dirty slap and said, "How dare you cheat on me!".

Oga, feeling shy is normal and it can be worsened when we have a strong crush on a person. I'm not the most confident person my self.

Knowledge can help you overcome your fears.

If the woman is older than you and has 2 kids, she already knows that you're deeply attracted to her. Women can sense this, especially at that age. Women are quite good at reading cues, both obvious and the subtle.

As a widow, she'll like a man worthy of marrying her. You love her despite her having 2 kids. That's very noble of you. Go and meet her and tell her your intentions. She's bound to blush, be flattered and probably say she'll think about it. She'll try and mask her attraction.

At your next church service, she'll dress so beautifully. Why? She's in love with you.

The father of one of my classmates in secondary school married a widow who already had 2 children. They were his seniors.

Ibrahimovich's wife is at least 7 years older than him. Cesc Fabregas wife is at least 10 years younger than his wife. Love is love.

Wish you the best

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by ubunja(m): 3:05pm On Aug 07, 2019

NkayStory:
Dude,Go and change your adult pampers and stop polluting this thread .

Your boyfriends are waiting for one more round this afternoon.

another angry one. Join the queue.

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Jobminister: 3:05pm On Aug 07, 2019

you go to church to be looking at women,

Continue, you will soon get what you are looking for.

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by ubunja(m): 3:07pm On Aug 07, 2019

millionboi2:
some so called 1st hand done open pass river niger

not if a virgin

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Davash222(m): 3:07pm On Aug 07, 2019

NkayStory:
You have not seen anything in this life,thats why you are prowling around this forum puffing your small shoulders for your fellow guys to admire and applaud

Life will humble and re-set your brain in the harshest way possible...it is a matter of time

Wow. I'm impressed. I'm glad to have a fan here.

You've earned yourself a recognition. You're making it the second person I'll Follow here. Bravo.

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by mizzytan(m): 3:08pm On Aug 07, 2019

The nerve of this guy. How dare you describe women as if they were goods? Damn you!

Chukalemon:
Guy just tell me, tell me guy,I really want to know,what is it you really want from that second hand woman,ok just tell me,nah money you want or shebi nah sexual satisfaction which one.please mind you am not jealous of you ooo.

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by toprealman: 3:10pm On Aug 07, 2019

phidipe:
Hello pals.

Please i need your honest and sincere advice advice please and i will be very happy if you help me out of this silent desire of mine. i attend a church with this woman. She is a lecturer and a widow. She lost her husband some years back and she has two beautiful children a girl and a boy. since i started worshiping in this church my desire is always towards her most of the time i will be staring at her she knows am always do that.

Sometime she will lock her eyes with mine she is older than me a Phd holder and working in a federal university. Please it seems i like this woman. but i don;t want to mess up myself and get disgraced. So please how do get my intention known to her, i asked the Pastor about the pastor said she is free and seriously needs a companion but my pastor is not someone to discuses the intention with from my observation he is not good in that aspect.

So please my fellow nairalander help me out please i am dying in silence, i am not married but i have kids from a woman that has remarried she left when i have nothing then. I am of age too but not as old as her Honest advice please

Hope you are bringing something to the table. You are sounding like this a mega catch for you.......hope this is love

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by ubunja(m): 3:11pm On Aug 07, 2019

mizzytan:
The nerve of this guy. How dare you describe women as if they were goods? Damn you!

women are goods you don't know? That's why we buy you with bride price. Get over it

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:12pm On Aug 07, 2019

ubunja:
get angry girl. This is nothing. You will feel the hurt in places you didn't know you had places.

You don't get it do you, I'm not angry, I'm elated that you wail continuously becos of us, continue boy.

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by ubunja(m): 3:12pm On Aug 07, 2019

victorian:
If most men can behave like this to most ladies they meet and not waste Someone's time fuxckin forever and not committing. Won't life be a better place?
That's why anyman coming way with sex intentions?

I simply show him the door.

Mo Raye oshi.

Thanks for the tips. I just hope the op is not staring and obsessed with her just to mess her up, and leave her pregnant to another victim

as if you're a virgin

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by IMASTEX: 3:14pm On Aug 07, 2019

Davash222:
Sorry, I'm not a MOD here. I think you made a mistake.

Yes I know. The remarks were for you & the other two I mentioned. You guys were engaging in the batching far from the ops request. I only reference you.

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by ubunja(m): 3:15pm On Aug 07, 2019

Fountainofyouth:
You don't get it do you, I'm not angry, I'm elated that you wail continuously becos of us, continue.

how I laugh at your pain. Sit and wait and when I release you'll do like you usually do- read my writeups in guest mode. Hurt being

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Icon79(m): 3:15pm On Aug 07, 2019

So in your church, the guys are free to approach your pastor to discuss hookups, eh? What kinda church do you attend? What kinda pastor is he huh

#EndTimePastors shocked

O pari

phidipe:
Hello pals.

Please i need your honest and sincere advice advice please and i will be very happy if you help me out of this silent desire of mine. i attend a church with this woman. She is a lecturer and a widow. She lost her husband some years back and she has two beautiful children a girl and a boy. since i started worshiping in this church my desire is always towards her most of the time i will be staring at her she knows am always do that.

Sometime she will lock her eyes with mine she is older than me a Phd holder and working in a federal university. Please it seems i like this woman. but i don;t want to mess up myself and get disgraced. So please how do get my intention known to her, i asked the Pastor about the pastor said she is free and seriously needs a companion but my pastor is not someone to discuses the intention with from my observation he is not good in that aspect.

