Enchantaurl:
I can't start something similar for now, I'm just in 100l + no capital.I just want to work and raise funds then start buying and reselling things in the hostel, because I have to do something that won't distract my education.

Thanks for your advice.

You are a very intelligent and bright lady.
With what I just read about u, I know the type of person you are. Just keep up your head and very soon things will turn around for good.
My advice to you now is :
1 Take your destiny in your hands
2 Don't have a bad perception about men. If you do, u may never get your Mr Right.
I wish I'm bouyant enough to help you now but...
Cheers

kaziblake:
Don't rub it to her face..If you want to help then help or what kind of excuse is this one??
The girl must have seen enough for her to say that though she is wrong for saying all men are assholes so calm down and help if you want to..She just need encouragement!

What are you talking about?? Are you okay?

That man is a wicked being but you shouldn't put all men in the same basket just because of few individuals. Try and forgive your mum she was just a victim,life is like that sometimes.

RonKenoly:

I read all the story and the comments to is point, na only like 3 of wuna reason am like that.

I just dey wonder sai, nobody fi see the bullshit on this girls story.

Na Yahoo girl/boy type this story, and him don catch plenty idiots wey don send am PM.

That last part about men being asshole was done intentionally , e go make plenty people provoke but very few go one prove themselves sai dey no be asshole's come help am.

Na format, and the number of gullible people on Nairaland is becoming alarming. If na before since from the first page person for don see through her bullshit.

Honestly!

Logobenz3:
my point is since she was smart enough to know her mom wasn't acting right,why did she leave for school rather than stay back and save the family business?
Now weh money no dey again make she go the school na.abi na empty hand dem dey use go school?
Anytime I see all these poor people shouting school=a better life,I just laugh because I always know where I will find them after 5 years and trust me,it is nothing close to the better life.
If your family no get money or influence,forget the BS called school and enter street and hustle,that's all.
In her case she didn't even have to hustle but just manage what was existent,she no gree
What advise will I give her at this point that will matter now weh money no dey again?
ABI you no read where she say she dey village
It's clear she has to make her own headway now and that my friend comes with a lot of suffering.
Either she will suffer her head,hands or Toto at this point,just the sad truth.
Ndi school.

Reading through comments I was looking for someone to hit the nail on the head.. God bless you. You said all I was gonna say. She needs to defer her admission.. Since she has experience of managing a business, she should hustle out capital, establish that same business And can school part term afterwards... Tertiary education is not the door to success ooo.

let's talk

DrObiHogan:


Na just poverty be your problem. Catch plenty men to send her pm and so what? After the pm the men will now sell their father's house and give her the money is that right? Are you even OK self? So he called men assholes so that men will prove they're not by probably emptying their acc for her or selling all their lands in the village and give her the money. You are just not well.

Fvck off.

Switching account to reply me, what a dumbass.

How those your reply relate to what I wrote, switching account and using insult to cover your foolishness.

Dumb Fvck

Enchantaurl:
If you know of overdraft, that's it.
And she was a big customer so it was easy

You clearly don't know what you are talking about.

What was her cashflow like that bank would give 1m-5m as overdraft.

The problem with my reply be say e go help you identify loopholes to your story, thereby perfecting it for your next victim.

It is better I just get you ban.

Enchantaurl:
She took loan from Bank of 1million and invested in the business , he bought a bus with it and the bus has just his name.
She kept borrowing and ended up borrowing 5m from the bank for this business and whenever they make profit he takes it all and gives her crumbs, things were so hard for us and she kept saying he loves her whilst complaining to us.

She took 2m from a contribution, gave it to him again and it sinked. Lapo and accion bank too she's owing them.

As if that wasn't enough he tried to break my family by calling my elder sister a witch and my mum supported him, my family almost divided.

Note: I didn't know of all this debts until recently a pastor saw her on the road she was walking like some one that was suicidal according to him, and he asked her what the problem was and she narrated things, he called for a meeting with the man and everything was revealed.


The banker who helped with the loan was in the meeting and when they asked my mum how she wanted the debt to be paid she said she was going to pay all that he should just give her the bus. The pastor said she was charmed but I don't believe she was, I feel like she was too desperate for love. This guy even beats her but she denies it, he talks to her anyhow.



