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Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Sinavaramini: 1:01am On Aug 22, 2019 |
My dear, pardon me to use the word "dear", I want to touch you, so you can have a rethink, about men. Anyway, your mum wasn't charmed but fell in love with a fraudster, you see, there is what you forget to consider, let me tell you, all your elder ones allowed you to be responsible for running the family, I tell you this, you mum saw that but won't tell you, all she tried to do was work towards making you all comfortable and happy but made the wrong choice. She was not charmed to answer your question, she was in a state of confusions considering her situation, lonely and had the devil come in as that low-life man. Please love your mum, don't resent, hate or feel bad, God is in control Enchantaurl: |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by mumaino(m): 1:01am On Aug 22, 2019 |
I think this is too much for your age, but trust me there are still good men out there, don’t let your experience becloud your judgement. I THINK WE SHOULD ALL SUPPORT HER LET EVERYONE JUST SEND WHATEVER THEY CAN THE POWER OF CROWDFUNDING CANNOT BE OVERESTIMATED |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by EbuGeneral(m): 1:05am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Enchantaurl: Stop blaming Men, blame your daft mum who lacked sense of reasoning. The man was a divorcee with numerous kids out of wedlock, who he doesn't take care of. She still went ahead to date the man. All these Kalabari/Ikwere men and women and there uselessness. Common sense should've told your mom or even you guys, why did this man not living with all these women he had children with? |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 1:15am On Aug 22, 2019 |
If your story is true, then : 1) You mum is a very stupid person who should be stripped naked and flogged in public. 2) Her boyfriend is an irresponsible and heartless human being. |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 1:18am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Venusman:This is a very stupid opinion . So because an adult cannot reason properly, a child should not go to school? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 1:20am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Enchantaurl:If your story is true, she deserves the resentment even though the resentment wouldn't solve a thing. I really feel for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by dochenaj: 1:20am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Excuzeme:I was thinking it was a strategy to beg online, but then she didn't get right to it immediately. Maybe she is playing the long game. While all she narrated could be true, I just couldn't get to believe that the banks are that naive to give a private businesswoman with no collateral a loan. I could be wrong but I don't think I am. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 1:30am On Aug 22, 2019 |
"How can a real human being be this stupid? Given the way women and money are, I find it difficult to believe that such financial stupidity will come from a woman. Anyway, life is hard and it's harder with stupidity." |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by budaatum: 1:30am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Enchantaurl:So jazzed you gave her 60k! I feel you. Be strong. You will one day tell us how you learnt from it, and grew. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by naturefellow(m): 1:43am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Wish you the best! |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 1:44am On Aug 22, 2019 |
cococandy:You always stand out, thanks to your feminist foolishness. Let's assume the op's story is true. So you mean her mum was stupid because she was brought up to believe "her successes and accomplishments mean nothing unless there’s a man attached to it to whom the credit can be given"? What about men that abandon their family because of some b!tch they heavily squander their money on? Are those men raised to believe "their successes and accomplishments mean nothing unless there’s a woman attached to it to whom the credit can be given"? Please, no one raises women that way. You invented that because, as a feminist, you are a specialist in manufacturing the societal and individual oppression and subjugation of the female gender from thin air. The mum was just too stupid and that stupidity is similar to the stupidity of people parting with their money because of the words and cunning of a prosperity preacher. Good day. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 1:48am On Aug 22, 2019 |
ednut1:I have problems believing Enchantaurl. A woman, as far as money is concerned, can't be this stupid? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by cococandy(f): 1:48am On Aug 22, 2019 |
It’s too complicated for your tiny brain Martinez39: 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by budaatum: 1:49am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Martinez39:Why blame feminism for her stupidity, 39? Did feminism make her invent and manufacture? |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Oem18(m): 1:56am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Keep insulting your late dad and you'll never move forward in life. Honour your father and your mother so that your days may be long in the land your God gives you. If a man slaps you on one cheek turn the other. If he has treated you and your mother unfairly take as the trials of life whatever doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Trust in God and forgive those who you think have offended you. They have played their own roles and have gone their own way , so also play your own role and go your own way 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by TerryMctola077(m): 1:58am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Your situation seems kinda similar to mine, it's not that anyone is jazzed by the way... My dad is also late, my dad's oldest brother took everything and in fact, out of six children, my dad who is the last born and everyone else among the children are dead except for the first born who seems to b taking everything regardless of how his siblings children will manage in life. Where I am trying to drive at is your mom who have made a lot of mistakes seems to have lost her mind (or in another sense, 'jazzed), and you have seen those mistakes and will have to learn from it in order not to end up like her. I believe you are gonna go places in this life and please, don't have a bad perception of men, there are other good men in this world... It's just that your mom met the wrong one and he took advantage of your mom's desperation to find love. That's all I wanna say. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 2:07am On Aug 22, 2019 |