So please my fellow nairalander help me out please i am dying in silence, i am not married but i have kids from a woman that has remarried she left when i have nothing then. I am of age too but not as old as her Honest advice please

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Davash222(m): 3:17pm On Aug 07, 2019

IMASTEX:
Yes I know. The remarks were for you & the other two I mentioned. You guys were engaging in the batching far from the ops request. I only reference you.

I don't know what you're talking about, Sir!!

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Icon79(m): 3:20pm On Aug 07, 2019

Yes.

Are you a gold mine?

O pari

pflourish:
You refused to mentioned your own status as an individual, Are you a gold digger?

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by VULCAN(m): 3:22pm On Aug 07, 2019

You deserve 6 Heineken grin

OP is a weak man. Too insecure to start or even maintain the relationship.

One thing I can tell you about older women who are comfortable. They are attracted to confident younger men. Not sleazy, confident.

What does it cost him to say hello and get closer to the woman and her kids. From drawing closer you may discover traits that will turn you off. Or on the other hand, both of you may fall in love.

I don't advise the OP to go further cos this insecurity will spring up in the relationship. Once she doesn't pick his call he will start imagining all sorts.

Older women need confident secure men

HBB1:
Single mothers and widows ( older women generally) are usually not difficult to 'toast.'

They are mature, usually comfortable and don't have much drama. They know what they want (companionship, sex or marriage) and they can tell what you want too-- from a mile away.

I have been given green light or chased severally by them and I have to say I enjoy their company.

I don't know what the OP wants again o, maybe he wants the Pastor to do the toasting, as the slacker he is.

OP se shoosi deeper life lo n lo ni?! (Are you a deeper life member?)

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by mrsheddy(m): 3:28pm On Aug 07, 2019

Someone once told me that before you ask a widow out, first and

foremost ask her what killed her husband.

Just in case.

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by VULCAN(m): 3:32pm On Aug 07, 2019

Children have invaded this thread.

A widow who attends a church should be matchmaked by a Sango worshipper shey?

If she doesn't marry a churchmember she should marry an Imam abi?

Nonsense!!

Icon79:
So in your church, the guys are free to approach your pastor to discuss hookups, eh? What kinda church do you attend? What kinda pastor is he

#EndTimePastors

O pari

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by tigerclaws: 3:38pm On Aug 07, 2019

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GeneralPula:
Single mothers been eyeing me recently & im still a very young dude! Ive never smash Ages 25 upward girls before. I only roll with young lads! However some of them mamas are still very young & nice looking. I’m Still holding myself but I don’t know if I should catch my cruise or I should just let them be? I no dey really like to dull myself so I actually wanna know if it’s not so bad to be smashing them?

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Duggedised12(f): 3:43pm On Aug 07, 2019

BORN2RULE20:
CAN'T PEOPLE STAY WITHOUT EACH OTHER?

MEN STAY WITHOUT WOMEN

WOMEN STAY WITHOUT MEN,

IS THAT TOO HARD TO DO?

this world was made for men and women ,if your father had this mentality you would not even exist

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by maasoap(m): 3:44pm On Aug 07, 2019

rowland545:
Di's op is a gold digger ....is she d only widow in d church ... y must u go for d rich one

Anyway get her number from your pastor then send her porn videos and ur nude pix....sit relax and watch d magic.....u can thank me now

Must he go for the poor one? If he likes the rich one, you can go for the poor one, no quarrel

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by CArt(m): 3:46pm On Aug 07, 2019

ubunja:
Go get yourself a fresh one. Leave secondhand goods

The older,the sweeter. Let him follow his love.
Fresh one could bring his downfall.

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by ubunja(m): 3:51pm On Aug 07, 2019

CArt:
The older,the sweeter. Let him follow his love.
Fresh one could bring his downfall.

better fall cause of fresh pussy than enter heaven cause of ancient pussy

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by ubunja(m): 3:52pm On Aug 07, 2019

Fountainofyouth:
You don't get it do you, I'm not angry, I'm elated that you wail continuously becos of us, continue boy.

people go mad over internet articles. It's too funny. Get well soonest

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Aug 07, 2019

Davash222:
I’m yet to buy a car, but, the day I will buy, I must buy tear rubber!!

On a consideration, I may buy Tokunbo, direct from USA. But as for Nigerian used, God forbid!!

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Icon79(m): 3:53pm On Aug 07, 2019

Please go and read the thread again. This time, try to read between the lines.

The op isn't seeking a life partner, at least, not from the get go. Right now, what he's interested in is a hookup. If you're looking for a wife in the church, there's a process. Trust me on that one … been there done that!

O pari

VULCAN:
Children have invaded this thread.

A widow who attends a church should be matchmaked by a Sango worshipper shey?

If she doesn't marry a churchmember she should marry an Imam abi?

Nonsense!!

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by BigIyanga: 3:56pm On Aug 07, 2019

Hustler for a paycheck.. the only attribute you highlighted is her job... Looking for that security. Good luck

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by Boyooosa(m): 4:11pm On Aug 07, 2019

first find out what killed her husband

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by edunaragold(f): 4:14pm On Aug 07, 2019

if u want to date that lady,simple ,just keep buying candy or something nice for her kids

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Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by edunaragold(f): 4:16pm On Aug 07, 2019

Boyooosa:
first find out what killed her husband

must u find out what killed the husband,�� ,well u are correct oo,make same thing nor go kill u

Re: How Do I Approach A Widow? by victorian(f): 4:20pm On Aug 07, 2019

ubunja:
as if you're a virgin

Shut da fck up!

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