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I have heard countless times that it is better for a man to marry a lady with good character rather than be with a lady with outward beauty and I totally agree with this school of thought...

Nevertheless, I strongly believe that one of the biggest mistakes a man will make is to marry a lady he is not sexually attracted to. The sad twist is that men are visually inclined and they are carried away by what they see but it is not easy for guys to come across a lady with their desired character and who they are also sexually attracted to hence the need to make a compromise.

So, Guys, if you must choose between a lady with an angelic character who you have no sexual attraction for and a lady you are crazily sexually attracted to who does not have the character you desire...Which one of the two would you marry?

i will go for option C

Good character and Beauty and Brilliant lady


i no dey do Manage Parole

In cookie's voice
We are the lions we dont settle for less

2dice01:
i will go for option C

Good character and Beauty

i no dey manage

Bro assuming there is no oprion C

Toks2008:
Bro assuming there is no oprion C

There are always Options

I don't settle for less
That's my motto

2dice01:
There are always Options

I don't settle for less
That's my motto

i will settle for option A then , that you don't find a woman sexual attractive @ 1st sight doesnt mean you can't find are attractive later ... sexual attractive will come when u spend time together that is man & woman for you.
A woman with bad character is almost like no remedy .... everyman wants peace of mind n such women don't give it on short or long run.
sexual attractive my ass! will that stop a man from cheating anyways.

Lalasticlala I guess this is insightful.

And I ask this question, does sexual attraction have to do with the lady's appearance? Cos I've had instances where the man was sexually attracted to someone who isn't fine at all.

ericsmith:
i will settle for option A then , that you don't find a woman sexual attractive @ 1st sight doesnt mean you can't find are attractive later ... sexual attractive will come when u spend time together that is man & woman for you.
A woman with bad character is almost like no remedy .... everyman wants peace of mind n such women don't give it on short or long run.
sexual attractive my ass! will that stop a man from cheating anyways.

insightful but i disagree.

ericsmith:
i will settle for option A then , that you don't find a woman sexual attractive @ 1st sight doesnt mean you can't find are attractive later ... sexual attractive will come when u spend time together that is man & woman for you.
A woman with bad character is almost like no remedy .... everyman wants peace of mind n such women don't give it on short or long run.
sexual attractive my ass! will that stop a man from cheating anyways.

My point exactly.

You will hate her, hate her puussssy, hate your joystick for ever finding pleasure in a bad characterd woman's pusssy
And u will never be sexxuually attracted to her anymore

Fountainofyouth:
And I ask this question, does sexual attraction have to do with the lady's appearance? Cos I've had instances where the man was sexually attracted to someone who isn't fine at all.

Nice question.

This is why i find it difficult to attach an image to this thread as I always do because each man to his choice. Some guys love big ladies whilst some love them petite, some love boobs whilst some love ass so sexual attraction is very relative.

2dice01:
i will go for option C

Good character and Beauty and Brilliant lady


i no dey do Manage Parole

seconded.

ericsmith:
i will settle for option A then , that you don't find a woman sexual attractive @ 1st sight doesnt mean you can't find are attractive later ... sexual attractive will come when u spend time together that is man & woman for you.
A woman with bad character is almost like no remedy .... everyman wants peace of mind n such women don't give it on short or long run.
sexual attractive my ass! will that stop a man from cheating anyways.

At the Bolded

i laugh in swahili

Do you why they say Men fall inlove with what they see

Now imagine you sleeping in the same room with someone you aint attracted to for the rest of your life

So you already made up your mind on cheating huh

If you caught another niggga banging your wife hope its not big deal too cus its same blood that runs through you guys

Fountainofyouth:
And I ask this question, does sexual attraction have to do with the lady's appearance? Cos I've had instances where the man was sexually attracted to someone who isn't fine at all.

Thats why they said

One man's food is another man's poison

2dice01:
At the Bolded

i laugh in swahili

Do you why they say Men fall inlove with what they see

Now imagine you sleeping in the same room with someone you aint attracted to for the rest of your life

So you already made up your mind on cheating huh

If you caught another niggga banging your wife hope its not big deal too cus its same blood that runs through you guys

My thoughts too.

If this question were to be asked of a regular woman. She would choose the man with the good character.

Asked of a regular man, he would surely choose the woman he's sexually attracted to.

Asked of me...I would be seriously confused. Hmmm...I would have to sit on fence if I can't find both characteristics in one person .

Toks2008:
My thoughts too.

i hate it when guys says men are polygamous in nature
So women are what

2dice01:
i hate it when guys says men are polygamous in nature

So women are what

i respect sexually chaste ladies because it is easier for ladies to get laid by many men than for a guy to lay a lady.

