If you can't find a decent Naija girl,

Try foreigners.

This thing shouldn't be that difficult.

Every day, same old story.

Naija women are this,
Naija men are that,

Offline they are dating themselves and getting married every weekend. Abeg... Something new.

Blissbath:
Am nt...u can try foreigners dating group on facebook.

not interested in marrying a foreigner. I don't fancy it. I will prefer to marry a Nigerian instead may be you

Angy55:


I said there are some of us.. not all ladies.
Here is the thing even working class ladies earning make demands, they even make demands more than some jobless ladies out there. It is about personality and when I mean personality it has nothing to do with ego.

It is left for you to search deeply.

There are still good ladies out there just as there are still good guys out there. Search deeply!

my dear
am still searching oo,e no easy for Ezekiel for bible,
actually it's more aobut personality, u are right sha,but with dis era we are living it's hard to even meet them,

Lol

Bush2013:
not interested in marrying a foreigner. I don't fancy it. I will prefer to marry a Nigerian instead may be you

larryking540:

my dear
am still searching oo,e no easy for Ezekiel for bible,
actually it's more aobut personality, u are right sha,but with dis era we are living it's hard to even meet them,

When you finally meet one, Don't hesitate to mention me here...

Blissbath:
Lol

abi you too the look for foreigners

Nooo...i dnt fancy dem

Bush2013:
abi you too the look for foreigners

Lemskey:

I am 29 and the girl I broke up with is a corper,while one of these other two just completed her Nysc,while the other one is a graduate also and does private biz in making and selling of beeds.

You may think im talking trash but the truth is
If u wanna date nowaday girls.
Look for one that is not ACTIVE on either twitter, snapchat, or worse yet, INSTAGRAM. There minds n desires have been polluted.
Look for girls that barely have time for social media even if they own this accounts. They are hard to find, but then, thats the kinda girl u need.
If u know, u know

Blissbath:
Nooo...i dnt fancy dem

okay, it's alright.

Blissbath:
Nooo...i dnt fancy dem

if you wouldn't mind I can dm u

healthserve:
Never be blackmailed into giving any lady anything until after trust is built and established. Even a month is too short a time to start opening your hands. Shows their parents are not fulfilling their obligations. Hungry things

sir ur points are always valid.

femmoy:


sir ur points are always valid.

macklef:

You may think im talking trash but the truth is
If u wanna date nowaday girls.
Look for one that is not ACTIVE on either twitter, snapchat, or worse yet, INSTAGRAM. There minds n desires have been polluted.
Look for girls that barely have time for social media even if they own this accounts. They are hard to find, but then, thats the kinda girl u need.
If u know, u know

Absolutely correct

larryking540:


I like it when day say na juju I use, becus I kw even toast them, I go ask them back oya make I start to toast u since na toast u like,lol na after I don chop I day tink of toasting, while some go say why I kw get to know them first b4 Chopin them, na long journey to know u no vex?

for the past couple of years my credit have been so so saved,

You and the guy when you quote, I know una type. Na dirty girls una dey Bleep. Extremely cheap girls.

pocohantas:
If you can't find a decent Naija girl,

Try foreigners.

This thing shouldn't be that difficult.

Every day, same old story.

Naija women are this,
Naija men are that,

Offline they are dating themselves and getting married every weekend. Abeg... Something new.

We know your type. Carry doer

macklef:

You may think im talking trash but the truth is
If u wanna date nowaday girls.
Look for one that is not ACTIVE on either twitter, snapchat, or worse yet, INSTAGRAM. There minds n desires have been polluted.
Look for girls that barely have time for social media even if they own this accounts. They are hard to find, but then, thats the kinda girl u need.
If u know, u know

Among all the comments, na your own burst my brain pass. Me na Yoruba girl I won marry so na inside those Yoruba States like Ondo, Abeokuta, Akure, Ekiti, Illorin and other yoruba hidden places I go fit see my wife.

condemn:


Among all the comments, na your own burst my brain pass. Me na Yoruba girl I won marry so na inside those Yoruba States like Ondo, Abeokuta, Akure, Ekiti, Illorin and other yoruba hidden places I go fit see my wife.

condemn:


Among all the comments, na your own burst my brain pass. Me na Yoruba girl I won marry so na inside those Yoruba States like Ondo, Abeokuta, Akure, Ekiti, Illorin and other yoruba hidden places I go fit see my wife.

