₦airaland Forum

PaulSimon2020:
Not asking you to prove anything to me but stop lying unnecessarily, it doesn't make you any lesser!

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
must you keep jumping From one relationship to the other?
why don't u stay focused and single?

Adonko:
Ok let me pour out mine on three fronts.
Firstly ,when I was at the university, I was dating one babe from microbiology dept who was a year lower than me in school levels, I also had a strong pal who was also in her Dept but same level with me. It all happened that I travelled home for 3 days and . I came I never told babe but visited my pal who called me to come around and narrated everything playing between his cousin and bae ( who is a member of Aye and and from a different school), he was quite tall, he told me that my bae is even coming that evening and they will be going to the nite club together ...aaaah I almost died lol, I decided to catch her red handed cos his cousin went somewhere far, I quickly took his timberland boots and kept it outside and took his Aye overall and wore it( I am tall too) and deemed/switched the light to club light and lie down on the bed while my guy was sitting on the reading table.

Bae came as expected around 8pm, greeted my friend and ran to the bed straight telling the guy (which was me ) if he forgot they are going somewhere while rubbing his chest ( what pains me most is that is my bae that was doing the tripping), when I switched on the light cos I was holding the switched, she shouted as if she saw a ghost and quickly open her bra and put her breast in my mouth ( knowing fully well I liked her boobs so much) ... I just jeje remove her breast stood up uttered nothing and left.

I WILL CONTINUE THE SECOND SOON.

Joislim:
Some of you sef, how many relationships did I tell you I've had before?

Joislim:
Some of you sef, how many relationships did I tell you I've had before?

Mikocake:
church girl begging for no string attached relationship?? This one shock me..are u still with her?

okikiosibodu:
This is highly untrue. Once discovered my "babe" in Onitsha where she was serving, screwing around, anoda one in Ekiti was busy sending her nudes up and down to different guys, and I was in Lagos.. .. You only need both lines to be online at the same time to be able to read it. When you check the option on your firefox to continue from open tabs, you don't need to be scanning the Barcode again. You just scan it once, and you are good to go, unless the other party cancels the connection
@Nobleking2000 (you can remove your number now) and Hullabaloon, here is a thread I Inc created to explain this, I hope you find it helpful.

https://www.nairaland.com/3060322/how-access-single-whatsapp-account

I once taught one of my big cousins this and he set it up on he phones of a lady he saw a future with. She was a coded runz girl. Wil ask him money for an item, and ask the same money from several other guys. When he gives her the money and other guys to do same, she wil buy one of it and snap the pix to every "Maga" that paid her, that that was what she got with the money they sent her. Each mumu will be feeling proud within himself that he was able to take care of her

I am however withholding some information cos I am not encouraging anyone it hack into anyone's privacy (even though in some cases, it is inevitable when a talented and skilled liar is involved.

*modified *

My very first gf made me discover whatsappweb. She was a chronic lair and a talented one at that. I'll give it to her. If you see her conjure a lie, you will be so convinced she must have been rehearsing it for months and even doubt the facts you have cos of the way she conjures the lie on the spot and it comes out smoothly. When you give a lil hint that you knw the truth, she wil twist the story. It's fun to watch her manufacture a lie and play along, when deep down I knw the truth. She was a kind of person that if you are having a convo with and she says it is raining, you looked out stylishly to confirm truly if it is raining. And even after you confirm that, you still can't trust the next words that comes out from her mouth. The crazy ass nigga that I was spending my savings on to help with her academics even when I didn't have a job, referred to me as a useless guy with the dude she was cheating with, and denied it frantically until I made her know I saw the chat before she deleted it. She even swore with the Bible and deep down she knew she was telling lies. I couldn't cope, cos such lady is capable of killing one in the future. I loved her. I really did. I could give my life for her without a second thought. She was my first babe. It took over 2yrs to get over her. Had to develop some addictions to counter it (cycling and writing. I can fall sick if I don't ride bicycle in a month). I started loving dogs too after the incident.
The second lady I was with, was the one serving in Onitsha. Met her in church, but she was screwing around, and there was this particular married man she just won't leave. A lady I saw a future with, but didn't go into a relationship with was the one in Ekiti. I started being cautious and suspicious when she was pestering me to do blood covenant, not to leave her. Na so I speak to my leg tear race comot

Cc: EzeIgboNwaChukwu

Freciprocal:
Big bros... are u currently dating?