I'm happy she's left him but right now to eat is a problem, the money I saved before entering school 60k I gave it to her and there's no hope of getting it back. He's destroyed everything. We've relocated to the village and I feel depressed and I've developed a hatred for men as I've never had a good male figure in my life, they are all assholes (my latedad inclusive).

I believe women should deal with men without their emotions. Be mean to them and they will adore you. After reading why men love bitches I realized a lot of things.

You need to tell us what killed your dad, because what goes around comes around. With your statement, You people must have jointly suffocated the man. Go and ask God for forgiveness, otherwise more suffering is on the way.

Enchantaurl:
I can't start something similar for now, I'm just in 100l + no capital.I just want to work and raise funds then start buying and reselling things in the hostel, because I have to do something that won't distract my education.

Thanks for your advice.

This is one of the best story I have read in recent time, whether is fictitious or not is another story for another day. U are a way high to capture the inner recess imagination of people and readers for a 17 yr old::: U sound too matured beyond your age partly based on ur exposure to management at that young age or early demise of your father. My submission is u have just unlocked ur hidden talents in creative writing and work on it. As for ur mum experience: Life can be sometimes fantastically sweet and at some other times bitterly awry. I wish her speedily recovery.

Enchantaurl:
I didn't post this for financial aid. I just wanted to pour out what has been eating me up as I don't have anyone to talk to. I don't care if anyone doesnt believes me.

Talk to your coursemate and her parent that you claim you are staying with.

ACE1010:


What are you talking about?? Are you okay?

Did I quote you or you just want to talk?

My dear ur mum was not d first and please don't hate men because of dis....I tell u even men go tru such and men are more victims here so all u need to do is to encourage and take something out of ur mum's predicaments and in future sky will b ur starting point.

Enchantaurl:
Good morning,nlders.

This is going to be a very lengthy post but please read to the end.

Sometime last year my widowed mother met this man who's into oil bunkering who said he was interested in learning about poultry farming and she in turn will learn his. As at then she was doing well she had a poultry business, mobile banking business, and she supplies things to companies.

Now this man is a divorcee with 3boys from his ex-wife and 3kids from two different women, all this children he doesn't train them.
In the guise of learning each other's business they both started dating and somehow he stopped her from staying with we her kids that were at home ( I,17 being the eldest at home then and a jambite, elder ones are in school)
She started living with him, hardly attends to her business because he always wants her home when he returns. He controlled every aspect of her life.

she is not jazzed,this is a sweet love from pot of hell

Enchantaurl:
pastor's are not exempted.

Whatever

RonKenoly:

Fvck off.

Switching account to reply me, what a dumbass.

How those your reply relate to what I wrote, switching account and using insult to cover your foolishness.

Dumb Fvck

Switch account lol you must be out of your mind. Pls I am sorry. Just stay on ur lane.

Excuzeme:



All these long, winded concotted stories, just to tell us the bolded?
You are left-over and left-behind, dont come and use story to pour your frustrations on all us, abeg.

I tell you...

WildChild00:
Haven read from your own point of view, and also considering your age, I must commend you, @ seventeen wow, first and foremost you should concentrate on your studies at the University, and come out with good grades, you knows you might pickup a good job and perhaps be the bread winner of the family.

All the best sweetheart!

Will you keepqwayeet!!!!!!!

RonKenoly:

I read all the story and the comments to this point, na only like 3 of wuna reason am like that.

I just dey wonder sai, nobody fi see the bullshit on this girls story.

Na Yahoo girl/boy type this story, and him don catch plenty idiots wey don send am PM.

That last part about men being asshole was done intentionally , e go make plenty people provoke but very few go one prove themselves sai dey no be asshole's come help am.

Na format, and the number of gullible people on Nairaland is becoming alarming. If na before since from the first page person for don see through her bullshit.

Not a girl, and story is made up. The not loan but overdraft comment gave it away.

tot:


Not a girl, and story is made up. The not loan but overdraft comment gave it away.

Lol, that's why in my third paragraph I said girl or boy. You never can tell. Yahoo girls dey naw.

Even if it is loan, bank don't give that out without collateral. On that amount for that matter, he/she decided to change the narrative to overdraft after people begin to question it.

