phidipe:
Hello pals.

Please i need your honest and sincere advice advice please and i will be very happy if you help me out of this silent desire of mine. i attend a church with this woman. She is a lecturer and a widow. She lost her husband some years back and she has two beautiful children a girl and a boy. since i started worshiping in this church my desire is always towards her most of the time i will be staring at her she knows am always do that.rried she left when i have nothing then. I am of age too but not as old as her Honest advice please

kaima1984:
Gone are d days when pussy is wide open after child birth my dear,there are thousand and one products out there for that,how was your day?

ubunja:
Go get yourself a fresh one. Leave secondhand goods

phidipe:
Hello pals.

Please i need your honest and sincere advice advice please and i will be very happy if you help me out of this silent desire of mine. i attend a church with this woman. She is a lecturer and a widow. She lost her husband some years back and she has two beautiful children a girl and a boy. since i started worshiping in this church my desire is always towards her most of the time i will be staring at her she knows am always do that.

Sometime she will lock her eyes with mine she is older than me a Phd holder and working in a federal university. Please it seems i like this woman. but i don;t want to mess up myself and get disgraced. So please how do get my intention known to her, i asked the Pastor about the pastor said she is free and seriously needs a companion but my pastor is not someone to discuses the intention with from my observation he is not good in that aspect.

So please my fellow nairalander help me out please i am dying in silence, i am not married but i have kids from a woman that has remarried she left when i have nothing then. I am of age too but not as old as her Honest advice please

ubunja:
apparently they're not working cause men are still avoiding single mothers.

midolian:
Nothing wey Amaka no go hear for salon...

You asked your pastor, he said she is free and seriously needs companion and you are still thinking your pastor is not the right person to discuss your intentions with cos he is not good in that aspect?..who told you he is not good in that aspect? Or what more do you need to say before the pastor will understand you want to have sex and make more babies with the widow?

I am not mocking your situation o! but man, you never ready. If you are ready, with all what you have narrated here, the woman knows you are "cumming" and has been expecting you...Don't be like Atiku who has failed to "cum" for a long time now...

Take your shot...worst case scenario, she go tell you say she no do...I won't advise you to go for a fresh babe as I will be spoiling market for the widow who must have been calling on God to send her a 'helper'..

kaima1984:
it's 98% effective,men are avoiding single mom's because they are afraid of raising someone's child

enemyofprogress:
second hand babe too dey sweet o, they've been tested and confirmed

RoseyJ:


you have refused to reply my e-mails so tell me: of all the 2m+ people on NL, you chose to follow just one, and this person is following scores and not just you. Why? who is she to you? And do you know her personally?

RoseyJ:


what if you only got to know she had a child after you have gone far with the rtionship with her?

galadima77:

Come my oga, Wetin you get with 'cum' sef?

Davash222:
Okay. Now, let’s talk about Nigerian used old newspaper.
It’s worthless, used mainly to wrap corn and suya.

backbone503:


Love transcends all.

kaima1984:
Gone are d days when pussy is wide open after child birth my dear,there are thousand and one products out there for that,how was your day?

ubunja:
if that was true them men would be chasing older single mamas with grown children.

You really are clueless

MarianaTrench:


You're the one who's clueless

ubunja:
if that was true them men would be chasing older single mamas with grown children.

You really are clueless

kaima1984:
Who says they don't do that?indeed you are an archaic dude for not knowing what is invoke.

phidipe:
Hello pals.

Please i need your honest and sincere advice advice please and i will be very happy if you help me out of this silent desire of mine. i attend a church with this woman. She is a lecturer and a widow. She lost her husband some years back and she has two beautiful children a girl and a boy. since i started worshiping in this church my desire is always towards her most of the time i will be staring at her she knows am always do that.

Sometime she will lock her eyes with mine she is older than me a Phd holder and working in a federal university. Please it seems i like this woman. but i don;t want to mess up myself and get disgraced. So please how do get my intention known to her, i asked the Pastor about the pastor said she is free and seriously needs a companion but my pastor is not someone to discuses the intention with from my observation he is not good in that aspect.

So please my fellow nairalander help me out please i am dying in silence, i am not married but i have kids from a woman that has remarried she left when i have nothing then. I am of age too but not as old as her Honest advice please

grandstar:


There's this joke I want to share with yo:

There was this guy who loved a certain lady so much but too shy to approach her. She was his crush.

Every morning he never failed to observe the lady running off too work. He was madly in love with her but never signified his interest. This had been going on for months.

Then one morning , while peeping as she went to work, a guy greets her, gives her a big hug and kissed her on the cheek.

This so imitates her secret admirer that he ran down the stairs, went to where she and he gave her a dirty slap and said, "How dare you cheat on me!".

Oga, feeling shy is normal and it can be worsened when we have a strong crush on a person. I'm not the most confident person my self.

Knowledge can help you overcome your fears.

If the woman is older than you and has 2 kids, she already knows that you're deeply attracted to her. Women can sense this, especially at that age. Women are quite good at reading cues, both obvious and the subtle.

As a widow, she'll like a man worthy of marrying her. You love her despite her having 2 kids. That's very noble of you. Go and meet her and tell her your intentions. She's bound to blush, be flattered and probably say she'll think about it. She'll try and mask her attraction.

At your next church service, she'll dress so beautifully. Why? She's in love with you.

The father of one of my classmates in secondary school married a widow who already had 2 children. They were his seniors.

Ibrahimovich's wife is at least 7 years older than him. Cesc Fabregas wife is at least 10 years younger than his wife. Love is love.

Wish you the best

ubunja:
as if you're a virgin

kaima1984:
it's 98% effective,men are avoiding single mom's because they are afraid of raising someone's child

RoseyJ:


who is your kindof girl?

luvyaself95:
African are always concern about age especially if a man married older woman any small thing you will hear don't you know am like your sister so behave punctually with me...