Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

Thank God u regained ur mental peace

Lol... No peace o ... And they know we can't do without them, so they hold us at the jugular

However if you attend a church, study any lady well, you might get one !!

Never be blackmailed into giving any lady anything until after trust is built and established. Even a month is too short a time to start opening your hands. Shows their parents are not fulfilling their obligations. Hungry things

It will only take the grace of GOD for you to find they good ones......

My brother, no peace o no peace.
U can only find one decent babe out of a thousand in Nigeria now.
Money is their agenda and order of d day.

They are even proud of it and don't hide it again.

With this impression they give makes some irresponsible guys just sleep with them,give dem some peanuts and dump them.

Those that their boyfriends can't afford to buy them iPhones and clothes sleep around to get d money to promote their useless fake lives..

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Mtcheww... You guys get what you subconciously want.
The ones that don't even ask, you guys will be behaving like Christmas light with them.

Biko, drop the money na. Abi how come it is only gold diggers you are attracted to?

Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

Not an insult but tell me your age and if you are dating students , then I will comment

Who get time to go on dates with Nigerian girls? I just meet you, set the mood, shift your pant, finger shii outta her Nd draw condom n fire. Ghost her afterwards.

90% of them are not worth it!

pcguru1:


Not an insult but tell me your age and if you are dating students , then I will comment

I am 29 and the girl I broke up with is a corper,while one of these other two just completed her Nysc,while the other one is a graduate also and does private biz in making and selling of beeds.

SaucyBenks:
Who get time to go on dates with Nigerian girls? I just meet you, set the mood, shift your pant, finger shii outta her Nd draw condom n fire. Ghost her afterwards.

90% of them are not worth it!

It seems that is what they deserve

They're not all the same. I've recently been caught by the love bug so I'm a bit biased.

Unfortunately bro, we can't do without them. That's just the ugly truth.

The only advice I'd give you: Look around, you will see one or two girls within your locality who fancy you. Pick one of them and date. I mean those girls that have been giving you green light o. One problem we humans have is we tend to go for what we can't get and despise that which is close by.

Girls always behave like gold diggers when you are the one chasing. Those girls you talked about never had a thing for you. They were only interested in your money bro! If you're a player then those types are good to be used and dumped.

Lemskey:

I am 29 and the girl I broke up with is a corper,while one of these other two just completed her Nysc,while the other one is a graduate also and does private biz in making and selling of beeds.

I see I suffered the same fate too, which is why I decided not to date anyone not working / not running a form of business because most times most girls dont know the value of money because they dont sweat for it. You are on the right path you will find someone who understand the situation and also add value to your life. All the best bro

pcguru1:


I see I suffered the same fate too, which is why I decided not to date anyone not working / not running a form of business because most times most girls dont know the value of money because they dont sweat for it. You are on the right path you will find someone who understand the situation and also add value to your life. All the best bro

Thanks bro

Try foreign babes

Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

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cooooooks:
They're not all the same. I've recently been caught by the love bug so I'm a bit biased.

They are good ones out there but extremely scarce

pcguru1:


I see I suffered the same fate too, which is why I decided not to date anyone not working / not running a form of business because most times most girls dont know the value of money because they dont sweat for it. You are on the right path you will find someone who understand the situation and also add value to your life. All the best bro

I think is more of mentality issue than independent or not, in my xperience i date mostly gurls presumed to be independent, the only difference is independent gurls won't ask you for money they know is beyond ur limit, they're considerate but they still want ur money. but the dependant gurls just demand blindly without any sense of consideration.
bottomline is 80% of women have these mentality that men are providers, men on the otherhand aint helping matters we showcase more of our fake wealth than potentials ... since money is the bait , my broda money is what she will see n come for.

ericsmith:




I think is more of mentality issue than independent or not, in my xperience i date mostly gurls presumed to be independent, the only difference is independent gurls won't ask you for money they know is beyond ur limit, they're considerate but they still want ur money. but the dependant gurls just demand blindly without any sense of consideration.
bottomline is 80% of women have these mentality that men are providers, men on the otherhand aint helping matters we showcase more of our fake wealth than potentials ... since money is the bait , my broda money is what she will see n come for.

True as much as a woman is independent as a man in a relationship I give because na my woman, but like you mentioned the entitlement mentality is the one I don't do.

pcguru1:


True as much as a woman is independent as a man in a relationship I give because na my woman, but like you mentioned the entitlement mentality is the one I don't do.

Yeah,that is the point...Entitlement mentality. And what do they ve to offer?Just sex.
Nothing more

pcguru1:


True as much as a woman is independent as a man in a relationship I give because na my woman, but like you mentioned the entitlement mentality is the one I don't do.

we are on the same page, what we do or don't do is our choice, maybe becos of principle, buh it does not change the trend ... a woman will alway feel entitle to a man's money the less we men try to impress esp. when its inconvenient, the beta the chances of getting a lady that wil luv us for who we are.

Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

Big up to u bro...u no lie...some Girls think all men are same...they don't know some just wanna have a genuine relationship in a long lasting order with them...na wao..

SaucyBenks:
Who get time to go on dates with Nigerian girls? I just meet you, set the mood, shift your pant, finger shii outta her Nd draw condom n fire. Ghost her afterwards.

90% of them are not worth it!

These days, I literally want nothing to do with them. I don't even want to shift their pant again.

ericsmith:



we are on the same page, what we do or don't do is our choice, maybe becos of principle, buh it does not change the trend ... [b]a woman will alway feel entitle to a man's money;[/b]D the less we men try to impress esp. when its inconvenient, the beta the chances of getting a lady that wil luv us for who we are.

I agree with you, it shocks me when men try to impress nah i don't do that.

scaramucci:


These days, I literally want nothing to do with them. I don't even want to shift their pant again.

Not all bro, seriously this is one statement I hate seeing, reasonable babes dey maybe you guys have issues picking the right ones. Awon slay queen me dey avoid those ones, there's no gain from that , that's as good as another bill for one to pay

SaucyBenks:
Who get time to go on dates with Nigerian girls? I just meet you, set the mood, shift your pant, finger shii outta her Nd draw condom n fire. Ghost her afterwards.

90% of them are not worth it!

They aren't worth it but you still give your body to them..shows you're worthless too then .
*yawns*

pcguru1:


Not all bro, seriously this is one statement I hate seeing, reasonable babes dey maybe you guys have issues picking the right ones. Awon slay queen me dey avoid those ones, there's no gain from that , that's as good as another bill for one to pay

Exactly....
Especially those ones that think they are too beautiful and ve a cost to ve an affair.
And they end up using d money to buy clothes, handbags, phones they can't afford and all sorts of rubbish for competition.

pcguru1:


I agree with you, it shocks me when men try to impress nah i don't do that.

i av a close friend who is alway uploading is mpney spree ,his house n other gadgets on his SM pages ... these automatical draw so many gurls to him but what annoys me d most his when he complains those gurls are billing him exorbitantly, i jus lol @times what did you expect.