okikiosibodu:
Yes I am. Might I ask reason behind the question? I am curious

JONSYN7154:
joislim o ;Djoislim o

Adonko:
Ok let me pour out mine on three fronts.
Firstly ,when I was at the university, I was dating one babe from microbiology dept who was a year lower than me in school levels, I also had a strong pal who was also in her Dept but same level with me. It all happened that I travelled home for 3 days and . I came I never told babe but visited my pal who called me to come around and narrated everything playing between his cousin and bae ( who is a member of Aye and and from a different school), he was quite tall, he told me that my bae is even coming that evening and they will be going to the nite club together ...aaaah I almost died lol, I decided to catch her red handed cos his cousin went somewhere far, I quickly took his timberland boots and kept it outside and took his Aye overall and wore it( I am tall too) and deemed/switched the light to club light and lie down on the bed while my guy was sitting on the reading table.

Bae came as expected around 8pm, greeted my friend and ran to the bed straight telling the guy (which was me ) if he forgot they are going somewhere while rubbing his chest ( what pains me most is that is my bae that was doing the tripping), when I switched on the light cos I was holding the switched, she shouted as if she saw a ghost and quickly open her bra and put her breast in my mouth ( knowing fully well I liked her boobs so much) ... I just jeje remove her breast stood up uttered nothing and left.

I WILL CONTINUE THE SECOND SOON.

Njeps:
It is a 50 - 50 thing, she might cheat again and may not
If itS A GIRL u really love, snoop on her phone to be sure, forgive her and give her a second chance if u find anything.
if she cheats again or is playing games, get your evidences and end it.

AFter I caught mine and read her school messages of her close friend banging her cos i was far away.
i didnt forgive her after a month, it was telling her on her, couldnt work well, hardly eat.
i forgave her later. and she promised not to. it is 4 years now, and she hasnt done shiit at all.
my evidences are her whatsapp and facebook chats which i monitor every minute on my phone and laptop, even before she deletes chats of guys disturbing her (of which she turns down)

Presently as i type, a guy from yankee has been begging her for 3 weeks now to give him few minutes to discuss with her, but she aint ready cos she doesnt want to take any risk


Still cant trust tho, trust dem half way meehn, no matter how clean dey come.

Freciprocal:
It felt like you gave up on Love/Trust

okikiosibodu:
You know love and how it works, completely out of your power. It was difficult moving on though, it took a long time. I started loving pets.... Dogs to be specific. You can try getting close to a good dog, you'll understand how much genuine and pure love they have
I became active on petland that period. You can check out my thread on an encounter of mine with a dog
https://www.nairaland.com/3289738/diary-last-visit-dogbreath-kennel

Yeah... I remember. I also got a pet (Neopolitan Mastiff) in November 2018. I would soon come up with a diary detailing her growth.

Good to know u are happier... I just came across ur post and decided to ask. Thanks Bro!

Freciprocal:
Yeah... I remember. I also got a pet (Neopolitan Mastiff) in November 2018. I would soon come up with a diary detailing her growth.

Good to know u are happier... I just came across ur post and decided to ask. Thanks Bro!

carter009:
Please don't stake your life for a girl, that's my only advice.

Joislim:
Mine happened last year, the first guy I ever loved and had sex with. I'm in my mid twenties.

There's this particular girl that was always calling him, he said she's a friend and stays in another town.

He stopped answering her calls in my presence and always shouts at her whenever he answers.

One day, while with him she kept calling but he didn't answer , when he left to do something, I picked up the phone and called the girl. She told me she's his girlfriend and stays in the same town with us.

I broke up with him, he kept begging and crying, I forgave him. But It continued though more discreetly.
Na FBI I be sha, finally broke up. I'm scared of being infected with HIV and I told him.
He saw me on Friday and was still begging for a reconciliation, for me I'm just giving myself time to start a new relationship

chieme123:
My gf was running things with one married man like that, but was always careful to cover her tracks.

I'd been suspecting her and the man, but because there was no hard evidence, I let it slide. Until..... she became complacent / careless and I stumbled on one of their chats that she hadn't had time to delete.

Married man: Babe... You broke my dick last night.
My gf: Serves you right. You called for it.

Married man: I'm sitting with style. It's peppering me all over.
My gf: Naughty boy.

MenGoingThereWay:
No matter how this ladies call men dogs it still doesn't change the fact that ladies cheat more than men.