cococandy:Your brain is tiny and well submerged in feminist foolishness. I am sure each time you breath, your brain reassures you of how women are oppressed and how men and society are the problem. You feminists in secular societies are destructive and hypocritical. Despite the fact that you people are free to go to school, choose any career, shape your destinies, and have rights just as men, you people are not satisfied and feel that you are still oppressed thereby more "rights" are needed. Despite the fact that society is gynocentric, it's still not enough. You guys can't even keep your doctrine of gender equality as you guys recoil when the harsh parts of equality comes. You guys only want the good parts of equality not the responsibility, accountability and consequences. If you feminists really care about women, how then do you sleep at night knowing fully well the hardship and oppression women in Islam countries face? How can you people ignore that and focus on men in secular societies who love women's rights and call them oppressors and misogynists. If you people really care about gender equality, why don't you vigorously attack the men hating and entitled toxic women who have now defined the feminist movement? Oops, you are all the same. If you people really care about both genders and rape victims, why do feminists always want to believe rape accusers and sweep due process under the carpet? How come there are a lot of women who are Muslims and feminists? Why are western feminists accepting of Islam? No man is oppressing you or subjugating you, if you choose to be a weak and inadequate assh0le with a victim mentality, that's your choice. 6 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by jclassiq(m): 2:08am On Aug 22, 2019 |
This is a typical case of where an adult person- who is expected to know better - selfishly doesn't realize how her stupid mistakes are going to affect others negatively. I have never been in this kind situation before but I totally empathize with you. I can feel the pain. And trust me, if this was my mum I would lambast her to the point where she will begin to regret her life and consider suicide... And I wouldn't even care because now I feel like I can totally live without her. Heck, she is in fact a burden to me with all those debts hanging on her neck. Your mother was just foolishly desperate to be loved and satisfied sexually - so much so that even relegated her beloved kids to the back seat beacuse of a man!!!! But instead of a good man she found a manipulative narcissist that desired to use and dump her. My dear.. You have to realize now that you are on your own o. Only God is your sponsor now. So you have to do everything out are doing with that mentality. So sorry pls. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Martinez39(m): 2:11am On Aug 22, 2019 |
budaatum:I know cococandy quite well to have made my statement. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by JobsandSchools: 2:16am On Aug 22, 2019 |
...lol |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by cococandy(f): 2:26am On Aug 22, 2019 |
The rants of a misogynist. Martinez39: 6 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by safarigirl(f): 2:30am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Acidosis:no be where person dey dem go see people? If she is surrounded by the creeks, it is the men from the creeks she will date. Abi, is she supposed to travel around the country looking for decent men? 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by safarigirl(f): 2:34am On Aug 22, 2019 |
jclassiq:exactly And people are here saying she shouldn't feel some level of resentment. The woman is the reason a teenager is staying away from home and hustling jobs, when she should be under the care of a responsible parent. I don't care how much you need love as an adult, it you have kids, they should be your priority and your selfishness should not come above their well-being. If OP was not a decent girl that understands the importance of hard work, it is very easy for a girl to be lured into all sorts of things at that age, especially in 100 level in the average Nigerian University. The mother didn't even realize all the dangers she put her own child in because she was looking for love in all the wrong places. I'm sorry, but I have no regard for parents that are too consumed with their own shitttt to see their children. Having kids means you don't get to be selfish anymore. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:34am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Venusman: What would you have had her do? Her mum is a freaking adult... and her mum! You can't control or forcefully influence such a person's decision. Good thing she gained admission quickly. |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by luminouz(m): 2:39am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Martinez39:Lmaoooo... Guy,you dey try o...all this epistle for that girl? Why do you even bother,when their offline realities are different from their online persona. The girl you quoted is married o, do you really think she talks to her husband in a feminist way? I have read your comments on this feminism stuff on several threads, my advice is try not to get 'triggered off' into e-brawling. Just be cool,say ur stuff. I like some of the points you always make. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by blackslayer: 2:42am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Yes....She was jazzed with a good dicking.....she is loving the john thomas in her life..... |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by BlueAir: 2:48am On Aug 22, 2019 |
bizza45:well said. ..she dramatically crushed my sympathy Make I pocket my sympathy and offer as a man 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by FunAngel5: 2:52am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by BlueAir: 2:53am On Aug 22, 2019 |
cococandy:boohoo .. flat his points not wail victim. I bet people just agree with u just to avoid u offline 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by Kenturkey048(m): 3:02am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Enchantaurl:you can't replace a man's place in a woman's heart.... |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by grandstar(m): 3:17am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Venusman: Enchantaurl How was the girl at fault? She was 17 at the time. The mum is strictly to blame. Elderly single women are desperate for love and can give their 2 eyes for it. They are the prime target for these Yahoo boys. The same maga or is it magess can fall multiple times. A 51 year old Australian lady who had lost $90,000 to a Malaysian based Yahoo boy was after the incident gisting with another dupe. She was advised that if it is not a man she has met in flesh and can take her out, she should forget it. They are easy game. The man knew that and exploited it Imagine you're a 52 year old single or divorced mother of four and a man says you're the most beautiful thing he has ever seen. That he just loves you and he can't stop thinking of you. He says "you're his dream" and he'll like to one day marry you and he keeps stringing you on. Again, I say, they are easy game 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by bluefilm: 3:27am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Amuatulu: I'm sure he's somewhere now using his long amu to fück some atulu. 2 Likes |
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