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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by SaucyBenks(m): 2:34pm On Aug 27, 2019
MannieA:




They aren't worth it but you still give your body to them..shows you're worthless too then .
*yawns*
lol... Whatever you say aunty.

Pant shifting will still happen even tonight on an 19year old.. grin

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by MannieA(f): 2:35pm On Aug 27, 2019
ericsmith:






i av a close friend who is alway uploading is mpney spree ,his house n other gadgets on his SM pages ... these automatical draw so many gurls to him but what annoys me d most his when he complains those gurls are billing him exorbitantly, i jus lol @times what did you expect.

Lmao..he brought it upon himself na.
Why is complaining, he should deal with it.
Maybe he can't woo girls so he just displays his wealth and viola! them girls start flocking around him.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by MannieA(f): 2:36pm On Aug 27, 2019
SaucyBenks:
lol... Whatever you say aunty.
Pant shifting will still happen even tonight on a 19year old.. grin



Whatever rocks your boat Sir. Do have a splendid time.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by MannieA(f): 2:36pm On Aug 27, 2019
SaucyBenks:
lol... Whatever you say aunty.
Pant shifting will still happen even tonight on a 19year old.. grin



Whatever rocks your boat Sir. Do have a splendid time shifting the panties.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by SaucyBenks(m): 2:38pm On Aug 27, 2019
MannieA:





Whatever rocks your boat Sir.
Do have a splendid time shifting the panties.
lol... Talking like yours is intact n never ever been shifted.... Even this week grin grin grin grin

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 2:47pm On Aug 27, 2019
MannieA:


Lmao..he brought it upon himself na.
Why is complaining, he should deal with it.
Maybe he can't woo girls so he just dislays his wealth and viola! them girls start flocking around him.



Cannt the gurls just overlook his mistake n treat him like a real baby.
talking of "woo" i cannt even rmember d last time i toast woman, i think wen men get to certain age/level r/ship just happens from all direction. ALOL !

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Apination(m): 2:50pm On Aug 27, 2019
Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!
My brother, you are not alone but the truth is, Nigeria as a country is fvcked up with the majority of our women having little or no ambition to do anything but sit and eat. There's nothing you can do about them but to stop being a nice guy, treat them like shit and watch them behave, don't ever go out of your way to do anything for them, they would call you stingy but they would respect you for not being a maga undecided

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 3:43pm On Aug 27, 2019
Apination:

My brother, you are not alone but the truth is, Nigeria as a country is fvcked up with the majority of our women having little or no ambition to do anything but sit and eat. There's nothing you can do about them but to stop being a nice guy, treat them like shit and watch them behave, don't ever go out of your way to do anything for them, they would call you stingy but they would respect you for not being a maga undecided
Correct
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Jjuuddee(m): 4:19pm On Aug 27, 2019
The bitter truth is we guys are actually the one who carved women into what they are,the desperate need and want for women by some men makes women to exploit them,90 percent of men wen they make money they start chasing women n trying so hard to impress.But if we focus more on ourselves than women our value will go up n women might have to start lowering their so called standards.

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by healthserve(m): 4:44pm On Aug 27, 2019
Jjuuddee:
The bitter truth is we guys are actually the one who carved women into what they are,the desperate need and want for women by some men makes women to exploit them,90 percent of men wen they make money they start chasing women n trying so hard to impress.But if we focus more on ourselves than women our value will go up n women might have to start lowering their so called standards.


I agree. Never will I out any woman in that trophy spit as long as this life exists.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 5:40pm On Aug 27, 2019
pcguru1:


Not all bro, seriously this is one statement I hate seeing, reasonable babes dey maybe you guys have issues picking the right ones. Awon slay queen me dey avoid those ones, there's no gain from that , that's as good as another bill for one to pay

So choosing the right ones should take special effort, right?
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by larryking540: 5:45pm On Aug 27, 2019
Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

u are not alone bro
one even indirectly ask me for membership form b4 dating her,even after having a good time with her, I just suffery move on, not my loss,but hers, money donr truly know the value of money ,thats y when day start working after marriage they hardly drop money as for of assistance to the husband

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 5:49pm On Aug 27, 2019
scaramucci:


So choosing the right ones should take special effort, right?