Toks2008:
i respect sexually chaste ladies because it is easier for ladies to get laid by many men than for a guy to lay a lady.

True

A all the way. She is yours. People will be like, see his wife self no fine and the other person may say but she is so down to earth and nice

But B you can't have peace of mind. People may complement her and then the next guy may say he knows about her infidelity parol.

KinzyeWriter:
A all the way. She is yours. People will be like, see his wife self no fine and the other person may say but she so down to heart and nice

But B you can't have peace of mind. People may complement her and then the next guy may say he knows about her infidelity parol.

Can you even have an herection for a lady you are not sexually attracted to?

Toks2008:
i respect sexually chaste ladies because it is easier for ladies to get laid by many men than for a guy to lay a lady.

How can you post that? do they have our sexual urge? chai! women should be sexually chaste they can its easy! our fathers and fore married most a virgin!

How can you not be attracted to my good behavior?

Moreover, with money and good management all women are beautiful

Florblu:
How can you not be attracted to my good behavior?

Moreover, with money and good management all women are beautiful

This has nothing to do with beauty but sexual attraction.

For instance, i am not attracted to big ass at all..Strange i know but that is to tell you the variation in sexual attraction. Each man has his preference.


Furthermore, money can only accentuate but can not create a beauty that is not there.

Toks2008:
This has nothing to do with beauty but sexual attraction.

For instance, i am not attracted to big ass at all..Strange i know but that is to tell you the variation in sexual attraction. Each man has his preference.


Furthermore, money can only accentuate but can not create a beauty that is not there.

You can't separate beauty from what attracts men to women

Florblu:
You can't separate beauty from what attracts men to women

i no dey argue with you but just understand that outward beauty is relative. What is beautiful in one man's eyes may be ugly in the eyes of another man.

Some like big boobs whilst some love pecky small tits, some love Big booty whilst some love onion booty and some love Big bodied ladies whilst some love them petite...Every lady is beautiful in their own different ways.

inasmuch as men are visual creature; it shouldn't substitute for prudence on this matter. because beauty and sexual attraction; is an exaggeration of physiognomy-just like a balloon is an exaggeration of dimension. Sexual appeal dissipate with progress in age. marry the most beautiful and attractive woman today, with no brain and a baggage of noisome character, and see how disillusioned and disaffected you'd become in no time. so, it is nothing short of inebriation of myopia to make sexual appeal the chief goal of choosing a partner, because you'll end up miserable with no option but to cheat when the appeal wither, because it must surely wither.

marvelous000:
inasmuch as men are visual creature; it shouldn't substitute for prudence on this matter. because beauty and sexual attraction; is an exaggeration of physiognomy-just like a balloon is an exaggeration of dimension. Sexual appeal, dissipate with progress in age. marry the most beautiful and attractive woman today, with no brain and a baggage of noisome character, and see how disillusioned and disaffected you'd become in no time. so, it is nothing short of inebriation of myopia to make sexual appeal the chief goal of choosing a partner, because you'll end up miserable with no option but to cheat when the appeal wither, because it must surely wither.

Honestly, i is a very tough one. It is always convenient for guys to talk about the need to go for good behaviour at the expense of sexual attraction but in reality, it is a difficult pill to swallow.

This reminds me of the story of the man with three girlfriends who tried to choose one to marry.

There was a man who had 3 girlfriends, but he did not know which one to marry. So he decided to give each 1 $5000 and see how each of them spent it.

The first 1 went out and got a total makeover with the money. She got new clothes, a new hairdo, manicure, pedicure, the works, and tells the man, "I spent the money so I could look pretty for you because I love you so much."

The 2nd one went out and bought new golf clubs, a Dvd player, a television, and a stereo and gave them to the man. She said, "I bought these gifts for you with the money because I love you so much."

The 3rd one takes the $5000 and invests it in the stock market, doubles her investment, returns the $5000 to the man and reinvests the rest. She says, "I am investing the rest of the money for our future because I love you so much."

The man thought hard about how each of the women spent the money. Finally, being a man he decided to marry the one with the biggest tits.

This is a pointer that men are always attracted to their sexual preference regardless.

Toks2008:
Lalasticlala I guess this is insightful.

Nothing insightful here toks2008

No options

StrikeBack:
Nothing insightful here toks2008

No options

lol! it does not have to be insightful to you but i am learning a lot from some insightful comments.

Marry the one with good character for peace of mind at home and keep a sidechick outside for sexual satisfaction after all, most hus cheat on sexy wives.

I enjoy peace more than I enjoy sex.

Toks2008:
Bro assuming there is no oprion C

Bro, I will stop assuming