Lol bro, you have a better not absolute, but better chance of finding less distracted and hardworking girls in the interiors.

macklef:

Lol bro, you have a better not absolute, but better chance of finding less distracted and hardworking girls in the interiors.

Yeso.
..D less contaminated ones.

Jokerman:
Lol... No peace o ... And they know we can't do without them, so they hold us at the jugular

However if you attend a church, study any lady well, you might get one !!

Might?

healthserve:
Never be blackmailed into giving any lady anything until after trust is built and established. Even a month is too short a time to start opening your hands. Shows their parents are not fulfilling their obligations. Hungry things

Hmmmmmm
Hungry things !!!!!!
Karashikas everywhere

I blame buhari. Relationship scam is becoming high

Lolz, am telling you dear, people are really scared of relationships this days....

AwkaetitiBabe:
I blame buhari. Relationship scam is becoming high

carter009:
Lolz, am telling you dear, people are really scared of relationships this days....

Really scary now...Social media is even making d situation worse

AwkaetitiBabe:
I blame buhari. Relationship scam is becoming high

sedutrice:
Mtcheww... You guys get what you subconciously want.
The ones that don't even ask, you guys will be behaving like Christmas light with them.

Biko, drop the money na. Abi how come it is only gold diggers you are attracted to?

I agree with u,if they find a gud one that doesn't ask from them,they'll take advantage of them which is so unfair

Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

i think you need to take a break from dating and heal properly

funmisticqueen2:
i think you need to take a break from dating and heal properly

Obviously

shuana:
I agree with u,if they find a gud one that doesn't ask from them,they'll take advantage of them which is so unfair

my thought exactly.. some set of men will even decide to help the lady and when she's not comfortable with it, they'll be like "no, I'm not doing it because I want something in return". They'll act like they've got a beautiful heart. Let them start dating the lady in question, they feel they've bought the lady in question and she should be able to cope with their shit. She runs from maltreatment and that's when they'll start wailing here and there... like they were scammed. She won't stay cuz her peace of mind is much more valuable than your "money". OP, if you meet a lady in future who doesn't demand for anything, and you want to give to remind her later how you lavished on her when she leaves cuz she can't cope with some things then don't give at all (I'm saying this because of your past experiences). Not all ladies demand from men but if you give them without them asking, so be it. If she is a leech like in your case, and she asks for the impossible, decline. It's your money, not hers. Let her work for hers too. Shikenah.

Seconded

hify9935:
my thought exactly.. some set of men will even decide to help the lady and when she's not comfortable with it, they'll be like "no, I'm not doing it because I want something in return". They'll act like they've got a beautiful heart. Let them start dating the lady in question, they feel they've bought the lady in question and she should be able to cope with their shit. She runs from maltreatment and that's when they'll start wailing here and there... like they were scammed. She won't stay cuz her peace of mind is much more valuable than your "money". OP, if you meet a lady in future who doesn't demand for anything, and you want to give to remind her later how you lavished on her when she leaves cuz she can't cope with some things then don't give at all (I'm saying this because of your past experiences). Not all ladies demand from men but if you give them without them asking, so be it. If she is a leech like in your case, and she asks for the impossible, decline. It's your money, not hers. Let her work for hers too. Shikenah.

hify9935:
my thought exactly.. some set of men will even decide to help the lady and when she's not comfortable with it, they'll be like "no, I'm not doing it because I want something in return". They'll act like they've got a beautiful heart. Let them start dating the lady in question, they feel they've bought the lady in question and she should be able to cope with their shit. She runs from maltreatment and that's when they'll start wailing here and there... like they were scammed. She won't stay cuz her peace of mind is much more valuable than your "money". OP, if you meet a lady in future who doesn't demand for anything, and you want to give to remind her later how you lavished on her when she leaves cuz she can't cope with some things then don't give at all (I'm saying this because of your past experiences). Not all ladies demand from men but if you give them without them asking, so be it. If she is a leech like in your case, and she asks for the impossible, decline. It's your money, not hers. Let her work for hers too. Shikenah.

Cool

The worst part is that most of them have sworn an invisible oath that their own money or resources will never be at the disposal of or useful to a man. Imagine the millions of women out of the entire population with that mentality makes me wonder the essence of their education and employment - just to make hair, buy shoe cloths etc. Very selfishly irresponsible.