Those who find diamond have to ensure they are not picking stones. it takes effort for them
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Angy55(f): 5:49pm On Aug 27, 2019
Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

But when you guys meet the ones that don't demand you take them for granted.. you see such is life.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by larryking540: 5:51pm On Aug 27, 2019
ericsmith:




Cannt the gurls just overlook his mistake n treat him like a real baby.
talking of "woo" i cannt even rmember d last time i toast woman, i think wen men get to certain age/level r/ship just happens from all direction. ALOL !
u are just a Carbon copy of me, the last time I toast woman, should b d time I was in my final year, why should I born my credit call on u, when I kw say u fit gree, u fit no gree for me, I just direct my talk to how we fit get down together, who mr nice guy help, it oly made him look like a fool after all the I can't sleep without u or I keep seeing u everyday in my dream,
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by larryking540: 5:54pm On Aug 27, 2019
Angy55:


But when you guys meet the ones that don't demand you take them for granted.. you see such is life.
it's just a matter of time b4 she start demanding,

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by dododawa1: 5:55pm On Aug 27, 2019
mentality men should think is MONEY. before WOMAN,you will control 98% of them
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 5:57pm On Aug 27, 2019
pcguru1:


Those who find diamond have to ensure they are not picking stones. it takes effort for them


Okay, I will give it a try when I have the time.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 5:58pm On Aug 27, 2019
scaramucci:


Okay, I will give it a try when I have the time.

Awesome answer lol , back then too for me I had no time for relationship all the best bro.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Angy55(f): 5:59pm On Aug 27, 2019
larryking540:

it's just a matter of time b4 she start demanding,

I disagree. Because I'm using myself as an example. There are some of us all we need is loyalty and that care(attention) not choking though. It's left for the guy to use his heart and not take the lady for a fool.

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 6:00pm On Aug 27, 2019
pcguru1:


Awesome answer lol , back then too for me I had no time for relationship all the best bro.


Thanks and God bless you bro.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 6:37pm On Aug 27, 2019
Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

You are looking for great women in the wrong places bro. Beautiful and intellectually sound ladies who are assets are hardly found on the streets. These women are usually "hidden" in their niches and you might need to make alot of efforts to fish them out. They are spread across professional training institutes and centres, examination centres, business and career development events. Churches/mosques these days are not very reliable for findung good girlfriends/potential partners for durable relationships but you could stand a better chance on getting excellent assets at religious retreats that requires significant degree of discipline. In online forums, taking nairaland for instance, you will have to exercise alot of patience in analysing their profile. Great ladies will be seen in job/vacances, career, family, health sections etc looking for jobs, providing career solutions & advices, looking for scholarships etc but the block-heads who will likely demand for phones and airtime are often in romance section. Btw, there is nothing wrong with visiting romance section if done moderately in conjunction with other intellectually stimulating sections but one rule of thumb is to be weary of ladies whose most active section is romance/sexuality. I am not generalising, but the probabilty of finding a decent girl out in the streets or in online romance hubs is very slim.

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 6:38pm On Aug 27, 2019
larryking540:

u are just a Carbon copy of me, the last time I toast woman, should b d time I was in my final year, why should I born my credit call on u, when I kw say u fit gree, u fit no gree for me, I just direct my talk to how we fit get down together, who mr nice guy help, it oly made him look like a fool after all the I can't sleep without u or I keep seeing u everyday in my dream,



My kind of gurls are the amazons ladies, most guys find hard to crack, @times i wonder what kind of fate i get self buh i enjoy d challenge n how much they inspire me tho... we go don date for long, one day they'll just be like eric did you know u did not even toast me or stress @all ,OYa do the toasting now grin. when last i don hear westlife or MLTR ..head empty

Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Bush2013: 6:48pm On Aug 27, 2019
Blissbath:
Try foreign babes
where person go get them. Are you a foreigner �
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 6:51pm On Aug 27, 2019
DanXplore:


