Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.

I'm not against you OP but I want to ask some important questions.

What if the said lady is toxic?
What if she's a problem to the guy?
What if she's unmarriageable?
What if she is a chronic cheat?
What if she is the person not ready for the guy?

Would you advise your brother or even yourself to marry such a lady after having a child for you before or after marriage?

Did you ask yourself these questions before you wrote your note?

single mothers! Only about 40% are truly,committer ok,the rest 60% are useless,prostitute,thieves.Some are demon in nature.Don't force me to open up about someone here biko

Please, open up but censor the persons name.

eleko1:
single mothers! Only about 40% are truly,committer ok,the rest 60% are useless,prostitute,thieves.Some are demon in nature.Don't force me to open up about someone here biko

Pascopele:
Please, open up but censor the persons name.

She's a Nairalander. A fellow Nairalander warned peepz to becareful of her.I decided to play along with her and truly, the guy dat warned pipu about her type was rite.I won't disclose her moniker

I am not asking for the monicker, share your experience, let others learn without mentioning her name

eleko1:
She's a Nairalander. A fellow Nairalander warned peepz to becareful of her.I decided to play along with her and truly, the guy dat warned pipu about her type was rite.I won't disclose her moniker

Everyone has a reason for leaving Both male and female If you don't know the story ,you might be judging wrongly .

Single mothers are losers

eleko1:
single mothers! Only about 40% are truly,committer ok,the rest 60% are useless,prostitute,thieves.Some are demon in nature.Don't force me to open up about someone here biko

40% is way to big..
for me 25% manageable.. even the 5% inside sef, there head dey skip

Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.

Have you heard of Baby Rabies Op, You think guys are the problem right??

ubunja:
Single mothers are losers

grow up. As a man you would come out complaining about your responsibilities even with a female helper as a wife. Well single mother out there shoulder it alone.

united442:


40% is way to big..
for me 25% manageable.. even the 5% inside sef, there head dey skip

Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.

This must surely be a Nigerian men and women thing. Most women in contemporary societies know that the decision to get pregnant or stay pregnant lies solely with them.
My point being,a woman like me would only ever get pregnant when i want to and if I do then the nigga wants to flake on me, well that's his loss.

Blackivy27:
grow up. As a man you would come out complaining about your responsibilities even with a female helper as a wife. Well single mother out there shoulder it alone.

single mothers are losers

Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

Leave ubunja out of your sophistry. Single mothers raise weak men and it is never a good idea to marry a single mother and train her child(ren). Marrying a single mother is like continuing someone's saved game from where they stopped.

you(woman) collect my money finish, I carry you to shoprite, buy Gucci for you, buy Ferrari for you, buy human head for you, buy the whole world for you, but at the end of the day, I cannot give you belle?

if I slap you ehn?

the cane that angel Gabriel wants to use to beat you is still being soaked inside hot boiling simmering pepper!!!!

Martinez39:
Leave ubunja out of your sophistry. Single mothers raise weak men and it is never a good idea to marry a single mother and train her child(ren). Marrying a single mother is like continuing someone's saved game from where they stopped.

imagine!! Who in this day and age even thinks single motherhood deserves glory?

Those are brainless hoes

ubunja:
imagine!! Who in this day and age even thinks single motherhood deserves glory?

Those are brainless hoes

single fatherhood deserves all the glory I guess... what do I know?

Mystic2019:
single fatherhood deserves all the glory I guess... what do I know?

yes sir.

That's how it is.

You get it.

ubunja:
yes sir.

That's how it is.

You get it.

lol..Ubunja this, Ubunja that. Used to think you were sensible...hahahaha. I'm disappointed! BTW, it's "ma".

Mystic2019:
lol..Ubunja this, Ubunja that. Used to think you were sensible...hahahaha. I'm disappointed! BTW, it's "ma".

me and sense are East and West. We don't meet. So stay away.

ubunja:
imagine!! Who in this day and age even thinks single motherhood deserves glory?

Those are brainless hoes

Don't mind them. To show the hypocrisy, why don't these bimbos ever praise single fathers if they really thought single parenthood is the stuff of bravery? Why should a single parent be seen as brave as if he/she was forced to have sex to give birth? If single parents do not take care of their kids, who will? Beside, it's their responsibility to do so and no one deserves a trophy for fulfilling their responsibilities.

Funny how women always want undue privileges, praises and accolades for doing nothing. Very soon all girls will start saying "having a vagina is the bravest and toughest thing in the world". Already, many of them think that their presence in a relationship is worth something and compensates for the money and luxurious lifestyle their boyfriends give them. What bunch of weak losers.

Martinez39:
Don't mind them. To show the hypocrisy, why don't these bimbos ever praise single fathers if they really thought single parenthood is the stuff of bravery? Why should a single parent be seen as brave as if he/she was forced to have sex to give birth? If single parents do not take care of their kids, who will? Beside, it's their responsibility to do so and no one deserves a trophy for fulfilling their responsibilities.

Funny how women always want undue privileges, praises and accolades for doing nothing. Very soon all girls will start saying "having a vagina is the bravest and toughest thing in the world". Already, many of them think that their presence in a relationship is worth something and compensates for the money and luxurious lifestyle their boyfriends give them. What bunch of weak losers.

I tell you. Very soon you gonna hear that rubbish.

Single Mothers tho.
Why must a woman who couldn't use any of the free dozen and plus contraception available and couldn't get pregnant for a responsible man be praised as a heroine.

During our ancestral age they were shamed for their immorality

ubunja:
me and sense are East and West. We don't meet. So stay away.

you didn't have to say this. I need no prophet to tell me. All your fans must be senseless too. What a shame. A single mom might be one whose husband/fiancé died. Common sense would've told anyone to stop generalizing. Several situations warrant such. Even before your response, I had made my conclusion. Lol.

Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.

Ok. Noted.

Mystic2019:
you didn't have to say this. I need no prophet to tell me. All your fans must be senseless too. What a shame. A single mom might be one whose husband/fiancé died. Common sense would've told anyone to stop generalizing. Several situations warrant such. Even before your response, I had made my conclusion. Lol.

yes. So walk away

The only single mothers I love and respect are those who lost their husbands or got divorced.

But you see all those ones that fvcked one dude and gave birth outside wedlock? I fvcking hate them. They fvcking disgust me. I'm never having anything serious to do with them, except to add to their misery.
Na me go clean another person mess? #spits

The only single mother I will marry if I see is a widow. I will love and treat her child (ren) as mine. I will love and treat her right.
Every other category of single mother is a complete turn off.

Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

its true
especially single mom of this present world/generation within the age of 25-30, not gone at the days wen ur mom was still fresh.

jst fix her within or inside the 25%..

united442:


its true
especially single mom of this present world/generation within the age of 25-30, not gone at the days wen ur mom was still fresh.

jst fix her within or inside the 25%..

She's in the 1%group. Its rare to see mums like her.

Mystic2019:
you didn't have to say this. I need no prophet to tell me. All your fans must be senseless too. What a shame. A single mom might be one whose husband/fiancé died. Common sense would've told anyone to stop generalizing. Several situations warrant such. Even before your response, I had made my conclusion. Lol.

.. You shouldn’t have replied him, d guy and his fans are just something else.
He think he knows it all but to me he knows nothing, I don’t just know what’s all the hype all about.

Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

technically speaking a widow is NOT a single mother.


Oh that's why people here get mad when I diss single mothers?

ubunja:
technically speaking a widow is NOT a single mother.


Oh that's why people here get mad when I diss single mothers?

Yep. Suh who's a single mum?