My own experience is that most of the girls I have nice time with all have boyfriends or someone they are serious with. It's so bad that they tell me about their relationship issues and I get to advise them after we have had rounds of Sex. Some even have 3 guys they claim to be serious with, some even tell me about pastors and married men who toast them or who they had unplanned Sex with and how there bf is suspecting them.

These girls keep making it difficult for me to trust ladies with their cheating and selfish ways. They don't feel a single remorse when in the act till they are caught. One was riding me and a call from her boyfriend came in and she immediately put her hands on my neck, giving me the eye sign to stop my thrusting. These babe spoke to her boyfriend as if she wasn't doing anything and even told him she loves him and after the call she aggressively rode me while she had this evil grin. I had a lot of thoughts run through my head at that moment.

The second instance, I was with this babe and her phone rang and I helped her reach for it and the call ID read " MY love" . I handed the phone to her and she just threw it on the bed saying " abeg abeg I don't have time to be answering jamb question". You can imagine.

Another one asked me in her words "how can I say I have boy friend and it feels like am single" and I was like then let him go and in her words " he is a nice guy, he understands me and will make a good husband ". These girls can be selfish and mean.

You may think it's about money, care and time but most times its not because many have serious bf who do their best to give them all these and you wonder what these girls want. I used to make out with one whose bf was super rich and cartered for her but do you know this girl opened mouth to tell me about two other men and that she will be touring with one of the men while she tells her bf she has gone to visit her sick mum.

Aside students even the working class aren't left out...That's a talk for another day.

Men take my advice and you will be happy you did

- Men don't need love we need respect. Once a girl don't respect you dump her sorry bum

- Always have it in mind that no girl owes you anything till you pay her bride price

- Make yourself less available for these girls. These has worked for me well. Itso good you give these girls an impression that you are busy, focused and they come second. Do this and watch how they will always want to be around you and jump to come meet you each time you call.

- Give these girls space don't choke them

- When it comes to the bed be dominant let them see you using them to satisfy your sexual cravings. Don't pity them ooh..spank ass, pull hair etc. That does a lot to their psych. Topic for another day

- Never take a cheating girl back. I once advised my cousin the young man refused and 2 years down the line his girlfriend who he introduced to the family got pregnant for yahoo boy ���.

Many are still screwing me, they are unrepentant whilst they confess love to their bf.

- Mengoingthereway

Damfostopper:
I always hack the facebook account of any girl am dating after certain period to know how far..... las las.... na dere I dey find out everything.....
I broke up..... the cycle continues.....



the past 3 girls.... I caught them cheating right there.....


las las this girls ain't worth it

dober:
Got her a new phone and within a week,she locked it with a password. I see her chat and delete sometimes and this raised my suspicion and I had to hack into her whatsap and behold... I was only a side guy... The rest was history.

Partnerbiz3:
How do u do the monitoring abeg?
Software? Or you know her password?

pocohantas:
Naso babe

https://www.nairaland.com/5246644/fun-describe-how-partner-caught

See as the counter thread take die? But this particularly one has been created a 1001 times. Na guys dey always comment pass.

Dat's fallacy

Jacqueline22:
Through his phone I was admitted immediately

castro316:
I remember a girl I was dating ( the only experience of cheating I remember) I may not call it cheating because she told me to break up before she started dating him.

Yes she started acting funny so I traveled from port harcourt my uni to see her at she school in Ebonyi. I arrived there by 11pm. Can you imagine she sent her intending boyfriend to pick me at her school gate! So walked like a lamb to his room and we discussed her. From my observation the guy was a player and he was using her to pass his assignments and exams. He refused to drop her. I slept In his room and In the morning I went to see her. And asked if there was any reason for us to continue. She didn't say anything reasonable. As I be na. I had read between the lines. It was all over. I ended it.

From what I heard. Her relationship with him ended at the school gate after graduation. I pity her because she was naive and she wasn't aware she was being used for gains. I learned that period. That trying to please a woman is like trying to catch a housefly. The more aggressive you try the harder it is to catch her. So in order to catch her, become feaces. Shiit. Have you seen shiit without housefly?

zanogo:
I love your analogy, especially the last part, you deserve an offshore oil well in rivers state.

Lamanii22:
Same here... I almost had an attack... That day the weather was so cold and sweat was dripping from me, my mom was like "kilonshele" I just fell In her arms....