You are looking for great women in the wrong places bro. Beautiful and intellectually sound ladies who are assets are hardly found on the streets. These women are usually "hiden" in their niches and you might need to make alot of efforts to fish them out. They are littered in professional training institutes and centres, examination centres, business and career development events. Churches/mosques these days are not very reliable these days to find dedicated girlfriend/wife material but you stand a greater chance at getting excellent assets in religious retreats that requires significant degree of discipline. In online forums, taking nairaland for instance, you will have to exercise alot of patience in analysing their profile. Great ladies will be seen in Job/vacances, career, family sections etc looking for jobs, providing career advices, looking for scholarships etc but the block-heads who will likely demand for phones and airtime are often in romance section. Btw, there is nothing wrong with visiting romance section if done moderately in conjunction with other intellectually stimulating sections but one rule of thumb is to avoid ladies whose most active section is romance/sexuality. I am not generalising, but the probabilty of finding a decent girl out in the streets or in online romance hubs is very slim.
Good analysis bro

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by iLegendd: 6:55pm On Aug 27, 2019
Sorry.
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 6:57pm On Aug 27, 2019
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iLegendd:
Sorry.
cheesy
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by larryking540: 7:08pm On Aug 27, 2019
Angy55:


I disagree. Because I'm using myself as an example. There are some of us all we need is loyalty and that care(attention) not choking though. It's left for the guy to use his heart and not take the lady for a fool.

I just laugh while i read ur reply, babe na becus u day online dats y u have the strength and voice to say some of us are not like dat o,
are u trying to tell me, u haven't put a guy on trial before or put him in a financial test b4, come on babe u and I kw how the babes in 9ja behave am surprised u are saying some are not like dat,

so the guys complaining online everyday na female ghost they day meet?


I hear, like u said u are different, same story every day

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Nobody: 7:15pm On Aug 27, 2019
larryking540:

I just laugh while i read ur reply, babe na becus u day online dats y u have the strength and voice to say some of us are not like dat o,
are u trying to tell me, u haven't put a guy on trial before or put him in a financial test b4, come on babe u and I kw how the babes in 9ja behave am surprised u are saying some are not like dat,

so the guys complaining online everyday na female ghost they day meet?
It is obvious that the good ones are very scarce


I hear, like u said u are different, same story every day
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by larryking540: 7:16pm On Aug 27, 2019
ericsmith:




My kind of gurls are the amazons ladies, most guys find hard to crack, @times i wonder what kind of fate i get self buh i enjoy d challenge n how much they inspire me tho... we go don date for long, one day they'll just be like eric did you know u did not even toast me or stress @all ,OYa do the toasting now grin. when last i don hear westlife or MLTR ..head empty

I like it when day say na juju I use, becus I kw even toast them, I go ask them back oya make I start to toast u since na toast u like,lol na after I don chop I day tink of toasting, while some go say why I kw get to know them first b4 Chopin them, na long journey to know u no vex?

for the past couple of years my credit have been so so saved,
Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Angy55(f): 7:19pm On Aug 27, 2019
larryking540:

I just laugh while i read ur reply, babe na becus u day online dats y u have the strength and voice to say some of us are not like dat o,
are u trying to tell me, u haven't put a guy on trial before or put him in a financial test b4, come on babe u and I kw how the babes in 9ja behave am surprised u are saying some are not like dat,

so the guys complaining online everyday na female ghost they day meet?




I hear, like u said u are different, same story every day

I said there are some of us.. not all ladies.
Here is the thing even working class ladies earning make demands, they even make demands more than some jobless ladies out there. It is about personality and when I mean personality it has nothing to do with ego.

It is left for you to search deeply.

There are still good ladies out there just as there are still good guys out there. Search deeply!

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Re: But Can't A Guy Have A Girlfriend In Peace by Blissbath(f): 7:23pm On Aug 27, 2019
Am nt...u can try foreigners dating group on facebook.
Bush2013:
where person go get them. Are you a foreigner �

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