But to show how dumb he/she was, he decided to go with overdraft of all credit facilities.

The choice of age was equally suspicious.

tot:


So it wasn't a loan but overdraft?
This is UNTRUE!

NL people, which bank permits overdraft of up to 5m?!!

Again, I ask, are you saying there was overdraft up to 5m so therefore no collateral?

Stop being daft and slow!! I don't know much about the bank process but your common sense should tell you that a Yahoo boy/girl won't leave loopholes like this. I'm not asking you to help me. I will work and will be fine.

Enough of the PM's please �

starstaz:


This is one of the best story I have read in recent time, whether is fictitious or not is another story for another day. U are a way high to capture the inner recess imagination of people and readers for a 17 yr old::: U sound too matured beyond your age partly based on ur exposure to management at that young age or early demise of your father. My submission is u have just unlocked ur hidden talents in creative writing and work on it. As for ur mum experience: Life can be sometimes fantastically sweet and at some other times bitterly awry. I wish her speedily recovery.

Thank you.

pmc01:


She is young and naive; still has a lot of learning to do.
You can't hold her responsible too much for such thoughts.

Kindly lend a helping hand if you can bro.

I understand that... it's just most ladies have this attitude of drawing into conclusions that all men are the same based on their few experienced with less than 001% of men.
I really find it annoying, you should judge all men base on the attitude of just a man.

Enchantaurl:
Stop being daft and slow!! I don't know much about the bank process but your common sense should tell you that a Yahoo boy/girl won't leave loopholes like this. I'm not asking you to help me. I will work and will be fine.

Enough of the PM's please �

So now you are going down the route of abuse because your falsehood is being challenged?

You have also used your own mouth to state exactly what you are.

Anyway, this your plot is dead on arrival. One kobo, you won't get!!

RonKenoly:

Lol, that's way in my third paragraph I said girl or boy. You never can tell. Yahoo girls dey naw.

Even if it is loan, bank don't give that out without collateral. On that amount for that matter, he/she decided to change the narrative to overdraft after people begin to question it.

But to show how dumb he/she was, he decided to go with overdraft of all credit facilities.

The choice of age was equally suspicious.

Mr. I'm not asking for your help, don't you get it? You can't give what you don't have.

RonKenoly:

Lol, that's way in my third paragraph I said girl or boy. You never can tell. Yahoo girls dey naw.

Even if it is loan, bank don't give that out without collateral. On that amount for that matter, he/she decided to change the narrative to overdraft after people begin to question it.

But to show how dumb he/she was, he decided to go with overdraft of all credit facilities.

The choice of age was equally suspicious.

I tell you, overdraft just like that.

If that was the case, Nigerian business owners won't be complaining if it was that "easy" as he/she claims.

Exactly:
- girl
- 17
- damsel in distress
- men are scum
all the core elements to appeal to people's emotions were ticked in the profile.

tot:


So now you are going down the route of abuse because your falsehood is being challenged?

You have also used your own mouth to state exactly what you are.

Anyway, this your plot is dead on arrival. One kobo, you won't get!!

Okay,thank you.

tot:


I tell you, overdraft just like that.

If that was the case, Nigerian business owners won't be complaining if it was that "easy" as he/she claims.

Exactly:
- girl
- 17
- damsel in distress
- men are scum
all the core elements to appeal to people's emotions were ticked in the profile.

How do you expect me to know about the bank procedures? All I know is that the banker came home for the meeting and I knew of the amount and the fact that it's Overdraft.

Enchantaurl:
Mr. I'm not asking for your help, don't you get it? You can't give what you don't have.

Who are you telling that one to?

Fvck off with your fraudulent ways.

Please nobody should PM me again, I'm not going to reply any.

RonKenoly:

Who are you telling that one to?

Fvck off with your fraudulent ways.

go Bleep yourself,scumbag.

Enchantaurl:
How do you expect me to know about the bank procedures? All I know is that the banker came home for the meeting and I knew of the amount and the fact that it's Overdraft.

Just stop lying. You have changed your story from loan to overdraft.

All you know is that the banker came home for the meeting, but you were the same person who stated that she borrowed loan after loan. You equally stated it was easy. Now you are singing a different tune.